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The Four Styles of Parenting
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Based on these dimensions, Baumrind suggested that the majority of parents display one of three
different parenting styles. Further research by Maccoby and Martin also suggested the addition
of a fourth parenting style (1983).
2. Authoritative Parenting
Like authoritarian parents, those with an authoritative parenting style establish rules and
guidelines that their children are expected to follow. However, this parenting style is
much more democratic. Authoritative parents are responsive to their children and willing
to listen to questions. When children fail to meet the expectations, these parents are more
nurturing and forgiving rather than punishing. Baumrind suggests that these parents
"monitor and impart clear standards for their childrens conduct. They are assertive, but
not intrusive and restrictive. Their disciplinary methods are supportive, rather than
punitive. They want their children to be assertive as well as socially responsible, and selfregulated as well as cooperative" (1991).
3. Permissive Parenting
Permissive parents, sometimes referred to as indulgent parents, have very few demands to
make of their children. These parents rarely discipline their children because they have
relatively low expectations of maturity and self-control. According to Baumrind,
permissive parents "are more responsive than they are demanding. They are
nontraditional and lenient, do not require mature behavior, allow considerable selfregulation, and avoid confrontation" (1991). Permissive parents are generally nurturing
and communicative with their children, often taking on the status of a friend more than
that of a parent.
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4. Uninvolved Parenting
An uninvolved parenting style is characterized by few demands, low responsiveness and
little communication. While these parents fulfill the child's basic needs, they are generally
detached from their child's life. In extreme cases, these parents may even reject or neglect
the needs of their children.
Authoritarian parenting styles generally lead to children who are obedient and
proficient, but they rank lower in happiness, social competence and self-esteem.
Authoritative parenting styles tend to result in children who are happy, capable and
successful (Maccoby, 1992).
Permissive parenting often results in children who rank low in happiness and selfregulation. These children are more likely to experience problems with authority and tend
to perform poorly in school.
Uninvolved parenting styles rank lowest across all life domains. These children tend to
lack self-control, have low self-esteem and are less competent than their peers.
Why is it that authoritative parenting provides such advantages over other styles? "First, when
children perceive their parents' requests as fair and reasonable, they are more likely to comply
with the requests," explain authors Hockenbury and Hockenbury in their text Psychology.
"Second, the children are more likely to internalize (or accept as their own) the reasons for
behaving in a certain way and thus to achieve greater self-control."
The Bottom Line: Parenting styles are associated with different child outcomes and the
authoritative style is generally linked to positive behaviors such as strong self-esteem and selfcompetence. However, other important factors including culture, children's perceptions of
parental treatment, and social influences also play an important role in children's behavior.
References
Baumrind, D. (1967). Child-care practices anteceding three patterns of preschool behavior. Genetic Psychology Monographs, 75, 43-88.
Baumrind, D. (1991). The influence of parenting style on adolescent competence and substance use. Journal of Early Adolescence, 11(1), 56-95.
Maccoby, E. E., & Martin, J. A. (1983). Socialization in the context of the family: Parentchild interaction. In P. H. Mussen & E. M. Hetherington, Handbook of child
psychology: Vol. 4. Socialization, personality, and social development (4th ed.). New York: Wiley.
Maccoby, E.E. (1992). The role of parents in the socialization of children: An historical overview. Developmental Psychology, 28, 1006-1017.
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Diana Baumrind studied social, clinical and developmental psychology in the late
1940s and early '50s. She chose research after she graduated with a PhD because
she felt it would give her flexibility in caring for her daughters, according to the
American Psychological Association. During the 1970s, she conducted extensive
studies of parent-child interactions in the home. Baumrind developed the theory
that there were four main types of parenting styles and that differences in parenting
styles accounted for the way children functioned socially, emotionally and
cognitively.
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Baumrind felt that there were four dimensions of parent-child interactions: parental
control, maturity demands, clarity of communication and nurturance. "Parental
control" is related to such issues as enforcing rules. "Maturity demand" is the
parental expectation that children perform up to their potential. "Clarity of
communication" reflects the parents willingness to communicate with their
children, solicit their opinions and use reasoning to obtain the desired behavior.
"Nurturance" is related to parental expressions of warmth and approval, and
protection of childrens physical and emotional well-being. Using these four
dimensions, Baumrind identified four parenting styles: authoritative, authoritarian,
permissive-indulgent and permissive-uninvolved.
Authoritative Parenting
The authoritative style is considered the ideal parenting style and seems to
produce children with high levels of self-reliance and self-esteem, who are socially
responsible, independent and achievement-oriented, according to Education.com.
Authoritative parents set clear expectations and have high standards. They monitor
their childrens behavior, use discipline based on reasoning and encourage their
children to make decisions and learn from their mistakes. They are also warm and
nurturing, treating their children with kindness, respect and affection.
Authoritarian Parenting
Although the word sounds similar, authoritarian parenting is different in many ways
from authoritative parenting. The authoritarian parent tends to set rigid rules,
demand obedience and use strategies such as the withdrawal of love or approval to
force a child to conform. These parents are more likely to use physical punishment
or verbal insults to elicit the desired behavior. They lack the warmth of the
authoritative parent and may seem aloof to their children. Children with
authoritarian parents may be well-behaved, but they are also likely to be moody
and anxious; they tend to be followers rather than leaders, according to
Education.com.
