a problem if one form of escalation lags behind for a while. Just keep escalating.

Different forms of escalation can fit different situations.

However, theres a limit and if one kind o
f escalation gets too much attention it can get weird (goes back to the Value &
Comfort thing).
To what extent am I acting through my own purpose and intentions? Ask yourself if
youre saying the
things you want to say, or the things you think she wants to hear. As soon as you
micromanage what
youre saying and think ahead based on what you think she wants to hear, youll be
less charismatic and smooth, and youll start to show bad little mannerisms. So
whenever youre thinking about what to say to please her, block those thoughts
and shift the topic to something irrelevant or even opposite to that.
If you notice you are saying something that bores you, even when its technically
better to finish it, its
actually best to cut it off and switch to somet
hing that youre engaged in at that moment. Even when the technical game is less
good that way, your attitude is better, so more congruent and confident. Thats
more important than the content of what youre saying.
Tylers old list of 25 things you shouldnt do, showed that its generally better to
focus on what you should do than what you shouldnt do. Thinking about what you
shouldnt do makes you nervous and
insecure.
Most sets that are lost, are lost because something wasnt according to these 3 mo
dels (Value & Comfort, Social Capital, Acting Through Purpose.).
A noobish 4th model is, part of Acting Through Purpose actually, is: Am I man
-to-woman enough, am I escalating. Escalation should be a foregone conclusion but
it can be something to keep in mind when
youre starting out.
If you do these things properly, its actually hard to fuck up a set. That being said,
its not so easy to do
these things properly, hence practice. Also, these models can help you to analyze
sets and check what went well and how to repeat that, or what went wrong and how
to avoid that and/or correct it.
Open
Keep the closingpart in mind. Theres a difference between good and effective game. A lot of guys
might
be good at spiking emotion and getting buying
temperature up, but they dont get laid. This is because
they start off with a bad premise of the girl being on a pedestal and they needing to
be entertaining and amazing enough to get her. The worst opener can work, what
you open with content-wise doesn
t matter. What does matter:
- That you are loud enough to get her attention. Be a bit louder than necessary. Your vibe is very important. - What you say immediately after the open.
Being quiet instead of loud seems creepy, because it indicates youre

afraid of others hearing it. That fear subcommunicates youre doing something wrong/weird/creepy in your opinion. Being a
bit loud
(clearly perceivable)
indicates that what youre doing is fine, normal, acceptable.
Direct vs. Indirect philosophy of opening.
Direct: Hey youre cute I wanted to talk to you, who are you? More direct: Hey
youre fucking hot, I want you., this can work too.
Physicality on the open is also very direct.
Indirect: Hey I need your opinion on something or Wow the music here is really
good, etc. Basically indirect is something thats not about you and her or sex.
Go as direct as you can get away with, but no more than that. Too direct means
youre too obvious and
asking for too much compliance and she may feel slutty. But being as direct as
possible makes the following steps easier, because the transition to sexuality and
escalation is smaller. For this reason, also try to be physical from the open if you
can.
When it comes to opinion openers: Use the opinion opener (He
y real quick, I need your opinion on
something or Hey, I need you for a second) to get the girl to stop and as a
premise for the
conversation, but then transition to what you actually want to say. Being direct
saves time. Spending less time on the dif
ferent steps is better because at some point youll
run out. Friends will come and try to take her away, the club closes, etc. The more
direct you are, the more intense
and exciting
the situation is. A more intense interaction is harder for the girl to leave. More
intensity means less easily distracted. The more intense the environment, the
better it is to get physical quickly
so you can trump the
environments intensity
. In such an environment (like a nightclub), being physical is also more accepted so
youll get away with it much easier. Physicality is also an important/necessary part
of communication in that environment because verbal communication is harder to
do. Also, theres already more physical arousal for a girl so you should start
higher in
that energy already.
In a loud club, theres more urgency and loudness and youre competing with the
environment. Because of the environment, youre getting a relatively low amount of
successful opens, similar to when youre
very direct. So you might as well be very direct anyway and save time. So be direct
in your statements, be physical, and be persistent. In daygame, it will often be
much less acceptable to open very physical and also much less necessary because
verbal communication is much more possible and usable. Daygame will probably be

a bit more gradual anyway. Persistence on the open is very important, especially
with the hottest girls and tough environments.
Dont
be a broken record, vary your angles.
Infield example: Hey! *girls have jumpscare* Wow wow hold on, that was a bit
extreme, lets try that again. Hi, Im...
Usually with the hot girls you wont have a great open from the first word you say.
But by being
persistent and doing a secondary opener, the reaction will probably be a lot better.
Example: Girls first words on the open were Youre too short for me, thats a
dealbreaker, sorry. Yet Todd ended up sleeping with her. His reaction (deliberate
misinterpretation): Too short for what? Oh thats so sweet but I just wanted to talk.
I dont want to get physical/sexual yet, youre so silly. etc.
You should realize that the initial resistance is not about you but because of
bullshit societal constructs, causing her to react the way she does. So push through
that