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I was raised also Christian Indian and I know how the church thinks
about being gay, and all of that. Growing up being gay was a real struggle
for me, cause I couldnt identify with my true self and identify with my
true feelings. So it was a big struggle, because my family were mostly
Christian people, and it was hard to come out to them and let them
know. Because my mother was real strict about church.
I:
How was your church growing up, when it came to two-spirited or gay
native people? How were they?
R:
Well, to me, on that question right there, its like discriminating, its like
being judgmental. And to me, if youre gonna be a Christian person,
then you dont need to be judgmental. You need to hone your faith, you
need to pray. If youre gonna be a churchly person, you dont need to
be playin with fate. Just sit up there and be humble, and not judge
people. Yes, yes. Theres a lot of em, at first there was a point when I
sat in church and I heard a lot of em preach about homosexuality, and
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HIV, this is wrong, this is not right. And then there was a few pastors
that I seen growin up same age as me, but theyre preachin about it,
its like oh my God, what are you doin, we used to do this and the other,
and youre sittin up there like youre a holy righteous man and you never
do nothin wrong. Let me tell you a little dark secret, but I didnt
say anything.
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The people that you work with, what kind of reactions have they experienced from family, or their tribal peoples?
R:
Well. Again, in [Kansas City] itself, I think a lot of the elders dont wanna
have anything to do with ya, if youre gay, if youre a two-spirited person.
In that were sittin right smack in the middle of the Bible Belt.
I:
Right.
R:
And they dont wanna have anything to do with two-spirited people, and
with people with illness. And theyre urban Indians, I think. And so a lot
of the people dont wanna tell their family. And theyre very secretive
about it. And its a very small group. And its hard to break that, I think.
I:
Yeah.
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R:
Because they dont wanna be rejected, and theyre afraid of what people
will say about em. And to them. And when their church they belong to
finds out they have AIDS or HIV and that theyre gay, then theyre
shunned by the church even.
I:
R:
I:
Yeah.
R:
I think they have one native church that I know of. And their elders are
very set in their ways also. And so our two-spirit group cant come out.
We tried to come out to the elders a couple years ago, and the elders
were very much against it, and were very mean-spirited.
Attitudes of exclusion for the openly gay and gender different were the
normal experience for most Two-Spirit men. The men felt as if they were
given a choice; in order to participate in their tribal social practices they
must either keep their sexual desires and gender expression a secret or be
publicly out and be excluded. I collected countless stories about, and
witnessed first hand, what happened to those who decided to be openly
gay and gender different. Two-Spirit mens accounts involved the public
denial of the right to participate in a ceremony or event, such as being
asked to leave or being disqualified from a competition dance at a
powwow. Other hostilities included antagonistic comments directed at
Two-Spirit men, anti-gay jokes made by event emcees, intense staring,
whispering and laughing. Open hostility acted to reinforce inequalities of
sexuality, but fear was the greatest disciplinarian of Two-Spirit sexual
identity. To avoid being publicly rebuked most men took their denial from
social participation as a given and chose not to openly challenge Native
opposition to same-sex relations. They were fully aware that most of their
tribes-people and other Indians viewed their sexuality and their tribal
identity as incompatible.
An Osage Two-Spirit man:
I was so uncomfortable in that role. They made me feel guilty about it [my
sexuality] and they made me feel ashamed . . . I gave it [Native social practices]
up and blocked it out and then once I got into the mainstream gay society I
forgot my traditions. I didnt want to be Indian because when you are two
spirited or gay your whole thing is to fit in. You want to fit in so bad you do
anything to fit in but then you put on being Indian [straight]. I got off the
path, oh yeah.
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deeply held values about the roles of men and women within specific tribal
and ceremonial contexts. Most conservative communities, ceremonial
traditionalist or Christian, have highly regimented and stylized roles for
men and women. In many cases Indian Christian churches gender practices embody a syncretism of ancient practices and Christian teachings. For
example, the Seminole Baptists practice gender segregation during church
services, which is also present in men and womens different roles in the
ancient Seminole practice of Stomp Dance (Schultz, 1999: 839). Among
Native cultures with strict ceremonial and social sex segregation western
derived sex/gender essentialism was easily adopted. Contemporary
communities who practice essentialized forms of gender segregation do
not recognize roles falling outside the boundaries of male and female
bodies. Inevitably someone reading this article will be able to cite an
exception from their family, tribe, or someone they know, but after
almost a decade of research and participation I have only seen one instance
of a Two-Spirit person participating in a designated mixed gender role
within their own tribal social practices. A male to female transgender
Lakota states:
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The gender essentialism and preference for representations of heterosexuality generate a hostility that does not require any direct action by
cultural conservatives. That is, Two-Spirit men are brought into line with
their fellow tribes-peoples expectations without the use of direct denial.
