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Phrase #4: Maybe or Probably

Have you ever had a woman disapprove of your decisions or even "accuse"
you of something?
Perhaps she said something along these lines:
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"Are you going out with your friends... again!?"

"Do you find her attractive!?"
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If you think back, generally how did you reply?

Did you get defensive and try to make a "case" for yourself?
Or did you get irritable and deny it?
If you have in the past, in the future theres no reason to respond in either
of these two ways.
Instead, all you need to remember is one or two words:
"Maybe."
Or a sarcastic: "Probably."
"Are you going out with your friends... again!?"
"Maybe," as you pick up the phone to call your friend.
"Probably."
What youre communicating by giving her an indifferent or vague answer is
that you dont tolerate stupid questions women ask that are designed to
"induce guilt" and get you to conform to their agendas.
Yet sometimes a truthful and blunt "Yes" is even appropriate.
Unconsciously, in these situations, a woman wants you to feel
uncomfortable so she has you "squirming on her hook", but if you answer
her question directly and honestly... and if she doesnt like the truth, she
shouldnt have asked the question.
"Yes."
Though I wouldnt recommend this until or unless you know you can handle
the inevitably Temper Tantrum shell unleash.
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After all, the only reason women ask questions like these is to make you
give them the answer they want. And by being open and blunt, you let them
know you think for yourself, regardless of what they think.
Phrase #5: Perhaps Ill Tell You Next Year
Has a woman ever "demanded" to know something about you that was
really none of her business... and in a way that was TOO forward and
"nosy"?
Something like:
"I tried calling you five times... where were you!?"
"How many other women are you seeing?"
How have you handled yourself in situations like these?
Maybe you got frantic and told her by explaining the details.
Or maybe you got defensive and starting making excuses.
But the truth is, theres no reason to respond from a place of
powerlessness because the answers are really no concern of hers.
So all you have to remember next time is this one simple phrase:
"Perhaps Ill tell you next year."
Again:
"Perhaps Ill tell you next year." Then change the subject.
"How many other women are you seeing?"
"Perhaps Ill tell you next year." Again, change the subject.
What youre communicating by saying this is that, if you want to reveal
personal information about yourself, youll do it on your own terms.
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And doing it on your own terms does not mean having a woman force it or
"beat it out of you".
Phrase #6: Maybe Later
Now, how about this:
Have you ever had a woman try to get you to do something for her when
she could have just as easily done it herself, but she was either too lazy or
too consumed with a sense of "over-importance"?
Things like:
"Would you close the car door for me, honey?" Meanwhile, her hands are
empty aside from the cell phone shes talking on, perhaps.
"Can you do the dishes? Im really busy."
What do you do?
Well, perhaps you just do it without thinking.
Or perhaps you think its ridiculous but you do it anyway to prevent an
altercation.
If so, heres the one phrase you need to know:
"Maybe later."
Again:
"Would you close the car door for me, honey?"
"Maybe later," as you close your own door and keep walking.
"Can you do the dishes? Im really busy."
"Maybe later," as you go to finish up some leftover work that didnt get
finished during your work day.
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What youre communicating by being indifferent and then "speaking" with

