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The material t
hat was presented was billed as the outer game component to the Blueprint. The o
rganization and scheduling of the event was anything but flawless but the content
more than made up for it.
Day 1: the only speaker was Tim
Day 2: Nathan then Alexander
Day 3: Ozzie then Jeffy
Tim s presentation was mind-blowing. But since it s coming out on DVD, I won t review
it here.
Nathan: 31 years old; 5 8 ; built like a fucking fire hydrant (Alex referred to him
as Robocop and that s about right); has been with RSD for two years. He was my BC
instructor so I have a lotta love for this guy. Shameless Crew Honolulu!
Your Destiny is Becoming Your Own Guru
Pickup Methods
- These systems are linear; logical; masculine models.
- Methods inherently create outcome dependence and therefore expectations.
- For Nathan, PU is a social art form requiring adaptability and creativity.
The epiphany of destiny: Be Whom You re Meant to Be; BWYMTB
My destiny; my path; my legend; my gut Listen to your gut. Your gut is your inter
nal compass. It is never wrong. Have faith in your destiny. Take action with str
ength and courage for your integrity. Nobody cares. No excuses. Don t fail yoursel
f.
Example: You re at a bar with a buddy and 3 girls are standing next to the bar. Th
e reality is, you re single and would love to meet them. The mind trick: I ll approa
ch after this beer; looks like they re having a good conversation and I don t want t
o interrupt them; they might be mean and blow me out; I m not wearing my favorite
shirt
Answer: BWYMTB. Follow your gut and approach.
Perception is Projection. Be a man of integrity. Step the fuck up. Not taking ac
tion on whom you re meant to be is you failing your own destiny. Want to prevent a
midlife crisis? Following your gut is to live a life of no regret.
Cornerstones of Natural Game: Integrity and Dominance
To have integrity you must know your values and follow them 100%. By following y
our values you have core confidence.
To be dominant is to lead and a leader is inherently unreactive. Focus on integr
ity and all else will fall into place. To live a life of integrity is to give va
lue.
Living a life of integrity:
1. Do what you mean; mean what you say.
2. You live a life of total congruence. No hidden agendas.
3. You are emotionally and intellectually honest with people and most importantl
y yourself.
4. You re whom you re meant to be and don t fear people figuring you out. You always p
ut your personality on the line to be judged.
5. People react to you because you have a higher sense of your own integrity. Yo
ur reality is stronger.
6. You set expectations. People know what you re about and what you expect from th
em.
7. You are dominant and not afraid to fight for what s right. You are unreactive t
o superficial and immature emotions.
8. Life is not necessarily easier, but it is because you have direction. Being h
you?
you value?
you want and desire in life?
you want people to say about you when you re dead?
ou. We create experiences that match our beliefs. You must have a delusional bel
ief that everyone is friendly.
Why you are fearful:
We live in a fear induced society. Fear is used to control people.
ticians, the media, corporations, marketers, etc.) want us to have
em. They want us to believe that we are incomplete; we aren t good
es suck; so we will buy their bullshit beliefs and products; so we
ep.
Society (poli
low self-este
enough; our liv
ll be their she
Fear keeps you in the victim role. You blame others for your lack of success. Yo
u don t want to take action; you don t want to step out of your comfort zone. The co
mfort zone has enormous dragging down power.
Failure in the game happens if:
- you view the game as a high-risk adventure; you have approach anxiety
- you don t care about people; you use them; you are needy, desperate
- you are outcome dependent; approval seeking
The only failure is not to learn!
Why you don t push the interaction/escalate
- you re afraid of losing the girl
- self-esteem, ego protection
- fear of rejection
- fear of failure
- signal syndrome
you are waiting for the IOI that never comes
- you give her more value than you give yourself; the pedestal
Fix perception, fix reality
Perception is reality
That super hottie in the corner that you re afraid to approach; may look horrible
in the daylight with no makeup on (or even with makeup); she may have a kid; she
may have one breast; she may have a missing tooth; she may have really bad brea
th, etc. Would any or all of these things lower her value? The Value you give he
r is superficial. You won t know unless you approach. Your frame should be I want h
er but I am not yet attracted. You are screening her.
