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Why Life Hacks Dont Work If You Dont Get Your Shit Together First
This one is extremely powerful and also a bit manipulative especially if the person is suggestive. So use
it with your own responsibility and in an ethical way. Getting a positive response from someone is
usually what we want. Whether it is making a sale, or promoting a viewpoint, we always want people
to get on board. Nodding while you try to deliver your message is a powerful way to get the person to
agree with you. People usually like mimicking, so they will most probably nod back while you talk.
This will subsequently communicate to their brains that they have to agree with you.
talk really fast, but this subcommunicates neediness and nervousness. A well-placed pause
can create tension that makes your words have more gravitas.
Tone and Inflection: No one finds monotone exciting. Switch up your tone of
voice from deep for declarative statements, to high inflection when you want to leave them
guessing.
Paint pictures and compose symphonies in their mind with sensory details:
When telling a story, take the person youre talking to on an emotional journey by
describing the colors, sounds, textures, tastes, smells, and how they made you feel. This will
cause their mirror-neurons to fire off, making it easier for them to imagine actually being
there with you.
So if you want to be memorable, focus on the emotion behind the words. People may forget what you
say, but they will never forget how you make them feel.
I dont really feel the need to elaborate on this one. Obviously these words do not evoke confidence
and the other person will most probably not take you seriously. Change them to I know and I will
instead.
(You can mirror this and show disappointment if somebody lets you down, making them painfully
aware of their hurtful actions.)