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Teaneck that was on the flatbed of a giant truck. It caught our photographers
attention and captivated local children,
but what was its story? We promised to
investigate, and investigate we did.
We spoke to Robert Grunstein, the
man behind the sukkah.
It began innocently enough, with the
decision to this year erect a militarythemed sukkah resembling a barracks
in his back yard. He first discovered
creative sukkah design when he was on
kibbutz in Israel after high school, when
he saw a sukkah made from a stack of
giant bales of hay with tractor wheels as
windows.
That got me thinking, he said,
and he adopted Sukkot as his favorite
holiday. Over the years, his sukkot have
ranged from Oz-themed to a mylarwalled spaceship to, in a year when
Sukkot fell in November on the eve of
Election Day, a polling booth. This years
barracks would have been no big deal,
except he happened to visit a friend
a couple of weeks before the holiday
Hilarious Hebrew
makes vocabulary
a pun-ishing affair
Sometimes, bold educational efforts
require ridiculous measures.
What could be bolder than learning
a foreign language? How to keep all
the new vocabulary words in mind?
How to juggle new nouns, verbs, and
adjectives in an already-brimming
brain?
For those looking to boost
their Hebrew skills, a recent book,
Hilarious Hebrew, has come the
rescue.
It pairs 235 Hebrew words with
bad puns tying together their English
meaning, often illustrated with a
cartoon.
For example: DUDE!!! You totally
fixed my BOILER teaches that the
Hebrew word for boiler is dood.
Or: What a lovely HOUSE! I think
Im going to BUY IT, reminds us that
the Hebrew word for house is bayit.
It was created by two Israelis living
in Brighton, England: Eyal Shavit and
Yael Breuer. The illustrations are by a
non-Israeli Brit, Aubrey Smith.
NOSHES ...............................................................4
LARRY YUDELSON
OPINION ............................................................ 18
CONTENTS
COVER STORY ................................................ 28
OBITUARIES .....................................................41
CLASSIFIEDS .................................................. 42
REAL ESTATE..................................................44
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A model ceremony
for Adi and Bar
A couple of months ago, I noted that reports said that
Israeli supermodel BAR REFAELI, 30, was set to marry
very wealthy Israeli businessman ADI EZRA, 40, after
the high holidays were over. As you might have heard,
they tied the knot on September 24. Heres the essential info: held at the Carmel Forest Spa Resort in Haifa;
300 guests; sheer and sexy bridal gown by Chlo (a
French fashion house founded by the late GABRIELLE
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SHLOMI SHABAT, 61, sang as Refaeli walked down the
aisle; the couple were wed by Rabbi YITZCHAK DOVID
GROSSMAN, 69, a famous rabbi who is a member of
the Chief Rabbinate Council of Israel; the simcha reportedly cost $330K. (I dont know if hors doeuvres were
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Book of Days
Cresskill student Dan Ackerman learns nuances and omissions of spoken German
DAN ACKERMAN
Its a question you get asked a lot, here as
much as back home. For a while, I just told
the story of how I came to study German
in order to jump over the why altogether. I
explained about my having taken only Latin
in high school, about my urge to learn a living
language and study in Europe, about the relative ease with which I imagined an Englishspeaker could pick up German. I explained
about the teacher who inspired me to go further and blamed it all on my universitys German department. I caught myself saying that
Chicago has a historically significant German
population, so the school has really built on
that. Recently, Ive tried answering the question honestly. I read Don DeLillo and decided
I had to learn German before I died.
In German, Anne Frank never wrote
a diary. A diary is a luxury of idle civilization. Its sound is a foreign one that comes
to us from Rome through way of France,
cloaked in connotations of intimacy, privacy, secrecy, of class and frivolity. In German, Anne Frank wrote a Tagebuch. A Tagebuch is a book of days.
July 19, 2013, a reply email from my
mother: Its interesting what you say about
it being sad. I havent been, but how would
you compare it to London, which has more
of that resiliency and keep calm, carry on
thing. Of course, they won.
Of course, its not just that they won.
There is a sense in London that the horror came from without. Paris has the
same sense, whether justified or not, that
outsiders were the danger to be repelled.
The They-tried-to-kill-Us narrative goes
down fairly smoothly. In Berlin, there is an
acknowledgment that the worst destruction
came from within the city, within the country, within the highest levels of the German
cultural establishment. The most depressing chapter in the history of Humboldt
University does not open with the Allied
bombing. It reaches its climax on the 10th
of May, 1933, when professors and students
gather in the foyer of the university, each
with a banned book under his arm, and
march across the street to Franz-Josef-Platz
to hold the largest public book-burning in
Nazi history.
