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EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
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Travis Bradberry
Co-Author Of Emotional Intelligence 2.0 And President At TalentSmart
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Despite the significance of EQ, its intangible nature makes it very difficult to know how
much you have and what you can do to improve if youre lacking. You can always take a
scientifically validated test, such as the one that comes with theEmotional Intelligence
2.0book.
Unfortunately, quality (scientifically valid) EQ tests arent free. So, Ive analyzed the data
from the million-plus people TalentSmart has tested in order to identify the behaviors that
are the hallmarks of a high EQ. What follows are sure signs that you have a high EQ.
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people, know what theyre about, and understand what they're going through. Over time,
this skill makes you an exceptional judge of character. People are no mystery to you. You
know what theyre all about and understand their motivations, even those that lie hidden
beneath the surface.
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devastating health consequences over time. In fact, researchers at Emory University have
shown that holding onto stress contributes to high blood pressure and heart disease.
Holding onto a grudge means youre holding onto stress, and emotionally intelligent people
know to avoid this at all costs. Letting go of a grudge not only makes you feel better now
but can also improve your health.
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You Disconnect
Taking regular time off the grid is a sign of a high EQ because it helps you to keep your
stress under control and to live in the moment. When you make yourself available to your
work 24/7, you expose yourself to a constant barrage of stressors. Forcing yourself offline
and evengulp!turning off your phone gives your body and mind a break. Studies have
shown that something as simple as an e-mail break can lower stress levels. Technology
enables constant communication and the expectation that you should be available 24/7. It
is extremely difficult to enjoy a stress-free moment outside of work when an e-mail that will
change your train of thought and get you thinking (read: stressing) about work can drop
onto your phone at any moment.
Related:Caffeine: The Silent Killer of Success (LinkedIn)
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the source of the fight-or-flight response. The fight-or-flight mechanism sidesteps rational
thinking in favor of a faster response to ensure survival. This is great when a bear is chasing
you, but not so great when youre responding to a curt e-mail. When caffeine puts your
brain and body into this hyper-aroused state of stress, your emotions overrun your
behavior. Caffeines long half-life ensures you stay this way as it takes its sweet time
working its way out of your body. High-EQ individuals know that caffeine is trouble, and
they dont let it get the better of them.
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outlook.
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
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Travis Bradberry
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Over the past century, the heartless, no-nonsense CEO has become something of an iconand a
clichin American society. Hollywood would have us believe that the Machiavellian chief exec is
still alive and well. Whether its the Donald fromThe Apprenticeor Jack Donaghy from30 Rock,
these eat-the-weak-for-breakfast-types seem to be as powerful as ever.
But thats just TV, right? How about in the real world? Do businesses today still allow these
inhumane relics to survive?
To find out, we analyzed the emotional intelligence profiles of the million-plus people in our
databaseworkers from the frontlines to the C-suite. We discovered that the answer is yes,
organizations today do promote the emotionally inept...except when they dont. Allow me to
explain.
We found that scores climb with titles from the bottom of the corporate ladder upward toward
middle management. Middle managers stand out with the highest emotional intelligence (EQ)
scores in the workplace because companies tend to promote people into supervisory positions
who are level-headed and good with people. The assumption here is that a manager with a high
EQ is someone for whom people will want to work.
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But things change drastically as you move beyond middle management. For the titles of director
and above, scores descend faster than a snowboarder on a black diamond. CEOs, on average,
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Sleep
Ive beaten this one to death over the years and cant say enough about the importance of sleep
to increasing your emotional intelligence and improving your relationships. When you sleep, your
brain literally recharges, shuffling through the days memories and storing or discarding them
(which causes dreams), so that you wake up alert and clear-headed. Your self-control, attention,
and memory are all reduced when you dont get enoughor the right kindof sleep. Sleep
deprivation also raises stress hormone levels on its own, even without a stressor present. The
pressure that leaders are under often makes them feel as if they dont have time to sleep, but not
taking the time to get a decent nights sleep is often the one thing keeping you from getting
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