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Four Ways to Catalyze
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2010 by Susan DeGenring.
CLEAN Talk: Four Ways to Catalyze Positive Performance
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
Introduction
What is Clean Talk?
Why Should You Care?
Clean Talk Background
The Art of Conversation
4
Strategy Behind Clean Talk 7
How It Works
Four Channels of Communication
9
The Data Channel 13
The Assessment Channel 14
The Wants Channel 15
The Feelings Channel
Emotional Intelligence
Whats in a Feeling?
The Four Basic Emotions
16
Integration Clean Talk in Your Life
Six Steps for Developing Clean Talking Habits
Clean Talk
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Template
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If you lead teams, collaborate on teams, are responsible for the professional
development of teams and leaders, or simply want to improve your own
leadership skills, this booklet is for you.
What is Clean Talk
TM
?
Clean Talk
TM
is a communications approach
specifically designed for expressing challenging
or difficult messages by using language to evoke
collaboration rather than compliance, proaction rather than
reaction, and agility rather than rigidity. The result highly
resilient work partnerships that produce positive performance.
Why should you care?
Speaking cleanly using language clean of emotional
triggers, imperious tones, or veiled accusation results in
more clarity and efficiency in situations in which you depend
on others to get the job done (which most of us do). Not being
thoughtful and strategic about our use of language can generate
resentment, resistance, or apathy in our colleagues and instill
an environment of fear and mistrust, especially by leaders with
influence and power.
On the other hand, in a world where executive and political scandal seem to erupt in the news
every other week, leadership transparency and authenticity are becoming more and more
valuable qualities. The ability to work well with others, handle pressure, get work done through
others these are all related to whether the language you use is congruent with the messages
people pick up. The context of the situation, your body language and your tone of voice all pack
into the meaning people make of your words. And these all elicit emotional responses, favorable
or not, in our listeners. Awareness of this directly impacts a leader or teammates performance.
This approach to
emotional
intelligence through
the lens of Clean Talk
will give you
practical ways to
manage your
conversations and
access emotion as a
lever of positive
performance.
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We have hard data to confirm this. In Daniel Golemans research on emotions in the workplace,
outlined in Working with Emotional Intelligence,
1
he compared competency models across 121
organizations defining what makes for successful performance. The results are startling:
67% two out of three of the abilities deemed essential for effective
performance were emotional competencies. Compared to IQ and expertise,
emotional competence mattered twice as much. This held true across all
categories of jobs, and in all kinds of organizations. (page 31)
So why do we cling to the illusion that emotions have no place at work? Given the evidence of
their importance as a performance success indicator, youd think wed pay more attention. But the
truth is that being effective and emotionally authentic in the workplace is more challenging that it
should be. I maintain its because we havent been well trained not in business school, not in
many of our families, not in our formative elementary educations. This approach to emotional
intelligence, through the lens of Clean Talk, will give you practical ways to manage your
conversations and access emotion as a lever of positive performance rather than ignore feelings
yours and those of others as if they dont exist or have no impact.
Clean Talk Background
Clean Talk began with the work of Cliff Barry, founder of Shadow Work