Berlin is full of empty spaces. Wounds
pried open. My tour guide refers to the great
hole in the city center where the Kaiser used
to live as Das Haus, das nicht existiert. I meet
up with my German teacher, my first German teacher from back in Chicago, the one
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Dan Ackerman toured the sites of some of National Socialisms darkest moments during his studies in Germany.
Left, a plate of glass covers the spot where 20,000 books were burned in 1933 by professors and students. Right, a memorial to the murdered Jews of the Holocaust.
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into a verbal Iron Cross, so inextricably associated with Naziism that any tone of innocence is impossible to imagine. Maybe English-attuned ears are simply predisposed to
hear a sinister clang in the bristle of those
jagged consonants against the unfamiliarly
long as. Maybe we would be more sympathetic if Crystal Night were the preferred
English designation.
A professor who taught me Spanish and
Portuguese history asks rhetorically why the
Spanish loan-words with any staying power
in the English language tend to be those
connoting threatening masculinity: guerilla,
machismo, junta.
My mother visits me in Berlin for the
week of my birthday, February 18, 2015.
As the U-Bahn doors close, the automated
warning sounds to please stay back: zurckbleiben, bitte. An episode of Law & Order
flashes through my mothers brain, a Naziin-hiding on trial, a witness, survivor, who
remembers the accused as the kindest guard
on work detail, always says bitte, bitte, until
someone doesnt move fast enough, and its
bitte, bitte and a gunshot. Why the Nazi went
into hiding in the New York County District
is beyond me.
There is no Holocaust Memorial in Berlin. What guidebooks and travel sites refer
to as Berlins Holocaust Memorial is in fact
the Denkmal fr die ermordeten Juden Europas, literally the Memorial for the Murdered
Jews of Europe. The very word Holocaust is
too euphemistic. Of course, the Holocaust
means more than the murders of European
Jews, and the exclusive dedication of this
Americans, I think,
and Jews, and
American Jews,
have a comfort
with irony that
we apply to
great effect in
appropriating the
language of
the Nazis.
main monument to the Jews necessitates the
irregular erection of subsequent mourning
sites for the various other victim groups. Just
past the statue of Goethe in Tiergarten, you
find the Memorial for the Homosexuals Persecuted under National-Socialism. The most
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Jews in America oftentimes fail to recognize antiSemitism when they see it, he said. They blame antiIsrael sentiment on the Israeli government or the settlement policy, and it really has nothing to do with that. On
most of the campuses, protesters cant name the prime
minister or find settlements on a map.
I believe American Jewry is far ahead of the curve in
pro-Jewish feeling but behind the curve when it comes
to recognizing anti-Semitism in anti-Israel sentiment. It
matters, because the students of today will be the policymakers of tomorrow, and we arent finding pro-Israel
voices on campus.
He asserted that Jewish schools are not equipping
students to be that pro-Israel voice, and in fact some of
the most outspoken and misinformed, he would add
critics of Israel are themselves day-school graduates.
There is very little Israeli history being taught in Jewish
high schools. Yeshiva day schools and high schools, and
even Yeshiva University, must immediately implement
rigorous Israeli history classes as distinct from Jewish
history classes in the core curriculum, and not just
advocacy courses.
Our Soldiers Speak offers a curriculum called Israel
in World Relations that is not taught locally now but is
under review by Torah Academy of Bergen County and
SAR High School in Riverdale, N.Y.
Mr. Anthony will speak on Friday night at a dessert
oneg Shabbat at a private home, on Shabbat morning
after main services, and again at the third meal on Shabbat afternoon at the synagogue. He also will introduce
the documentary that night.
Among his other topics will be describing how Israeli
high school graduates prepare mentally and physically
for military service, and analyzing Israeli and diaspora
Jewrys attitudes toward the state of Israel.
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Itzhak Perlman is a violin virtuoso, a brilliant and beloved ambassador for classical music.
His artistry is universally acknowledged, and his personal warmth and
inspirational story the Israeli-born
musician contracted polio when he
was 4, and has overcome it has done
a great deal to make his art form more
accessible.
Mr. Perlman turned 70 in August,
and he is celebrating his birthday (more
accurately, he is being celebrated for
being himself, and his birthday provides
as good an excuse as any) in a series of
concerts and other events.
He will bring his music to bergenPAC
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information about the concert in the box
on this page.)
But Mr. Perlman also has done a great
deal for klezmer, the music that eastern
European Jews played and brought out
with them as they scattered around the
world. Twenty years ago, he played violin on In the Fiddlers House, a CD that
was a crucial part of the klezmer revival,
and this March, to mark that anniversary, he will be part of a tour playing its
music around the country.
