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Top ten activities for developing and improving your childs speech and language
skills
There are many simple activities that you can do with your child to develop their speech and language skills.
1. Be a good model speak clearly and slowly and face your child when speaking. If your child says a word or sentence incorrectly, rather than correct
them or ask them to repeat it, just say the word / sentence back to them correctly to show you have understood. This way your child always hears the
correct version. This is how children learn language.
2. Remember your language level dont use words or sentences that your child will not understand. Speak to them using language they can
understand, and explain any new words.
3. Make time to sit down with your child even if it is just for a few minutes a day (although the more one-to-one time the better), spend some quiet
time with your child, away from distractions. Look at a book together and talk about the pictures.
4. Turn off the TV and take out the pacifier/dummy children do not learn language and social skills by watching TV, and new evidence shows that too
much TV watching prior to starting school can affect listening and attention skills, which will impact on their learning once they start school.
5. Observe and comment when you are playing with your child, take a step back, do not feel that you have to fill the silences, just comment on the
things your child is doing so they can here (and learn) the new vocabulary.
6. Let your child lead let your child lead the play, let them be the boss of play. This can build self-confidence and does not put pressure on them to
talk and respond to the adult all the time.
7. Books, books, books books can be used in many ways to develop language and early literacy skills. Evidence shows that children that have more
exposure to books prior to schooling often find it develop early literacy skills earlier.
8. Sing songs and nursery rhymes songs and rhymes contain rhythm and rhyme, skills that help with speech and literacy development.
9. Feed language in, dont force it out comment and expand on your childs words and sentences, rather than asking them to repeat words. If your
child says car, respond with big car or yellow car or fast car. This is how children learn words, by hearing new vocabulary and linking it to the
items or events they are focussing on.
10. Make every opportunity a language learning activity if its a trip to the shops, or bath-time, you can make every activity a language learning
activity. Point to things, name them, sing a nursery rhyme, or ask a question. You dont have to set aside a specific time of day to learn language, every
activity is a language learning activity.
Good modelling
An important aspect of learning speech is listening. A child learns new sounds and words by listening to those around him. This is why it is important to
provide good speech for your child to listen to. Say words clearly and slowly and use plenty of intonation. If your child attempts a word and it is not
pronounced correctly, praise him/her for trying. Do not try and get your child to repeat the word or correct it. Repeat the word back yourself to show you
have understood and to give your child a good version of the word.
To find out more about good modelling and other activities to develop speech and language development go to the Resources Section
Symbolic sounds
These are easy words and sounds to introduce to your young child when they are just starting to attempt some words, or when recognisable words
seem a bit late in their development. Symbolic sounds often sound like, or refer to a sound that is related to the word e.g. moo for a cow, or beep
beep for a car. These are fun sounds that you can incorporate when playing games or looking at books. Symbolic sounds are usually short one
syllable sounds and words that are easy for the child to produce. They encourage vocalization, imitation, and early vocabulary building.
Communication temptations
Often by tempting your child with something motivating you can elicit some speech or a vocalization. For instance, holding onto the biscuit tin, but not
opening it until he vocalizes a request, or only blowing bubbles when you get a vocalization from the child. In the early stages the child does not have
to use the correct words or sentences, but just vocalize or make an approximation of the word. We want the child to learn that he can use his voice as
a tool to initiate and request.
Observation skills
These skills require the child to stop and focus on a particular task. Having a shared focushelps this process. A shared focus means looking at things
together and talking about what you are looking at. The activities mentioned below require your child to focus on a something for a few minutes and
really use their observation skills. These tasks can be done at a table-top as a shared focus activity, or during an everyday activity.
If you think your child has a speech delay or disorder, see our Milestones sections to give you an idea of the normal rate of speech development. If you
continue to be concerned about your childs speech and language development visit your local speech and language therapist / pathologist.
To find out more about activities that you can do with your child to develop their skills go to the Resources Section
One of the biggest things to be aware of when using language around your young child is the level of language you use. This means using words and
sentences that your child can understand and avoiding complicated words, long sentences and difficult instructions. Remember, with young children
just use key words, and if you use a small sentence emphasize the important words. Talk slowly and point to what you are talking about.
