Standard Fluffy statements

By Daven
This is a FAQ of a kind, in that there are going to be statements gleaned from m
any sources and paraphrased, and answers to them. The difference is that these
statements were found on mailing lists and forums. They generally make the expe
rienced practitioners cringe. As such, I claim no responsibility for the conten
t, lack of grammar, or inability of the person making the statement to spell in
statements that are used verbatim.
In interest of saving various Elders, Teachers, High Priests and Priestesses, Fo
rum Moderators and general long-standing Pagans from gray hairs and broken teeth
(from grinding them), I'm assembling the most common set of statements and have
replied to them.

Statement: "Our religion's ethics are easy, we just 'Harm None'."

Rebuttal: Let me ask you a question: How easy is it to not breathe? How about
not drink water? Too obscure? Okay, what about eating? ALL those actions are
harm to something someplace. Breathing brings in viruses and bacteria by the m
illions, and when you exhale, more flow out. This means that you are a walking
germ factory. Now, your body automatically kills them by the millions, and you
don't get sick. That is called immunity. It explains why going somewhere new ca
n make you sick, you don't have immunity to the local bugs and the locals don't
have immunity to your. You are constantly killing bacteria and microbes, harmin
g them. It's the same thing with drinking water.
Eating poses a whole world of quandaries. To paraphrase, "To eat or not to eat,
that is the question." There is literally NO way to harm none and still eat. I
f you eat beef, you are a cow-killer. If you eat plants, you are a plant killer
. If you refuse to eat meat, you are contributing harm the rancher whose liveli
hood depends on the income from their cattle. If you eat only plants, you harm
the soil and animals that exist on those plants. By not slaughtering animals ra
ised for that purpose of becomming food, it increases the population of those an
imals. Therefore there are more animals eating a continually dwindling supply of
vegetable food, eventually, you have a situation much like India. Cattle are n
ot to be harmed or eaten by the religious beliefs of the Hindu majority. These
animals are in direct competition with the local populace, consuming crops like
lettuce, carrots, beats, wheat, corn, potatoes, peanuts, soy rice and more, and
reducing the food supply for everyone. Cause and effect.
Additionally, the vegetation was holding the soil in place, and now stripped bar
e by the increasing demand for all kinds of greens by every herbivore, whether t
wo or four legged and accelerated soil erosion becomes a valid concern.
If en
ough factors come together just right, and enough people suddenly give up meat,
it could lead to another Dust Bowl.
Guess what? "Harm None" applies to yourself too, so not eating is harming yours
elf, and specifically forbidden by the Rede.
Want to eat vegetables and eschew meat completely? Go for it, but understand th
e chain of events you are causing to happen by that decision.
I could go on, but I'm certain that you see the quandaries here. That's also ju

st THREE minor examples. Ever walk down the street? How many ants did you avoi
d? How about driving? Ever squish a bug on your car grill? What about that le
ather baseball glove in your closet? Have you flushed a toilet today? Did you
enjoy that electricity that was pumped into your house to allow you to see this
message? Did you think of the coal miners who have Black Lung that mined the co
al out of the ground to supply the fuel to burn in your power plant? How about
the pollution that comes from a nuclear plant that supplies "clean" electricity?
What about the hydroelectric plant that starves a section of the country for wa
ter while supplying you with lights?
Each of these actions has harm for SOMEONE or SOMETHING, and almost always it's
either an animal group or plant group harmed OR a human provider of those servic
es/goods harmed when that service is refused. In some cases, bacteria and micro
bes are the target, but it can start a chain of events that cause harm to others
as well. For example, the cleansing pill you put in the tank of your toilet to
make the water blue and clean your toilet, when it gets to the septic tank or s
ewer, eventually gets to the water table and ocean. That particular dye is pois
onous to microbes in the ocean, which is what the plankton live off of. The pla
nkton starts to die, and eventually the shrimp and fish dependant on the plankto
n die as well. Eventually, moving up the food chain, the sharks and whales who
depend on those fish to live start dying as well, and the fishermen who live and
die by how much of a catch they bring in and sell can't make a living anymore,
since there is no seafood. Thus DIRECTLY harming humans, even if you don't cons
ider fish, animals, microbes, plankton and whales as falling under the "harm non
e" injunction.
There is absolutely no way to live on this planet and not harm anyone by your ac
tions. No chance. We are interdependent and have always lived on "spaceship Ea
rth". It is simply a matter of realizing it. A century and a half ago, if SARS
had broken out in China, it may have spread fairly quickly to Russia, Korea, Th
ailand, and Vietnam. By the time the west was infected, a year or two or even t
hree later, the origin would have been untraceable. A century and a half ago, m
edicine would have had no ready response available, and we could conceivably had
a pandemic on our hands with no antibiotics available to combat secondary infec
tion. It is possible millions would have died. Just like happened during World
War I and the global outbreak of Spanish Influenza which killed over 20 million
people when the final death toll was calculated.
In these days of global travel, if there is an outbreak in Saipan, two days late
r, you have potential outbreaks at EVERY major city in the world, and the mechan
ism to quickly identify and prevent pandemics. Why is the rapid spread of conta
gion possible? Travel and tourism. Our actions here can and WILL affect people
in other countries.
Now, modify that statement to read, "Our ethics state that we must harm as few p
eople as we possibly can" and you have a more accurate statement. The Rede is n
ot meant to be an absolute rule (and it's not supposed to go from 26 lines to 2
words either, but that's another rant), it was intended, as far as I know, to be
a guideline. It was meant to be empowering, it was meant to be a reminder to T
HINK before taking an action, because someone somewhere will be affected by your
action.
"Harm None" is a hard ideal to live up to, it takes a lot of discipline and comm
itment to that ideal, as well as much thought as to your own personally chosen d
efinition of harm you are willing or unwilling to commit. It is a clarion call
to a moral though filled life. There is absolutely nothing easy about it, nor s
hould there be. So, you should probably say "Our ethics seem easy, but aren't.
We try to harm the least possible. That makes us think." And I think most Eld
ers would agree with you.

Statement: "I would never interfere with someone's free will by cursing them.
Instead, I bind them."
Rebuttal: <cringe> Just how do you think this is different from cursing them?
You are taking away their free will either way. In creating a curse you cast a
magickal ritual on them designed to make them act in certain ways by harming the
m, like a cattle prod. In binding, you are making them act in a certain way by
removing choices from them, as if you were putting a fence around them. In eith
er case you are taking away their ability to choose.
You know what? That's your choice too. Just don't hide behind the "I'm doing i
t for their own good" statement. Who are you to decide what is best for someone
else? No one appointed you the moral majority or the guardian of ethics. By th
e logic of this statement, your parents know what is best for you, and they shou
ld bind YOU when they feel you are acting counter to your own best interest.
Do a binding because you feel it's necessary. Do a curse because you feel it's
worth it and you are willing to pay the price that will be demanded of you. Don
't get sanctimonious about it and don't try to rationalize it. When you have th
e consequences come home to you and kick you in the teeth (people hate you becau
se you bound them, you get bound by someone else, you loose your friendship beca
use events move them away due to your binding, you can't break it and they are s
tuck like that, etc.), take it like a mature person, unflinching. Don't whine a
nd try to weasel out of it, or cry good intentions. As the Church across the ro
ad says "The Road to Hell is paved with good intentions".
Remember the Rede from the first statement? Try living it and thinking about wh
at could happen for once. Would you walk up to a shopkeeper who has a gun behin
d the counter for protection of himself and his family and handcuff his hands be
hind his back as well as put leg-irons on him? No? Why not? There is no diffe
rence between binding someone metaphysically or magically and doing it in real l
ife with real restraints. NO difference.