The klezmer part of my experience
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I will be speaking,
writing, and working
on research with some
of their scholars, he
added. He will be a
presence at an upcoming conference, both
as a presenter and as a
participant; hell also
take part in INSS conferences in the United
Abe Foxman
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The institute is a
think tank, founded in 2006. According
to its website, it launches and engages in
innovative, relevant, high-quality research
that shapes the public discourse of issues
on Israels national security agenda, and
provides policy analysis and recommendations to decision makers, public leaders, and the strategic community, both in
Israel and abroad.
It is focused primarily on security issues in Israel and on international security issues, Mr. Foxman said. Part of Israels security
issues is the global Jewish community, the diaspora community, and
particularly the American Jewish
community, because we are such
a large part of Israels security
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Israel also believes and legitimately so that as the Jewish state
it has a responsibility to stand
against anti-Semitism around the world.
These are also issues we will be dealing
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The organization is headed by Amos
Yadlin, who is one of the most respected
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The couple have three children: Adam, 35, Rebecca, 32, and
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On his return, he went back to work at a yeshiva in West
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It seems like a
bad omen. The
worlds going
crazy around
us. Everything
seems mad,
bad, and
dangerous
to know.
bear Arms, shall not be infringed.
That part about the well regulated Militia? Clearly a rhetorical
flourish. If the murderer in Oregon
had not had 14 weapons, without
any question the jackbooted black
helmeted thugs in their black helicopters would have been right over
the horizon.
And then theres what seems to
be an explosion of danger and terror in Israel (and some of it is done
with guns, although some murderers use knives, a far more retail
method). Glorification of murder
and evil seems to have led to the
production of men who can shoot
parents dead in the front seat of a
car as their children look on from
the backseat.
Were those gunmen psychotic
because of some flaw in their neurochemistry, or did the culture
in which they grew up somehow
rewire their circuits? Or was it a
combination of those things?
We hope that the latest round of
horror in Israel does not become
a third intifada pundits seem to
think, on the whole, that it will not.
It will just be terror as usual, they
think.
Given the alternative, we hope
that they are right.
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ast Saturday, in the Afghan city of go to war in your land against an enemy who
Kunduz, a hospital run by Doc- oppresses you [in your land]. The second is
tors Without Borders was partially
the commandment not to stand idly by the
destroyed by a U.S. airstrike. Nine- blood of your neighbor (see Leviticus 19:16).
teen people were killed, reportedly including
Since an enemy who oppresses is threatening deadly physical harm to the citizens
three children and 12 hospital personnel. The
of that land, the Rambam apparently sees
hospital since has been abandoned.
According to U.S. and Afghan spokesmen, defending against that enemy as an obligatory war.
the Taliban was using the hospital to fire on
Then again, he simply may have been comAfghan soldiers on the streets outside. Doctors Without Borders, however, denied this. It
ing down on one side of a talmudic debate
called the airstrike a grave violation of inter- regarding whether pre-emptive wars are disnational humanitarian law.
cretionary or obligatory (see
When and where to attack a
BT Sotah 44b). A pre-emptive
civilian target confront all who
war presumably is one in which
engage in war, and especially
there is reasonable certainty the
Israel, which faces an enemy
enemy plans to attack.
that uses civilian targets, includThe Rambam, however, does
ing hospitals and ambulances,
recognize that there is a difference between the Conquest/
as shields for their attacks.
Amalek obligations on the one
This raises the question of
hand and defending against
what Jewish law has to say about
Rabbi
attack on the other. Thus, elsethe rules of engagement.
Shammai
where he describes the defenTo answer this, we first must
sive war as a commanded one
understand the halachic atti- Engelmayer
tude to war in general.
(milchemet mitzvah), and the
Jewish law recognizes two
other two as obligatory (milchamot chovah). Other decisors since then
kinds of legal war: an obligatory one, and
one that is discretionary but has divine sanc- also have made this distinction.
tion. Obviously, this implies a third category
Israel, of course, has a long history of terrorist attacks against it. The United States,
a discretionary war that has no sanction (an
however, had no history of terrorism to speak
illegal war). Deaths that occur in the course
of until the 9/11 attacks, and has never been
of an illegal war are considered murders.
According to the Talmud (see the Babylo- attacked by the Taliban itself, although the
nian Talmud tractate Sotah 44b), Israels con- Talibans ties to Al Qaida are undeniable. It
quest of Canaan was obligatory, while most of
could be argued, then, that halachah would
King Davids wars were discretionary. (At least
insist the U.S. response to terrorism does not
one of his wars, though, may have been ille- include a sanctioned war, but must be limgal. See Sifre to Deuteronomy, Piska 51.)
ited to the laws of the pursuer, namely that
The war against Amalek also was obligatory. one who seeks to cause the death of another
Maimonides, however, expands the category
may be pursued and even killed in order to
to include wars fought to assist Israel from
prevent the planned murder. (See BT Sanhean enemy that attacks it (see Mishneh Torah, drin 73a-74b for a discussion of the pursuer
laws.)
