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REPORT NO. 8
A Report by the
1991-92 San Diego County Grand Jury
June 29, 1992
CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE, ASSAULT, AND MOLEST ISSUES
But the irony does not end there. If the spouse supports
her husband's denial, she is "accommodating his denial". If she
accommodates this denial, she cannot be trusted to protect the
child and she too will not be allowed to reunify with the child.
Even when the mother believes the molest occurred and wants to
protect the child, a current assertion is that the mother must
have known all along and failed to protect. That then becomes a
protective issue and reason to remove the child from the mother.
1 C h i l d A b u s e A c c o mm o d a t i o n S y n d r o m e h a s b e e n u s e d e x c e s s i v e l y t o e x p l a i n " d e n i a l " ,
" r e c a n t a t i o n " , " d i s c l o s u r e " b y c h i l d r e n a f t e r t h e y h a v e s p e n t mon t h s i n t h e r a p y . The
P e n n s y l v a n i a S u p r e m e C o u r t i n C om v s . D u n k l e 6 0 4 A . 2 d 3 0 1 9 9 2 r e v e r s e d t h e l o w e r c o u r t a n d f o u n d
t h a t a dm i s s i o n o f e x p e r t t e s t i m o n y o n t h i s s y n d r om e wa s r e v e r s i b l e e r r o r . The Cou r t no t e d t h a t
t he expe r t d id no t r e l a t e any o f he r t e s t imony t o t he ch i l d i n ques t i on . F ind ing t ha t "abused
c h i l d r e n r e a c t i n my r i a d wa y s a n d t h a t a b u s e d a n d n o n-a b u s e d c h i l d r e n o f t e n e x h i b i t s i m i l a r
b e h a v i o r p r o b l em s , t h e c o u r t f o u n d t h a t " [ T ] h e e x i s t e n c e o f a c h i l d a b u s e s y n d r ome a s e i t h e r a
gene ra l l y accep ted d iagnos t i c t oo l o r as r e levan t ev idence i s no t suppor t ab le "and t he re f o r
i n a dm i s s i b l e . T h e c o u r t a l s o d e t e rm i n e d t h a t t h e e x p e r t ' s t e s t i m o n y f a i l e d t o mee t t h e t h r e s h o l d
de t e rm i na t i o n o f r e l e v an ce and p r o ba t i v i t y .
F i n a l l y t h e Cou r t f o u n d t h a t t h e e xp e r t ' s t e s t imon y c on c e r n i n g t h e r e a s on s abu se d
c h i l d r e n d e l a y r e p o r t i n g a n i n c i d e n t o f a b u s e t o f a m i l y m em b e r s , w h y c h i l d r e n o m i t d e t a i l s o f t h e
a b u s e a n d wh y a s e x u a l l y a b u s e d c h i l d ma y b e u n a b l e t o r e c a l l d a t e s a n d t i m e s o f a b u s e we r e " n o t
be yo nd t h e r e a lm o f t h e a ve r a ge l a yman" and , t h u s , we r e i n a p p r o p r i a t e s ub j e c t s o f e xp e r t
and an additional reason why the child should have no contact
with the parents. The child may be diagnosed as "multi-phasic"
dissociative, or "in-denial" and thus unable to remember the
experience. (While this does happen on occasion, the Jury has
been convinced by numerous experts in this field that this is
infrequent and should not be treated as the norm.) Thus, all
members of the family can deny a false molest allegation and, in
each instance, the system uses the denial as evidence of guilt.2
In the case of Alicia W., the father persisted in denying
allegations of molest, but the mother was repeatedly told by her
attorney and the social worker that her only chance to reunite
with Alicia was to say that she believed her husband did it.
The child, who persistently described a stranger perpetrator,
was not believed. In order to allow her "the freedom" to
"remember" without trauma, visits with her parents were
terminated until she could come up with "a more believable
story." This child was kept in court ordered therapy for two
and a half years, twice a week, "dealing with the molest".
The Jury has heard reliable expert testimony that it is a
mistake to force a child to relive and keep talking about an
alleged traumatic event. Further, there is little evidence that
a child will repress a traumatic event. There is good evidence
that a traumatic event tends to etch itself indelibly on the
mind.
After a true finding of molest, and the establishment of
wardship, a reunification plan may be put in place. The
reunification plan will inevitably require that the offending
spouse complete Parents United. Parents United is a self-help
group for in-home perpetrators of sexual abuse. The only way to
complete Parents United is to admit the molest. If Parents
United is not completed, there is failure to comply with the
reunification plan. Not complying with the reunification plan
is grounds for termination of services to the family and
termination of parental rights.
The Jury has studied many of these cases. Not one of them
has been resolved despite years of conflict. Because all of
these cases involve mothers who made allegations against
fathers, we will speak in those terms. It does happen the other
way around, and is, of course, equally damaging to the child.