your actions is letting her know that you refuse to become anyones
"slave".
Of course, a direct "No" works well in these situations too.
But like the blunt "Yes", a woman will usually follow-up with the infamous
Temper Tantrum. So if youre not in the mood to deal with it, a "Maybe
later" is a less tedious route to take.
Now, Im not saying you should never do things for women. Not at all. What
I am saying is that you dont do things for women when they can do them
themselves but they "sucker" you into doing them out of laziness or from
being on a "power trip".
When Dealing With Womens Bad Behavior... Sarcasm Is Your VERY BEST
Friend!
These six simple phrases are perfect "defaults" to communicate your
boundaries in these common situations... until you start coming up with
your own "on the fly", according the situation.
And when you start "thinking on your feet", just remember:
Sarcasm is your VERY BEST friend when dealing with womens bad
behavior!
Heres why:
There seem to be a few unspoken rules in Human Psychology that you
cant address directly without losing your power:
If you DENY or DEFEND yourself, you give up your power.
If you JUSTIFY or EXPLAIN your "case", you give up your power.
If you APOLOGIZE when its not your fault, you give up your power.
I wont go into the psychology behind that here, but...
Sarcasm allows you to avoid doing any of these things without giving up
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your power... yet you still communicate your boundaries exactly what
people are attempting to do with defending, justifying, and apologizing.
Only wit or sarcasm wins where those "logical" reactions lose.
Heres a few examples:
"If you dont stop smoking, youll get cancer."
"No, I wont!"
Youre defending yourself: Game over.
So how about this instead:
"And if you dont stop telling people what to do with their lives, no ones
going to want to spend any time with you."
Next...
"Ummm... no."
Obviously, you do... and youre lying about it and she knows it: Game over.
But how about this:
"Yeah... but only a little bit more than you."
And finally...
"Oh... um... I got side-tracked at Bobs. Im sorry."
Apologizing for your decisions: Game over.
What about this instead:
"Oh! I took a quick trip to the moon in a spaceship for a few hours. It was
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pretty cool."
KEEP THESE SIX IMPORTANT SENTENCES IN MIND WHEN DEALING
WITH WOMEN. REALIZE THEIR IMPORTANCE, NOT JUST IN THEIR
CONTENT BUT IN THE MINDSET THAT THEY CONVEY. THIS IS THE
MINDSET I WANT YOU TO DEVELOP. YOU WANT TO PORTRAY THE
CHARACTERISTICS OF STRENGTH, INDIFFERENCE, SARCASM, AND
INDEPENDENCE.
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bradd80, Sep 17, 2012
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man there is a lot of very good info in this thread, exactly the right attitude.
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LESSON XII: TEASING GIRLS

Most girls love to be teased. Here are some quick tips:
* Take something from her and play "keep away"
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* Throw stuff at her when she's not looking, then call her "lineman hands"
or say "aww dude! you suck!"
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* If she makes the slightest sexual innuendo, call her on it and accuse her
with being obsessed with sex
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* If she says something dumb, "revoke her talking privileges"

* If she complains about something say "why don't you go home and cry
about it" (big smile on your face)
* Tell her you gave her a nickname, but never tell her what it is
Just be playful, smile, and have fun.
bradd80, Sep 18, 2012
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LESSON XIII: USING REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY TO TURN THINGS AROUND

The underlying principle here is agreeing to any objection she might have,
such as her not wanting to have sex or not wanting you to stay over, by
taking the same position as her. It also evokes the scarcity principle and it
makes her run after you like a moth to a flame.
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This is what you do...

Her: "I just want to be friends."
You: "That is exactly what I was thinking and was going to suggest it
myself. I think you and I would be better off as friends anyway."
Her: "I am not ready to make love."
You: "Now that you mention it neither am I. I think we should wait and really
get to know each before we even consider having sex and just cuddle."
Her: "You cannot come upstairs."
You: "Now that you mention it, I am tired and really do not want to come up.
If I was to come upstairs with you I could only stay for 10 minutes and then
leave."
Her: "I am tired and I want you to take me home."
You: "Yes, you look tired and its better I do that. I am tired myself and want
to go home as well."
Her: "I have a bf/husband/no time/busy/pet died/you're not my type."
You: "Well I was just thinking that you seem interesting. I too have a
gf/wife/no time/am busy/pet died/not my type and thought we could be
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just friends. I think you are a little too presumptuous about my interest in
you here. If you cannot have a casual coffee with me then you can leave
now."
You say this to any ice queen and youll melt her right to the ground and get
her take an opposite position to what you suggest. And believe me I have
used these lines on scores of women getting a turn around rate of about
75%.
But when I continued pushing I rarely if ever succeeded in turning any
woman round.
bradd80, Sep 18, 2012
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LESSON XIV: GETTING WOMEN TO OBSESS OVER YOU

