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PARENTING 678
PARENTING 678
PARENTING 678
PARENTING 678
PARENTING 678
PARENTING 678
SUCCESSFUL
TEACHERS
Successful teachers are those
who are fond by their
students
because
the
teachers show interest in
their students. And in return,
students reflect their interest
of the particular subjects that
was taught by the teachers
whom they are fond of.
And now, the question is how
we can apply Parenting 678
into your life as parents.
Inside Parenting 678, I already mentioned the first 6 years, follow by the next
7 years and continue with the 8 years. Humans are flexible and should not be
rigid. Parenting 678 will serve as a general guidelines for concerned parents.
Apply methods that you believe will work for you and your kids.
PARENTING 678
THE 2
YEARS TO 13 YEARS OLD
This is the 2
and caring parents. But of course, there will always be exceptional case
when we heard of parents who abused their kids. This happen because
sometimes the parents themselves are unable to control their emotion or
their own life like providing a stable and comfortable living for themselves
and their family, hence this may resulted to child abuse. If the parents are
good provider and have stable emotion, child abuse might not happen.
PARENTING 678
PARENTING 678
THE 3
OLD TO 21 YEARS OLD
These are critical years in a kid's
life. Teenagers presume they
know everything and they are the
focus of the world (for example,
they like to think that everyone
is looking/scrutinizing them). As a parent, the old methods like
PLAYING and TEACHING may not be effective at this level. Teenagers
tend to listen more to their peers as they begin to build friendship and
trust among the peers.
Hence, at this level, bad influence is dangerously seeping in because
this is the time where most teenagers are duped to join gangs and
become a gangster. They want to feel a sense of belonging and loyal
to their group.
As parent, whether we like it or not, we need to become their FRIEND
and change our communication method with them. At this level, we
must walk back to the time when we ourselves are teenagers. Ask
questions like what type of friends that we like and what we dislike
about our parents when we were teenagers. We must be our kids
FRIEND. For this age group, PLAYING and TEACHING communication
will not work effectively for them. CARE and LOVE at this level is
secondary. This is because as I mentioned earlier in this article, a
parents CARE and LOVE for their kids is forever. So, be their best and
closest friend. Be someone who they can confide in and provide them
a shoulder to cry/lean on when they needed it.
Kindly read back to the introduction part that mentioned about
teenagers brain. The development levels of their brain at these age
play a great role in their behaviour changes.
HINT : The third eight years is
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PARENTING 678
IN A NUTSHELL
As a parent, we will always love our kids and will try our best to
provide them with the best things we can afford to them. The
bond between a parent and their kid should always be strong and
shouldn't weaken over time. Some parents play their role wrongly
by using the wrong type of communication methods with their
kids, hence they ended up asking themselves whats wrong with
their kids instead of how they should communicate with their kids
with the right communication methods.
I hope PARENTING 678 has provided you with simple guidelines to
foster a greater relationship bond with your kids until they reached
adulthood. Lets fill up the following page columns and find out how
much you understand you kids! I would like to invite you to login to
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Children Enrichment Programmes can help kids to better
themselves.
Thanks for reading.
The author can be contacted through email at
thomashooi@geniusbrain.com
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PARENTING 678
INSTRUCTIONS:
1. Fill up the space below without
asking your kid/kids for the answers.
2. After filling up the space, ask your
kid/kids for the answers.
3. Each right answer carries 10 points.
Kids Names
Do You Know.
1. Your kids favourite colour?
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