Look at women as a source of fun, not value. Look at her personality, not her ti
ts and ass.
Classic sarging is for losers: waiting for IOI s; girls get bored or think you are
a dumbass; girl goes to toilet Game Over!
Entitlement
Feel entitled. You don t need a reason to be social, physical. Become the physical
guy. Everything is an IOI.
Unreactive
Disregard a woman s reaction, whether positive or negative. Otherwise you become a
pproval/validation seeker. But reward positive behavior. You lose state because
you need a woman s validation. Draw state from within. Have the strongest frame. O
wn your reality.
Sex
Be playful and friendly. Don t be the horny guy (Ozzie gave an example of one of h
is students getting a boner in the club). Don t be desperate. Don t think about sex
in the club. Women can have sex anytime they want. The less important sex is to
you, the more you will be offered it. The less you need it, the more you are gon
na get. You don t buy meals for starving homeless people. You buy meals for people
who have high status. Erase sex from your mind when interacting with women. But
do lead, be dominant.
State killers
- self evaluation; self doubting; good set vs bad set thinking
- too much time between sets; choding around
- energy state based on performance
- playing to win the game
- every girl has to like me mindset
State killers for players
- I must perform
- I must do right paralysis
- I must be liked; I have to entertain
- PU is a high risk adventure
What to do
- identify state drop early
- stop picking up and start making friends
- don t fight your bad state
Don t objectify women. Look at them as people, not objects. Be playful and friendl
y. Have an I will not be denied frame. Be willing to plow. As Jeffy says; burn your
ships. There is no way home without victory.
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Jeffy
We all know the angry guy from San Fran in Transformations and The Jeffy Show. H
e s in his early 30 s; stands around 5 8 (?); he s growing his mullet back; he s getting a
little pudgy so he s back on the abs program; he s been with RSD for 5 years.
How to Be Ultra Super Awesome and Bang a Shit-Ton of Hot Chicks
What s new since the Jeffy Show (1 years ago)?
He realized when watching the Jeffy show that he was still angry at that time. N
ow he s more relaxed; more congruent; has more simplicity.
I have nothing else to prove to myself. He went from Learning to Doing to Being.
Be unapologetically yourself.
Problem:
You have no passion behind your game.
Traveling adds to your game. Jeff tells a story of teaching a BC in S. Africa. H
e saw homeless men begging for money and they weren t wearing pants. He asks his s
tudent; What the fuck is this? He s not wearing pants! The student replies; Hahaha. T
his isn t America. They can t afford pants. (I m paraphrasing but you get the point).
This puts your life into perspective. [All the RSD guys travel to third world co
untries and they see shit that you wouldn t believe; I know because I ve been to a f
ew myself. Tyler talks about this a lot}.
Success is most likely when it s a necessity.
You re doing yourself a disservice by not going to the hottest venues and not talk
ing to the hottest girls. Don t talk to Comfort Fatties. (Everyone laughs because we
all do this).
Jeffy tells a lot of stories so it s hard to take notes but one in particular whic
h stood out was the newbie in Seattle who banged two girls at the club. Jeffy wi
ngs and fucks one of the girl's friend on the sofa (she's sitting on top of him
and covering the action with her dress. Chodes walk by and do the double take. "
Are they fucking? Nah. Can't be." It's too far out of their reality. Jeffy throw
s her off. She says; "If you're not going to fuck me than buy me a drink!" Wired
rawn you stud!
The RSD Triangle Revisited:
Inner Game, Outer Game and Understanding the Social Matrix
de the triangle is Nimbus.
Plowing
Continue to beam your positive emotions. Don t accept her negative responses. It s e
asier to affect a woman s emotions than the reverse.