Statement: "Kali/Hekate/[insert dark Deity here] is really a loving Mother Godde

ss; there's nothing disturbing or scary about Her. You just don't understand Her
like I do."
Rebuttal: I'm so glad that the "dark" goddess of your choice came to you and to
ld you that she's really nice. But you know what? Centuries of precedent are h
ere telling you that you are wrong.
Let me take the Morrigan as an example. First, which of the three faces of the
goddess are you talking about? Surprised by this? If you had done some reading
and checked into who She is, you wouldn't be.
From the Encyclopedia Mythica: "The Morrigan is a goddess of battle, strife, an
d fertility." The article on Her goes on to say that she is seen as both a trip
le goddess and a single goddess. She is linked with the Valkyrie, the choosers
of the slain, and the "Battle Raven" who also chooses the slain warriors. She i
s "The Washer at the Ford", washing the clothing of those warriors who are about
to die in battle. She even states in one passage of her mythology that she wil
l "go and destroy Indech son of De Domnann and 'deprive him of the blood of his

heart and the kidneys of his valor', and she gave two handfuls of that blood to
the hosts. When Indech later appeared in the battle, he was already doomed."
While she CAN be seen in some very narrow aspects as a loving goddess, it's alon
g the lines of "You are going to die now, and I will hold you and stay with you
until you do." One of the triple aspects is Badb, the "Battle Raven" which exul
ted in conflict and would use her magic to cause confusion.
These kinds of themes run throughout the mythology. Every Deity has a darker as
pect, and all the darker deities have a light aspect too. Artemis caused a man
to change into a stag for the sin of seeing her nude; she then hunted him down a
nd slew him with her bow. Loki caused all the Norse Gods to gain all their most
powerful objects in apology for cutting off Sif's hair. Zeus used to (in effec
t) rape anyone who he thought would be a good lay, and that caused his wife, Her
a, to absolutely hate Hercules and try to kill him on multiple occasions. Arian
hrod, called upon as a loving mother figure in some Wiccan rites I know of, refu
sed to acknowledge her son after she had birthed him, refused to give him a name
or arms until she was tricked into doing so, and then STILL laid a curse on Lle
w Llaw Gyffes that he would have no wife of a race living on the Earth. This is
a "loving mother"? Cerridwen, in Her aspect as the White Sow, eats her own chi
ldren.
What's the point of this? Do some research and know exactly who it is you are c
hoosing to worship. In this one section, I tried to use Kali as my example mult
iple times, but couldn't due to my lack of concrete knowledge of that Goddess at
my fingertips and not having the time to research Her fully.
I personally don't want to present a Deity as something They are not, since that
would be dishonoring Them. I'm not saying that you can't worship a Deity, who
has more "negative" aspects to their nature than positive ones, but worship the
WHOLE Deity, and acknowledge that whole Deity, rather than just a few little par
ts of Them. You might want to explore why you are drawn to that particular Deit
y as well, but that is another rant.
Refusing to see a part of a being you honor and love is disrespectful of them, a
nd putting that being on a pedestal. Eventually they get tired of being on that
pedestal, and climb down from it so they can be whom they are. Normally when t
his happens, the person who put them on that pedestal in the first place is deva
stated. Don't let this be you.

The person who made this statement expected to be large and in charge at a pagan
gathering.
Statement: "I'm 17 and have been studying The Craft for one and a half years and
am an initiated fifteenth-degree High Priestess and Elder of my coven."
Rebuttal: My goodness! You must be a genius! Every degree I have ever heard o
f in any tradition takes a bare minimum of six months of supremely concentrated
effort, to have crammed more than seven and a half years of training into one an
d a half years is truly amazing! And you went to school during this time and ha
d a private life as well? You also possibly participated in extra curricular sc
hool activities? Even though each degree gets harder and takes longer to accomp
lish? And you think I am gullible enough to believe it? As the old saying goes,
"I was born at night, but not last night!"
There are many things wrong with this child's statement, and all of them come fr

om a lack of maturity. First thing is the assumption that you claiming this tit
le gives you any rights outside the structure of your coven. I can claim to be
a 50th degree druid, the initiate of the 33rd degree of Masonry, but unless othe
rs of my tradition can verify my achievements it means absolutely nothing. The
title that is self-bestowed is about as worthless as the breath it took to prono
unce it.
So, you may have just graduated from High School or not, don't have your own hou
se, haven't had a career or a baby yet (at least I hope not), haven't found out
what sacrifice REALLY is, but you are going to presume to be in charge of a whol
e bunch of other Wiccans and dictate to those who have been practicing this path
since before you were even a conception in your parent's mind what they should
do? Let me stand over here while your coven melts down and your ears get pinned
back.
It doesn't matter that your "coven" consists of your 14-16 year old friends who
have watched "The Craft" with you twice and are fans of Buffy and Charmed. You
have no right to start condescendingly talking to adults that are as old as your
parents at that pagan gathering you are attending.
Additionally, it means nothing to people who are not of that tradition. OTHERS
bestow legitimacy and accolades on a person; they cannot be taken on by oneself.
I can claim anything, tell you anything, but it doesn't mean squat if I don't
have the knowledge to back it up, and if you really are as powerful as you claim
to be, you should have the wisdom to know that.
The second problem is that you cannot be a High Priestess (or High Priest) unles
s you have been passed that title by a lineaged, initiate Gardnerian (or Alexand
rian) High Priest or High Priestess who has the authority to do so. It is not s
omething you can do on your own. The title, and the responsibilities that go wi
th it, will only be earned after many years of study and practice within a linea
ged coven. It is an apprenticeship system, and unless you have served your appr
enticeship and learned your craft, and grown through the experience of the Myste
ries that usually come with that knowledge, you cannot call yourself a High Prie
stess. It is a lot of hard work, life experience, heartbreak, and joy, and not
something easily earned.
But you are not Gardnerian you say? EVERY TRADITION OF WICCA COMES FROM GARDNER
ISM. All of them. If you use the Charge of the Goddess, if you use any of the
ritual structure, any of the elemental invocations, any of what Wicca teaches, t
hen you come from Gardnerian tradition. It may be that your tradition allows yo
u to call yourself a High Priestess after you have acted as priestess for 6 mont
hs or so, but if it's that easy to earn the title, do you REALLY want it?
Oh, and an "Elder" is automatically someone older and more experienced than most
. Just because you did the most reading, doesn't mean you have the most experie
nce or knowledge of the group.
Third thing: Lack of life experiences. A Maiden is the helper to the High Prie
stess. She is usually a virginal girl (although the virgin status can and has b
een ignored in most modern manifestations of this) and she's the High Priestess'
hand picked successor. When the High Priestess or Priestess retires (as she is
supposed to do) the Maiden takes over as the new Priestess. It's a rare thing
for the Maiden to be younger than about 25 when she takes over for the Priestess
, as it takes several years of experience to learn everything.
Most people would feel uncomfortable relating to a Priestess who is younger than
they are, which means that you could not do your job effectively.
Fourth thing: You never stop learning. Almost EVERY leader who is worth anythi

