BY DANIEL FRIDAY This article was written to help young single youths and mostly ladies to help them build their future. 1. You can tell what direction a person is going by the type of friends they keep. They will be just like their friends. 2. Never go out with a guy who does not want to come to your house. 3. The way you dress determines your value. Dress like a ho and you will be treated like a ho. Men are stimulated by sight. 4. God never deals with your body. He tells you to control your own desires. 5. God will never zip up your pants or put on your clothes back on for you. 6. Never enter a relationship to change somebody. The worst place to change someone is in the context of a relationship 7. Do not advertise what is not for sale. Keep hidden secret and every part of your body that are designed to be private. 8. Guys take affection more than the ladies. An innocent gesture by a female may be taken as sexual interest. 9. Never go out with a guy who will not go to church with you, If he loves you he would go to church with you and do everything that is important. 10. Be careful of a guy who would come to your house and meet your parents and act the part of a good boy only to take advantage of you later. 11. If he or she says if you love me you will do it this is a clear sign that they dont love you. People who love you dont pressurize you into doing something you did not plan on doing. 12. Never get into a relationship with a person ho has no clear plan for the future. You can drift by yourself. 13. If a guy begs you and coerces you for sex, Chances are there that he has done it to many other girls. 14. Sex is not a treasured experience for most males. Males value sex much less than females do. 15. Avoid putting yourself in a position to be a victim of date rape. Keep yourself from private situations especially private bedroom situations. 16. Alcohol and drugs are a prescription for sexual compromise virgins should stay away from alcohol. 17. Aids can spread by kissing although it may not be a typical occurrence. 18. There is no such thing as a Christian hormone. All humans have the same hormones. 19. Choose to go out only with persons you believe you can live with in a marriage. 20. Look for qualities in others that you like others to see in you. 21. Never try to buy someones affection. The more you spend the more you will actually loose. 22. Good looks are important but good character is more important. 23. There is nothing wrong with making yourself physically attractive as long as it does not become an obsession. 24. Develop the eating habits now that will cause you to remain physically attractive for a long time. 25. Be patient with yourself and others. Being young means having the opportunity to change and grow. 26. Love takes time to be understood and developed. Never rush love. 27. The bible is still the best source of information when it comes to sex and relationships. After all, it came from the manufacturer. 28. Never get married just because you have problems with sexual control. Get married if you are having problems with sexual control with the person you plan to marry anyhow. 29. Before you buy a new car, Purchase real estate. This will be a valuable asset whenever you get married. 30. Count the cost before you take your clothes off. Are you willing to pay the price? 31. Infatuation is often disguised as love but is disappointedly not the same. 32. Sex is never without consequence. Sex is always tied to some other responsibilities. 33. Premarital sex is never free. Someone always pays in one way or another. 34. Dont let others buy you expensive gifts. They will always want something for their money. 35. Be careful of guys who make big promises. In most cases they cannot and will never deliver. 36. The younger you are the further you should stay away from relationship commitments 37. You only have one body. If you damage it there is no replacement 38. The aids virus many times smaller than sperm. You can get aids as much more quickly than you can get pregnant. 39. Sexually transmitted diseases have no socioeconomic or class preference. They affect everyone at the same time. 40. Pregnancy can occur from your very first sexual experience. 41. Penetration is not necessary for pregnancy. Sexual fluids can enter the vagina without actual penetration. 42., Those who give into sexual pressure now lose out later in life. Those who hold out now win when it counts most. 43. The most valuable commodity is one that is unused. The same applies to your sexuality. 44. Most men who are sexually active still prefer a virgin when they want to get married. 45. A good education will take a young person more further and result in better relationships than premature sex. 46. Animals have sex by instinct. Humans are supposed to have sex by choice. 47. Sexual intercourse is not unique. Anyone can have sex but not everyone can experience right sex 48. Sex and love are very different. Sex is a desire (appetite). Love is a decision (and commitment) 49. Sex never causes people to love each other. If sex caused love the world would be a very lovely place. 50. Love can be expressed sexually in the right time and place (marriage) 51. Love creates feelings, but love is not a feeling. Dont let the feelings lead you into believing it is love. 52. True love comes from the author of love. All other brands of love are all imitations. 