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Vulnerability and
Manipulative Women
Were due for another big post on vulnerability and how it affects
relationships and dating. Got an interesting email last week that I wanted to
answer publicly. And, well, I kind of splurged on this one:
Hi Mark,
I attend a local mens group where we discuss Robert Glovers work on Nice
Guys. A friend of mine recently recommended your book to me and Im
about halfway through it.
I am mostly enjoying your book Models, and I do not wish to prejudge, but I
feel compelled to send you this email right away and get your honest
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I have learned the hard way that women, no matter what they may say, do
not go for Nice Guys or gentlemen, but instead go for the scumbags and the
assholes, etc. I have also learned the hard way that women do not process
logic or think rationally in the same way that men do. The problem that I am
having with your book so far is the issue of Vulnerability.
I am still trying to figure HOW to put this into practice. I am sorry but I
dont think you understand how cruel some women can be. Woman can very
emotional and manipulative liars.
Women, subconsciously or not, do try to impose Shit Tests upon men
especially in this age of fucked up Feminism where the women are searching
for ways to break a mans balls. I think you are totally discounting or
ignoring this in your book.
As for Vulnerability, my experience is that women perceive this as being soft,
weak, a doormat, unmanly, a wuss, needy, etc. I can deal with rejection as
much as it sucks. But in the course of meeting a girl and trying to keep it real,
getting to know her and create attraction, I have problems with the
Vulnerabilty part.
If being Vulnerable with a woman means that I have to expose myself to
humiliation or disrespect or her games or shit tests, then I want no part of it.
I will finish reading your book and write more. I hope to read your response.
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struggle with the most. I wanted to reply to this email publicly because it
runs the gamut of objections and confusion surrounding the subject.
Ill take them one by one:
1. I have learned the hard way that women, no matter what they may say, do
not go for Nice Guys or gentlemen, but instead go for scumbags and
assholes.
Intentionally or not, you are equating Nice Guys with gentlemen here.
The assumption is that any man who is polite is therefore a Nice Guy.
If you recall, in No More Mr. Nice Guy, Dr. Glovers definition of a Nice
Guy is a man who subverts his own will and desires to get people to like him.
One of the points Glover makes is that behavior itself is not necessarily Nice
Guy behavior or attractive behavior, but its the motivation behind it.
For instance, you can forgo all manners and be a complete dick, but if youre
doing it so that other people will like you, then you will also not attract
anyone. Despite opposite behavior, you essentially achieve the same result as
a Nice Guy.
In my own book, I make a very similar assertion: that neediness isnt
determined by what you actually say or do, but the intention behind what
you say or do.
The reason some women (its important to emphasize here not all women,
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The point is that the determining factor of what attracts women is not
whether theyre polite or an asshole. Thats icing on the cake. Its the
2. I have also learned the hard way that women do not process logic or think
rationally in the same way that men do.
PEOPLE do not process logic or think rationally. Not women, humans. I
mean, youve been behaving as a Nice Guy your entire life with little to
nothing to show for it. That wasnt exactly a rational decision, was it? You
consistently chose to get involved with manipulative women. Why? Thats
not very rational either.
Humans, both men and women, are slaves to their emotions and
subconscious itches. Logic only comes into play when we want to justify what
we already feel to ourselves and to others.
Dont believe me? Heres an example that may hit close to home:
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3. I am still trying to figure HOW to put this into practice. I am sorry but I
dont think you understand how cruel some women can be. Woman can very
emotional and manipulative liars.
Oh, really? You think I havent been manipulated or lied to by women
before? Wish I could say I havent, but not true. The way I got here all began
with a manipulative and lying woman.
(And by the way, ANYONE can be cruel, emotional, manipulative and a liar.
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So the friendly way she jokes about your hair is suddenly MANIPULATION.
That honest question about whether you miss your ex sometimes is
MANIPULATION.
That concern that you dont speak to your mother enough is
MANIPULATION.
This is a shitty way to live and a shitty way to date women.
Yes, everyone is manipulative some of the time, and some women are
manipulative a lot of the time. But walking around freaking out that women
are shit-testing you all the time is labeling them all guilty without a trial.