Two-Spirit men know from being raised around the expectations of their
families and tribal societies that they must hide their sexual orientation
and gender difference by participating as heterosexual men or remove
themselves from social practices altogether. Two-Spirit men are raised to
know that certain positions within the social organization are important,
such as war dance leader, sweat lodge pourer, head singer, head man
dancer, ceremonial chief, chief of the tribe, council member, preacher,
liturgical minister and hundreds of other roles depending on the tribe.
They also know that none of these roles are available to men who do not
meet the discursive requirements set out by a social structure that emphasizes sex/gender essentialism and heterosexuality. Therefore, they are
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socialized within their families and local cultures to know that these
opportunities lie outside of the realm of possibility for a man who desires
other men. What is more devastating to the men discussed here is that the
fulfillment of these roles has been emphasized as a cultural obligation
throughout their lives. Among culturally conservative Indians not meeting
ones obligations is an embarrassment to yourself and your family. According to a Denver group member certain people have gone to great lengths
to avoid being shamed out by a gay relative:
I:
R:
They say If you want to engage in gay activity take it out of this
community. Theres homophobia alive and well on many native reservation communities. To this day, I have friends who have been taken to
the edge of the reserve and said, once they come out, dont come back.
You have no family here, you have no community. And theyve been
taken to the other community.
I:
R:
The families, the friends, they say you are no longer welcome here: If
you wanna engage in that kind of activity, there are places . . . the big
cities. Thats where you go do it. Here, we do not condone that type of
activity. We will not tolerate that kind of activity.
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collected many similar stories, where men chose, when they could, to meld
into the social background for fear of being outed and shaming their
families. The conflict between ones sexuality and obligation to family was
particularly difficult for Two-Spirit men. Choosing to reduce ones participation for fear of hostility and shame meant that a person was not
meeting their obligations to family and community. Involvement in a
culturally conservative community usually involved taking on responsibilities and roles with the goal of cultural survival. To not take on those
roles jeopardized cultural transmission but also ones family status.
A heterofocused structure also alienates Two-Spirit men from social
practices they are taught to be integral to their identity. For example, a
Lakota boy will be told that the humblecha (vision quest) is an integral
part of being a man. But according to many of the Lakota men I spoke
with, the vision quest no longer includes the possibility of winkte (the
Lakota mixed gender status) visions or the realization of a winkte identity
as a result of the ceremony. Some men have chosen not to participate in
the humblecha out of fear of having a winkte vision and reporting it to
the medicine person that interprets ones visions. This example will no
doubt be challenged by those who claim that there are winkte sympathetic
medicine men. Even so, if there are medicine people sympathetic to
winktes, the roles for the winkte only reside in microsociological ceremonial communities not within broader Lakota society. The fear was real
enough for the men I interviewed for them not to fulfill their religious
obligation. One Lakota man who went on a humblecha as a teenager and
had a winkte vision said that he drank alcohol excessively to avoid the obligations set out in his vision. Being drunk, he said, was the only way to
fight the urge to fulfill his calling. When I asked why he did not return to
his community he replied that it would be too much of a fight to be a
real winkte there. It has changed; what a winkte means. What would I do?
Theres no ceremonies for me. Its just too dangerous for me, for my
family; who dont even want me there anyway.
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energy into making their regalia and practicing womens dance steps. The
goal is to accurately represent womens role in the powwow. Not all TwoSpirit men are called to switch roles in the powwow, but everyone participates to some degree in the re-gendering of the powwow: men will
dance with each other in couples dances, a same-sex couple will give
away items as a family in symbolic honoring exchanges and a male-bodied
veteran in womens regalia will carry in the American flag in the Grand
Entry. Two-Spirit men will tell you that these acts are not designed to
create hostility between them and heterofocused Natives, rather they view
these acts as making a compromise between their identity and the practices that they hold dear. The goal of these acts is not to overthrow Native
cultural values, but rather to make room for Two-Spirit identity; to
diminish the discrimination against their sexuality through the reassociation of gender diversity with specific cultural forms intelligible by
non-gay cultural conservatives.