I always found it interesting, as well as frustrating, that I have so much
trouble getting the women I want, but have no trouble driving the women I
dont want absolutely crazy over me. Im sure this same thing has baffled
many of you.
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I wanted to figure out why these women, whom I had no interest in, were so
obsessed with me, so I then could try and apply these same principles to
women that I did want. Therefore, I analyzed the past five women who
were "obsessed" with me, and what I did to generate these feelings in
them.
Heres what I found:
1) I rejected them.
I showed that I wasnt interested. This showed a lot of CONFIDENCE. It
made it seem like I had tons of girls to select from, and could pick and
choose who I wanted to date. It also showed that I wasnt desperate or
needy for a woman.
2) I was a jerk.
I didnt call back, ignored them, hit on other women right in front of them,
etc. This showed that I was SECURE and didnt need them. I could do and
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say whatever I wanted around them. I didnt care if they got angry and
walked away.
3) I occasionally gave them hope.
Id call back, flirt or kiss them on the cheek (usually when I was drunk).
Immediately after (when was sober), I returned to being a jerk. This made it
seem like I was "weakening" a little and was just out of their reach. They
became obsessed with "grabbing" me once and for all. Or once in a while
I'd come over or take them out after I had been ignoring their calls for a
while.
4) I remained uninterested.
This drove them crazy. They said to themselves, "Why doesnt he want me?
He must be a really CONFIDENT and INDEPENDENT guy if hes turning
down dates. He must have girls all over him. He must really be SPECIAL. I
have to have him!!!"
The lesson here guys, is to take these principles and apply them to women
that you want to seduce. You may have to be a little creative with them, or
use them sparingly, but use them.
"Forget" to return a call, keep her guessing, and make sure she knows that
youll walk away at the drop of a hat. Remember that women love a
challenge, and are extremely attracted to guys that dont need them.
bradd80, Sep 19, 2012
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LESSON XV: CHARM

The dictionary definition of charm is to induce by using strong personal
attractiveness. My definition, however, is a little bit different. I consider
charm the art of attracting people by making them feel good about
themselves, and for a few moments making them feel as if theyre the
most interesting person in the world.
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The art of attracting people (especially beautiful women) consists of 10%

