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Table of Contents
How to Get Your Own Copy of This Ebook .................. 2
Table of Contents ....................................... 3
What is Tantra? ......................................... 4
LESSON ONE: BASIC DEFINITIONS ........................... 7
LESSON TWO: TANTRA IS THE GREAT YES .................... 10
LESSON THREE: BECOMING THE ARTIST OF YOUR OWN LIFE ..... 12
LESSON FOUR: TANTRA EXPLORES THE VEHICLE OF YOUR BODY .. 14
LESSON FIVE: THE FUNDAMENTAL BENEFITS OF TANTRA ........ 16
LESSON SIX: TANTRA OPENS YOU TO MYSTICAL UNION ......... 18
LESSON SEVEN: ON SEX ................................... 20
LESSON EIGHT: TANTRA, SEXUAL PRACTICE AND BLISS ........ 24
CONCLUSION ............................................. 28

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What is Tantra?
To some, Tantra means crazy, wild sex, mind-blowing sex.
To others, Tantra means something like disciplined sex,
somehow related to that odd book, The Kama Sutra. To them,
it means coordinated breathing (prana) techniques, deep eye
gazing, energy stimulation up and down the body and energy
management.
To others, it means that the guy has to hold back his
orgasm from anything like one hour to thirty years.
To still others, its some kind of exotic, Eastern sex cult.
To women, the mere mention that you, as a man, are training
yourself in Tantric practices -- it is a killer turn-on.
A promise of pleasures they rarely are given. (Remember,
most women are very disappointed in the sex they experience
with most men).
To still others, mostly, Californians, Tantra is a clothing
style, a local restaurant, or the name of their cat.
Tantra is indeed all of these things. It IS a set of
breathing or sexual practices. Its probably the name of
several cats in California. And it is DEFINITELY a way to
get women to stop and listen when you mention that you are
studying it, or in any way, practice it.
What makes Tantra TRULY worth learning about, is that it is
far more than any of these things.
Tantra is a very deep well from which to drink. It is a
worldview AND a bodyview, it can change the way you imbibe
all of life as well as the way you imbibe and pleasure your
sexual partners.
I have prepared this free Home Course to introduce you to
the fundamentals of Tantra
I have been meeting with and studying with some amazing
teachers of Tantra both in its philosophical and sexual
expressions.

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Its making my life better. A WHOLE LOT better both in

its philosophical form, and its sexual expressions.
I want you to benefit, too.

On two levels:

Firs, on the ATTRACTION level its good for every guy in

this community to know something about Tantra. It
certainly makes for better conversation than hey, whats
your sign, or where did you grown up or what do you do
for a living?
Tantra goes to the core of being alive and raises the
erotic temperature of any conversation. Plus, you can get
a good, quick read on a womans erotic nature by her
reaction to the subject and what you have to say.
Learning Tantra fits in to my simple but ESSENTIAL
principle in the Net2Bed Manual of Invite Her Into Your
Exciting Life to which I add, Then GET an Exciting Life.
Lets not forget that essential second step.
On the PHILOSOPHICAL/SEXUAL level, a good, basic
integration of tantric beliefs and practices will simply
make your life better. It will open you up to expansive
ways of being and will feed your sense of inner FREEDOM
exactly the thing Ive been teaching in The Complete
Attractor.
The level of Freedom I teach helps you hone a level of
confidence that is way beyond game and techniques. Because
it comes from your core. And if you are reading this, then
that means you are on this journey toward whole new levels
of inner freedom with me and you deserve this kind of
confidence.
The level beyond the basic understanding in this
Introduction to Tantra, Tantric 101, is, of course,
learning some of the basic practices, sexual and otherwise.
This Report gives you the what of Tantra.
In the coming months, we will get to the how as I
introduce you to some of the BEST Tanric teachers I have
discovered.