The Laws of Kings and Their Wars, 5:1). He
Collateral damage, in the case of a pursuer,
does not explain his reasoning, but he seems
must be held to the barest minimum, includto have based it on two Torah verses. The
ing the death of noncombatants. Someone
first, Numbers 10:9, recognizes the need to
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who is providing direct help to the
pursuer, even if that someone is a
minor, may be killed, but innocent
casualties are not permitted. Some
property damage may be permitted;
most probably not. This puts the hospital bombing in a negative halachic
light.
However, there is another way of
looking at this. The prophet Ovadiah said this regarding Edom (1:1011): For your violence against your
brother Jacob, shame shall cover you,
and you shall be cut off forever. On
the day that you stood aloof, on the
day that strangers carried away his
wealth, and foreigners entered his
gates, and cast lots upon Jerusalem,
you were like one of them.
In other words, Ovadiah said,
Edom was as guilty as the sackers
of the Kingdom of Israel because it
stood idly by as its neighbors blood
was being shed. Since ISIS, al Qaida,
the Taliban, Hamas, and their ilk are
terrorists, have killed in the past, are
killing now, and clearly intend to continue to kill in the future, they would
be legitimate targets of an obligatory
defensive war, even if the nation conducting such a war was not a direct
target. This may put the hospital
bombing in a different light.
That brings us to the terms of
engagement.
First, the enemy must be offered
a chance to make peace, based on
Deuteronomy 20:10. The Rambam
(MT, Kings, 6:1) rules that this applies
to both obligatory and discretionary
wars, a position that has some support
among talmudic sages (see Leviticus
Rabbah, Parashat Tzav 9), although
most decisors argue it applies only to
discretionary wars.
Second, according to Maimonides,
once an enemy is surrounded, there
must be a way for innocent civilians
and even faint-hearted combatants to
escape. (See MT, Kings, 6:7.) He offers
no suggestion, however, on how such
a rule can be made practical.
Finally, based on Deuteronomy
20:19, there must be a legitimate
reason for any destruction. (See MT
Kings 8 and 10.) Blowing up a building
violates this rule unless it was used as
a staging area for terrorist attacks.
The evidence suggests the hospital was the only building targeted by
the U.S. airstrike. The Afghans insist
the attack was needed because the
hospital was being used to attack
its soldiers. Then again, they may
simply have been wanted the hospital attacked because Taliban fighters were among the patients being
treated.
In war, the first casualty is certainty.
Decency and morality place a close
second.
ho cares?
We do, and we hope both for the future of the
American Jewish community and for the secure
future of Israel as a Jewish democratic state that
you do as well.
And thats because the World Zionist Congress is the only worldwide
parliament of the Jewish people where representation is determined
by neither wealth nor spheres of influence. Even as more and more
pressure is placed on decision makers by those who hold the purse
strings, the World Zionist Congress remains truly representative of
world Jewrys relationship with Israel.
Some considered the first Zionist Congress, which was held in 1897
in Basel, Switzerland, to be no more than a fringe group at the edge of
the organized Jewish world. Others, however, perceived it as the Jewish government in exile. The Congress was where
the Zionist vision was formalized into a
radical solution to the crisis confronting
Jewish life: territorial concentration of the
Jewish people in their historical homeland (the ingathering of the exiles) and
the creation of the Jewish state. That first
Zionist Congress hammered together the
Dr. Mark
Zionist platform, created the Zionist OrgaGold
nization (later renamed the World Zionist
Organization) and elected Theodor Herzl
as its president. It declared Hatikvah as the
Zionist anthem and unfurled the first Zionist flag.
With the First Zionist Congress, Herzls
dream began to turn into reality. Three
days after the Congress closed, he wrote
in his diary,
Were I to sum up the Congress in a
word which I shall guard against proHiam
nouncing publicly it would be this: At
Simon
Basel I founded the Jewish state. If I said
this out loud today I would be greeted by
universal laughter. In five years perhaps
and certainly within fifty, everyone will perceive it.
Fifty years plus eight months later, on May 14, 1948, the State of Israel
was declared.
A long line of foundational decisions was made by Zionist Congresses that followed. The Jewish Colonial Bank (later Bank Leumi)
was a creation of the Second Congress, the Jewish National Fund
of the Fifth. Later the Zionist Commission was created; eventually
it morphed into the Jewish Agency, the self-governing body of the
Jews in Palestine under the British Mandate. After independence,
it became an organization supported and governed by Jews worldwide, performing quasi-governmental services including immigration, absorption, and settlement.