You are choosing to interpret everything women say to you as manipulative
and emotional, and then go around complaining that all women are
manipulative and emotional.
The issue here isnt women. Its you. You dont
trust them.
I want to encourage to stop making
assumptions about people, especially women,
and start taking them by their actions point
blank. You asked earlier what vulnerability
looks like. Well one way to be vulnerable is to
be open about your expectations and values.
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Heres my take on shit tests: Who cares? Shit tests only have power over you
if youre overly concerned about her opinion of you. If youre truly confident
in who you are, then you shouldnt feel the need to prove it to her, especially
some sassy broad you just met.
The point is: If shit tests bother you, its because youre weak.
A strong confident man looks a shit test in the eye and laughs. Shes trying to
fuck with him? Really? How cute. Lets dump her and go find a confident
woman who wont try to fuck with my emotions. Ah, there, thats better.
Im going to wrap this up with a series of examples. As with many of the
examples in the book, the four examples below are a matrix of behavioral
traits. In the first two, the man demonstrates a lack of vulnerability, in the
second two, the man demonstrates vulnerability. In each case, a
manipulative woman and a non-manipulative woman are shown.
Example 1: Non-Vulnerable Man with Manipulative Woman
Him: So after school I actually hitchhiked my way down to San Diego. It was
a little bit crazy and my parents hated it.
Her: Wow, youre pretty irresponsible.
Him: Im as irresponsible as they come. Why, does that intimidate you? *sly
grin*
Her: *laughs* Intimidate me? I dont think you could if you tried.
Him: Keep it up and well find out soon enough.
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douchiness. This type of stuff will turn off non-manipulative women in two
seconds flat. The Nice Guy variation of this would be to avoid the intimate
questions and make some sort of self-deprecating statement, like Haha, I
dont know, I was being stupid. This would be harmless but would kill
attraction and likely lead to the friend zone.
So what have we noticed? A lack of vulnerability turns off non-manipulative
women and gives manipulative women more ammunition to come at us with
drama. Non-manipulative women get tired of us and reject us. Manipulative
women become energized and we have to spar our way into their pants.
So what about an honest, vulnerable approach?
Example 3: Vulnerable Man with Manipulative Woman
Him: So after school I actually hitchhiked my way down to San Diego. It was
a little bit crazy and my parents hated it.
Her: Wow, youre pretty irresponsible.
Him: Not really.
Her: Ditching your family to go and try to be some badass surfer guy. Give
me a break. How self-centered can you be?
Him: Thats a pretty judgmental way to look at it.
Her: I just think its stupid and disrespectful.
Him: Well, its clear our values differ. It was nice meeting you.
Her: Wait, what?
Him: Goodnight.
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date. Ill walk away mid sentence. I dont care. I dont have time for girls who
suck.
The irony here of course, is that manipulative woman cant take this. In their
mind, they just lost and so theyll do anything to get you back. Sometimes
theyll step up their games, call you a dozen times, plead with you for another
chance. But other times theyll straighten up. Often women will apologize
and then never fuck with you again. As soon as they know youre willing to
walk away at any moment, they will not mess with you.
Finally, I should note that I dont hold these standards to look for a soulmate
or anything. Even in casual sex situations, I maintain these standards. And
the paradox is that meeting and dating women actually feels EASIER once
you adopt this mindset. You would naturally think, Oh, that means I have
to meet twice as many women, I have to put in twice as much effort, since
Im rejecting half of the ones who like me.
Actually, you end up putting in far LESS effort, because youre no longer
wasting so much time and energy trying to convince her that youre a cool
guy. Youre not longer exhausting yourself wondering whether she likes you
enough or not, or worry about how to impress her or win her back. When she
doesnt live up to your standards, the situation is made extremely easy for
you: you walk. No thought involved. No arguing. No super witty comebacks.
Just: her behavior doesnt meet my standards, Im going to meet someone
else now.
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Her: Wow, thats pretty extreme. Is there anything that motivated it?