ng will be the first to admit they have more to learn, even in areas they know a
lot.
Fifth thing: Assumption that you know everything. Along with the fourth point
above, just because you have a title does not mean you know everything there is
to know about a given subject. There are people who have been practicing for YE
ARS on this path, who don't know everything about a subject. An example you say
? Okay, Raymond Buckland doesn't know everything about ceremonial magick, Silve
r Ravenwolf doesn't know everything about Gypsy magick and folk charms, Cunningh
am didn't know everything about mythology of the deities, and Robert Graves didn
't know everything about Wicca or Witchcraft. Just because someone publishes a
book does not mean they know anything on a given subject either. There is alway
s an opportunity to learn more, even in your area of expertise, and when you DO
learn everything there is to know about one narrow area of expertise, there are
still other areas to branch out into and learn from.
Know how you learn? By listening to those who have been studying for quite some
time, learning, sharing, and exploring ideas. By researching, and possibly par
ticipating in archeological digs. By learning to translate runes, hieroglyphics
, Ogham, Old English, Flemish, or what ever else the roots of your interest may
lead you to. Coming into a list and flashing your credentials like the above ex
ample only gets you ignored later.
If you actually do deserve the title of "High Priest/ess" or whatever, that does
not give you the right or obligation to counsel everyone you come into contact
with. Counseling is a specific skill set that requires classes to be taken in o
rder to have the tools you must have to do it right. Sticking you nose into oth
er's business without that class, and without them asking, makes you nosy or a b
usybody. No one likes that. If someone acts on the advice you have given in yo
ur guise as High Priestess, * unless you are a certified physician, psychiatrist
, psychologist, cleric of a recognized religion you can be successfully sued. *
In other words, you could lose your parents their house and all they have worke
d for.
It has come to my attention that there are some Priestesses who actually are onl
y 15-19 and have earned the title of Priestess. This is well and good and fine,
but they have been studying this path since they could talk. They have been st
udying with a parent or guardian who has been teaching them the things they need
to know in this case, and they have actually EARNED the title. They also didn'
t bestow this title on themselves. They also understand that they STILL don't k
now everything.

Statement: "OMFG wiccan is so gawth and teh goddes is really kewl thats why i am
going to be wicca and cast spells and follow the wiccan reed because i am darkn
ess inside!!!!!1111111!!"
Rebuttal: Let's see: Bad spelling, bad grammar, bad word usage, lack of copyed
iting before sending, lack of knowledge in what you are commenting on. Fluffy p
oints: probably about 10.0 on the Fluff-o-meter.
Listen up: You want to be taken seriously? Start acting like it. Look at this
essay. Really go through it and look at the words I wrote and how they are spe
lled. It's possible in this that I misspelled a word or two, but for the most p
art, it's correct. This looks professional, and implies that you have attention
to detail. That is in over 12,300 words, while your little 32 words you have 5

misspellings. Possibly 3 or 4 misspellings in 12,300 words in my essay, 5 miss

pellings in 32 words for your statement; which looks more professional and respe
ctful? What you wrote implies laziness and a basic lack of respect for the read
er.
I see a post like the one above and I hit "delete" and ignore the poster. Why?
They are not worth my time and energy. I will spend more time trying to deciph
er what is said and what is meant that I can better spend on writing my own arti
cles, answering other posts, eating my dinner, playing with my daughter or makin
g love to my wife. My time is precious and so is everyone else's time. If you
want respect from them, start by giving respect to them by use of correct punctu
ation, correct spelling, correct grammar, correct use of capitals and correct us
age of general facts.
Jumping in and saying "I'm Wiccan now because I'm dark and I saw ____ and it was
sooooo cool" only says to me that you have not done ANY research on something y
ou want to get involved in. ANY website on the Internet will give you BASIC inf
ormation on Wicca and/or witchcraft. Even bad sources are good to start with, a
nd will be of more use to you than not doing anything. Getting in a list and sa
ying something like what is above is telling me that you are SOOOO serious that
you would spend more time researching where to buy the newest hottest latest fas
hions or shoes than you would put into something that is supposed to be a WAY OF
LIFE. Ergo, you are not worth my time or the energy it would take to teach you
unless or until you grow up, a lot.

Statement: "Spells only work if you use them for the forces of the Light. Otherw
ise they will fail and then the Law of Three punishes you."
Rebuttal: I wish I knew where "facts" like this come from, so I can kick the ba
ckside of the author for spreading misinformation like this. Spells are a proce
ss, like a recipe. You do this and you get that effect. A spell is like a pray
er, a meditation, path work and many other means of changing things. Even lifeplans based on hard work are a kind of spell. Know what? Every one of them can
be used for "darkness" or (more accurately) selfish purposes. Ever pray your pa
rents would die when you were little? Ever save up money for a special thing yo
u wanted? Ever make a wish on your birthday cake and blow out the candles? Gue
ss what... those are selfish spells.
A spell is a tool. Just like a hammer, a nail, a drill press, a shovel, a screw
driver, a card scanner, a computer and many other things I could name. It's a t
ool, just as surely as a crossbow is a tool, and a sword is a tool. Whether or
not it is good or evil depends on two things; who is holding it and who it's poi
nted at. If you use your spells to kill the Pope, then you are using it for evi
l and you will suffer consequences. If you use it to cure cancer, then you are
using it for good and guess what? There will STILL be consequences.
Surprise! There are ALWAYS consequences, good, bad and indifferent. You will g
et consequences if you use that scalpel lying on the table to slit your sibling'
s throat, just as surely as there would be consequences if you use it to do an e
mergency appendectomy. There is absolutely no difference. Good/evil, spells/to
ols, Light/dark are only labels. Everything depends on your attitude and your d
ecisions and if you can handle the consequences in your life.
Now, let's start talking about the "Law of Three". Ask Wiccans and they will te
ll you, yes, the Law of Three exists. But I want you to ask them when the last
time they got a raise of $30,000 for saving their company $10,000 by doing their
job. It's not cost effective. More likely, the company will give the employee

a raise of about $1,000 for saving that money, and normally it will be MUCH les
s than that. But by the Law of Three, they should get the $30,000 raise. They
saved the company, that's a good action, and therefore they should get three tim
es that as a reward. Oh, it will come later? Like when you find a $20 on the s
treet? Hmmmm, do you realize how many times that would have to happen to make u
p $30,000? On the flip side, how many times have you seen someone who is Pagan/
Wiccan completely screw a fellow Wiccan/Pagan costing them a lot of money either
at their job or out of their pocketbook? How often did they suffer severe conse
quences, consequences three times as bad as what they have done later?
In short, Threefold Law is unsupportable by simple observation. A more reasonab
le expression of this principal would be "the law of return" in which what you p
ut out comes back, possibly diminished, very rarely at the same strength. This
law of thermodynamics also expresses it: "For every action there is an equal an
d opposite reaction." and "entropy always increases" meaning that energy is lost
to entropy (chaos or pure randomness) the longer something goes on. The longer
it takes for the consequences to return to someone, the less severe they are.
Trust me, you don't need to have the "Threefold Law". If the Gods want to punis
h you because you are messing up, they will. One line I heard at one point says
, "It is not wise to dispute the decisions of the Powers. They have more ways of
enforcement than you have of escape." If They want to drive a lesson home to y
ou, They will.