53. Experience is not the best teacher when it comes to sex. Truth is the best teacher 54. The fastest ticket to misery is to be in a hurry for love. Many young people have been hurt by being in a hurry. 55. Looking at a persons parents gives you the good indication of what type of person he or she will become. 56. Sexual stimulation only creates appetite for more sexual stimulations. 57. True friends are two people who respect conviction. 58. Always let the opposite sex know what your convictions are regarding sex and relationships. 59. Listening to love songs create desire for love. Be careful what you feed your mind. whatever you take in will always show up. 60. Most of the messages in media today about love are in fact messages abut lust. 61. Learn to make friends and not lovers, Friend can become great lovers in time. 62. Love is patient and kind , not selfish. Be careful of impatient love. 63. Love seeks the best in others. Can you say that about the person who is interested in you? 64. There is no school for love and relationships. You have to train yourself before you enter. 65. If you have failed sexually that does not make a failure. Get up and move on you can RE-VIRGINIZE 66. Men do not prefer women who have had babies for other men. 67. Soap operas are one of the worst sources of information on relationships. 68. Styles and fashions change but standards remain the same. There is nothing wrong with fashion wrong with fashion as long as it does not compromise your standard. 69. It is much easier to get to know the real person as friend than as a lover. 70. Time is one of your greatest assets and greatest liabilities. Use time as assets by not rushing into commitments. 71. The more you know about the purpose of sex the less likely you are to abuse it. 72. Always look at the private life of ad-visors. If they are advising your relationships and theirs are not working, You need new ad-visors. 73. You can tell the role of a thing by its design. Men are designed as givers and women receivers. 74. If you are a female learn to be feminine. If you are male, Learn to be masculine. Most males want a masculine female and most female want feminine male. 75. Learning manners and how to treat the opposite sex is good while you are young. This can cause great benefit to your relationships for years to come. 76. Never confuse having a good time with being in Love. A good time is just that a good period of time. 77. The male ego craves praise and positive strokes. Give with caution 78. Women will always be more delicate than males. Give them adequate attention. 79. A woman is naturally more emotional. Dont be confused by her emotional fluctuations 80. Infatuation is when you are madly in love by yourself and only you know it. 81. Choose to be interested in someone of the same similar background with similar goals in life. 82. Entertainers make extremely poor role models. There is not a more confused group on earth like celebrities 83. A condom can be characterized as a con job into being dumb, If used as a cure for all sexual protection. 84. There is no such thing as a safe sex. Sex can never be safer with certain precautions but sex is never safe. There are always risks involved. 85. It is better to wait to have sex than to have to go through constant feeling of guilt after the act. 86. Trust is most important in relationship. If you cant trust someone then you have no relationship. 87. If you fall in love you can just as quickly fall out of love. 88. When you arte young it is more important to get an education and develop yourself as an individual than it is to win the approval of others. 89. The bible says out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. Whatever is on the inside of a person will eventually come out of his or her mouth. 90. Only God know and can really help us to become the best. We need to put our faith in God to help us deal with the opposite sex. 91. Never play around relationships by leading the opposite sex on. The end result could be problems for you and the other person. 92. The best things in life are often the most simple. A kind word and consideration can work wonders. 93. The best thing to do in a difficult sexual situation is to RUN like Joseph in the bible. In fact, The bible says RUN away from lusts. 94. The most difficult relationship is a long distance relationship (where persons are far away in different locations) 95. Do not enter a relationship with someone who has a completely different ideology. The bible states How can two persons walk together if they dont agree? 96. Self control means you have control of yourself. You cannot ask anyone else to help you control yourself. 97. Always talk to someone older than yourself who you can trust. They have been there before even if not the exact circumstances. 98. Your peers are often the worst counselors. This is often like the blind leading the blind. 99. The only thing wrong with being a virgin is there are not enough people who are smart enough to make choice. 100. Do not judge the opposite sex by physical appearance. The cutest or most handsome is not always the best. 101. Flirting is an invitation for trouble. Say what you mean and mean what you say.