Him: Well, part of it was just classic rebelliousness. But my family is pretty
conservative. And I never felt like I completely fit in. Looking back, it was
obvious that I needed to do something that made me feel independent,
something that gave me my own identity.
Her: Yeah, that makes sense. I think everybody needs to do that to a certain
extent, maybe not in such extreme situations.
Him: Definitely. I had a blast though. I mean, at the time, it felt like I was
about to ruin my life or something, but now I look back and its just a cool
thing I did one summer. *laughs*
Her: Haha, yeah, its funny how things that used to be a big deal when you
were younger arent any more. *laughs*
Him: Yeah, like a first kiss or a first date. *laugh*
Her: Oh totally. I remember my first kiss. We planned it like a week in
advance. My legs were shaking the whole time.
And here is an example of two emotionally mature, non-manipulative adults
who are attracted to each other. I threw in the transition to a sexual subject to
show how easily it can be done once youre already on personal topics. This
is kind of a tangent, but a lot of men who have trouble sexualizing their
conversations are never talking about something that can create sexual
tension.
A big reason for that is that their conversations are shallow. When youre
discussing the weather, the baseball scores, what you majored in in school
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hotel and had sex in an empty conference room it gets very, very easy.
Why? Because youre being vulnerable. Getting involved sexually is an act of
vulnerability, so if youre both already being vulnerable up until that
moment, its just a logical next-step.
But that may be a topic for another day. The point that I hope these
examples drive home is that vulnerability is not weak. Vulnerability involves
setting strong boundaries and then connecting with woman on a meaningful
level.
Psychological research shows that people of similar self-esteem end up
attracted to one another. Research also shows that men and women with
similar beliefs about gender end up together.
What this means is you are who you attract. If you consistently end up with
manipulative, mean women. Then theres something about you that is
manipulative and mean; you just dont see it yet. Robert Glover brilliantly
describes how Nice Guy Syndrome is actually extremely manipulative by
being passive-aggressive. Theres a reason why Nice Guys always end up with
narcissistic drama queens. Theyre good matches. And one must admit that
to themselves.
I walked around for years with the story that my ex-girlfriend totally screwed
me over and fucked me up emotionally. Eventually I was able to admit that
actually I had been a pretty shitty boyfriend, needy and passive-aggressive.
And I wasnt surprised that she left me. That change in narrative changed
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Assholes may get laid, but the quality of the experience is rarely high because
theyre doing it through duping women who are trying to dupe them.
Sex and relationships are best when theyre both consciously agreed upon.
And to be conscious, they have to be manipulation free. Your overall
problem here is easily fixed: set stronger boundaries. Its clear youve been
hurt in the past and are making angry generalizations about women. Its also
clear that you still have this sub-conscious need for these women to approve
of you. And in short: these two things are scaring away the good ones and
continuing to attract the bad ones.
For more info on this topic, check out these posts:
The Fake Alpha Males
The Pain Period
A Note on Vulnerability
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Dear Dave,
You really got me thinking, so I went to Webster
and found the definition of vulnerable. It means
capable of or susceptible to being wounded or hurt,
as by a weapon: 2. open to moral attack, criticism,
temptation, 3. (of a place) open to assault; difficult to
defend.
However, I have to agree with Marks position more
than yours after reading the definition. To me, this
shows vulnerable to be a very powerful thing the
thing I see many men craving above all other things
power. The power to be capable of being hurt, yet
still strong. The power to be open, because your
authentic self is something of value, even when the
other person does not recognize it. The power to be
in a less defensible position, because your inner
strength is capable of handling less than optimal
situations.
Such a man is very attractive. This power, while not
being based on anything superficial, is completely
within a mans control. So a man who might feel he
has less to offer in the way of traditional female
desires (money, power, attractiveness, height, etc)
would be well served to increase his value in this
way.
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Epic.
I found PostMasculine through Alden Tan, and I`m really
glad I did
Dude this is some real, quality wisdom for a fresh
generation of badasses.
I *love* the depth you went into with your multi-example
addressing of his e-mail on a point-by-point basis.
Total respect.