Statement: "Last week at work, someone in the break room overheard me talking a
bout my Tibetan singing bowl ritual where I invoke Bast, Obatala and White Buffa
lo Calf Woman into our astral circle every Imbolc, and she gave me a dirty look.
WAAAAHHHHH! When will they stop persecuting us?!?!?!?!?"
Rebuttal: Oh my goddess... This statement is wrong on so many levels.
Let me take them in order.
One: Why the heck are you talking about a ritual you did in the break room of y
our work? If the person you are talking to is a member of your group, then this
discussion should be in the coven, a private home, on the phone, anywhere away
from work. The workplace is for working; the covenstead is for speaking of cove
n matters.
Two: The Tibetan Singing Bowl has absolutely no connection to Wicca. It's a pa
rt of Tibetan Buddhism. It's used the same way one would use a chime or a bell
to induce a meditative state. I challenge you to find ONE Wiccan ritual (other
than one you wrote) that calls for a singing bowl.
Three through Five: Invoking Bast, Obatala and White Buffalo Calf Woman in the
same ritual? Do these spirits get along? One is not a deity at all, but a spir
it of nature. Each of them are part and parcel of separate religions and spirit
ual ways, and have (again) nothing to do with Wicca. Bast is an Egyptian Goddes
s of Cats. White Buffalo Calf Woman is the woman who brought the Sacred Pipe to
the Sioux, and her coming heralded a deep and rich spirituality for them. Obat
ala is the King of the Orishas, first sculptor and invented pottery, King of the
Cloth and invented cloth, the creator and shaper of human beings and one of the
most important Gods of the Yoruba people of Africa. NONE of these deities shou
ld be mentioned in the same breath, much less called in the same rite, as they h
ave NOTHING to do with each other, certainly not their jobs, spheres of influenc
e or responsibilities to their followers. In addition, some of the God/esses DO

N'T like sharing and I can think of none that like to be called on inappropriate
ly, as one of them said, "I am a jealous God." I wouldn't want to be around you
when they decide to teach you a lesson.
Six: Astral circles? Do you have any concept of what this is? It is a circle
created ONLY on the Astral Plane, with each practitioner astrally projecting int
o it to participate in a ritual that exists ONLY on that plane. Now, why invoke
these spirits into this Circle when they live there?
Seven: You DO know that Imbolc is a Sabbat, one of the holy days of Wicca and s
everal other pagan religions? It's like Christmas, Easter, Fourth of July, Cinc
o de Mayo. It's a time to celebrate and have fun, with some specific rites atta
ched to it as it deals with helping the Lord find his way in the Dark time of th
e year. It's also called the Festival of Lights. Once again, what the heck doe
s these spirits have to do with this ritual?
Eight: Did you ever stop to consider that you were talking to loudly for the en
vironment? Or that it was a subject inappropriate for work? Or that she simply
glanced in your direction while having a bad day? Or did you consider that at
that exact instant she happened to have a cramp from PMS? Why is it ALWAYS abou
t you? Are you that invested in being a martyr? Are you so desperate for atten
tion that you MUST misinterpret something so simple as a glance as persecution?
In short, you are speaking out of your anal orifice, and you need to be quiet be
fore you embarrass yourself even further.

Statement: "It's an opinion. Opinions can't be wrong."

Rebuttal: Have you ever heard the saying "Opinions are like assholes; everyone
has one and most smell like shit?" In brief, if you believe that everyone who h
as an opinion is right, then that means that the Pro-Lifers who hold the opinion
that it's okay to kill abortion doctors are right, as well as those who hold th
e opinion that everyone should have the ability to have an abortion for any reas
on, are right too. All of these are right.
Know what? Good for you, but not in the way you are thinking. Opinions are onl
y right for the person stating the opinion. I have no right to force my opinion
of something on you than you have to force your opinion on me. But let's back
up for a moment.
An opinion is "a belief or conclusion held with confidence but not substantiated
by positive knowledge or proof" according to Dictionary.com. In other words, a
n opinion has nothing to back it up factually.
If you state, "The universe is a friendly place" that is your opinion and you ha
ve no proof to back it up, and you are correct. If I say, "the universe is a ho
stile place" that's my opinion and I can't really prove it either. Both of us ca
n hold the opposite opinion and be correct because no proof can be obtained to s
upport or refute either of us.
However, stating that Wicca was practiced by Paleolithic wo/man is NOT an opinio
n, it is a pseudo-fact. There is no evidence to support it and a great deal of
evidence to disprove it. There have been reams of information written on this s
ubject. It is no longer an opinion; it is a statement of discredited fact. The
refore if you continue to repeat this particular rubric, you are spreading a lie
.

If you want to cling to the belief that Wicca is ancient, fine, I feel saddened
that you are living in a fantasy world. But going around and teaching that as a
factual statement is wrong. It is an incorrect statement, a lie. For you pers
onally to hold that is one thing, but when you are speaking in the capacity of a
teacher, and telling others what is and is not, you need to concern your self w
ith the facts, not fantasy. If you want to share this belief of yours with othe
rs, go for it, but make sure that you state this belief is yours and that there
is no evidence to back it up. This is called being responsible.
If your schoolteacher went around teaching that the world and everything in and
on it was created in 6 days and that god rested on the seventh day as the answer
to how the universe was created, they would be fired for teaching a religious b
elief, an opinion, not fact.

Statement: "How long have YOU been practicing. I've been practicing this all my
life so I have to be right!"
Statement: "What are you credentials? I'm an Elder, a HP, etc"
Statement: "How can you do _______ and have the nerve to call yourself Pagan/Wic
can?"
Rebuttal: I'm taking these statements together because they relate to a trend i
n the communities that is very disturbing. The trend is "High Priestess Syndrom
e" in which because someone decided that you were worthy of being the High Pries
tess, you are automatically infallible. This is simply not so. Even the Pope i
s not always infallible.
Let me repeat this statement for those who missed it: YOU ARE ONLY RIGHT FOR YO
URSELF. Your beliefs are correct and right for you, no one else. Your best fri
end, whom you have been teaching for years, who believes exactly as you do still
has their own beliefs, modified and changed by their experiences. There is abs
olutely no way for your beliefs to completely mirror someone else's beliefs.
There is nothing wrong with this. Your religious beliefs are yours and yours al
one. But when you start citing those beliefs as absolute truths to others, dema
nding that they believe the same way you do or they are wrong, then you are in t
he wrong.
Need an example of this? Here's one: "Satan represents kindness to those who d
eserve it instead of love wasted on ingrates!" This is off the Church of Satan
website at http://www.churchofsatan.com/home.html. This is the belief of those
who follow the Church of Satan, but stated the way it is, it is a blanket statem
ent for everyone to obey, including you. If you think that your statement of th
e numbers of people who died in the Burning Times, your statement of the kindnes
s of Kali, etc, are the way things are and that everyone must acknowledge it and
obey that, then you have to acknowledge this statement of what Satan is and obe
y that too. If you don't, then you are a hypocrite, plain and simple.
Factual statements are not opinions, and facts are facts and should be taught as
facts. Opinions and beliefs such as these are opinions and beliefs, only corre
ct for the person stating them, and should not be taught as facts. To the funda
mental Christian, Satan represents the ultimate evil in the universe, the eterna
l adversary of God, not kindness to those who deserve it.
Do you see the difference now?
As for the "I have _______ years practice and of course I'm right..." statement,
just because you have had your head up your backside for 15 years does not mean