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You want to hear what they teach, believe me. They will
change your idea of what you are capable of achieving, in
life, and with women.
This Report, Tantric 101, gets you through the basics of
the what so we can get to the how in an informed,
grounded fashion.
By the end of reading it, you will have a powerful,
fundamental understanding of the basic concepts and depth
of what Tantra offers.
Then later, if you decide to participate in any practical
workshops live or via teleseminar - our teachers can skip
over the basics and get you right to the practices that you
can start applying to your personal and sexual life.
This saves everyone time, as well as grounds you in what
makes Tantra real.
And it allows us to get to the good stuff sooner!
I will try to use as little esoteric terminology as
possible, because, frankly, I think it gets in the way.
What Tantra teaches is universal and does not belong to any
one culture.
There are certain terms you must know,
however, and Ill include the ones I think are essential.
Your Friend,
Grant

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LESSON ONE: BASIC DEFINITIONS

The word Tantra is Sanskrit, the ancient, sacred language
of the South Asian Subcontinent.
It derives from the root word tan, which is usually
translated as weave but also translates as "to extend,
expand, spread, continue, spin out; to put forth, show, or
manifest."
Tantra implies an infinite interweaving of your self and
everything around you, and a never-endingness. Tantra is
continually expanding, spreading, and manifesting itself
it is often compared to the "cosmic weave.
No, that is neither a dance move nor a hair-style. It is
something we all belong to. It suggests a dissolution of
the boundaries between self and other.
Another way to break down the Sanskrit word to its roots:
Tan - thread, web, stretch, spread or expand, and
Tra - tool or instrument.
Tantra - tool for expansion or weaving.
Whatever your beliefs (and whatever you believe is wrong
and partial anyway, since we are all of limited brain and
experience), it seem fairly indisputable that you and I are
part of this weave of the universe and not separate from
it.
Western religious tradition likes to separate humanity from
the animal kingdom, as well as the plant kingdom (though we
all share the same chemicals and organic processes) as
well as from the seemingly dead molecules that make up
the planets, the stars and whatever stardust is floating
around up there.
But Tantra teaches that there is no separation. There is
an interweaving to which you and I, other people (including
ex-girlfriends and uncles who have hair growing out of
their noses, and even people like CarrotTop), all living
things, AS WELL AS every type of energy and matter, belong.

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This Cosmic Weave includes the obvious physical universe,

as well as more subtle energies such as thoughts.
Tan-Tra is a tool to help you
re-weave yourself back into the All.
This isnt some kooky, new-age dream state.
It happens to be science
Remember what Einstein taught that matter and energy are
interchangeable. Thats what E=Mc(2) means.
Under
certain conditions, energy can become matter and matter can
become energy. They are not different items. They are the
same item under different conditions.
You, me, Hamsters, Cannibis, Osama, Jessica Alba, Haleys
Comet and a McDonalds Happy Meal are all the same stuff
just under different conditions.
You and your lover are of the same stuff just under
different conditions.
Tantra understood this centuries ago
What if you could be made aware of this during lovemaking?
What if you could open your partner to this reality, this
feeling, this sensation during lovemaking?
What might be possible, then?
Tantra can thus be defined as cosmic interweaving. As a
practice, it is a way to get out of your head or more
specifically a way to penetrate beyond the brittle little
brain-ideas we create as individuals, cultures, nations,
races, genders, religions or as a species to sustain the
supposedly comforting belief that we are SPECIAL.
Or DIFFERENT.
Or, to get to the real heart of it in any way, other,
or separate from anyone or anything else.
Tantra, like most mystical traditions, is a destroyer of
separation in all its forms.

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Which ultimately means a re-unification of with the All, or

the Divine, or God, or the Oneness of all Being or
whatever the hell you like to call it. What you call it
doesnt matter in the end.
In fact, what you call it only gets in the way.
So lets just use Douglas Adams term from The Hitchhikers
Guide to the Galaxy
Tantra helps you re-join in borderless union with
Life, The Universe and Everything.