Permissive-Indulgent Parenting
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References
American Psychological Association: Diana Blumberg Baumrind
Education.com: Parenting Styles
NYU Child Study Center: Parenting Styles/Children's Temperaments, The Match
University of California, Berkeley: Effects of Authoritative Parental Control on Child
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Kids from authoritarian families may be relatively well-behaved. But they also tend
to be less resourceful, have poorer social skills, and lower self esteem. Compared
with kids from authoritative households, kids exposed to authoritarian discipline
may also achieve less at school.
Uninvolved parents are like permissive parents, but they lack warmth
Authoritative parents, like authoritarian parents, set limits and enforce standards.
But unlike authoritarian parents, authoritative parents are very responsive or
nurturing. In addition, authoritative parents encourage their kids to ask questions,
and they explain the rationale behind the rules. Authoritative parents are also less
likely to control kids through the induction of shame, guilt, or the withdrawal of love.
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Overall, studies report that kids from authoritarian families get into less trouble than
kids from permissive or uninvolved families.
This is true for drug and alcohol use, and it seems to be the case for other risky
behaviors, like driving without a seat belt (Ginsburg et al 2004).
2. Many studies reporting links between behavior problems and parenting style
depend on self-reports, meaning that they measure behavior problems by asking
the kids to report on their own misdeeds.
Self-reports suggest that kids from authoritarian families are about as well-behaved
as kids from authoritative families. But when researchers have used other ways of
measuring misbehavior, they have gotten different results.
Another study tracked American kids of different ethnicities for four years--from the
ages of 9 to 13. At several points in time, researchers asked teachers to rate the
kids tendencies for social and physical aggression. The results suggested that
authoritarianism might contribute to child aggression:
Compared with kids from authoritative families, kids with authoritarian mothers
became more aggressive over time (Underwood et al 2009).
Kids from authoritarian families are less resourceful and less socially-adept
Examples?
China. One study of 2nd graders in Beijing found that kids from authoritarian
families were rated as less socially competent by their teachers. They were also
more aggressive and less likely to be accepted by their peers (Chen et al 1997).
Other Chinese research has linked the punitive aspects of authoritarianism with
poorer social functioning (Zhou et al 2004).
Cyprus. When researchers questioned 231 young adolescents about their cultural
values and experiences with peers, they found that kids from authoritarian homes
were more likely to have experienced bullying -- both as victims and perpetrators
(Georgiou et al 2013).
Turkey. In a study of Turkish high school students, kids from authoritarian families
were rated as less resourceful than kids from authoritarian or permissive parents
(Turkel and Tzer 2008).
South America and Spain. Researchers in Latin cultures report that authoritarian
parents are more likely to have kids with low social competence (Martinez et al
2007; Garcia and Gracia 2009).
The Netherlands. In Dutch studies, kids with authoritarian parents were rated as
less helpful and less popular by their teachers and classmates. They were also rated
as less mature in their reasoning about moral issues (Dekovic and Jannsens 1992;
Jannsens and Dekovic 1997).
Kids from authoritarian families are more likely to suffer from emotional
problems...at least in some populations
Does authoritarian parenting put kids at greater risk of anxiety, low self-esteem, and
depression?
Maybe yes.
This was true for all ethnic groups, but the effect was strongest among European
Americans.
Studies of Spanish and Brazilian adolescents have reported that teens from
authoritarian homes had lower self-esteem than did teens from authoritative or
permissive families (Martinez and Garcia 2007; Martinez and Garcia 2008).
German researchers found that teens with authoritarian parents were more likely
to suffer from trait anxiety. They were also more likely to experience
depersonalization--the feeling of watching oneself act without being in control of
ones actions (Wolfradt et al 2003).
And research in China suggests that kids with harsh parents have more trouble
regulating their emotions (Chang 2003; Wang et al 2006).
But the authoritarian parenting style isnt always linked with emotional problems.
Studies of contemporary American adolescents have failed to find emotional
differences between kids from authoritarian, authoritative, and permissive homes
(Lamborn et al 1991; Steinberg et al 2006).
And research on adolescents in the Middle East have also failed to find a link
between authoritarian caregiving and psychological problems like depression
(Dwairy 2004; Dwairy and Menshar 2006).
I suspect the effects of authoritarianism depend on how harsh, cold, or punitive the
parent is.
For instance, some research suggests that corporal punishment is linked with higher
rates of depression and anxiety among children.
It also seems likely that culture plays a role. If kids perceive authoritarianism as
normal and mainstream, they may be less distressed by it.
In addition, experiments suggest that people learn better from positive feedback
than from negative feedback, and this may be especially true for kids (Schmittmann
et al 2006; van Duijvenvoorde et al 2008).
For example, a study of adolescents in the San Francisco Bay Area found that the
authoritarian parenting style was linked with lower school grades for all ethnic
groups (Dornbusch et al 1987). These findings are supported by other, similar
studies (Steinberg et al 1989; Steinberg et al 1992).