that is the best way to walking around that way nor is it the correct way of do
ing things. Babies crawl but that's not the way humans move. By your logic, we
should do nothing but crawl around. Also the scientific community has declared
for YEARS that all sickness was caused by an imbalance in the humors (or fluids
, one of 5 in the body) and by reducing the volume of those fluids the disease c
an be cured. So does that mean we go to leaches when sick to get bled, or do we
walk into a doctor's office?
Just because something has been done that way for umpty-thousand years does not
mean it's right. Or to put it another way, "The Ancient Ways are not necessaril
y right, just old."
The third statement is becoming more and more prevalent in the groups as more an
d more fundamentapagans crop up. Most often it's coupled with a statement about
sacrifice, eating meat, cursing, using spells to harm another and so on. It is
the projection of their beliefs on others, and an attempt to force others to li
ve in accordance with their personal moral standards. It seems common for veget
arians to believe that all pagans are vegetarians since they are vegetarians. T
his is another position that cannot be supported in any way. This syndrome is w
ell known in psychology.
What another who calls him/herself Pagan does or does not do is NONE of your bus
iness. You have no right to try to force anyone live the way you live. YOUR OP
INIONS ARE ONLY TRUE FOR YOU AND NO OTHER. Decrying another's abilities, their
knowledge, calling them false (whatever)s because they don't live by the same st
andards you do only makes you look like an idiot and a hysterical child.
If you want to be a vegetarian, fine. If you are a homophobe and can't stand ga
y people, I feel sorry for you but, fine. If you think sacrificing time and ene
rgy to the gods in the service of others is wrong, okay. DON'T YOU DARE TRY TO
PUT DOWN OTHERS BECAUSE THEY DON'T FEEL THE WAY YOU DO. I guarantee that for ev
ery example of "real pagans don't ______" I can find examples of "real pagans" t
hat actually DO do that.

Statement: "You can't criticize me. You don't practice what we preach. Either be
come (my version of) Wiccan or keep your mouth shut"
Rebuttal: So this means that you can't say a damned thing about the Christian C
hurch, the Satanic Church, the Asatru, the Druids, or any other religion since y
ou don't practice what they preach. If you are an American Caucasian heterosexu
al male of 20 years old, you also can't criticize the 50-somethings, the governm
ent, African Americans, women or homosexuals either since you don't practice wha
t they stand for and practice. You also can't criticize other nations or tell t
hem what they do is wrong, since you are not a member of that nation.
Let me point something out: One of the most enduring human traits is talking ou
t one's backside. Critics come from every walk of life and everyone is a critic
. Everyone has opinions on what the people they are criticizing are doing wrong
, and all of them have a right to that opinion. Each and every one of them may
be talking without all the facts and may be completely mistaken in their declara
tions, but it's their right to be. They don't have to be a member of whatever l
ittle group they are criticizing in order to be critics, it only means that IF t
hey are, they have more facts available to them to use to be critical with.

So, hypocrite, if you want to make your critics become Wiccan to criticize you,
I suggest you shut up about the Christian Church and how EVIL they are, and shut
up about the Satanists too. Or go join them and learn for a while before criti
cizing. To use your own words "Either become ______ or keep your mouth shut."

Statement: "Witchcraft is the oldest religion....even older than time!"

Rebuttal: Let me state this very clearly: ELEMENTS of Wicca and Witchcraft may
well go back multiple centuries, and you may be able to trace them back to homo
erectus and before. Certainly it's logical to assume that primitive wo/man wor
shiped the rain because they didn't know what it was, but to call Witchcraft anc
ient because parts of it are old is to call a steel I-beam in the TransAmerica b
uilding ancient since the material it came from is ancient (iron which was made
when the Earth was formed) or the computer that you sit at ancient since the gol
d circuit boards come from gold which is ancient....
I could go on, but I hope you can see the point. Just because part of something
is ancient does not make the whole thing ancient. That would make Judaism and
Christianity ancient since they both contain elements that come from Sumerian an
d Macedonian mythology (the tale of Noah and the Flood).
Face it, Witchcraft as it is currently practiced may be able to be traced back 2
00 years or so, Wicca can only be traced to about the 1950's and many Neo-Pagan
religions can only be traced back to (at the earliest) the beginning of the 1700
's. This does not make them ancient, nor does it invalidate that path. Mormoni
sm can only be traced to 1850 or so and it's not ancient, but that does not make
it any less true for those who practice it.
Just practice your religion, practice your craft of the witch, use your skills,
and don't worry about trying to be "more witchy than thou" with claims of ancien
t unbroken lines. The need to validate is a symbol of your insecurities, nothin
g more. All those statements do is make you look like an uneducated fanatic whi
ch will cause you to be avoided by the very people you want to impress and/or le
arn from.

Statement: "I have done so much to show others that our religion is life-affirm
ing and positive and then you show up and when people hear you or read you I los
t credibility about what I taught these people. You "proved" to them that "we"
are EVIL!"
Rebuttal: (In addition to see above about "we-ism".) You have worked to show th
ese "people" (whomever they are) that YOUR religion is life affirming and positi
ve. There are many who hold beliefs totally opposite of what you believe, and t
hat's all right. But I want to point something out. No one voted you spokesper
son for the entire spectrum of Neo-pagan beliefs. I certainly didn't give you p
ermission to speak for me. Just when did I join your group?
You can say it till you are blue in your face, but saying it does not make it so
. Christians in the Middle Ages declared that they were peaceful and kind peopl
e, as shown by their God, but they still went out and murdered others on the Cru
sades for no other reason than the people they were killing weren't Catholic. C
hristianity in multiple flavors came to the American Continent, started telling

the natives that they were peaceful and loving, and then gave them blankets full
of smallpox. I could go on.
So given that, your statement that "we" are peaceful and life affirming is not g
oing to do anything to "show" anyone that * you * are peaceful and life affirmin
g. The only thing that will show them that is your actions.
I personally think you
der "unworthy" of your
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ith you, but you claim

messed up when you started attacking others who you consi

blanket statements. Peaceful means "not inclined to atta
You wished death (or harm) on those who are disagreeing w
to be "life affirming"? How very hypocritical of you.

It's easy to be peaceful when there is no conflict. Work in the can banks and t
he soup lines. That shows you have a warm heart and that you care. But I have
more respect for those peaceful, life-affirming students in Tiananmen Square tha
n I do for your actions, since they were willing to loose their lives so that ot
hers could live. They were willing to be so peaceful that they wouldn't take up
arms against a state that was slaughtering them and were willing to stand in fr
ont of moving tanks to prevent them from getting to the areas they should be in.
That student, the one standing in front of the tank in that famous picture, pr
obably died that day. Yeah, that's peaceful and life affirming. Show me that y
ou have the same dedication and willingness to sacrifice, and I'll believe you a
re personally peaceful. Until then, it's all just talk and it never, ever gives
you the right to state directly or by implication that "all" Neo-Pagans are jus
t like you.

