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When an astrology student first attempts to do an astrological compatibility reading, he or she is overwhelmed by the amount of information that is available. To get a good reading on a horoscope compatibility chart, and in fact any astrology chart, you need to focus on what matters most. In fact one of the hallmar s of e!perience is the ability to recogni"e the areas of greatest importance in a chart, and not over#emphasi"ing relatively minor factors.
While all astrological factors do influence human beings and their relationships to some degree, we need to start somewhere specific so we do not get lost in the intricacies of chart interpretation.$ %ocus on the ma&or horoscope compatibility factors first.
%or compatibility in all inds of relationships' Sun, (oon and )scendant or )SC.
%or marriage and romance' Sun, (oon, *enus and (ars are especially important. )lso the +escendant or seventh house and the fifth house.
The Sun and the (oon are the masculine and feminine in every person. While the Sun signifies the life force, the (oon symboli"es feelings, instincts and the subconscious.
In synastry or the astrology of relationships, aspects between one partner,s Sun and the other,s (oon, or Sun to Sun or (oon to (oon, are e!tremely important. These two planets or lights are
two of the most defining astrological influences in each individual. When your Sun and-or (oon connects with that of another person, you two feel connected to each other.
The Sun tells us the power you bring to your relationships. .ust as the physical sun lights up and eeps alive the world with its energy, so your inner sun invigorates your connections with others and yourself. It is life.$ /our relationships must give your Sun room to e!press itself or else you would be frustrated and angered.
The (oon is the moody, changeable, emotional side of you. It see s comfort from certain e!periences 0denoted by your (oon sign1 in order to feel good about itself.$ It is crucial that your relationships satisfy the cravings of your (oon. If not, you feel neglected, unloved and even ill.
When your Sun and (oon signs are compatible with your partner,s, it suggests feelings of peace, contentment and mutual understanding. 2armonious aspects li e the con&unction, se!tile and trine ma e you tolerant of each other. /ou have similar personalities that allow you to get along well.
When your Sun and (oon signs are incompatible, and perhaps in negative aspect such as a s3uare or opposition, it shows ma&or differences. These bring disagreements, 3uarrels and conflicting views and values. This is not always a bad thing, for what relationship does not need some friction?$ $ 4ut you do need to wor harder to get along than if your planets were compatible.
These are not planets but houses, divisions in each person,s chart. 4ut the )scendant along with the +escendant are e!traordinarily important in astrological compatibility. The first house 0)scendant1 sets the tone for the whole chart. It is your most all#pervading personality, influencing all including your Sun and (oon. The seventh house 0+escendant1 is your 5other side6 as well as your 5other half.6
In relationships, the )scendant shows how you pro&ect your personality and how you approach the relationship and life itself. The +escendant is the type of partner you are attracted to.
When your )scendant and +escendant and your partner,s are in compatible signs, it denotes strong mutual attraction. There is a lot of agreement about life and love.
The )scendant in strong aspect to the Sun or (oon is a ma&or indicator of compatibility.
)nother important house in synastry is the fifth house, which rules romance, se!, entertainment and children.
These two planets are highly important in readings about marriage and romance. *enus and (ars govern how we e!press ourselves in love and se!ual encounters.
*enus has traditionally been associated with women, and (ars for men. In today,s world this is still true but only partially. 4oth men and women respond to these planets in their charts, and so do homose!uals and people of any se!ual orientation.
4riefly, *enus governs our social nature. It is how you want to love and be loved.$ *enus also rules lu!ury and pleasure. It is how you li e to indulge and have fun. When your *enus is compatible or in good aspect with your partner,s, it means your ideas of love, friendship and entertainment are similar. /ou li e to do the same things for fun, and you ma e each other feel good. When *enus ma es a hard aspect, it ma es it hard for two people to rela! in each other,s presence.$ Sympathy and light#heartedness are lac ing.
(ars is masculine power for both men and women. It rules passion and the se! drive. (ars is how you step up and ta e action. When (ars is compatible or in good aspect in a horoscope compatibility chart, you boost courage in each other. /our energies wor in harmony rather than against each other. /ou can achieve a lot together. 4ut (ars in a bad aspect causes ego# conflict and perhaps a lot of e!plosive fights. (ars in incompatible signs means each of you wor s in his or her own way. Perhaps one is direct and confrontational, the other is not.
*enus and (ars in aspect or in compatible signs is a powerful indicator of compatibility. In fact, it is one of the classic signs of mutual love and attraction in astrology. The con&unction is most powerful, the se!tile and trine and gentler while the s3uare and opposition are tense and perhaps something of a 7love-hate6 thing. )ll aspects heighten the se!ual e!perience.