projection of success, 10% appearance, 10% intelligence, and 70% charm.
Im a Canadian from Toronto, and theres a school close to me here called
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the University of Waterloo which conducted a study which found that 85%
of the correspondents (both men and women) expressed that charm was
the principle reason for their attraction to the opposite individual.
I know you all think that some people seem to be born with the gift of being
naturally charming. But most people lack the skill or just never learned the
proper techniques through social communication. And as you already
learned in the very first lesson in this series, The Myth of the Natural
Seducer, anyone can learn how to be good at picking up women. Anyone
can learn to be charming too: all you need is to understand what people
find charming and practice it over and over again, until it becomes naturally
part of your personality.
Charm Practice
As Ive said charm is simply the art of letting someone know that you feel
good about them, without embarrassing them or asking anything of them
in return. And this is really attractive. The following checklist should help
you accomplish your goals:
1) Charm is exerting strong confidence. So be confident: confidence is key
in almost everything concerning DJs, and this is no exception. In order to
be charismatic, people need to feel comfortable with you. And in order for
people to feel comfortable with you, you have be comfortable with yourself.
You should walk with a confident stride, make eye contact, and carry your
head high.
2) Smile. This tip is not only extremely important, it's also incredibly simple.
Smiling tells other people that you're happy and that you accept them.
People are more drawn to those who are happy, and they desperately want
to be accepted. Smiling is also a show of confidence, and most people
look more attractive when they are smiling.
3) Charm has an ally in eye contact. Never forget to look into someones
eyes when speaking to them.
4) Limit Negativity. Ever been around a severely negative, depressed
person? They're no fun at all. All they do is complain, and try to drag others
into the horrible gloom that they feel is their life. People respond by staying
away. A negative person is the opposite of a charismatic person. Besides,
when you complain, nobody really cares about your problems anyway.
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5) Accept Others. One of the best ways to get a person to like you is to let
them know that you like them. I'm not talking about romantic situations
(don't tell that girl that she is your moon and stars), I'm talking about just
regular people in general. Guys and girls. Whenever you hear that someone
thinks you're a cool person, you're more likely to think the same of them.
When you include other people in activities, bring them into conversations,
ask their opinions, and are honestly complimentary toward them, you will
be seen as charming and charismatic. Being respectful is one of the first
and best paths to being respected.
6) Don't Take Yourself Too Seriously. Be prepared to laugh. Be prepared to
make others laugh. And, perhaps most importantly, be prepared to laugh at
yourself. Some people will make a mistake and attempt to cover it up,
become embarassed by it, or make excuses for it. A charismatic person
can take an honest mistake and turn it toward their advantage by simply
owning the mistake and laughing at themselves. This makes you look more
down-to-earth and helps people identify more with you.
7) Listen and Be Listened To. When people speak, genuinely listen to them.
Let them know that you are paying attention and that their thoughts and
opinions are important to you. When you need to speak on a matter, make
sure that your ideas are well-thought-out and include a solid gameplan.
When making a decision, mention the ideas that others have brought up
and give the impression that everyone's ideas were used to make the final
solution. And remember: the less you talk, the more people listen when you
DO speak.
8) Charming someone includes complimenting them. What you should
compliment is relatively easy to figure out, just figure out what would it
take to make you feel complimented, and do the same to others. The
difference between charm and flattery is that flattery has an agenda. Ill
flatter you so that youll give me what I want. Charm is a way of being,
rather than a tool to achieve something.
9) Charm has to be sincere. It is strongest when you believe what youre
saying.
10) Charm is done pleasantly and lightly.
11) The secret to charm is to be selfless. You should not ask for anything,
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not even feedback.

12) Charm isnt sexual. Its just warmth.
13) Charm at its simplest just says, "You are terrific. Thank you for letting
me bask in your glow."
FOR CHARM NOT TO COME OFF AS REHEARSED, YOU NEED TO
PRACTICE IT. So where do you start? Any place. Practice on your mother,
sister, dog, neighbor, dad, your boss, teacher, friends, the stranger on the
street-corner. You will also be amazed at how charming people will be in
return. And make sure you dont forget to smile. It makes you look alive.
In short, charm is like a butterflys touch on a rose petal. The key is to not
overdo it. Charm is fun and potentially a very profitable tool in
interpersonal relationships. And its crucial to dating. So practice and
enjoy!
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LESSON XVI: A REMINDER OF JUST HOW EVIL WOMEN CAN BE

Now that we have covered charm and all sorts of techniques we can use to
attract and seduce women and get them to like us, I think it's important for
me to remind all you guys and make it clear that women can be dangerous
and that dealing with them is a serious business.
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Over the centuries, women have driven men to kill each other, to go to jail,
to depression, alcoholism and drug addiction, and to suicide. All the playful
tactics I'm showing you aside, keep in mind that these creatures you're
trying to charm and make laugh are, deep down inside, potentially very evil
people.
So never let down your guard, make sure to always protect your heart, and
NEVER FORGET THAT WOMEN ARE ALMOST ALWAYS NOTHING BUT
TROUBLE. As described by various recovering AFC's on So Suave, women
have done all of the following things: they will talk to you on the phone
asking you about how your day went and what dishes you should buy while
on the other line they are getting fvcked in the ass by your best friend. They
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will have your kids and take out a mortgage with you, but while you're at
work they will fvck some guy they just met because they're bored and given
a little bit of complimentary attention. Women are experts at kicking you
when you're down, and when you have nothing left to give they will sue you
for support and ditch your ass and try to get you thrown in jail for
nonpayment of child support even though you just lost your job. They don't
give a fvck, and women can be the most selfish disgusting pigs you will
ever meet.
I will use the following story as an illustration:
I remember a friend telling me about a girl who kept inviting him over to her
cottage for the weekend. He didn't understand why she was being so overly
"friendly" but he mentioned it to his dad who was a local cop with lots of
experience. His dad knew exactly what was going on. Turns out the girl had
gotten pregnant by another guy and wanted my friend to take the fall.
So guys, watch your backs I don't think I should have to remind you all
again about how evil women can be.
bradd80, Sep 19, 2012
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Good motivational and inspiring thread Bradd.