Statement: "Come on guys, stop fighting. We need to stick together. We don't wan
t to be like the Christians."
Rebuttal: <brain melt> Too many presumptions.
The first presumption is that we must all get along with each other all the time
. That, in fact, we must agree on every detail. Sorry, but I don't like vegeta
bles, I love meat, I think that it's a woman's choice, that guns are needed and
should be protected, that the color blue is the best, that my daughter walks abo
ve the water, and that my wife floats above the clouds, that I am less than noth
ing and I still don't understand why they stay with me. You may not agree with
any part of that statement. That's fine. Stop presuming that my opinions and s
pirituality are the same as yours, or that it must be, simply because I'm pagan
and you are pagan. Just because we are in the same religion or other blanket gr
oup together does not make us friends or even acquaintances, it makes us co-reli
gionists, that's all. It gives us only one point of commonality. It could be t
hat there are more, but that's for another time when we know each other better.
I work on computers, but that won't make me best friends with Steve Jobs or Bil
l Gates or Steve Wozniak.
Second, fighting can solve or resolve issues. To not fight is not necessarily t
o have peace, it can be to have lack of care, concern or respect. If I don't re
spect others enough to try to point out facts that I know about and you may not,
then I don't care about them at all. Ultimately that means they will never lea
rn and grow. Life is conflict. Life is struggle and fighting, fighting to over
come gravity (by standing and walking) and fighting to overcome societal pressur
es. If there was no fighting, then all the advances in the last 100 years that
society has made would not have happened. Things like Civil Rights, Suffrage, Ch

ild Labor Laws and more would never have occurred. All those started out as str
uggles, and there are people who DIED to see those changes to the established or
der through to the end.
Debate is good, it lets the people debating see other sides of the arguments, an
d possibly change their position. But that won't happen unless one person speak
s up and says, "I don't agree with your position". That only happens when there
is conflict, and things get solved. Certainly undirected arguments and conflic
t should be curbed, as it serves no purpose. But unless things have degenerated
to name-calling and ignoring the issues, I say let the debate and fight rage.
Sometimes the only way someone will listen is if they get screamed at.
Third, "don't want to end up like the Christians"? If only Paganism could be so
lucky! Let me point something out. Christianity is THE most successful religi
on in the world, period. Specifically Catholicism, but we will lump all Christi
an Religions together on this one for a bit. In 2000 years, a tiny, persecuted,
hated cult went from being hunted to near extinction to having the most adheren
ts in the history of the world. The Roman Catholic Church currently has more th
an 1 billion (with a "b") members on its rolls. Yeah, they have enough members
to completely replace the population of China. If we added in all the Christian
s in the world, that number jumps to 2 billion, or 33% of the world population.
The next closest religious group is the Muslims, or the religion of Islam, with
1.2 billion and third is Hinduism with 786 million. Christianity is one of THE
most respected religions out there currently. There are Papal Nuncios (Vatican
Ambassadors) in almost every country in the world, the Vatican is it's own coun
try, right in the middle of Italy; they issue their own stamps for pity's sake.
The Pope is one of the most respected clergy members in the world and we can on
ly hope to emulate their successes.
For all their flaws, and I will be the very first to agree they are nearly numbe
rless, Christianity has a lot to offer the world. There is literally no part of
Western History that is not influenced by Christianity. I will admit there are
all kinds of insane idiots who call themselves Christian, and Catholicism and C
hristianity in general does have bad times and black marks against it, but have
you heard the head of Islam apologize to the Christians and Jews they slaughtere
d in the past? Do you even know the names of any of the high-ranking clergy of
Islam? Bet you know the name of the current Pope, don't you? That goes to prov
e my point.

Statement: "You're a Pagan teacher, you _have to_ teach me all you know about Wi
cca. It's the _law_."
Rebuttal: (Once more, in harmony, with FEELING) Wicca IS NOT the sum total of P
aganism. Wicca is one component of Paganism; it is not all of Paganism.
I don't know how many times I have seen this stupid assumption on lists, in real
life and so on, but it's one thing that makes people cringe and run away. Wicc
a does not equal Paganism. Just like Witchcraft does not equal Wicca. Same son
g, different verse.
Just because I'm Pagan, and I teach, does not mean I am compelled or required to
teach you any form of paganism and especially not Wicca IF I am not Wiccan. I
know many people in the Pagan communities who have never been Wiccan, but who A
RE pagans, who have no idea what Wicca is or what it stands for, or how to pract
ice it. To assume that because they are Pagan they can teach you Wicca is the h
eight of arrogant absurdism, and will ensure they won't teach you the Paganism t

hey know.
Add to that the assumption that you are somehow "owed" training. Let me be abso
lutely clear here: No one owes you anything. You are not "owed" anything by an
yone period. If you wish to do something for someone, you may hope that this wi
ll induce him or her to teach you, they may not. You may enter into an agreemen
t with someone to teach you in return for (fill in the blank). We however have
just met, as of now, I have agreed to no obligation regarding you no matter what
delusions you hold in this regard.
Tell you what, go into ANY Martial Arts School; go ahead, pick one at random. G
o up to the person in charge and say this same statement to their face. It's li
kely they will simply hurt themselves laughing at you. You have shown no gift,
you have demonstrated no knowledge, and you have shown no inclination to anythin
g other than arrogance and idiocy.
I want you to find the legal code that states I have to teach you; after all, yo
u stated it was the law. I'm not a member of the public school system, and I ha
ve taken no oaths to my Gods to teach every person who comes to me everything I
know. You show me where it's "the law" in my religion and we will talk.
Plus, and I want you to think carefully about this, Satanists are considered by
many to be Pagans, Druids are considered by many to be Pagans. Hindus are consi
dered by many to be Pagans. By modern definition Pagan means "not Christian."
Do you really want a member of one of these religions teaching you about Wicca w
hen they don't know squat about it themselves? Why don't you go to a Wiccan tea
cher and *ask* to be taught, sincerely and politely, instead of arrogantly deman
ding that anyone who happens to be near you teach you?
The latter attitude will get you ignored, the former will catch the attention of
many others and you may learn what you are looking for.

Statement: "Ohmigod! You can't send healing energies, you're manipulating them,
and that's wrong!"
Rebuttal: How is trying to help someone wrong? It's no different than praying
for their recovery. Don't quip about the Threefold Law or the Rede at me, and d
on't tell me about how they may be suffering to learn something or that it's the
ir life lesson, that's only an excuse to do nothing and to sit on your hands.
Wake UP! People are going to do what they feel is right. If that's healing, su
ffering, learning or being a jerk, that's what they will do. All ANYONE can str
ive for is to be the best person they can be. A priest putting his hands on a s
ick child to heal them, a Wiccan sending healing energy or you asking for healin
g energies to be sent to your dying mother are no different. It's not manipulat
ion nor is it trying to control the person in question. It's being a concerned
member of the Starship Earth, a good human, and attempting to take some pain awa
y from someone who is suffering. That's all it is.
If you truly believe in the Rede and the Threefold Law, then the person who is s
ending that energy will get theirs in due course. Stating that they are bad and
wrong in advance of that is being a narrow-minded judgmental jerk. You are att
empting to manipulate that person by telling them they are wrong, instead of let
ting them learn their own lesson of not sending healing energies. Let them lear
n that first. And maybe, perhaps you may find out that at least in this particu
lar instance that the will to help someone recover from sickness was ok after al

l.