50/swf
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Question isnt really if shit tests exists or not, its a
question of how youre going to deal with women
you meet. You can either deal with them on their
terms try to impress them, try to pass shit tests
or you can deal with them on your terms. I
recommend dealing with them on your terms. The
examples above are why.
Not all women are manipulative, and the best way to
avoid the ones who are is by not being manipulative
yourself. That was the whole point of this article,
which seems to have been lost on you.
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men who are insecure in the realm of shit testing and not
the women. Just admit thats not truewhen men try to pass
these tests, they are in their own way trying to help the
woman.
I just went over your other article about shit testing. You
said and I will quote.
Shit tests only happen when a woman is already very
attracted to you to the point that it makes her
uncomfortable. She eases this comfort by testing you. Its
her sub-conscious saying, Im so into this guy that its
scary. I dont know how trustworthy he is. Here, Ill say
something obnoxious to see if hes for real or not.
Thats being insecure with trusting oneself and another in a
nut-shell.
Later on you advise to even accept her insecurity as
evidenced here.
But if youre unaffected, and if you come back at her with
even more playfulness and ease, if you accept her insecurity
and rest with it, bringing her up to your level with
confidence and care, then youre reaffirming to her that, in
fact, you are a ridiculously hot guy she just met.
So I will ask you one more time Who is the insecure one
here?
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Hmm with the many emails about men saying ALL women
are manipulativeyou could have found a better one
I am sorry but I dont think you understand how cruel
some women can be. Woman can very emotional and
manipulative liars.
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I thought this was an overall good article until I got the part
about how to talk about a sexual subject. I was really
surprised because you seem to understand whats
appropriate and what motivates each gender pretty well.
Why do you feel that talking about sex is necessary? Its not.
In my opinion, thats just as passive-aggressive as the Nice
Guy behavior. It comes across as insecure, like you feel you
need to promote your past experiences or successes.
Im a woman and Im not very familiar with the whole PUA
thing, but from what I do know, Id assume PUA tells guys
to work in some sort of sexual topic into the conversation.
You seem to still be taking plays from their playbook with
this one.
You do not need to talk about sex or anything sexual to
create sexual tension. Sexual tension comes from natural
chemistry, attraction, conversation, and body language, but
not from literally talking about sex.
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Hi Mark,
I just found this site through Psycholocrazy. And even
though its intended for men, Im really fascinated with
what Im finding here. A lot of the basic concepts here apply
to women as well, and seeing a guys perspective is
interesting for me.
I was very moved by this particular paragraph:
What this means is you are who you attract. If you
consistently end up with manipulative, mean women. Then
theres something about you that is manipulative and mean;
you just dont see it yet. Robert Glover brilliantly describes
how Nice Guy Syndrome is actually extremely manipulative
by being passive-aggressive. Theres a reason why Nice Guys
always end up with narcissistic drama queens. Theyre good
matches. And one must admit that to themselves.
The first sentence struck me the most and really opened my
eyes. Maybe this is a little out of place, but lately (maybe
always) Ive seemed to attract needy, clingy, say-I-love-youway-too-fast kind of guys. I had recognized this and just
broke up with a guy I had been dating for 6 months because
I felt that he was putting too much emotion into the
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Thanks.
Ive been quite promiscuous in the past. Ive had
three long-term relationships, 3.5 years, 2 years and
1.5 years (current one) respectively. So yes, Ive met
girls I wanted to stay with. Ive struggled with
commitment issues in the past, and self-esteem
issues as they related to sex (hence the rampant
promiscuity). But yeah, relationships are great.
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Dear James,
As someone who was in a 14 year relationship (8
years married) I can tell you without a doubt that no
matter what the other person does, if you change,
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I love the way how you just walk out on a date hahaha.
Though consider this for a moment. You are on a date with
a girl you genuinely like or find something really special
about her looks which you do not come across often. And
one is genuinely afraid of losing her and where walking out
on a date would simply be faking a i do not give a shit
attitude.
Would your idea of vulnerability apply (not particularly in
this example), by simply admitting to her the that you are
afraid of losing her because you genuinely like her ?
Regardless of she being manipulative or not, shit testing or
not. Or is that one being over invested and needy?
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