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Selflessness (Al-eethar)
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This word covers a large number of concepts which are to be taken together; amongst them are self-respect,
modesty, bashfulness, scruple, etc (a footnote added by the translator).
The Manners 2 Selflessness (Al-eethar)
“Al-tawadu”2, which is translated as humbleness in English;
the translation of this word means humility only rather than
Al-tawadu with its broad sense. This also applies to the
word “al-’eethar”.
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This word covers a lot of concepts; amongst them are submission, subservience, respecting others, humility, etc
(a footnote added by the translator).
The Manners 3 Selflessness (Al-eethar)
himself, it means that he preferred this person to himself for
the sake of the reward of the hereafter.
Examples of Al-’eethar:
When the guest came, she made her children sleep and
turned the lamp off. Then, both of them pretended to be
eating while the guest ate until he became full. When they
went to pray the dawn prayer, the Prophet (PBUH) said to
them, “Tonight Allah wondered at your action”- that is to
say, Allah has been pleased with what you have done to
your guest this night. Then, Allah revealed what can be
translated as “and give them (emigrants) preference over
themselves even though they were in need of that” (TMQ
59:9).3 It means that they prefer others even though they
were in toiling, hunger, poverty or need.
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Authentic Hadith
The Manners 7 Selflessness (Al-eethar)
On the day of Uhud, Talha Ibn-Ubaidullah came to the
Prophet and told him, “Do not raise your head, O
Messenger of Allah. (Let) my neck (be struck) rather than
your neck, O Messenger of Allah.” When the Prophet was
shot with an arrow, Talha intercepted it with his honorable
hand, causing it to be paralyzed.
Open your cupboard and have a look at it, you will find out
that there are clothes that you have not worn for years, or
even have not worn at all. Why do not you give them to the
needy? I am not asking you to give them the new clothes
you have, although the Prophet gave others the new clothes
he had! What do you think of that? What do you think of the
one who shares his house with others! It is a very hard
example to follow, is it not?
The Manners 10 Selflessness (Al-eethar)
When the Prophet (PBUH) and his Companions immigrated
to Al-Madinah, the Prophet went to the Ansar and told
them, “Your brothers (Al-Muhajireen) have come to you
and they know nothing about agriculture. What do you
think of sharing your property with them?” They replied,
“Yes, O Messenger of Allah. We will divide our money
equally between us and them”. The Messenger wanted the
Ansar only to help the Muhajireen when he asked, “Can you
help them more?” the Ansar replied, “How, O Messenger of
Allah?” He said to them, “Share your fruits with them" -
because they can neither make use of money nor get out of
Al-Madinah as it is besieged. They replied, “Yes, O
Messenger of Allah, but for what (in return), O Messenger
of Allah?” He said to them, “For Al-Jannah”.
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A good and trustworthy hadith from the book of Hujjah with a sound chain of authority
The Manners 20 Selflessness (Al-eethar)
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