Statement: "You can burn booze in a cauldron indoors for a safe bonfire."
Rebuttal: While it's true that burning 91% rubbing alcohol in a cauldron will a
llow you to have a small, controlled fire indoors NOTHING about fire is safe. Y
ou can accomplish the same thing by using a can of Sterno. Fire is one of the p
rimal elements of the world, and it has been used as the eraser of the Gods befo
re now, a way to destroy everything so that life can be renewed. Just because i
t's in a cauldron means that it can be controlled more easily.
See, I thought this way once, then I melted my favorite cauldron while trying to
destroy a spell I wrote. I discovered that I had been an idiot. This could ha
ve easily gotten away from me, and had it spilled, I would not have been too luc
ky since it would have ignited the place I was living.
Fires produce heat. That heat can burn or melt things nearby. Fires produce sm
oke. Most fatalities due to fire are NOT from burns, as many think, it's from s
moke inhalation which prevents the lungs from exchanging oxygen and carbon dioxi
de as well as filling the body with carbon monoxide which is very difficult to f
ree from blood cells. Fires have flames, which can blind and which rise to the
ceiling and can start other fires. Alcohol is a flammable liquid, if it's too c
lose to the fire, the plastic bottle can melt and there goes your home. Fire ca
n ignite your bed, curtains, and clothing. I attended an outdoor circle once in
which the HPS was trying to read the ceremony from her notes, and they caught o
n fire because of the candles. Humorous at the time, but it could easily have i
gnited something had it been indoors. Additionally, I knew of a young lady whos
e apartment was destroyed by candles on her altar.
Ever wonder why your stove is where it is and made out of metal? Metal usually
doesn't burn. But put a piece of paper on that burner while it's hot, and watch
the flames. Then take those flames someplace else in your house, add in a flam
mable liquid, and you have a recipe for disaster. Wiccan flamb'! Yum, yum.
My advice to you is this: Unless you know EXACTLY what you are doing with fire,
just have your burning rituals outdoors with a fire extinguisher standing by.

Statement: "I take mistletoe for my gout - it's all natural and safe, you know!"
Rebuttal: So you take a poisonous plant for a condition that is caused by rich
foods? How........... Darwinian of you. Let me go an nominate you for the Darw
in Awards right now, you will be taking yourself out of the gene pool fairly soo
n.
Mistletoe is a poison. Taking it for anything is a crapshoot. It's playing Rus
sian Roulette with your life. Taking it for a condition that can be controlled
with other means is stupid. Taking it for a condition it has no hope of curing
is not only stupid, it is as though you sent your little brother to the auto par
ts store for a loaf of bread and gave him drachmas to pay for it. Not only is i
t an exercise in futility, but on the off chance that they do have bread, there

is no hope they will accept the money he has to purchase it.

Do a little looking and research before you wind up killing yourself. Herbs are
natural, yes. They grow in the ground and are from nature. South American Tre
e Frogs are natural too. Licking one may well kill you. Not all good things ar
e natural. Poison Ivy is natural, but burn it and breathe in the fumes and you
have a 50% chance of getting Poison Ivy in your lungs, which could be fatal.
Herbalists have studied their craft (another one that is a CRAFT, not a religion
) for years, learning the properties of each plant, finding out what it does, wh
at the side effects are, and how they interact with each other. There are plant
s that when taken by themselves are harmless and good for you, but when taken wi
th another can kill.
Here's one, White Willow bark. Everyone knows that this substance is good for h
eadaches. Did you know that you can overdose on willow bark and that it's prett
y serious if you do? Ulcers are one possible consequence. Did you know that th
ere is another type of willow bark that when prepared the same way is toxic? Wh
ich Willow bark do you have?
Just because it's natural does not mean it's safe. You are told not to eat an u
nknown mushroom for just this purpose, as many varieties of fungus will kill. S
o you blatantly go out and ignore this simple piece of advice because you saw in
a book someplace that herbs are good for you? That's what we have pharmacists
and doctors for.

Statement: "I'm so bad at history, being eclectic and all. I prefer doing smidge
s of different kinds of new agey stuff than those intense orthodox ones."
Rebuttal: It would be more accurate for you to say "I'm so lazy that I can't be
bothered to find out about my own religion, so I take whatever sounds good and
add it into the pot of my religion and smash it up till I don't know what I am a
nymore. I'm too scared, bored, lazy, rebellious to have to work to gain informa
tion and I can't be bothered."
This is the one thing that will kill Wicca. When it gets so devalued it can't b
e distinguished from Christianity or New Age philosophy, any other religion, or
agnosticism then no one will be motivated to practice it. They can stay in the
religion they currently are and practice the "Wicca" you are espousing. It's ap
athy. You care for your religion so little that you want to see it die like tha
t?
My best advice to you is to go out, read books other than those published by Lle
wellyn. Read a LOT of books by others, the recommended reading lists of many of
the Wiccan 101 books will do nicely. Study and pray and practice your religion
. You may actually find that the rituals in there are more appropriate to what
you want to do than you know.
New age practices are usually ignored as they tend to be really shallow and they
pull from so many sources as to be worthless. As Mercedes Lackey put it in one
of her books "New age. Rhymes with sewage and is the same watered down crap."
If New Age beliefs work for you, there is absolutely nothing stopping you from i
ncorporating them into your belief structure, as many other experienced practiti
oners of Paganism before you have done. But try to understand Wicca and what Wi

cca represents before you water it down with beliefs that have no place in it.
It's a case of throwing the baby out with the bathwater. You never know what yo
u are getting rid of.

Statement: "No one is ever a 'newbie'...that's just mean!"

Rebuttal: Would it be better if you were called something else?
Everyone at some time in their life is a beginner, a newbie, a tyro, an apprenti
ce, a student. Being declared a "master" of something takes time, dedication an
d energy, and the student must learn FIRST. It's not mean to say that someone i
s a student or a beginner, it's simply stating fact. It may be an important par
t of their progress to have the student act as the Master in some cases from tim
e to time, but that is for SPECIFIC lessons.
Many
k of
dent
nt?

students wear their status with pride. Calling them a student is not a mar
disrespect; it is a mark of honor. Don't you think Doctor Watson was a stu
of Sherlock Holmes? Do you think that he was insulted to be called a stude
*I* wouldn't be, I would be complimented and flattered.

It is possible that the term "newbie" is being used to degrade and tease, but th
at is one person's problem with your status, and that is something they have to
overcome. But having labels for the level of progress you have made makes it ea
sier for you to compare yourself to others and measure how far you have advanced
over time.
Everyone is a newbie at one time or another. Even Buddha and Mohammed started o
ut unenlightened.