There is a direct line between that hall in Basel in 1897 and Jerusalems International Convention Center in 2015. There were 200 delegates from 16 countries at the First Zionist Congress. On October 20,
2015, 500 elected delegates will assemble when the gavel opens the
37th Congress: 145 from the United States, 190 from Israel, and the rest
from around the world. The delegates will take part in the continuing
conversation, whose debates and resolutions are no less crucial today
than they were 118 years ago.
The congress, which created the World Zionist Organization, is the
WZOs highest decision-making body, overseeing hundreds of millions
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n November 1974,
In visual terms at least,
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the contrast between Arafat
Liberation Organiin November 1974 and Paleszation leader Yasser
tinian Authoritys President
Arafat addressed the entire
Mahmoud Abbas on Sepworld from the rostrum of
tember 30, 2015, couldnt
the United Nations General
have been greater. At the
Assembly.
General Assembly rostrum,
Always a master of specthe portly, drab Abbas delivBen Cohen
tacle, Arafat cut an arresting
ered a speech so rhetorically
figure as he strode toward
labored and dull that I found
the podium in a tieless black
myself wondering whether
shirt and flowing cream jacket, with a perhed had second thoughts about dropping
fectly-coiffed keffiyeh wrapped around his
the much-vaunted bombshell everyone
head. A holster without its gun firearms
had been talking about. (In the end, he
are forbidden in the General Assembly
delivered on that one.)
Hall was draped by his side pocket, comIn between thanking Norway, Sweden,
pleting the aesthetic effect of a Palestinian
the Arab League, the Obama administraChe Guevara.
tion, and Russia apologies if I left anyArafat, however, wasnt going to let U.N.
one out there were strands of sheer nasprotocol ruin the dramatic impact of his
tiness running through Abbass speech.
speech.
Referring to Palestine as the land of
Today I have come bearing an olive
holiness, he spoke reverentially of Jesus
branch and a freedom-fighters gun, he
and Mohammed, but deliberately omitted
told the U.N. delegates at the end of his
any mention of the deep and historic Jewspeech. Do not let the olive branch fall
ish ties to the land: the Davidic and Hasfrom my hand. I repeat: do not let the olive
monean kingdoms that reigned there, for
branch fall from my hand.
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be in white.
It is not.
This map ranks countries based on freedom to marry, and Israel, like most Muslim
countries, gets a zero.
Israel, like many of its neighbors, has
inherited its system of marriage from
the Turkish empire that ruled it for centuries before the First World War. In that
system, marriage is delegated to the official religious bodies. For Jews, that means
the rabbinate, headed by the chief rabbis.
(Muslims have their parallel religious officialdom.) Marriages between people of
different religions cannot be performed
in Israel. There are 300,000 Israelis registered without a religion, and they cannot
marry at all in their country.
Thats one of the things that Rabbi Regev
wants to change about Israel. He is founder
and director of Hiddush, a Hebrew acronym for Hofesh dat vshivyon, religious
freedom and equality, and also the Hebrew
word meaning innovation and renewal.
He shares the desire to change Israels
balance of religion and state with most
court. This apparent violation of an agreement between the RCA and the Israeli rabbinate was resolved following publicity
but it was a reminder of how little the chief
rabbinate feels compelled to answer to any
other authorities.
In America, the American Jewish Committee has formed the Jewish Religious
Equality Coalition, which includes Reform,
Conservative, and modern Orthodox rabbis and organizations, as well as Hiddush.
The chief rabbinate has clearly become
an object of derision, even scorn, in many
quarters, both in Israel and the diaspora, said the coalitions Orthodox leaders, Dov Zakheim and Steven Bayme, in a
statement.
For the AJC, the issue of the chief rabbinates monopoly on marriage and conversion is an issue for diaspora concern.
Rabbi Regev agrees with that assessment.
Israel will not be the home for all Jews if
it does not relate to all Jews with dignity,
equality, and acceptance, he said.
Of course, who is a Jew is a matter of
dispute. Is a convert a Jew? From an ultraOrthodox perspective, someone who converts and is not Orthodox is not a Jew.
And someone who is not ultra-Orthodox
is not Orthodox. And while Jewish law has
been rather clear over the centuries that
once converted, always a Jew, in recent
years the chief rabbinate, or at least some
of its officials, has not hesitated to undo
conversions.
All of which makes me wonder about
two young women I know who now live
in Israel, daughters of friends of mine
The Hiddush freedom of marriage map ranks countries according to three levels of marriage freedom. Black represents
severe restrictions, gray represents partial restrictions, and white represents full heterosexual freedom of marriage.
for an exchange program that had him living among American Jews for six months.
He had grown up in a secular family in
Tel Aviv. He was the prototypical sabra,
born in the earliest years of the state. In
America, he lived with a Reform Jewish
family in southern California, and then
spent the summer at two Reform camps,
Camp Kutz in New York and Camp Swig
in California.
This was my first exposure to religious
pluralism, he said.