Saturn
Saturn does not bring the pleasure or comfort associated with the other planets. 4ut it is important because it is from Saturn that we get to urge to structure our lives. Without a healthy dose of Saturnian energy, our relationships lac stability and reliability.
4ecause Saturn has a serious vibe, it sobers up whatever it touches. )spects to the Sun, (oon, )scendant and-or *enus are very influential on a relationship. These aspects tend to create a lifelong bonds, with a sense of obligation toward each other. (any believe that people with Saturn aspects to the personal planets show 5past life6 or 5 armic6 ties between two people.
Conclusion
)strology and compatibility is a comple! and challenging area of study. To get a good grasp of charts, focus on the ma&or factors. first. In synastry, some planets deserve special consideration.$ +o not overloo other influences8 &ust use these as a starting point. If there are no signs of compatibility among these planets and houses, it would be difficult for a relationship to thrive.
generous. 5enus in water signs is motherly, caring and sensual) alues emotional ties and is possessi e o! its lo ed ones. 5enus in air signs is a social animal, popular and eager to share with others) it alues !riendship and !airness to others. 5enus in earth signs is constant and help!ul) emphasi"es material possessions and gains. .trongest6 5enus in ,aurus, 5enus in 1ibra, 5enus in Pisces #eakest6 5enus in .corpio, 5enus in Aries, 5enus in 5irgo Mars Sign Your passion and "ill po"er. 't(s how you assert yoursel! to get what you want. 't also shows your physical energy. Mars in !ire signs resorts to action to get what it desires) power!ul and manly ; 9might is right.: Mars in water signs acts indirectly, perhaps secretly, to get what it wants) it may appear weak or passi e on the outside but is resilient on the inside. Mars in air signs resorts to argument to persuade others or pro e itsel! right) it has more mental than physical energy. Mars in earth signs goes slowly but surely, getting what it wants through an indomitable persistence. .trongest6 Mars in Aries, Mars in .corpio, Mars in 3apricorn #eakest6 Mars in 1ibra, Mars in ,aurus, Mars in 3ancer 'upiter Sign /our !aith and sel!7con!idence. The 'upiter sign descri!e things or talents that co e easily to you. <pportunity. =upiter in !ire signs means your con!idence lies in being physically acti e when pursuing isions. =upiter in water signs gi es !aith in your intuition and !eelings) things come easily to you when you !ollow your gut. =upiter in air signs brings opportunity to you when you e-plore social and intellectual realms) you ha e a gi!t !or connecting with people and ideas. =upiter in earth signs brings opportunities when you work hard and take a practical approach to things. .trongest6 =upiter in .agittarius, =upiter in Pisces, =upiter in 3ancer #eakest6 =upiter in 4emini, =upiter in 5irgo, =upiter in 3apricorn Saturn Sign /our !ears and responsibility. The Saturn sign sho"s ho" you strive to !ring structure to your life. .aturn in !ire signs shows a desire to be more acti e, independent and sel!7reliant while still being sel!7controlled. .aturn in water signs needs to learn to e-press one(s !eelings without being o erwhelmed by them. .aturn in air signs needs to learn to de elop intellectual and social skills without being too negati e or too concerned with what others think. .aturn in earth signs stri es to de elop arious practical skills so that one can be more e!!icient and producti e in daily li!e. .trongest6 .aturn in 3apricorn, .aturn in A+uarius, .aturn in 1ibra #eakest6 .aturn in 3ancer, .aturn in 1eo, .aturn in Aries (ranus& )eptune and Pluto Signs ,hese are generational rather than indi idual. ,hey are important only when the planet is unusually strong or i! the person is a ery ad anced 9spiritual: being.