One of the most important aspects of reassociating sexual and gender
diversity with traditional practices is the performance of culturally conservative practices in the presence of non-gay traditionalists. By inviting
open-minded non-gay traditionalists to Two-Spirit events the men
attempt to build supportive networks outside of the Two-Spirit
community. The men hope that non-gay supporters would expedite their
access to tribal and local community social practices and activities. The
support of important cultural conservatives could ensure ones unquestioned access to important social events. Besides making social
contacts, actively constructing supportive networks among cultural
conservatives is crucial for two additional reasons: first, the presence of
traditionalists at Two-Spirit events allows men to reorient their sexuality
with culturally conservative social practices in the presence of non-gay
traditional Natives, and second, Two-Spirit men believe that if cultural
conservatives witness Two-Spirit mens commitment to traditional practices they will be more likely to support Two-Spirit inclusion into social
practices and positions of cultural authority.
Over the course of my fieldwork I observed that the overwhelming
majority of non-gay Native supporters of Two-Spirit people were
traditional minded cultural conservatives. Non-gay Native supporters
were usually friends of Two-Spirit men and family members. Non-gay
supporters would show their encouragement by participating in TwoSpirit powwows, conducting ceremonies for Two-Spirit people, and
teaching society members traditional practices. The presence of high status
non-gay Indians helped legitimate Two-Spirit social practices, but also as
one Kiowa told me, them being here lets us know we are doing things
right and that shows them that we are who we say we are; those people
will help us return to our place in the tribe.
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Most of the men who are called to dress as women at the Two-Spirit
powwow dress in womens traditional cloth or buckskin. This category
of dress is considered the most traditional, and is thought of as the
essential expression of Native cultural conservative femininity. This
category requires items that must be made by the dancer, made for the
dancer by family or friends or purchased from an artisan. Some key
elements are buckskin or wool broadcloth dress, beaded belt, beaded
moccasins, an eagle or hawk feather fan, and a shawl. All of these items
are judged for their adherence to the traditions of the category and their
quality. It is assumed that Two-Spirit men will not prove their adherence
to conservative cultural forms by showing up in shabby regalia to borrow
one Osages words. Therefore, Two-Spirit men put themselves under an
enormous amount of pressure to ensure the intelligibility of their
performances, and that these performances are considered on a par with
non-Two-Spirit community contexts. A Two-Spirit powwow, dance
regalia or ceremony must be exemplary in its execution and presentation
for it to do its work; for non-gay Indians to make the proper associations.
Over the course of 10 years of fieldwork I have seen the participation
of Two-Spirit supporters increase dramatically, especially at Two-Spirit
powwows. The Oklahoma group holds a powwow every year in early
summer. I was at the first powwow in 1998 where fewer than 10 people
dressed in regalia and there were no non-gay cultural conservatives
present. At this same powwow in 2007 there were over 40 people dressed
in regalia, a third of which were men dressed in female regalia. At the
2007 powwow at least half of all participants were non-gay cultural
conservatives there to support Two-Spirit people. One Lakota man who
lives as a woman and dressed in female regalia accounts for this difference:
We have shown the people we are truly traditional and that we can
contribute to the community. A Cherokee gay man added, We have also
seen who is truly traditional among our communities. Traditionalists
support us because they know our role was part of the past.
The statement that I most often heard from non-gay traditionalist
supporters was that they were pleasantly surprised by Two-Spirit mens
traditionalism. One Kiowa woman told me, Before I came here [TwoSpirit powwow] I was worried that they were going to be doing things
wrong, ya know being more gay than Indian. But these are traditional
people. I feel good about supporting them. For Two-Spirit men statements such as this prove that they are doing things right. But the impacts
of their efforts are more important outside of the Two-Spirit community.
Inevitably Two-Spirit men desire to participate as Two-Spirit people
within their tribal and local Native communities. This has occurred with
mixed results. Cultural conservatives who have witnessed Two-Spirits
adherence to traditionalism are more willing to invite them to their
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desire with contemporary social practices. This process includes challenging heteronormative ideologies, but has as its priority the maintenance of
cultural conservative practices. They are fully aware that the cultural logic
that once included a discursive space for their sexual preference and
gender expression remains intact.
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Biographical Note
Brian Joseph Gilley is an associate professor of anthropology and the director of
the program in US Ethnic Studies at the University of Vermont. He is the
author of Becoming Two-Spirit from the University of Nebraska Press and
co-editor of Critical Interventions in Queer Indigenous Studies from the
University of Arizona Press. Address: Dept Anthropology, University of
Vermont, 72 University Place, Burlington, VT 05405. [email: bgilley@uvm.edu]
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