Can we afford to
turn Israel into
the only Western
democracy in
the world that
restricts the
right of citizens
to marry?
It was a time when the Reform movements commitment to social action was
focused on the civil rights movement. It
had only been a handful of years, after
all, since major civil rights laws had
been drafted around the table at the
movements Religious Action Center in
Washington.
The combination of exposure to religious diversity on the one hand the struggle for civil liberties on the other have had
a profound impact on my personality,
Rabbi Regev said. I attribute a lot of what
transpired in subsequent decades to that
period.
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Rabbi Uri Regev with a client who was excommunicated by her charedi community for using the Israeli legal system.
Israeli charedim protest the wicked Zionist regime for efforts to draft them in
the Israeli army.
and the rabbinical establishment monopoly, even a majority of the voters of some
of the coalition parties like Likud oppose
the current situation.
As Hiddush conducts its surveys from
year to year, support for its positions
increases. It seems that the chief rabbinates monopoly on marriage is no more
lovable than those of the phone company
in Lily Tomlins time or cable companies
now.
Given their druthers, Seventy percent
of Israeli secular Jews say that had it been
up to them, they would not marry through
the rabbinate, he said.
When he comes to New Jersey this weekend and asks for American Jewish support,
he will be coming to a receptive audience.
Rabbi Regev cited a finding from the
recent AJC annual study of American Jewish views, which showed two thirds saying that there should be less connection
between state and religion in Israel.
This is what Israelis desire, and what
American Jewry stands for, he said.
In America, Hiddush is reaching out to
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Israeli police uncovered a stockpile of
pipe bombs, firebombs, and rocks that
they feared would be aimed at Jewish
worshippers.
In response to the unrest, Israel heightened police presence in Jerusalems Old
City. The government also passed a law
that allows police to fire more quickly
on Palestinian stone throwers, as well as
increasing prison sentences and fines for
the stone throwers.
Violence at the Temple Mount has
since died down, but the rhetoric around
it remains tense. Arab Knesset member
Jamal Zahalka was shown in a video
shouting epithets at Jewish visitors to
the mount on Tuesday. And in dueling
speeches to the United Nations last week,
Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and Palestinian Authority President
Mahmoud Abbas each accused the other
side of upsetting the delicate balance at
the site.
In response, Israeli leaders are talking
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1. Fixes a torn kittel
5. Joins a Seder
9. Billy Crystal might do this when hosting
14. Dreyfus made one
15. Rabbinic contemporary of Ravina
16. Who opposed Joshua leading the
Jews after Moses died?
17. Uncle of Judah
18. Author often taught in high school
20. Abraham gets into a dispute over
them
22. They make (kosher) waffles
23. High Holiday time: Abbr.
24. Lift to the top of Hermon
26. Before Einstein was Doktor
28. Geoff Schwartz and others: Abbr.
29. Plots, like Haman
32. What Marty calls Emmett Brown
34. ___ Myself (The Producers song)
35. ___flot, cheaper way to get to Israel,
often
38. Levi to Leah
42. Slash called her A shot in the arm
for music.
44. Dreidel
45. Jake Gyllenhaal wears one on his
wrist sometimes
46. Murderous Judean king
47. 25th ___, David Benioff novel and
film
49. Make smooth for Shabbat
50. Oy
52. Bring to a total, as Dershowitz might
do at the end of an arguement
54. ___ La-La (1964 Manfred Mann hit)
57. Many a Jewish custom: Abbr.
60. Say lo
61. Quaker thats Kosher
63. Rages, likes Moses after the golden
calf incident
65. Bear that must have traveled a long
way to get to Noahs Ark
68. Author often taught in college
71. Magazine that called Netanyahu
King Bibi
72. Locale for doing the mitzvah of shiluach hakan
73. One of a plague in Egypt
74. Singer Day in Landiss Animal
House
75. Kill, biblically
76. Heaven-___
77. Clark created by Siegel and Shuster
Down
1. Gush forth, like a rock did in the Torah
2. Anything ___ (2003 Woody Allen
film)
3. Bloomberg, compared to millionaires
4. Author often taught in grad school
5. A fan may send one to get Ryan
Brauns autograph: Abbr.
