Chinese Girl Confessions: Sex and Love, Asian Style
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Chinese Girl Confessions details Chinese women's dating and sex lives and romantic and sexual turn-ons and turn-offs, including direct advice for foreign men marrying or bedding Chinese girls.
Angelina Zhang describes Chinese dating standards and desires for both men and women, typical dating and sex rituals, attitudes toward foreigners, and ways foreign men can use China's dating peculiarities for their own benefit.
Chinese girls aren't all Suzie Wong sexpots, but they're not as prim and proper as they may seem. The truth is a lot more interesting.
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Chinese Girl Confessions - Angelina Zhang
Chinese girls don’t have sex, or do we?
CHINESE GIRLS ARE HOT. Hot like hot, my friends tell me, and also hot like popular. Everyone is curious about us.
Have you wondered? What we look for in a man? What we like in bed? If we even get in bed?
When you’ve seen cute Chinese girls on TV, on campus, at the airport, at Starbucks, wherever, have you ever thought about their private lives? What the truth is, somewhere between prim and proper studious good girls and hyper-sexualized-geisha-style?
Chinese girls are portrayed as quiet, demure, subservient, and sexless. That’s not true. We can be and maybe still are quiet, and depending how you define it, demure. We know when to act subservient, but you shouldn’t take that at face value. And we put on a good show of being sexless. But like many aspects of Chinese society and culture, reality isn’t exactly like surface appearance.
You can use this book to learn about how Chinese and Asian girls really are. Maybe it’s because you’re curious. Or maybe it’s because you’re dating or want to date a Chinese girl, in the United States or in Europe or even in China. There’s nothing wrong with that. We certainly have our attractions. Or maybe you wonder why your husband is so intrigued with that Chinese girl in his office, and you want to know more about us. I’ll talk not just about myself and my sex life, but talk about Chinese girls in general, in ways that can help you.
Not many people know about my sex life—in fact, nobody who wasn’t there when I was doing it would know about it. I don’t talk about it casually. Even among us Chinese girls, in our dorm rooms, at tea gatherings, we don’t talk about this stuff. It stays hidden. We all assume one another to have sex lives, maybe even vibrant ones, but each one of us individually pretends that she’s the chaste one, and it’s her friends that are rolling around Shanghai hotel room bed threesomes with well-endowed foreign guys.
I’m here to tell you the private things, the dirty details, everything that Chinese girls don’t even tell one another. Why? To help you, to get rid of a lack of understanding out there in the world, and also to satisfy my thus far in life stunted desire to talk about Chinese girls’ sex lives!
Too often, I’ve bitten my tongue when people talk about Chinese girls and sex in front of me. In a lunch conversation, a white coworker might mention vibrators, and give me a look of you probably don’t even know what that is, you innocent Chinese girl. And I want to say, I know full well enough, but I get enough of the real thing. And instead I just give a clueless, quizzical, and very very innocent look, as we Chinese girls do.
I confess to everything. If I just wanted to confess, I might as well write it in a private diary. I’m writing a book rather than a private diary not only to satisfy my slight exhibitionist desire, which I do admit I have, but also so at least my experiences and my retelling of them can benefit my readers. I guess we Chinese people always think of practical benefits. For every dollar spent or minute of effort expended, we want to know what we’ll get in return. So what will you get from this book? It won’t help you scrub your sink or cure your back pain, but it does have a lot to teach you. So here’s what you can get from this book, and the questions it can answer:
What happens in Chinese and Asian girls’ private sex lives?
How can I meet and attract a Chinese girl, if I’m not even Asian?
What can I expect from dating and bedding Chinese girls?
What attracts men to Chinese girls? Can other girls learn from this?
Are our vaginas really slanted?
I can answer the last question right away. The answer is, of course, yes! Our pussies are slanted into the ever-seductive horizontal position. It drives men wild. Boys, you haven’t lived until you’ve experienced a slanted China vagina.
Of course, everything I tell you is true. And when it’s not, I hope that you’re smart enough to know it. I do intend for this book to be educational, especially about the first four topics, even if not about the fifth. I hope I can demystify and illustrate some of the unique dynamics of Asian girls, especially Chinese girls, for all interested parties—which includes both men and women.
If you’re wondering How can I get a Chinese girlfriend? this is your book. If you wonder How can I get with a guy who wants a Chinese girlfriend? this is your book. If you want to know How can I keep my husband from leaving me for a Chinese girlfriend? then also this is your book. If you’re wondering How can I shave Chinese characters into my pubic hair? then this is probably not your book. But you can write your own.
What makes a Chinese girl Chinese?
DO YOU THINK I CAN’T really be a Chinese girl, with such a dirty mouth? Maybe you suspect that by Chinese girl, I mean that I’m an American who was born in, say, New Mexico, but whose great great grandparents came from China to build the railroads. Or that I’m from Singapore or Malaysia or some other Asian country that’s only partially Chinese. Nope. I’m the realest of the real Chinese girl, born in Shanghai, (People’s Republic
of) China, 1985. I came to the United States in 2008, to attend business school, and also to follow my then-boyfriend, a white American guy. I’ve lived in America since then.
With there being 700 million women and girls in China, there is going to be variation. Obviously. You’d be crazy if you expected all 700 million of us to be exactly the same. But actually, there is much, much less variation among Chinese people's mentalities than a Westerner might expect.
Having met women from many countries in the world, I would say that women in China resemble one another more than women in any other country I can