,he !ollowing is a suggested way to proceed. /ou do not ha e to use the e-act order shown here. And with e-perience, you will !ind you proceed !aster and less mechanically. ' credit authors like >od .uskin and =ulia and @erek Parker !or e-cellent books on synastry practice. 'n the back o! .uskin(s synastry book, you(ll !ind a comprehensi e checklist se eral pages long. 't(s much better than this one here. http6BBastrology!iles.comBwp7contentBuploadsB2011B0CB.ynastryDElowchart.*pg
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C. Assess relationship needs and pre!erences The do inant ele ent. $ach human being is a uni+ue mi-ture o! the !our elements. #hat makes each o! us uni+ue is the distribution o! the elements in our personalities. Most o! us are predominantly one element or two. ,ry to gauge each sub*ect(s dominant element. Eiery people are acti e, temperamental and bold) airy people are sociable and talkati e) watery people are emotional and intro erted) earthy people are, well, down7to7earth and practical. Hsually, the dominant element is the element o! either the sun, moon or ascendant. The sun& oon and ascendant. ,he trio o! ego, !eelings and body describe the most essential needs and moti ations o! a person. ,he sun sign and house position show a path to !ul!illment) the moon sign and house to com!ort and security) the ascending sign 0and a planet strong in the !irst house2 show how one acts in and interacts with the world. A house e phasis. 3heck i! the planets emphasi"e a particular house, +uadrant or hemisphere o! the chart. A !ull house means the nati e pours out much o! their energy into the a!!airs o! that house. A strong !irst +uadrant suggests a sel!7made person, more concerned with his or her own personal de elopment than what goes on with e eryone else. A strong second +uadrant makes one !ocused on a pri ate li!e shared with others. ,he third +uadrant emphasi"es partnership and dependence on others. A strong !ourth +uadrant may be a leader, one keen on making an impact in society. #hen the upper hemisphere is emphasi"ed, the indi idual is !ocused on public li!e. #hen the lower hemisphere is !ull, the pri ate li!e is more important. *elationship needs and preferences. Pick out natal chart !actors that may in!luence the sub*ect(s attitude toward relationships. $-amples are6 the se enth house, planets in that house and its ruler) 5enus and Mars) the !i!th house, planets in that house and its ruler) the !ourth house, its planets and ruler, etc. 1ook !or aspects and placements that suggest commitment such as .aturn, strong desire !or a relationship such as 1ibra, need !or independence such as Hranus or A+uarius, lo e o! !amily such as 3ancer or the !ourth house) abo e7a erage need !or se- such as .corpio or a strong Mars, and so on.
between two birth charts. #hile it can get complicated, it helps when you ha e a system to !ollow. /ou will need prior knowledge o! basic chart interpretation and calculation.
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the re erse6 place the second partner(s chart inside and the !irst partner(s chart outside. ,his shows you isually how each chart a!!ects the other.
+uadruplicity. Eor e-ample, .corpio and 1eo are s+uare each other and are o! totally opposite elements, yet they can be power!ul together. Also the elements !ire and earth, and water and air, do well together with e!!ort. .o pare relationship factors. 8ow do the partners( needs and attitudes compare% Are they compatible% '! one is !reedom7lo ing, is the other clingy% @o they share similar alues about money, !amily and career%
,enth house o erlay6 Pro!essional success, popularity, !ul!illing public li!e, enhanced reputation, social prestige) !all !rom grace, trouble in public, lack o! direction or ambition $le enth house o erlay6 3lear sense o! purpose, planning and strategy, impro ed social li!e, in!luential !riends through partner) lack o! purpose, aimlessness, bad company ,wel!th house o erlay6 Eacing hidden issues in onesel!, letting go o! attachments, learning to sacri!ice) sel!7undoing, deception, unconscious beha ior, lack o! certainty
,his works the other way around too. ?ecause your partner sees you as someone who can make them more open and sel!7e-pressi e, they are more play!ul with you as well. /ou identi!y with this role strongly. .ee also6 sun synastry house o erlays.
,he .un tells us the power you bring to your relationships. =ust as the physical sun lights up and keeps ali e the world with its energy, so your inner sun in igorates your connections with others and yoursel!. 't is life.& /our relationships must gi e your .un room to e-press itsel! or else you would be !rustrated and angered. ,he Moon is the moody, changeable, emotional side o! you. 't seeks com!ort !rom certain e-periences 0denoted by your Moon sign2 in order to !eel good about itsel!.& 't is crucial that your relationships satis!y the cra ings o! your Moon. '! not, you !eel neglected, unlo ed and e en ill. #hen your .un and Moon signs are compatible with your partner(s, it suggests !eelings o! peace, contentment and mutual understanding. 8armonious aspects like the con*unction, se-tile and trine make you tolerant o! each other. /ou ha e similar personalities that allow you to get along well. #hen your .un and Moon signs are incompatible, and perhaps in negati e aspect such as a s+uare or opposition, it shows ma*or di!!erences. ,hese bring disagreements, +uarrels and con!licting iews and alues. ,his is not always a bad thing, !or what relationship does not need some !riction%& & ?ut you do need to work harder to get along than i! your planets were compatible.