just a question, how would you describe/rate your looks?
whats the difference between a mod and a feminist? ...when I find out Ill let you know
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*applause* Bravo! Much truth being preached!
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Good motivational and inspiring thread Bradd.

just a question, how would you describe/rate your looks?
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betheman, I'm glad you brought that up it's a perfect segueway into our
next lesson. I'm ok looking nothing special, maybe average at best. I don't
want you to get the idea that i'm really good looking or anything. The
further couldn't be from the truth, and I have just as many problems dealing
with girls as anyone else here. Bottom line, i'm ok looking nothing special.
The point is, you have to work with what you have and you have to do
whatever you can to make yourself better looking.
I've said it before in other threads, but I'm really not that great looking. I'm
ok i guess but i have to use my advantages (tall, nice face) and emphasize
those while trying to downplay my negatives, like the fact that i don't look
like a movie star and that I don't have the body of a Greek god. Point is, you
gotta try your best to look like one. You have to try to look the best you can
by emphasizing your strengths while downplaying your weaknesses. This,
in my experience, along with a carefree fun-loving personality is key to
being considered attractive to women. And never allow haters to knock you
off your path and take away your focus. We have more important things to
do than waste our time listening to someone else's negativity!
Use whatever hairstyle works for you. For some guys, it'll be the Dwayne
"Rock" Johnson or Vin Diesel shaved head look. For others, like me, you
might want a spiky look that reminds women of Johnny Depp or Colin
Farrell. For most guys, I find that growing your hair out and getting a sharp
cool look that makes you stand out (in a good way) from other guys is
what usually works best.
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Bradd, I suspect your are underselling yourself in terms of your looks. You
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mentioned womEn making advances on you earlier in the thread, women

generally dont do this to guys who arent good looking or attractive.
Dont want to detract from a good thread though, whether anyone is good
looking or not, shouldnt stop them trying and using the advice you give
whats the difference between a mod and a feminist? ...when I find out Ill let you know
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LESSON XVII: TOP 10 SEDUCTION TECHNIQUES OF THE SOVIET SECRET

SERVICE
Ok, now we're gonna start getting into some real high level stuff.
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During the Cold War, nobody stole secrets better than the Soviet Union. The
Soviets in the aftermath of World War II developed espionage into an art
form. This is how they were able to develop an atomic bomb in only four
years, and this was how they knew that they could invade Hungary and
Czechoslovakia and build the Berlin Wall all without having to worry about
how the West would respond: they already knew what the West was
thinking because they had the most effective espionage system ever
developed in place.
The Soviets infiltrated the Pentagon, British royalty, Harvard, Cambridge,
and even the atomic laboratories at Los Alamos and Lawrence Livermore.
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How they did this would fill an entire book; were only concerned here with
their espionage efforts in the realm of seduction and how we can use that
to help us pick up women.
One of the Russians most effective means of espionage and stealing
secrets from the West was to get undercover agents to infiltrate Westerncontrolled territories where they would seduce the secretaries, girlfriends,
and even wives of prominent Western diplomats and military officers and
through them gain vast amounts of knowledge that were so important that
they could be used to topple national governments or invade certain
countries without fear of reprisal.
At one point, it got so bad that Western governments started printing
posters warning secretaries and other employees to watch out for their
hearts and be careful about falling in love with a secret undercover agent
who was just using them for information. Eventually, in West Berlin alone
more than 40 women were eventually prosecuted for passing on secrets to
their lovers, not realizing they were foreign agents.
These superagents were called Romeo spies or Ravens, and their job
was to seduce women in order to obtain intelligence of national or even
international importance (Swallow or honeypot was the NKVD/KGB
nickname for their female counterparts). Now because the Soviets were
ultimately defeated at the end of the Cold War, we happen to know a lot
about how they conducted these operations. (Western spy agencies didnt
use these techniques as much because they found that money and
freedom usually worked better on Russians than sex.)
The following is a list of the Top 10 techniques these Ravens used to
seduce women and get what they wanted out of them:
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LESSON XVII: TOP 10 SEDUCTION TECHNIQUES OF THE SOVIET SECRET SERVICE