3 This case has been with the Family Court Case Study Team (FCCST) during the entire tenure
of this Jury. There were numerous delays in the evaluation process. These delays were all
attributed to the mother's failure to follow through and to her intentional
obstruction of the process. The evaluation has been complete for three months but the mother
now has refused to pay her half of the $3,000.00 owed to the psychological evaluator. The
evaluator refuses to release the report until he receives payment. Michael and Calle had several
joint sessions with their father during the evaluation process. Michael was at ease with his
father. Calle was angry at first but relaxed during the visits. A psychologist on the FCCST
strongly recommended that these children be sent to live with their father for a three month
summer vacation. He felt that this would allow the children to readjust to their father without
contamination. There was team consensus with this recommendation but given the current
deadlock over the release of the evaluation it is doubtful that anything will occur anytime soon.
The father has had no visits with the children since the evaluation process was completed.
In April, 1991, the father left North Carolina and
relocated to San Diego in the hope of maintaining
regular visitation with his children. He had several
visits with the children in San Diego always in the
company of the mother and the maternal grandmother.
The children had begun seeing a therapist who was just
starting his internship. The father asked to meet
with the therapist. The therapist refused.
5 There has been little change in this case. The father now has only supervised visitation once
a month with his daughter.
SEXUAL MOLEST CRIMINAL PROSECUTION AND THE DISTRICT ATTORNEY
6 T h e f o l l o w i n g s t u d i e d c a s e s a r e o f f e r e d a s e x am p l e s .
* A s c ho o l t e a c h e r was t r i e d f o r c h i l d abu se a f t e r pu sh i n g a c h i l d . A j u r y f ound he r no t
gu i l t y . I t was a c k now l e d g ed b y t h e s up e r v i s i n g Depu t y D.A . t h a t t h i s was a wea k c a s e , p r o s e c u t e d
" t o t e a c h a l e s s o n , t e s t t h e p a r ame t e r s o f t h e l a w , e d u c a t e t h e p u b l i c . "
* A t e e n a g e r wa s p r o s e c u t e d f o r f e l o n y c h i l d mo l e s t u p o n a n a l l e g a t i o n b y a f o s t e r c h i l d i n h i s
mo t h e r ' s h ome . T h e r e wa s n o p h y s i c a l e v i d e n c e . T h e D . A . ' s o f f i c e p r o s e c u t e d d e s p i t e i t s
aw a r e n e s s t h a t t h i s c h i l d ' s DSS f i l e c o n t a i n e d r e f e r e n c e s t o p r e v i o u s u n f o u n d e d a l l e g a t i o n s a s
we l l a s p s y c ho l o g i c a l e va l u a t i o n s o f t h e c h i l d a s a pa t h o l o g i c a l l i a r .
* A s t e p - g r a n d f a t h e r wa s p r o s e c u t e d f o r t h e f e l o n y c h i l d mo l e s t o f h i s 1 1 y e a r o l d
g randdaugh te r . He a n d t h e f am i l y a d ama n t l y d e n i e d t h e a l l e g a t i o n s . A g a i n , DSS f i l e s a v a i l a b l e
t o t h e D.A . c on t a i n e d c on t r a d i c t o r y i n f o rma t i o n and e va l u a t i o n s o f t h e c h i l d a s a pa t ho l o g i c a l
l iar. T h e r e wa s a l s o a c h i l d mo l e s t r e p o r t i n v o l v i n g t h e n a t u r a l f a t h e r a n d t h e c h i l d . None o f
t h i s i n f o rma t i o n was r e v e a l e d t o t h e de f e n s e . The c h i l d t e s t i f i e d a t t h e p r e l im i n a r y hea r i n g bu t
wa s n o t c r o s s - e x am i n e d . A t t h e t i m e o f t r i a l , t h e D . A . s t a t e d t h a t t h e c h i l d c o u l d n o t b e
l oca ted. The p r e l im i n a r y hea r i n g t e s t imon y o f t h e c h i l d was en t e r e d . The s t e p-g r a nd f a t h e r was
conv i c t ed . B e t w e e n c o n v i c t i o n a n d s e n t e n c i n g t h e d e f e n s e b e c am e aw a r e t h a t t h e c h i l d ' s
whe r e ab ou t s was k nown , and had been k nown , b y t h e D.A . The de f e n s e a s k ed f o r a r e-t r i a l ; i t ha s
been g ran ted .
molest.
There was apparent proof that the father had not raped his
child. Moreover, there was very strong evidence pointing to the
person who had. Instead of "letting go", even the District
Attorney's office looked for unsubstantiated scenarios in which
the father could be involved.
Experts have told the Jury that the first story a young
child tells is most likely the true one. Testimony given by
very young children after a year in therapy should be treated
with great caution. Testimony given by children after a year
in therapy with therapists who are "believers" should be treated
with deep skepticism.
CONCLUSIONS
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