Adding language
Adding language is an easy thing to do and can be done in all types of different situations, not just play. You comment on what the child sees,
commentate on what your child is doing, or expand on what they have said e.g.
The child puts a marble under a hat
Adult: youre putting it under the hat
Child: car
Adult: fast car or red car
The environment
The environment in which your child learns also has an impact on how they learn. Try and reduce distractions and background noise TURN OFF THE
TV!!
A busy household with lots of children will be noisy, but allows lots of play opportunities for the young child. However, sometimes you cannot beat some
adult time, and if you get half an hour to have some one-to-one quality time with your young child then make the most of it.
To find out more about ways to encourage speech and language skills during play and everyday activities go to the Child Development Section of the
Resource Centre.
Simple Games
There are lots of simple games you can play and indirectly work on speech and language. Games can played while driving in the car from
Kindergarten, or when you are at the park or in the supermarket. Learning language does not have to be done in a structured environment. Dont forget
when you are playing games to focus on speech and language, you will also be working on social skills, turn-taking, observing, listening and attention,
so its a win win situation.
Toys
Toys are fun and great for involving your child. Even with the simplest toys you can create fun activities and provide lots of situations for learning and
developing speech and language. Imagine building a tower with wooden blocks a simple game, but with loads of opportunities:
Building a tower
Speech and Language opportunities: adjectives (higher, up), verbs (fall down, build), preposition (on-top), nouns (colours, numbers)
Communication and Social skills: turntaking, joint focus, sharing, listening, attending, observing
Here we can see even a simple game with wooden blocks involves all sorts of language and play skills.
Look at books
Books are great for having a shared focus and for learning new words. Books can also play a key part in developing early speech and literacy skills.
There are many ways to use books and the pictures to focus on language. You can focus on books with symbolic sounds for early speech or
storybooks to focus on language. Books are a great way to work on lots of skills and children love them. Look at the books together, name the pictures,
ask questions, and talk about the story.
Role play
Dressing up is great fun and playing different roles will expand your childs imagination. In fact you do not even have to dress up to do role play. Games
involving different characters will allow you to introduce lots of new related language and stretch your childs creative play skills. For instance, if you
pretended to be firemen putting out a fire, think how many related words you could use fire, fireman, fire engine, ladder, water, hose, burning, building,
driving, climbing, up, down, smoke, hat, boots, jackets, save, squirt, bucket, fire out, hero, etc etc etc. Role play is great for expanding your childs
imagination and introducing new vocabulary.
Most types of interaction through play will have a positive effect on speech and language acquisition. The childs social skills will also benefit because
they will be using eye contact, turn-taking and listening skills. By letting your child take the lead in a game, they will gain confidence in communicating
and feel that they are in control, so be relaxed in the communication environment.
Depending on your childs language competence you may want to set a goal for each game, although it is important not to make it too structured
because we want the game to be led by the child. Any goal should be simple and flexible. Language needs to be fed into the game, rather than trying to
encourage the child to say particular words. This means we dont want to be continually saying to the child what is he doing? or what are you doing?
or say running, say running. Children do not learn language this way, children learn language by hearing it first and making associations between the
word and the action. As adults we want to just feed the language in at the appropriate times.
Example of a language role play game:
Bus Driver game: Let your child be a bus driver and you can be the passenger. Set up some chairs for a bus and act the roles. As an example, just look
at all the verbs you might use in this game: steer the bus, press the horn, ring the bell, sit down, pay the driver, drive the bus, find the change, walk
down the aisle. If your child finds a game complicated, you could be the bus driver first and model it for your child, then your child can take a turn and
you add language to the situation.
Music
Music is also a great way to involve your child and can be used in many ways to enhance speech and language. Music is good for getting your child to
listen, and experiencing a shared focus. You can read books and follow music singing the songs as you point to the pictures. Songs also focus on
intonation and stress and have a beat to them which helps with aspects of speech development. These are skills we all use when talking and syllable
awareness is important when learning to talk. Music can be used to enhance language and some songs can be sung involving actions and thus
creating the link between words and actions.