6. Main setting of a Helen Hunt-Tom
Hanks film
7. Sciatic nerve local
8. One started on 10 Tevet
9. ___ Maamin
10. Kosher forest animals
11. Schlemiel
12. Like a schlemiel
13. Zets (Yiddish)
19. Amen, in slang
21. Shortened name of two Judges
25. Portmans V for Vendetta co-star
27. Campus military org. not at YU
29. Iran ruler, once
30. Make like Egypt in 67
31. Third son
33. Author often taught in middle school
36. Hopper in novelist Elliot Perlmans
homeland
37. The Mishneh Torah, e.g.
39. Dweller in Judah, once
40. Mel Brooks, to many
41. A ready challah in the oven
43. Nusach ___ Hamizrach
48. Go up against Bibi
51. ___ Lehnsherr (Magneto)
53. Howard Sterns hair
54. Shabbat crashing items
55. Ladies locale in Esther
56. Video game name once owned by
Jack Tramiel
58. Some Israeli citizens
59. He played Elias in Stones Platoon
62. Mashugana fit
64. Very little of it is asked to be shown
in Meah Shearim
66. Ugandan madman
67. Its what Shabbat is for
69. Zayin counterpart
70. El Al plane reading: Abbr.
Christoph Waltz does the same for Menachem Begine. In the film, we gain a real
sense of Yitzhak Rabins character and
integrity, which forced him to resign in
1977 and brought him back to the prime
ministers office in 1992. We get a genuine
feel for Menachem Begins Jewish flavoring, which gave him a tidal wave of Sephardic support in 1977, sweeping him into
power. We also see his unique relationship
with Egyptian president Anwar Sadat. In
between there are treaties, a war in Lebanon, Sabra and Shatila, Camp David,
Entebbe, newly elected U.S. presidents,
an intifada, and historic negotiations.
Trank uses precious film footage and photographs and crafts an amazing documentary. The near total absence of Prime Minister Shimon Peres is puzzling, however.
Ambassador Yehuda Avner was a passionate and devoted Israeli public servant.
Before he died in March at the age of 86,
he told The Times of Israel, Only after I
finished my book did I realize that I was
living the first 50 years of Israeli history.
Now we get to experience those amazing
years through the medium of cinema.
We are so thankful for his insights, and to
Moriah Films for putting them onto film.
Eric Goldman writes and lectures on Jewish
cinema and will be teaching a film miniseries beginning next month at the JCC on
the Palisades. He is adjunct professor of
cinema at Yeshiva University.
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Shabbat in Teaneck:
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Shabbat in Ridgewood:
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Cantor Caitlin Bromberg
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Oneg Shabbat follows.
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Lake: Temple Emanuel
of the Pascack Valley
hosts Shabbat Yachad,
Hebrew prayers set to
easy-to-sing melodies,
accompanied by
keyboardist Jonathan
Hanser, bassist Brian
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led by Rabbi Ronald
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Midland Ave. Reserve
tickets at jccpcbtopera@
aol.com or call (201) 2627691.
Monday
OCTOBER 12
Author/child Holocaust
survivor in Franklin
Lakes: The Jewish
Womens Circle of NWBC
offers a presentation
by Judith Kallman of
Greenwich, Conn., a
Holocaust survivor and
author of the memoir
A Candle in the Heart,
7:30 p.m. 375 Pulis Ave.
(201) 560-2502 or www.
chabadplace.org/JWC.
Thursday
OCTOBER 15
El screens Nickys
Family: Story of Nicholas
Winton, 10 a.m. 221
Schraalenburgh Road.
(201) 768-5112.
Morning movie in
Closter: Temple Beth
Author in Teaneck:
Teaneck-Hackensack
Hadassah meets at
Congregation Beth
Sholom to hear bestselling author Nicole
Dweck discuss her book,
The Debt of Tamar,
1 p.m. Books available for
sale. 354 Maitland Ave.
Refreshments. Minette,
(201) 837-8157.
Womens forum on
motivation: Sisterhood
of the Fair Lawn Jewish
Center/Congregation
Bnai Israel supports the
Professional Womens
Network with Your Spirit
at Work: Bring More
of You Through What
Calendar
Friday
OCTOBER 16
Blood drive in Teaneck:
Holy Name Medical
Center holds a blood
drive with New Jersey
Blood Services, a division
of New York Blood
Center, 1-7 p.m. 718
Teaneck Road. (800)
933-2566 or www.
nybloodcenter.org.
Shabbat in Closter:
Rabbi David S. Widzer
and Cantor Rica Timman
lead services with
guest jazz violinist Joe
Deninzon, 7:30 p.m. 221
Schraalenburgh Road.
(201) 768-5112 or www.
tbenv.org.
Sunday
OCTOBER 18
Atlantic City trip:
Hadassahs Fair Lawn
chapter takes a trip
to the Resort and Spa
Casino. A bus leaves the
Fair Lawn Jewish Center/
Congregation Bnai Israel
at 8:30 a.m. $30; includes
$25 slot play money.
Bring ID. Checks payable
to Hadassah. 10-10
Norma Ave. Varda, (201)
791-0327.
Modern physics in
Ridgewood: Dr. Joshua
Holden begins an adult
education course,
Modern Physics: The
Jewish Science Who
Knew? at Temple Israel
& JCC, 10:30 a.m. Topics
Military bridge in
New City: The West
Clarkstown Jewish
Center hosts military
bridge with lunch,
refreshments, and
prizes, noon. 195 West
Clarkstown Road, New
City, N.Y. (845) 352-0017.