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LESSON TWO: TANTRA IS THE GREAT YES

Tantra doesnt resist anything. It doesnt make anything
other or foreign to you. It is a tool to reweave you
into a sense of union with what you are actually and
already part of.
In other words, Tantra says YES!

to everything

As one teacher has put it

Tantra is a great yea-sayer; it says yes to
everything. It has nothing like "no" in its
vocabulary, there is no negation. It never says no to
anything, because with no the fight starts, with
no you become the ego. The moment you say no to
anything, you have become the ego already; a conflict
has come in, now you are at war.
And
Tantra loves, and loves unconditionally. It never
says no to anything whatsoever, because everything is
part of the whole, and everything has its own place
in the whole, and the whole cannot exist without
anything missing from it.
And
It is said that even if a drop of water is missing,
the whole existence will thirst. You pluck a flower
in the garden, and you have plucked something out of
the whole existence. You harm a flower, and you have
harmed millions of stars -- because everything is
interrelated. The whole exists as a whole, as an
organic whole.

This Cosmic Yes! is available to you and me, always, in

all places. It happens to be a very happy place in which
to live.
It is often drowned out by the
and by fear in all its forms.
some people thrive on creating
That includes Al Qaida as much

noise of TV and cynicism,

You have to remember that
fear. Its their business.
as the sensationalist media.

If there were nothing to fear, people would be out making

love and having fun instead of learning how to blow
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themselves up or staying glued to their television and

watching ads and buying and hoarding stuff to feel safe or
important.
Now please Im not saying a fundamentalist terrorist is
the same thing as some couch potato its just that
certain people in the world manipulate fear to aggregate
power and money to themselves and their causes.
So the
mechanism of fear-creation to provoke a fear-response is
the same.
They are purveyors of the localized no which distracts
you from the opportunity to live your Cosmic Yes.
You probably have friends who do that. Or parents. Or
voices within you that say no. Voices that keep you from
embracing this delicious, aromatic, sonorous, complex,
simple, breathing, heaving, confusing, wet, teeming world
in all its overwhelming wonder.
You find a glimpse of this Cosmic Yes with little kids.
They get it. You find it buried here and there in the
Psalms, where the stones and hills are understood to be
singing praise (and thats before LSD.) You see it in the
writings of William Blake and R. W. Emerson and of course,
the poetry of the Muslim Sufi mystics, Rumi and Hafez, whom
I discuss elsewhere.

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LESSON THREE: BECOMING THE ARTIST OF YOUR OWN LIFE

Now, again, saying Yes to the all is not some easy, newagey surrender. Without getting into it here, because we
couldnt possibly explore it all, just remember this truth
from Neitzsche,

"If a tree wants to reach to the sky, its roots

need to go to the very hell."
So saying Yes to all means yes to ALL. That requires
facing your deepest fears, your death, your darkest
thoughts and desires, awful and unpleasant as they may be.
As Jung famously said, what gets repressed, will get
EXPRESSED.
What you dont want to face about yourself, or about
humanity, or about death will find another way to
manifest in your personality.
So you are better off FAR better off by being honest
about your dark side, about embracing your totality and
rather than shrinking from what is, turning it into ART.
Tantra wants you to become an artist of life, using
everything every thought and part of your body as
material to reweave into the One.
One of my favorite teachers, David Deida, writes
extensively about the masculine desire to kill and about
how to welcome and channel that impulse and energy into
service to the all.
He also writes about rape fantasies, and shows how that is
most often just a desire to ravish women with love, to
open them beyond their boundaries and limits which they
want too!
He only ingredient that differentiates a rape fantasy from
a ravishment fantasy (gift) is love.
He adds that sex without including your light side is rape.
Sex without including your dark side is boring.

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Now a question many guys ask is, why you when people think
about Tantra, do they tend to think about sex?
First, well, its generally fun to think about sex.
But second, sex is where our darkness often comes out.
Bringing together your darkest ravishment urges with your
highest love/service urges makes sex soar into new realms.
We will get to how to make art of those two energies later,
with our teachers, when we get to the HOW.
The point for now is, Tantra does not allow you to repress
your true sexuality, and your true dark side within
sexuality.
It allows you to explore your sexual edges, with both the
spice of danger and a whiff of transcendence and divine
service.
Tantra teaches you to make art out of your life with ALL
the colors available. Not just pink and lavender and
pastel blues. It includes the raciest reds, inkiest blacks
and the death-hue of blood.
Tantra insists that you bring ALL of yourself to your
partner, for example, in service of your mutual opening to
the great YES to everything.
Kinda nice, huh?
More than that it aids you in bringing ALL of yourself to
a partner in service of your partner.
How many women get to experience THAT from men?
Tantra releases you from the b.s. of social strictures,
mental habits and family neuroses.
It EXPANDS you. It expands your vision. It expands your
self-conception. It expands what you bring to sexual
contact and communion. With the how practices, it
expands your sexual skills and gifts
Which is why it is such a powerful, life-changing
discipline.