Statement: "I don't read much. My witchcraft comes purely from within."
Rebuttal: Good for you then! I'm glad that your knowledge of herbs and your kn
owledge of spells come from within yourself. But you will be rediscovering exis
ting information and taking the chance of dying in the process. As one friend p
ointed out, the first man to eat lobster was brave, the first man to eat arsenic
was *dead*.
Granted, there is a lot to be said for self-discovery. The fact that a student c
an find things can be done in a more efficient way simply because they don't kno
w it's "can't" be done that way. This is an important aspect of growth. Yet, i
t's easier when there is a foundation for later discovery and learning.
However, TONS of research in the topic of Witchcraft and the elements that go wi
th witchcraft have already been done and shared. It is in books on the net and
in stories. There are elements of witchcraft in superstitions and folk charms.
All of these are things YOU will have to rediscover, on your own, if you only r
ely on internal promptings. You won't be able to advance Witchcraft at all, sin
ce all your time will be spent duplicating the last umpty hundred years of effor
t and research.
It's highly likely that what you are trying to do has been done before, and that
someone else already found what you are looking for. With that said, it's not

only possible but most often necessary that further research can and should be d
one based on the foundations of previous knowledge, so that new discoveries aree
made. Otherwise, all you will wind up doing is reinventing the wheel.
But hey, if doing that floats your boat and validates your life, then go for it.
If you believe that the only valid practice of witchcraft comes from "what fee
ls right" then you are disrespecting the work *I* have done which was built on t
he foundation of wisdom passed to me by others. If you don't want to hear that
centuries of herbalists have written that Foxglove is a poison because you "feel
" that it's not, then I hope you have a coffin ready and your life insurance pai
d up. One question - can I be your beneficiary?

Statement: "I only practice White witchcraft."

Statement: "Balance isn't about dark."
Rebuttal: These are together because they both assume that you can have one thi
ng without the other, that there can be day without night.
How can you possibly know what happiness is if you have never been sad in your l
ife? How can you know what full is without being empty? Do you really think th
at you can know up without knowing what down is? Opposites are not the only thi
ng that makes up a religion or a life, ignoring all other perceived negative asp
ects of something in favor of ONE small portion removes so much richness from li
fe. It is like only hearing one note of a symphony. Sure you will hear that C
Flat from all the different instruments in the orchestra, but you will never und
erstand what a symphony is from that one note.
Witchcraft is made up of the dark scary parts too. Using and learning from the
powers of hate, anger, fear, lust and other "dark" emotions can teach you many t
hings, primary among them, what those emotions feel like and how to deal with th
em. With the knowledge you acquire, you will understand what magick ruled by th
ose emotions will act like, how it will feel to you, and thus you can avoid usin
g them if you are that scared of those abilities. But you HAVE to know what mag
ic fueled by anger feels like, in a controlled setting. That's usually accompli
shed by your training with your mentor and they need to be there to help you kee
p your control if those emotions start getting away from you.
Balance is a state between two states, where both states are in harmony with eac
h other, and contain elements of each other. You cannot have only one force, wi
thout the other force also being there in harmony with it. You cannot have ligh
t without also having the dark. Let me tell you, once you DO have both those in
balance with each other, you have a very strong power at your disposal. If you
eliminate one side of the equation, you have a meaningless jumble of numbers wh
ich means you did something wrong. Balance is all about the Dark, and also all
about the Light.

Statement: "I do spell work, but I would never do anything manipulative!"

Rebuttal: Don't you consider that to be manipulative? Spell work is manipulati
on of energy toward a pre-determined goal along with manipulation of chance and
other forces (including people) to bring about the desired outcome. It can also
be seen as manipulation of self to bring about a change that gives one an advan

tage over others. If you want some evidence of this, look at Gardner's 161 Laws
, in which it talks about using the Arte (or magick) to force someone to sell a
house that the Wiccan wants.
Talk about not knowing what you are talking about. Magic and spell work is ALL
about manipulation. Now, had you said "I won't knowingly take away other people
's ability to choose through my spell work" then I wouldn't have a problem with
what you said. But to say that spell work is not manipulation is saying that th
e sun doesn't put off heat.

Statement: Why would I want to follow a tradition? If it feels right, it is th

e God/dess guiding you, right?
Rebuttal: In just a few words: Tradition, knowledge, brotherhood, practice.
The tradition in this instance is not the Alexandrians or the Gardnerians, it's
meant as "how it has been done by our ancestors". You joined this religion (Wic
ca) to have a connection to the past, to worship the deities of the Old Ones; to
gain something you felt was not offered by other groups, right? It couldn't ha
ve been because you just wanted to freak out your parents could it? But now you
want to throw that out because you find that the group you want to be a member
of has rules and expects things from you? Gee, could it be that you can really
relate to that statement above about not reading or, maybe the one about being t
oo lazy, uh eclectic - I meant eclectic, to learn?
Tradition is more than just saying the same thing over and over again. Traditio
n, in a magical sense, sets up what is called "precedent" in which the person do
ing the ritual has a psychic/magic/elemental connection to the magician of the p
ast who also did it the same way, thus allowing the person who is doing the ritu
al now to draw upon the ability of those in the past. And sometimes, the beings
you are trying to invoke just won't pay attention unless called a specific way.
If I, as a ceremonial magician, were to use the Key of Solomon to summon a ruler
of the element of Air, but I used my own made up ritual, it would more than pro
bably fail. The ruler of that element would ignore me. However, if I used the
precedent and tradition laid down in the Key of Solomon to summon it, then it wo
uld pay attention and come at my orders, as it is supposed to do. If I, as a Wi
ccan, did my "Drawing Down the Moon" ritual in whatever manner felt right, the r
itual elements being called upon may not be correctly invoked, and the ritual wo
uld probably fail.
As far as knowledge goes, there is generally a course of study that has been in
effect for a long time. In this course of study, the teachers know what works a
nd what does not to get a particular lesson across. A good teacher has already
done the work, spent time troubleshooting the teaching process. Thus, the teach
er can consistently evoke the correct responses from the student when trying to
transmit the mysteries. Self-study and divine inspiration can't always transmit
these understandings. It's POSSIBLE to do so, but it's a rare thing to have it
happen.
Then there are the social aspects. Practice on your own will give you no connec
tion to others from whom you could learn. It also denies them access to things
you may have to teach. You will not know whether what you just experienced was
due to a potassium imbalance or an actual transformative experience that you are
supposed to have. You won't hear other people's stories of their initiation (o
r whatever) and what they felt/heard, thus your experience never gets validated.

You won't gain an understanding of Pagan group dynamics and problems specific
to Paganism without interaction with other Pagans. You may also never overcome
problems in your own psyche (like prejudice) that need to be eradicated without
that association. It's also highly unlikely that you will understand that there
is a synergy that one can find among a large (or small) group of those all work
ing toward the same goal.
You may also find that you tend to slack off when it's only yourself. Having be
en both solitary and a part of a group, I find that I do my rituals more consist
ently when I have someone to do them FOR other than myself. When it's just me t
o please, a prayer or a short and abbreviated ritual is the usual order of the d
ay, but when I have someone else to participate, even if it's one other person,
I tend to get the elaborate ritual going and that makes it more serious.
This is not saying that one MUST only practice in a group or with a tradition.
There is a LOT to be said for solitary practice and a lot that can be done. But
humans are social animals, and our basic nature demands that we have contact wi
th others.

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