Awareness walk in
Westwood: The social
action committee of
Congregation Bnai Israel
in Emerson co-sponsors
a Walk for Water with
the Westwood Area
Clergy Council to raise
awareness for the women
of Rwanda at Westvale
Park on Sand Road,
1:30 p.m. (201) 666-8998
or www.bisrael.com.
Entertainment in
Suffern: The Chabad
Jewish Center of Suffern
hosts Hanging by a
Thread, an evening
with Martin Greenfield,
5:30 p.m., at the
Lafayette Theater
in Suffern, N.Y. Mr.
Greenfield, a Brooklyn
tailor who dressed
celebrities and
presidents, wrote a
memoir, Measure of a
Man. (845) 368-1889 or
www.JewishSuffern.com.
In New York
Sunday
OCTOBER 11
SAR open house:
SAR High School
holds an open house,
9:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. 503
W. 259th St in Riverdale,
N.Y. Nancy Lerea or Gila
Kolb, (718) 548-2727,
ext. 1576, admissions@
sarhighschool.org, or
www.sarhighschool.org/
hsopenhouse.
Tuesday
OCTOBER 13
Whisky tasting:
American Friends of
Leket Israel hosts an
evening of fine whiskey
tasting, 7:30 p.m., at
the Museum of Jewish
Heritage A Living
Memorial to the
Holocaust. Features
tasting of limited and
vintage single malt
scotches, bourbons,
ryes, and other whiskies;
gourmet glatt kosher
dinner; professional
cooking demonstrations;
celebrity mixologists,
and fine whisky auction.
Proceeds benefit Leket,
Israels food rescue
programs. 36 Battery
Place. whisky.leket.org
or email Carol at carol@
leket.us.
Wednesday
OCTOBER 14
Singles
Sunday
OCTOBER 11
Seniors meet in West
Nyack: Singles 65+
meets for a social bagels
and lox brunch at the
JCC Rockland, 11 a.m. All
are welcome, particularly
those from Hudson,
Passaic, Bergen, or
Rockland counties. 450
West Nyack Road. $8
with reservations, $10 at
door. Gene Arkin, (845)
356-5525.
Singles meet in
Caldwell: New Jersey
Jewish Singles 45+
meets for lunch and to
mingle at Congregation
Agudath Israel, 1 p.m. $10.
20 Academy Road. Sue,
(973) 226-3600, ext. 145,
or singles@agudath.org.
Support group in
Tenafly: The Kaplen JCC
COURTESY DAVID KRAKAUER
Cinematic concert:
The Museum of
Jewish Heritage A
Living Memorial to
the Holocaust hosts a
concert with Grammy-
OCTOBER 13
OCTOBER 19
David Krakauer
Thursday
Monday
nominated clarinetist
David Krakauer, 7 p.m.,
and again on Sunday,
October 18, at 2. Krakauer
adds his contemporary
style to songs from films
ranging from Funny Girl
and Fiddler on the Roof
to Sophies Choice and
The Pianist. 36 Battery
Place. (646) 437-4202 or
www.mjhnyc.org.
Couples group
seeks members
Maccabees a Jewish social group that draws from
the Passaic/Bergen county area is looking for new
member couples, 60 and older, who are interested in
meeting new friends, participating in dinners at local
restaurants, and socializing.
The group meets the first Sunday morning of the
month for brunch in members homes. Dinners are
held on the third Saturday night of the month, and
special events are planned. For information, call the
groups president, Judi Margolis, at (973) 628-5248.
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n 1 Residents and staff at the Jewish Home for Assisted Living in River Vale celebrated with ice cream and entertainment
by DJ Rafael. On October 11, from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m., JHAL will offer
an Israel fair as a send-off for residents embarking on the Jewish Home Familys centennial mission to Israel. JEWISH HOME FAMILY
n 6 Glen Rock Jewish Center members helped construct and decorate the shuls sukkah. COURTESY GRJC
n 4 Kyra Hischfeld, Gabby Fishgrund, and Isaac Gotian, students in Shomrei Torah of Waynes religious school and
its TAST-e/USY program, sorted 160 bags collected for
the less fortunate for Operation Isaiah. COURTESY ST
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Sophie Filker
Klara Kozinets
Richard Levine
Evelyn Pattner
Shirley Weinberg
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Glazer, 88, of Clifton, formerly of Fair Lawn, died on
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Israeli-Druze policeman murdered in last years massacre at the Har Nof synagogue. The Torah scroll was
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Attendants to the ceremony included Sayifs family;
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Israeli Police Coastal Region. Many police and Druze
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