Give them a chance to give you a chance.
The point(s) during a PU that could fuck up the PU. You must addr
The Tim
He s been with RSD since 2003.
Before that, he sucked with women. I believe he stands around 5 8 -5 9 .
Tim took a year off to pursue his other love: House music DJ. He went by DJ Timo
thy Marc. He became a celebrity; rock star status; getting laid like a rock star
. Yet from the DJ booth, he could see poor chodes messing up their chances with
girls. When Jeffy went to visit Tim in Australia; Jeffy wrote Tyler; Tim won t come
back.
Why come back T?
- Comfort vs. Growth
- The original Tyler call (the first time he came to teach with RSD).
- Tim had a wonderful girlfriend whom he loved very much.
- But that was Comfort; not Growth. He wanted to grow. He broke up with her to c
ome teach.
- The true characters he meets every weekend teaching are some of the coolest gu
ys he s ever met.
- Little man deluxe: the little Asian guy
- Porn Star: 56 year old, overweight guy with a porn star mustache
- Virginia: the real life 40 year old virgin
- Atari King: the point was that he saw these characters lives change.
(RSD gives funny nicknames to their clients and bootcamps)
There was also the sad letter he received from his cousin (?). The cousin s girlfr
iend dumped him. Dear Tim I am in a really bad situation and devastated right now
Tim realized that he had unfinished business with RSD. He needs to help more men
become successful with women.
Tim Vision:
Image of a guy Lording the Club. Smash the chode. Lord it up consistently.
Whooooshhhh!
Jeffy and Tim together. Tim picks up a girl. Jeffy says; Whooooshhhh!
PU has changed. PU used to be one person talking, then the next; repeat. Whoooos
hhhh is the sound PU makes now.
3 Core Components
1. Flawless Attitude
2. Flawless Method
3. Flawless Ecosystem
The Flawless Natural
- My personal world view, fresh formulas
- Represents the cutting edge in dating technology
- Built from the field
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- Take what resonates with you today
Hit the Reset
button
- Core Purpose
- The Golden Touch
- The Assumptions of Glory
Core Purpose
1. The Blueprint Woman
vision of the perfect girl
2. 10 Reasons why you want this: start writing these down.
NOTICE: Are these self-centered reasons? Or are they for BOTH of you? Your reaso
ns should be for BOTH of you.
This girl wants to go on a ride. I m the ride.
3. Analysis
Giving or Taking value. If your reasons were all self-centered, you ar
e taking value!
Purpose
- Let the reasons fuel you
- Picking up a girl is a celebration of you and her
- She gets just as much out of it as you do
- The JMAN and Cassie story (sorry, don t remember this)
- WARNING: Never lose touch with your purpose
The Golden Touch
- Good nights vs. Bad nights: Learn equally from BOTH. Look at it with indiffere
nce
- Your Ruining Everything (no notes)
- It is just a skill set lesson learned
- Adopting a delusional sense of coolness
As far as I m concerned, I m the coolest mo
thafucker on the planet! This is your mantra
- Easily excitable (chariot) Chariot was T s shitty car. (Trust me, he was driving
a shitty car).
- The Weekend Crew This was Tim s crew Down Under. It s a self-amusement tactic; You
weren t creepy enough. Get your creep on. Be so persistent.
Assumptions of Glory!
Most pickup theory: the girl has higher value than the man. You use tactics & te
chniques to lower her value and raise yours.
Flawless Naturals ASSUME EQUAL VALUE.
Oblivious Dicklead man story of persistence
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Permission: Give yourself permission
- To be cool
- To be a natural; Hey! Come here. I want to talk to you!
- To be Superfly Deluxe
Just Tim thanks
chode story of Tim with a woman (cashier or something). She asked w
hat s your name? He says it with no confidence. She busts him. He should say; Hey! I m
Tim! Be THE Tim! (Again I m paraphrasing and probably messed the story up).