The following is a list of the Top 10 techniques these Ravens used to seduce women
and get what they wanted out of them:
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A lot of good stuff in here.

One thing I would just like to add, in terms of getting numbers, and this is
minor, but for me it's been 100% effective is:
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Don't actually *ask* for the number. I dont know if this came about
because I feared her rejecting me when I asked that question or whatever
but I found the best thing to do is to go to the contacts page in your phone
while she's talking, open a new contact, hand her the phone and say "here".
I've gotten the (real) number every single time. She may still flake or ignore
my texts but I get the number. It goes like this
her: yeah so blah blah blah and blah blah blah
you: (listening to her but glancing at your phone and going into contacts)
oh yeah totally, blah blah blah blah
her: yeah haha, blah blah blah
you: Here. (hand her the phone, continue to talk while she types it in and
say "cool" when she hands it back to you, then go back to your convo) So
yeah blah blah blah
her: blah blah blah
you: well it was nice talking to you but i gotta go, i'll hit you up sometime
MisterD, Nov 6, 2012
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Nice tip, MisterD. I always like reading your back and forth convo
suggestions, and this one's another winner. And guys, feel free to add your
own tips whenever they touch on something I've said.
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Soviet Seduction Technique #1.

The Soviets understood that to be successful, they would have to be
subtle. So the Raven couldnt be too good looking, as this would be too
obvious and raise the suspicions of western counterintelligence. Through
trial and error, however, the Soviets actually came to realize that, to
become the ultimate Ladies Man, you have to learn how to look like the
ultimate ladies man. You have to learn how to attract women. So early on,
the Soviets realized that seduction was not necessarily about being good
looking, it was more about looking good! It was also about identifying the
needs of your mark (usually companionship, loneliness, or love), and
fulfilling those needs.
You have all heard girls say: 'That guy is hot!' OR 'He's so cute'. But women
are not attracted to the way a man looks, they're all attracted to the way a
man dresses. That's what they mean when they say he's hot or he's so
cute.
Beautiful women are attracted to guys who have confidence and guys who
have attitude.
They are genetically engineered to look for a mate who has status.
You need to learn how dress like you have status.
The way you dress, screams confidence and screams attitude. It is the
best way to show that you have status and it is the best way to get her
physically attracted to you!
So in summary, women are attracted to 3 things about a man:
1) The Way A Man Dresses
2) The Way He Talks
3) The Way He Behaves
This is step # 1. Learning how to dress more attractive to women.
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You need to know how to look more attractive to women and how to look
like you have status. Keep reading the rest of these techniques and you will
learn how and why women are attracted to certain physical qualities and I
will show you how to create those qualities.
Haven't you always heard that women want guys with money? This is not
true! Women are attracted to rich guys because they have status NOT
money! I will show you how to have status so all girls want you.
Remember guys, it really doesnt matter what you look like, how old you are
or how much money you make. How many times have you a seen a
beautiful woman in love with a totally average guy? I see it all the time!
Things like looks or height or popularity may matter, but theyre not the be
all and end all.
*This technique also explains a bit why women go so crazy over guys in
suits
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I been really soaking up what this guy has posted.
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Soviet Seduction Technique #2.
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As the Russians gained more experience dating in the West, they too
realized - just as many of us eventually did here on SS - that you had to
stop being too nice to women, at least the really beautiful ones. The ugly or
more plain ones who were really lonely could still be treated very nicely, but
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The Soviets learned early on that nice guys will always finish last when it
comes to beautiful women. Pretty girls, especially the ones who were
already attached to handsome or rich or powerful high status men, were
almost never lured away by a "nice guy."
Instead, they tended to want to be with a confident and ****y guy who
seemed a bit dangerous or edgy. At this point, even the Russians
recognized that dating in the West was largely a numbers game. Some
women, no matter how handsome the Romeo spy was, or how edgy, or
charming, or whatever, the woman could still not be tempted into an affair.
But the Russians knew that you had to throw out as many agents out there
as possible, and kind of throw the darts at the wall and try to have as many
stick as possilble.
But the women who were successfully seduced seemed to be drawn to
guys who had personality and lots of attitude. Nice guys were too easy for
these women and almost always quickly fell into the dreaded "Friend Zone"
category. The conclusion: beautiful high status women who were open to
having an affair wanted a guy who exhibited the traits of being high status
and who were NOT easy. When these women interacted with nice guys,
they seemed to automatically assume that they were easy.
Have you ever noticed that the really hot, sexy women you know almost
never seem to be dating or attracted to a "nice guy?"
And doesn't it seem pretty obvious that the really hot sexy women out there
are dating guys that are *******s or jerks?
Better yet, as I've already touched upon in Lesson 14, the one on getting
women to obsess about you, I'm sure you've noticed that it's always the
girls you're NOT so interested in that are suddenly interested in you..
WHY?
Exactly because you were not interested in them, were indifferent to them,
and you were not trying to be overly nice or sweet to them.
Beautiful high status women don't like "nice" guys. They are too easy for
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them. Beautiful women, gentlemen, want a challenge. Always remember