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LESSON FOUR: TANTRA EXPLORES THE VEHICLE OF YOUR

BODY
So you can see that no simple definition is going to sum up
Tantra.
Though yes to all is a great working definition for us
here for our purposes because it gets to the heart of
breaking down the boundaries between you and the world
and more specifically, you and your sexual partner.
There are many Tantric streams that flow through Buddhist
and Hindu traditions, and so it has picked up lots of local
cultural influences and gods and demigods and expressions.
So what?

You dont need to know them all.

People often get caught up in localized expressions of what

are universal truths and practices. We dont need to.
Our goal here is not be a scholar of the flow of Tantra
through the centuries. You can do that on your own, if you
wish.
Rather, I will focus on what I feel you NEED to know so you
know what youre talking about when you get into a
conversation on Tantra, and wha you need to know so that
you can learn from genuine teachers of Tantric practice
and absorb it intelligently and deeply.
So heres a bit of history
Just as with Christianity, there was, in the East, an
ascetic tradition. That is, the belief that to purify the
soul and attain divine communion, you need to deny the
body.
Tantra was a corrective to this dualistic approach to the
mind and body.
Tantra sees the body as a VEHICLE rather than a hindrance
to the divine.
Tantra sees the body as a vehicle for full expression of
your OWN completeness, your own inherent divinity.
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Tantra is a vast body of spiritual and physical knowledge,

and many, though not all of these practices, include the
body as vehicle. These practices include sex and all forms
of yoga.
But the goal is not to discover your divinity in service of
great sex.
It is to use the vehicle of sex to re-include the sexual
body into spiritual practice in service of your inherent
divinity.
Tantric practices are aimed at expanding consciousness and
liberating you from limited beliefs THROUGH life and not
through escape or monkishness, USING the body as an
instrument, not denying it.
Which, of course, has made a lot of religious
authoritarians angry over the ages. And makes a lot of
repressed religious body-haters really, suspicious of
Tantra now.
Its easier to make fun of than to truly comprehend.
(Did you realize, for example, that Yoga was outlawed in
many states in America, including California in 1911,
because the men who ran things thought it made women
loose.!!!
They were right, actually yoga, tantra and
other body- awareness and body-vehicle spiritual practices
loosen you from the b.s. strictures of established
religions, which usually served the most powerful and
repressive men in society. When you control a womans
sexuality, you control the whole woman.)

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LESSON FIVE: THE FUNDAMENTAL BENEFITS OF TANTRA

Does Tantra offer you ways into mindblowing sexual
communion? Yes.
But lets take a big step back, first
Because these sexual experiences dont come without
personal homework, knowledge and especially - physical
awareness practices.
In other words, you have to know your body. You have to
become aware of what your body does. And you have to learn
to create and sustain altered states in your body. Nothing
outlandish.
But basically, you learn to manipulate your body as the
instrument it is, just as you would in dance, or with a
piano or in martial arts.
You learn to manage its functions and its energy flows.
And that only comes with some time put into actual
practices.
With Tantric practices, you can release energies YOU
ALREADY HAVE (and she already has) which connect you to
energies surrounding you - but to which you might have
been asleep.
You can USE these energies for intense new levels of
pleasure, for achieving your worldly goals, as well as for
nourishing your spiritual evolution as a loving AWAKE
being.
By embracing Tantric practices, we become more complete.
Because by recognizing, stimulating and managing our
sensual gifts, we discover parts of ourselves that have
remained untapped or have been repressed by social norms.
So on one level, Tantric beliefs and practices can serve as
therapeutic as a way of clearing beliefs and practices
that have bottled you up, or stopped your flow of love,
your flow of natural compassion, your flow of personal
power or your flow of sexual expression.
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This is a level that is very appealing to a lot of people,