good. #hen 5enus makes a hard aspect, it makes it hard !or two people to rela- in each other(s presence.& .ympathy and light7heartedness are lacking. Mars is masculine power !or both men and women. 't rules passion and the se- dri e. Mars is how you step up and take action. #hen Mars is compatible or in good aspect in a horoscope compatibility chart, you boost courage in each other. /our energies work in harmony rather than against each other. /ou can achie e a lot together. ?ut Mars in a bad aspect causes ego7con!lict and perhaps a lot o! e-plosi e !ights. Mars in incompatible signs means each o! you works in his or her own way. Perhaps one is direct and con!rontational, the other is not. 5enus and Mars in aspect or in compatible signs is a power!ul indicator o! compatibility. 'n !act, it is one o! the classic signs o! mutual lo e and attraction in astrology. ,he con*unction is most power!ul, the se-tile and trine and gentler while the s+uare and opposition are tense and perhaps something o! a Mlo eBhate: thing. All aspects heighten the se-ual e-perience.
Saturn
.aturn does not bring the pleasure or com!ort associated with the other planets. ?ut it is important because it is !rom .aturn that we get to urge to structure our li es. #ithout a healthy dose o! .aturnian energy, our relationships lack stability and reliability. ?ecause .aturn has a serious ibe, it sobers up whate er it touches. Aspects to the .un, Moon, Ascendant andBor 5enus are ery in!luential on a relationship. ,hese aspects tend to create a li!elong bonds, with a sense o! obligation toward each other. Many belie e that people with .aturn aspects to the personal planets show 9past li!e: or 9karmic: ties between two people.
.onclusion
Astrology and compatibility is a comple- and challenging area o! study. ,o get a good grasp o! charts, !ocus on the ma*or !actors. !irst. 'n synastry, some planets deser e special consideration.& @o not o erlook other in!luences) *ust use these as a starting point. '! there are no signs o! compatibility among these planets and houses, it would be di!!icult !or a relationship to thri e.
,he !ollowing is a suggested way to proceed. /ou do not ha e to use the e-act order shown here. And with e-perience, you will !ind you proceed !aster and less mechanically. ' credit authors like >od .uskin and =ulia and @erek Parker !or e-cellent books on synastry practice. 'n the back o! .uskin(s synastry book, you(ll !ind a comprehensi e checklist se eral pages long. 't(s much better than this one here. http6BBastrology!iles.comBwp7contentBuploadsB2011B0CB.ynastryDElowchart.*pg
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12. Assess relationship needs and pre!erences The do inant ele ent. $ach human being is a uni+ue mi-ture o! the !our elements. #hat makes each o! us uni+ue is the distribution o! the elements in our personalities. Most o! us are predominantly one element or two. ,ry to gauge each sub*ect(s dominant element. Eiery people are acti e, temperamental and bold) airy people are sociable and talkati e) watery people are emotional and intro erted) earthy people are, well, down7to7earth and practical. Hsually, the dominant element is the element o! either the sun, moon or ascendant. The sun& oon and ascendant. ,he trio o! ego, !eelings and body describe the most essential needs and moti ations o! a person. ,he sun sign and house position show a path to !ul!illment) the moon sign and house to com!ort and security) the ascending sign 0and a planet strong in the !irst house2 show how one acts in and interacts with the world. A house e phasis. 3heck i! the planets emphasi"e a particular house, +uadrant or hemisphere o! the chart. A !ull house means the nati e pours out much o! their energy into the a!!airs o! that house. A strong !irst +uadrant suggests a sel!7made person, more concerned with his or her own personal de elopment than what goes on with e eryone else. A strong second +uadrant makes one !ocused on a pri ate li!e shared with others. ,he third +uadrant emphasi"es partnership and dependence on others. A strong !ourth +uadrant may be a leader, one keen on making an impact in society. #hen the upper hemisphere is emphasi"ed, the indi idual is !ocused on public li!e. #hen the lower hemisphere is !ull, the pri ate li!e is more important. *elationship needs and preferences. Pick out natal chart !actors that may in!luence the sub*ect(s attitude toward relationships. $-amples are6 the se enth house, planets in that house and its ruler) 5enus and Mars) the !i!th house, planets in that house and its ruler) the !ourth house, its planets and ruler, etc. 1ook !or aspects and placements that suggest commitment such as .aturn, strong desire !or a relationship such as 1ibra, need !or independence such as Hranus or A+uarius, lo e o! !amily such as 3ancer or the !ourth house) abo e7a erage need !or se- such as .corpio or a strong Mars, and so on.
guide !or a +uick o er iew o! comp/ou might also want to check out how to do synastry with a step7by7step walkthrough.
