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In life we sometimes may feel like were walking alone, but we dont have to be
as long as were honest with ourselves, and ask for help when needed. You can
find strength and support through a board of advisors you create. These are
your go-to people when youre in need of sound advice, a new perspective, a
certain expertise, or simply an empathetic ear. Members of the board can
include individuals you know whose opinions you respect and character you
trust. Your personal B.O.A. can also include your role models from past and
present, historical or fictional. Ask, for example: What would (role model A)
say about my situation?, or What would (role model B) do if she were in my
shoes? Asking for help is not the same as complaining. Habitual complainers
dwell on whats wrong. Successful people assume responsibility for finding the
support they need to solve the problem.
Normal people have problems. The smart ones get help.
- Daniel Amen
4. Thrive on your strengths while exploring new potential
We each have certain dispositions in which we naturally excel. Some of us are
great with people, others are handy with tools, yet others thrive on information.
A mismatch between what youre naturally good at and your work in life is
wasted potential. There are a myriad of assessment tools available that can help
you determine your natural strengths, as well as your areas of greatest potential.
For more information regarding this point, see my article Follow Your Bliss:
Discover Your True Calling in Life .
When you follow your bliss doors will open where you would not have
thought there would be doors, and where there wouldn't be a door for anyone
else.
- Joseph Campbell
5. Keep the fun and enjoyment
Van Wilder from the movie of the same name said: You shouldnt take life too
seriously. Youll never get out alive. No matter how difficult the
circumstances, resolve to keep the fun and enjoyment in your life. Make a point
to take a mini-vacation everyday; be it walking in the park, exercising,
hugging a loved one, or taking a nice, hot bath. The more challenging and
stressful life is, the more important it is to take good care of yourself so you can
relax your body, ease your mind, and rejuvenate your spirit. After recharging
your batteries, you may see the same situation in a different, more positive light.
I once heard a courageous person say that there are no losers in life, except for
those who give up on themselves. If youre still alive and breathing, your
purpose in this life time is not yet fulfilled. The great adventure is in
discovering what that purpose is, and to live it until your last breath. If youre
reading this article, youre probably being pulled by an inner calling to do more.
That calling is your adventure waiting to happen. What are you waiting for?
And what are you willing to do now?
Abraham Lincoln lost eight elections, failed twice in business and suffered a
nervous breakdown before he became the president of the United States.
- Wall Street Journal
If you dont have the capacity to change yourself and your own attitudes, then
nothing around you can be changed.
- Anwar Sadat
The marvelous richness of human experience would lose something of
rewarding joy if there were no limitations to overcome. The hilltop hour would
not be half so wonderful if there were no dark valleys to traverse.
- Helen Keller