for obvious reasons, and although it is CERTAINLY not the
end-game, or the depths of what Tantra can bring you, it is
to be highly valued.
I think there is a rough parallel to pick-up and to what
I call deep attraction.
Learning pick-up techniques is a good way for men who are
shy, too nice or just not naturally skilled a conversing
easily with women to sharpen their confidence and
lightness.
But once one get those skills down, you must move on to
deeper levels of attraction if you are going to grow as a
man. You must deepen your own life, your excitement about
living, your sense of service to your highest purpose
rather than the many distractions of your lower ones. It
is about honing your physical, emotional and spiritual
presence so that you can offer your gifts in every moment.
Because that is where real joy and fulfillment, real
confidence and fun, lie.
Tantric practice offers a similar pattern of growth.
So on the first level, basic Tantric thought and practices
can help dissolve guilt or fear, help you slough off
limiting self-imposed or cultural boundaries.
The next level, you can call mystical

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LESSON SIX: TANTRA OPENS YOU TO MYSTICAL UNION

Tantra is a mystical practice.
And heres your practical definition of mysticism
Mysticism is just a fancy name for direct experience.
Some call it direct experience of the divine, or of your
innate belonging to the weave of the all. Theres just no
one in between you and the experience, no one to have to
depend on to understand anything.
To have a mystical experience to feel you actual belong
to the universe, you dont need a priest or Minister; fancy
garments or incense, Imams or bibles or any tools.
You just need you.
fullest.

You at your most open, and your

To have the mind clear enough of the usual garbage and

chatter and distraction of day to day life - getting and
spending, eating, winning or losing minor competitions of
the day, peeing, organizing lusting etc.
Thats our normal state and to have direct experience, it
helps to quiet this state.
That is why mystical experience often requires that you
heighten your state
Here are some of the ways youve probably heard of
Sometimes chants get you into a different state mantras,
prayers, those kinds of things.
Sometimes dance gets you there Sufi spinning (whirling
dervishes), or a Burning Man rave. Same thing, more or
less. Any kind of ecstatic dancing that produces a rush
which can be channeled into a new kind of awareness.
Sometimes fasting does it.
Sometimes breathing practices.
Sometimes deep meditation.
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Sometimes the use of medicine plants in ceremony (peyote,

ayahuasca, San Pedro).
Sometimes it just hits you while youre walking down the
street.
And sometimes it happens during sex.

Tantric sex.

There are MANY ways to have a sudden illumination of a

direct experience of your place wholly embedded within the
flow of the all.
None are bad though churches and bureaucracies HATE
direct experience because then who needs priests, churches,
tithes, donations and bloated bureaucracies?
Tantra teaches way to get to direct
experience of what you really are
part of the weave of everything, not a
separate ego-being looking on at the
world from the outside.
Lets talk about one of our favorite ways, and honestly,
probably the reason you are reading this. Which is fine

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LESSON SEVEN: ON SEX

One of the many definitions of Tantra has to do with some
very, very old scriptures from India, often in the form of
dialogues.
Thats why youll find a definition like:
"a type of mystical teaching set out in the form
of dialogs between a cosmic couple.
These books, dialogues, or interchanges are usually between
a guy and a gal specifically between incarnations of the
divine masculine and the divine feminine. Between a God
and Goddess.
The most common god and goddess pair who have these intense
spiritual and sexual interchanges are Shiva and Shakti.
You will sometimes hear people talk of Shiva energy that
is your masculine energy. It involves presence, direction,
penetration by mind and body into the world. Shiva energy
burns away illusion and distraction and fearlessly exposes
truth in all its forms. Its a damned good thing to
embody. Women who get this kind of thing are turned on by
a man in his Shiva Energy.
In fact, its the kind of thing we are learning, month-bymonth at TheCompleteAtttractor.com. I dont call it The
Complete Shiva because I dont want to scare people away.
But its pretty much how to embody that powerful masculine
presence.
Shakhti energy is concentrated feminine energy. It
involves the flow of love, of surrender, of the juiciness
of nature.
In ancient times, these sacred-sexual dialogues were
written down, and are seen as divine expressions of Shiva
and Shakti. These dialogues are known as Tantras. The
same way that some ancient Hebrew poems/exhortations have
come to be known in English as Psalms.
One difference is not a whole bunch of sexual secrets in
the Psalms. Lots of requests to help wipe out the enemy.
Lots of requests for comfort in the storm.
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Not much in the way of cosmic orgasms.