Ascendant to Moon. Eamiliarity and a sense o! security. ?oth partners !eel com!ortable in each other(s presence. '! negati e6 emotional clashes. Ascendant:Mercury. $-cellent communication. Mercury opens the A.3 person to change and new ideas. Ascendant to $enus. Mutual attraction, lo e and !riendliness. 3om!ort and lu-ury. Eond o! good times together. Ascendant to Mars. .trong moti ation. 8eightened se-ual energy. >i alry and +uarrels. ,he negati e aspects cause disruption in the house in ol ed. Ascendant to 'upiter. @rama, humor and con!idence. ?lowing things out o! proportion or taking !oolish risks. =upiter boosts the A.3 person(s !aith in him7 or hersel!. Ascendant to Saturn. A mature, committed partnership. .tability and structure. '! negati e, .aturn can se erely limit A.3(s sel!7e-pression. Also restrictions in the house occupied by .aturn in the A.3 person(s chart. Ascendant to (ranus. A dynamic, earth7shaking in!luence. Hranus knocks A.3 o!! his or her !eet, but cra es !reedom. An e-citing but short7li ed a!!air, but look to other aspects. Ascendant to )eptune. @eception or con!usion between the partners. <ne puts the other on a pedestal. >omance and o er7idealism. Ascendant to Pluto. 3ompulsi e, controlling beha ior. Pluto is *ealous, domineering and perhaps manipulati e.
Midheaven to Saturn. @edication to hard work. .aturn makes the partner work hard !or e erything. .uccess comes to the M3 person through persistence and determination. .aturn gi es solid support. Midheaven to (ranus. A radical change in career ob*ecti es. Hranus can open new doors o! opportunity that M3 ne er thought o! as possible. ?ut Hranus( erratic beha ior can cause problems !or M3. Midheaven to )eptune. 'dealism. Neptune may bring uncertainty to M3, causing the latter to +uestion his or her purpose in li!e. 4ood !or spiritually minded people although there is danger o! deception and lack o! !ocus. Midheaven to Pluto. .hared lo e o! power and control. ,hese two will plan !or world con+uest. ,here is danger o! trying to manipulate each other and others to get them out o! the way.
Mercury to Saturn. A Mercury and .aturn synastry shows solid mental connection i! positi e. Mercury helps .aturn e-press him7 or hersel! better. .aturn makes sure Mercury(s ideas will stand the test o! time. ?ut i! negati e, .aturn can dampen the spirit and creati ity o! Mercury. Mercury to (ranus. <penness to the strange and unusual. Much can be learned !rom each other. Hranus can be impatient with Mercury. Mercury to )eptune. An intuiti e, perhaps telepathic connection. Neptune can tune in to what Mercury is thinking. ?ut Neptune can con!use Mercury. Mercury to Pluto. ,hese aspects encourage secreti eness. Pluto controls the out!low o! thoughts and ideas !rom Mercury, or else help trans!orm their ideas into something great. Mercury can pick up Pluto(s inner thoughts and moti es.
Mars to Mars. A highly charged partnership. '! positi e6 the partners dri e each other to succeed. '! negati e6 lots o! disagreements and tempers !laring. An acti e se- li!e where the partners try to outdo each other. Mars:'upiter. 3on!idence. =upiter encourages Mars to take positi e action. Mars has the ability and dri e to reali"e =upiter(s ideals. 3an be !oolhardy and careless. Mars to Saturn. @isciplined action. 3an be constructi e and steadily producti e. ,ogether they work hard to build things that will last. '! negati e, .aturn will !rustrate Mars, while .aturn sees Mars as a rule7breaker.:: Mars to (ranus. $-citement. ,his combination stimulates both partners to try new things. Ne er static !or too long. ,ogether they are not a!raid to be di!!erent !rom others. Hranus rebels against the will!ul Mars. Angry outbursts. Mars to )eptune. @ecepti eness in action. Neptune wants to take the easy way out o! things, while Mars wants to tackle them head on. 4ood !or creati e work and romance but dangerous !or business and relationships. Mars to Pluto. 3ompulsi e action. #hen positi e, the couple ha e the power to make sweeping changes in their li es. ,heir actions will ha e !ar7reaching conse+uences !or better or worse. Negati ely, one tries to control the other. A power struggle.
Saturn to )eptune. A need to be secure in belie!s and ideals. '! positi e, .aturn helps Neptune to reali"e its dreams and inspirations. '! negati e6 .aturn is skeptical toward Neptune, causing worry and lack o! sel!7con!idence. Saturn to Pluto. A power struggle. ?oth partners are eager !or control o! the houses in ol ed. Pluto threatens to destroy what .aturn builds, i! negati e. .ee also which planets show compatibility and how to check horoscope matching between partners.