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Mental Wooo!
- Quiet little smile inside
- How can I make this fun? This IS KEY! Your mind will give you options
- Zach on the plane story: (no notes)
- Self amusement is KEY
- Concentrate on the feelings inside your body
- Going First
NLP concept; they feel your emotion
- Player not Spectator: Overwhelm the venue; not the other way around. Tight gam
e will turn others into spectators.
Tools to Generate WOOO!
- My personal vault of tools
- Make your own!
- Dickhold chicken: He holds his dick and walks like a chicken towards a set unt
il one sees him; then he stands up straight and pretends everything is fine. Rep
eat. It s ridiculous but it s self-amusement.
- Lording: It s LORDING time!
- Songs
- Anything that gets you ACTING as opposed to NOTHING
- Self amusing
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- Cyclone of Glory!
Approach a set; ask if they ve seen the Cyclone; then spin
Low Frequency Mindset: What s my opener? Linear. Outcome oriented.
High Frequency Mindset: WOOO! Curvy mess. Non-linear.
WOOO! Frequency threshold: 20 minutes. Be in WOOO! For 20 minutes and you re in WO
OO all night!!! State Butterfly Effect. Ride the Wooo wave. Being the Chode is a
lso a butterfly effect.
Lid off your TRUE CORE
Your true Core has a purpose.
A vision of self: close your eyes; imagine no roof over your head; no ground und
er your feet. That is the core you; a cool dude.
You see the Hottie. Your gut, your core says; Yep, I want that.
Then your brain comes up with a million reasons for failure.
Ride the core wave.
Let your core lead.
Spontaneous Lovestriking
- Visualization
- Ride the core wave of Oh, there she is.
- Masculine vs. Feminine = Attraction. Women need certainty. She must be certain
that you re a MAN.
- Connect to your true male CORE
- The King Leer
story of the guy who would leer at women. Then he lost it. Cherish
girlfriend
- Use the energy to FUEL your approach (not destroy it)
communicating congruentl
y from the core.
- Why would she need it to feel spontaneous? To feel the masculine spike. BOOM!
You see her. This is for me.
Your Intent is to be FELT
- You feel dangerous to her from the word
Hey.
Dance Floor
- Spin and in
Remember the basics! WOOO! + Intent
Russian Fury Tim pulled a Russian girl not knowing she belonged to the Russian m
ob and they were looking for her.
I choose you.
I will pursue you harder
than any man on the planet. You can say this or show it.
Presentation of Dominance
Create instant spectators with vocal projection. Destroy the default limiter on
vocals. Talk through her; not to her.
Have a wide Animation Range.
Getting Physical
- The purposeless hand of doom kino with no purpose
- The hovering hand of doom
- Scottish Girl: Hello! Are you English?
No I m Scottish. Then purposeful claw. Wait. I
t s me and you tonight.
- Happens naturally through your intent
the wooo negates any resistance on her p
art
- Instead of What do I do?
The Irish BC student talking to a girl turns to look at
Tim and shrugs his shoulders. Tim gets angry. Instead of What do I do? Ask; What d
o I want? Have a purpose. Look at her lips 40%.
- The Claw and Keylock of Glory
Keylock is holding her same-side hand behind her bac
more intent
- 12, 12:30, 2 Shift to intent and less Wooo. Time to go. Don t want to go? Ok, le
t s go eat.
- Be cool with the silences
Harmony Win/Win
- With the combination above you should be in a situation where when you say let s
go to the girl
she actually goes Yay!
- You both win. She has a champ, you have a honey
- The House analogy
Putting up walls. If one falls, do you give up? Fix it? Or s
it and analyze the situation? Persistence; man up. She wins when you persist. Sh
e sees a man.
Flawless Ecosystem
To seek to become natural with women is to deny that you are already in fact, a na
tural.
Welcome to the end. Hope this is helpful.