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FEATURE:
Inducement:
Adoption Language
We Must Understand
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BOREDOM
BUSTERS
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R E S O U R C E S , N E W S & I N F O R M AT I O N F O R A D O P T I V E FA M I L I E S I N T E H A M A C O U N T Y
LETTER to
ADOPTIVE PARENTS
by Liz Hunter
At the age of 8, I entered the foster care I comforted my dad during his moments of
system after living those early years in parental guilt, washed the blood off my mom
a home pervaded by ravaging addiction, after he painted that agony all over her face
unimaginable violence, extreme poverty, time and time again, and took care of the
and homelessness. The facts of my early offspring that werent old enough to fulfill the
existence are hard for
insatiable needs of our
even myself to believe. I I existed on another planet, parents.
existed within a dizzying
and it was my greatest need This was my reality. At
alter universe that never
least it was until social
seemed to stop spinning. to keep you from causing any services stepped in.
Just when I was sure more destruction to it.
That is the day that I
I would die within the
became
completely
confines of my reality, I was lifted from invisible - utterly and completely lost within
this land and into a world which bore no this world of people so unlike myself. Its
semblance to my own. I did not know how to not that nobody was looking. They were all
survive in this clean new land of foster care, studying me like the foreign creature that I
whose native inhabitants were so much was to them. The problem was that nobody
more civilized than those from my past. How
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could these people possibly accept me? How
could I possibly ever learn to pretend I was
like them?
These people had such beautiful homes,
and hearts, and children. Most of them had
never touched, let alone lived amongst, the
ugliest parts of humanity. I wished this were
true for me, but the dark is from where I
spawned. I was not conceived in love and
doted over and taught that my life matteredeven a little. I was the product of desperation
and primitive, unadulterated
impulses.
Once I arrived on this earth, I was invisible.
I was only seen when the irresponsible
people who created me needed me to
satisfy the needs of their own empty hearts.
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Education:
Sierra Forever Families
An Alternatives to Violence
Project
possible
through
collaboration
with
the Tehama
County
Department
Social Services
An Alternatives
to made
Violence
project,
madeapossible
through
partnership
with
the Tehama
CountyofPermanency
Team.
Inducement:
by Maris Blechner
The concept of inducement, as borrowed from
psychologists, has helped adoptive families and
family support professionals to view adopted
children's acting out behaviors in a more positive
way, and was adapted for use in the adoption
field by the author's creative, innovative, alwaysthinking, and deeply committed senior staff.
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An Alternatives to Violence
Project
possible
through
collaboration
with
the Tehama
County
Department
Social Services
An Alternatives
to made
Violence
project,
madeapossible
through
partnership
with
the Tehama
CountyofPermanency
Team.
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