(p.s. for Hebrew sexual mysticism, you have to look The
Song of Songs, which I will discuss in a book Im coming
out with called, Pocket Romeo. More on that later.)
These ancient scriptures, known as Tantras and they
exist in Hindu, Jain and Buddhist forms - give detailed
instructions on a whole wide range of subjects, including
spiritual knowledge, technology, science as well as sex.
So again, sex is only a part of the whole of Tantra.
This is essential to your knowledge
sex is seen as only one vehicle of
expression of a larger spiritual
knowledge and liberation.
Let me say one thing about these Tantric Texts: you cant
pick them up and read them and understand them. They
require a whole backlog of information and preparation,
cultural immersion, terminology etc.
Like most mystical texts, they dont make obvious sense,
similar to the Kabala. As with the texts of the Kabala,
there is a dizzying blurring of the usual clean borders
with which we comfort ourselves in our daily life.
There is no line between science and mysticism, sensuality
and asceticism, or God and you.
No borders. No differences. Same substance, only in
different forms under different conditions. Energy is
matter, matter energy Einstein all over again.
Why does this kind of knowledge bother people?
Like weve already said, established bureaucracies have a
vested interest in downplaying the possibility of direct
experiences. If you dont need an intermediary like a
Priest, they are out of a job and had better learn data
input or something.
This is why the Church burned mystics and Islam viciously
went after the Sufi sect.
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But there is another, deeper reason why blurring of

comfortable divisions unnerve people
Its the same reason that slimy things bother people
universally. Slime, or the viscous exists between states
- neither liquid nor solid.
Unclear boundaries make our little human brains uneasy.
like rules, borders and clear definitions.

We

Think about it - whats the first thing Adam does in the

Garden of Eden? No, not Tantric Sex. He NAMES things. He
DEFINES them.
He creates DIVISIONS. Mental division serves plenty of
purposes. It allows for intellection, production,
creativity basically, it allows for advanced thought and
civilization.
Which bring their own kind of comfort.
And, as fearful physical creatures, we like comfort.
Which explains why so many people are afraid of and
therefore suppress or make fun of mysticism because it
blurs borders, and therefore a familiar kind of comfort.
The comfort of seeming to understand the world. Of being
able to control its wild complexity with our belief
systems and categorical thinking and scientific naming.
Of course, there is another effect of blurring borders of
thought
it gets you to stop thinking
it returns you to your bodily self
and OPENS YOU into a fuller embeddedness into the real,
sensual, living, breathing, confusing, world of the NOW.
Of what is real before and after and beyond our handy-dandy
human definitions.
It allows you fuller expression of your true self, and your
one-ness with the All.
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And of course, your one-ness with your sexual partner.

In the Now.

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LESSON EIGHT: TANTRA, SEXUAL PRACTICE AND BLISS

Through Tantric practice, one can experience an expansion
of consciousness and recognize the interconnectedness of
the web of existence.
Through Tantric practice, one can experience, at once, an
absolute union with your sexual partner, and absolute union
with all beings and all life.
In Tantra, the energies of the body are used as the fuel
for spiritual awareness and development.
So what are these energies of the body?
I could tell you, or you could learn them WITH your body,
which is much more effective. Take a Kundalini Yoga class
for starters.
In fact, in the West, Tantra is often called the "Yoga of
Sex."
There are several yogas the yoga of breathing,
the yoga of walking, the yoga of eating, etc.
And Tantra is often called The Yoga of Sex.
But as weve already seen, Tantra is about much more than
sex.
Tantra isnt merely about having better orgasms or about
becoming a better lover though both are excellent
benefits. And yes, those things motivate a lot of us into
Tantra.
But once you get inside Tantra, you begin to understand and
feel that Tantric practices expand who you are as a human
being.
Tantric practices can expand your capacity to give, receive
and experience pleasure, not only sexually but in all areas
of life.
Now lets remember where you and I began this discussion:
how can we become more naturally attractive men to a higher
caliber of woman?
With that in mind, let me repeat that above sentence:
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Tantric practices can expand your capacity to give, receive

and experience pleasure, not only sexually but in all areas
of life.
As it has been written:

Tantra says yes unconditionally. No

disappears; from your very being no
disappears. When there is no no, how can you
fight? How can you be at war? You simply
merge and melt. You become one. The boundaries
are there no more. No creates the boundary.
No is the boundary around you. Whenever you
say no, watch -- immediately something closes
in. Whenever you say yes, your being opens.
Opening your being.

Helping a woman open her being.

Bringing that yes of openness and service and of merging

to your sex life is the beginning of understanding what
Tantric practice can create for you.
Its not so much making love with a woman, but being so
open, so in yes state that love is making love through
the two (or three) of you into a new state of love.
In other words, you are not merely making love.
Love is making love through you and your lover as
vessels.
Vessels that are clear conduits, uncluttered in the moment
by ego and separation.
Total union.
Total communion.
The bliss of merging.
The bliss of dissolving.
The bliss of being liberated from all the small ideas you
carry about yourself, all the limitations that have been

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foisted upon you, all the names youve been reduced to by

others and by your self.
Infinite bliss.
And the bliss of infinity.
Now, all this doesnt happen in the head.
As you will learn, Tantric Aspiration must be accompanied
by Tantric Practice.
Through mind practices, breath practices, genital-control
practices, eye-gazing practices, hand practices, posturing,
positioning and a whole suite of fairly simple practices
you can do alone and with a partner, you will raise your
sexual game.
As you develop your Tantric Skills, you will gain these
gifts:
x

The ability to guide a woman through several waves of

Orgasm

Relieve any guilt or confusion around love and

sexuality

Mastery of your orgasmic control for longer

lovemaking and multiple orgasms without ejaculation

Deeper connection with a woman

Deeper trust and surrender for your lover

Access energy and ability beyond your own body

Manifest as the lover you have always wanted to be

Put it all together, and what you gain is an entirely

different level of sexual skill, and an entirely different
level of sexual bliss and connection with women.
Later, we will talk about how gaining these gifts and
giving these gifts carry over into your sense of
confidence and well-being.

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How a vastly improved sexual life vastly improves your

entire life.

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CONCLUSION
Who doesnt want to experience these levels of bliss?
You want to know?

Ill tell you

Those who are afraid of leaving their comfort zones.

Those who are afraid they will fail.
Those who are freaked out by anything exotic or unfamiliar.
Those whose natural happy sexuality has been shut down by
body-hating religious traditions and their self-serving
bureaucracies.
We all have been afraid, and we all have resisted leaving
our comfort zones. And many of us have passed through, or
grown up in, some kind of repressive tradition or culture.
But those things need not limit us NOW.
Tantra is just a fancy Sanskrit word for the bliss of
getting over yourself
and embracing a far more expansive senseand getting into
the Great Self.
The One of Self.
WhenAll Being, which, when you take away the mumbo-jumbo
sound of this subject, its reallyit, is just relaxing into
the fact that we, just like Bob Marley told us, are all
one.
One love.
Soon, Ill be bringing you more about how to actually do
certain physical practices so you can experience Tantric
Bliss, this One Love.
Ill be introducing you to teachers who do nothing but open
these doors for men and women.
So that you can experience yourself as far more powerful
and expansive than you do now.
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So that you can relax into a deeper inner power than you
can now.
So that you can lead a woman into the experience of
infinite bliss maybe for her first time.
I have interviewed countless teachers, and Far better than
you can now.
I will be bringing you the best teachers that exist today
in the West, teachers who will lead you into a deeper, more
powerful, more loving, more skilled and capable way of
serving your happinessyourself, and the happiness of the
women you aim to pleasureadore.
Keep growing daily.,
And be the man women yearn for.
Your Friend and Fellow Explorer,
Grant Adams

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