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Our Influence and Success in Business and in Life will depend on being out of the box with Others, with
Situations and with Tasks.
MAIN CONCEPT #2:
Self Deception blinds us to the true causes of problems, and is the inability to see that one has a problem.
It inhibits our ability to make wise and helpful decisions, and prevents us from appropriately
understanding the natural consequences of our own choices.
MAIN CONCEPT #3:
We Get in the Box when we engage in Self-betrayal, which is defined as/through a process:
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An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another is called an act of self-betrayal.
When I betray myself, I begin to see the word in a way that justifies my self-betrayal.
When I see the world in a self-justifying way, my view of reality becomes distorted.
So-when I betray myself, I enter the box.
Over time, certain boxes become characteristic of me, and I carry them with me.
By being in the box, I provoke others to be in the box.
In the box, we invite mutual mistreatment and obtain mutual justification. We collude in giving
each other reason to stay in the box.
Being in the Box prevents us from being successful, getting results, finding complete happiness, building
healthy relationships, etc. It truly impacts every facet of our lives.
MAIN CONCEPT #5:
1. What do I need to do that is MOST PRODUCTIVE, and is the most HONORING of the time that I
have today?
2. What are the tasks I get to do that are most in line with the vision I have clarified at this point, or
that I have verbalized?
3. What am I trying to procrastinate that will only cause me to be in the box with another person, in a
situation, or in an upcoming series of tasks?
4. Could different choices in this moment create different outcomes for me at my Finish Line?
5. Am I in or out of the Box at this moment with this task, this situation or this person?