that!
They want to be intrigued when they first meet you; they want to be kept on
their toes.
They want a challenge.
You have to learn how to give her that challenge..
So always try to maintain a bit of mystery about yourself. Don't reveal
everything about yourself to her all at once and early in the relationship.
Don't call her too much. Don't be overly sweet and kind and "nice." Let her
do a bit of the chasing too.
Remember, dating women is a bit like doing the tango. To keep things
interesting, sometimes you lead, and sometimes she leads. It's this change
in direction that keeps things vibrant and exciting.
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I didn't finish reading all the posts you've made yet, but I just had to take a
second and post this..
You, my friend, are absolutely brilliant. I am what you could call a newborn,
definitely an AFC, I still get laid every now and then but even so..
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These tips are just SO good, that for the first time I stopped being confused
about women. Because of your posts I can actually stop being confused,
understand women and know how to respond. I can relate to some of the
tips mentioned, since I have been doing those naturally due to my
character, but I still missed SO many things which have gotten me screwed
in the past.
I just broke up with an BPD two months ago and I am completing
revamping my view on girls and my behaviour towards them. I'm definitely
going to study everything written down here and go out there and let it all
flow into my game.
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I also LOVE the journal you're keeping, it shows that this actually works in
RL and it motives me even more to try all this out. Please keep doing what
you're doing, it's helping average guys like me on their path to become a
true Don Juan. It's going to take a lot of work, but I'm definitely going to get
there and perhaps even start my own journal.
Again, keep doing what you're doing, it's great!
P.S: Keep posting songs to your journal entries!
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SHChamp, Nov 9, 2012
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SHChamp said:
You, my friend, are absolutely brilliant.
Don't tell me, tell all your girl friends

bradd80
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These tips are just SO good, that for the first time I stopped being confused about
women. Because of your posts I can actually stop being confused, understand women
and know how to respond.
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This is exactly what I like to hear. It's self-improvement stories like yours
that make me keep doing what I do.
SHChamp said:
I just broke up with an BPD two months ago and I am completing revamping my view
on girls and my behaviour towards them. I'm definitely going to study everything
written down here and go out there and let it all flow into my game.
Hang in there SHChamp and just remember that

1) It wasn't your fault.
2) Life is short and you shouldn't spend what little time you have here being
tortured by a crazy woman.
3) Time will eventually heal your wounds, but your ex will always be sick.
4) Now it's time that you finally started loving yourself, cut that cancer of a
woman out of your life, and began preparing yourself for the next beautiful
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and healthy woman that will come into your life.