Counter evidence: Are the effects less harmful when parents are less educated? Or
live in disadvantaged neighborhoods? Or Chinese?
Some studies of kids from lower socioeconomic groups have failed to show any
difference in academic performances between authoritative and authoritarian
families (Lamborn et al 1996; Steinberg et al 2009).
Its even been suggested that kids with relatively less-educated parents do better in
school when they are from authoritarian homes (Leung et al 1998).
On the one hand, authoritarianism has been linked with poorer school performance
in Beijing (Chen et al 1997) and Taiwan (Pong et al 2010).
On the other hand, studies of Hong Kong Chinese (Leung et al 1998) and of Chinese
immigrants to North America (Chao 2001) have linked authoritarian parenting with
higher school achievement.
Maybe peer pressure swamps the effects of parenting. Some peer groups support
school achievement. Others discourage it. One study of U.S. school students found
that Asian Americans tended to have peer groups that encouraged scholarship, and
they performed well at school even when their parents were authoritarian. African
Americans tended to have peer groups that rejected good students. These kids did
more poorly in school even when their parents were authoritative and highlyeducated (Steinberg et al 1992).
But Im a bit skeptical about the idea that authoritarian parenting could make some
kids into better students. The experimental research is compelling. Moreover,
achievement in math, science, and many other academic fields depends on critical
thinkingsomething that authoritarian parenting seems to discourage.
Indeed, there is evidence that schools run along authoritarian principles produce
inferior students. In a study comparing American high schools, Lisa Pellerin found
that authoritative schools got the best results. Authoritarian schools had the worst
rates of dropouts (Pellerin 2004).
And morality?
Moreover, kids from authoritarian families may be more likely to tune out their
parents as they get older.
For instance, when researchers tracked American middle and high school studies
over 18 months, they found that kids who identified their parents as more
authoritarian were more likely to reject their parents as legitimate authority figures.
They were also more likely to engage in delinquency over time (Trinker et al 2012).
More information
For more information about the four basic parenting styles, check out "Parenting
styles: A guide for the science-minded."
For a more information about the ways that researchers define and identify
authoritarian parents, see "The authoritarian parenting style: Definitions, research,
and cultural differences."
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Parenting style refers to the normative patterns of behavior and tactics that parents
use to socialize and control their children. Early work on parenting styles in the
1950s (e.g., Sears, Maccoby, & Levin, 1957) documented that adults who were
nurturing and able to exert control were especially influential on children's
development of self-regulated and disciplined behavior. Others (Lewin, Lippitt, &
White, 1939) documented that adult leadership styles in classroom-like settings
resulted in different levels of engagement on the part of children, with relatively
warm and egalitarian styles resulting in greater task involvement, more selfregulated and autonomous behavior, and more competent performance than either
highly controlling or permissive styles. From this work evolved a general approach
to the study of parenting styles focused on socialization strategies reflecting
demandingness and responsiveness. Demandingness, or control, refers to the
degree to which parents attempt to integrate a child into the family social system
by enforcing family rules and standards for behavior, setting expectations that are
developmentally appropriate, and providing structure; responsiveness, or warmth,
refers to parental attempts to support the development of their child's individuality
and self-assertive tendencies by being attentive to the child's emotional well-being,
special needs, and interests.
Following this early work, Diana Baumrind (1971) conducted extensive observations
of parents interacting with their children in their homes and concluded that four
dimensions of parent-child interactions reflecting types of responsiveness and
control could predict reliably children's social, emotional, and cognitive functioning.
Parental control reflected consistent enforcement of rules, provision of structure to
children's activities, and persistence in gaining child compliance; maturity demands
reflected expectations to perform up to one's potential, and demands for selfreliance and self-control; clarity of communication reflected the extent to which
parents solicit children's opinions and feelings, and use reasoning to obtain
compliance; and nurturance reflected parental expressions of warmth and approval
as well as conscientious protection of children's physical and emotional well-being.
Although findings have been fairly robust and consistent with respect to the benefits
of responsive and demanding parenting, several conceptual and methodological
issues preclude strong conclusions about the effects of parenting styles on children.
A central issue is that most researchers document parenting on the part of just one
parent, most often the mother. Little is known about the frequency with which both
parents display similar parenting styles or about the effects of discordant styles on
children's development. Similarly, few studies document parenting styles within the
context of broader family systems. It also is not clear how consistent parenting
styles are across contexts and age of the child. In this regard, the degree to which
consistency moderates the effects of parenting styles on child outcomes is not
known. However, inconsistent parenting has been related to aggressive and
noncompli-ant behavior throughout childhood and adolescence (Wentzel, 1994).
Of final interest are the processes and mechanisms by which parenting styles might
have their influence on child outcomes. To illustrate, reasons for why responsive
parenting should be related to a child's academic performance have not been well
articulated. Darling and Steinberg (1993) argued that parenting styles are part of a
more complex system of parental inputs that include goals and expectations for
their children (e.g., expectations for academic performance) and provisions of
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