5) Leaving her was the best decision you ever made.
6) I promise you there is a good woman out there for you right now, you
just have to go out there and find her!
BPD, crazy women, and all their red flags will be covered in a future lesson.
For now, just stay strong and take one day at a time. It does eventually get
better, and use this as the motivation you need to become a better man.
SHChamp said:
I also LOVE the journal you're keeping, it shows that this actually works in RL and it
motives me even more to try all this out. Please keep doing what you're doing, it's
helping average guys like me on their path to become a true Don Juan. It's going to
take a lot of work, but I'm definitely going to get there and perhaps even start my own
journal.
Again, keep doing what you're doing, it's great!
P.S: Keep posting songs to your journal entries!
Everything I do here is to help you guys become the best you can be. I want
you to be successful, and i don't want you to go through life wondering
what the heck you are doing wrong.
ALWAYS REMEMBER, LIFE IS SHORT AND IS AN ADVENTURE, SO ENJOY
IT AS MUCH AS YOU CAN WHILE YOU'RE HERE!
I love doing the journal too, it's like watching a movie of my life and I can't
tell you how much I enjoy sharing all the fun stuff as well as the bad times,
I think we can all learn a lot from my mistakes as well as my successes.
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Phrase #4: Maybe or Probably

Dec 24, 2011

"Are you going out with your friends... again!?"

If you think back, generally how did you reply?

What youre communicating by being indifferent and then "speaking" with

1 person likes this.

stephen_dedalus, Sep 17, 2012

Jul 20, 2006

LESSON XII: TEASING GIRLS

Dec 24, 2011

* If she says something dumb, "revoke her talking privileges"

LESSON XIII: USING REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY TO TURN THINGS AROUND

Dec 24, 2011

This is what you do...

LESSON XIV: GETTING WOMEN TO OBSESS OVER YOU

Dec 24, 2011

LESSON XV: CHARM

Dec 24, 2011

The art of attracting people (especially beautiful women) consists of 10%

not even feedback.

The Secret Guide to Being a Don Juan

LESSON XVI: A REMINDER OF JUST HOW EVIL WOMEN CAN BE

Dec 24, 2011

Good motivational and inspiring thread Bradd.

betheman, Sep 19, 2012

*applause* Bravo! Much truth being preached!

Zippapants, Sep 19, 2012

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Good motivational and inspiring thread Bradd.

Dec 24, 2011

mentioned womEn making advances on you earlier in the thread, women

Somebody give this man a sticky!

//The Chronicles of BPH\\ - My Journey from Virgin to Stud

BPH, Sep 21, 2012

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LESSON XVII: TOP 10 SEDUCTION TECHNIQUES OF THE SOVIET SECRET

Dec 24, 2011

LESSON XVII: TOP 10 SEDUCTION TECHNIQUES OF THE SOVIET SECRET SERVICE

so what are they?

Sep 12, 2011

therussian, Nov 6, 2012

A lot of good stuff in here.

Dec 29, 2011

Ok so anyways, let's continue. Here we have an important lesson:

Soviet Seduction Technique #1.

I been really soaking up what this guy has posted.

visit my world: www.thestarsolace.com

Fatal Jay, Nov 8, 2012

Master Don Juan

Oct 26, 2012

Soviet Seduction Technique #2.

Dec 24, 2011

that's because they were mostly lonely and in desperate need of

them. Beautiful women, gentlemen, want a challenge. Always remember

The Secret Guide to Being a Don Juan

You, my friend, are absolutely brilliant.

Don't tell me, tell all your girl friends

Dec 24, 2011

Hang in there SHChamp and just remember that

and healthy woman that will come into your life.

applause Bravo! Much truth being preached!