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Almost all of us are affected by problems in our life where the root cause is due to departed ancestors' subtle-bodies.

This type of spiritual problem affects us regardless of race, cultural background or social status. While this is a spiritual problem, it can manifest in many different ways in our day-to-day lives. In some cases, people have gone through years of suffering only to find out that it could have been alleviated in a few days. The alleviation would only have come about if they knew the root cause, the remedy and if they had the required know-how to put it into practice. This section is a must for all those who are faced with problems - financial to marital - that do not go away despite every effort. We have divided this section into three parts: General information about ancestral problems What can you do to protect yourself against this spiritual problem? What can we do to help our ancestors?

Section 1 - General information about ancestral problems


What are ancestral problems?
According to the science of Spirituality and unknown to modern sciences, 50% of difficulties in our lives are caused solely due to spiritual factors and another 30% due to spiritual and psychological and/or physical factors.

Please refer to the article on, The breakdown of spiritual root causes of difficulties in life.

One aspect of these spiritual root causes of problems in our lives is the distress caused to descendants by the subtle bodies of their ancestors who have passed away (died). It is also one of the more common spiritual factors that affects all of humanity in some form or the other. Before we give a detailed explanation as to why our ancestors would want to cause any kind of trouble for us, let us first examine the kinds of difficulties that people can experience due to departed ancestors. The distress caused to us descendants by the subtle bodies of our ancestors manifests in many ways in our day-to-day lives. It creates obstacles in both, our worldly lives as well as spiritual practice. In some cases, it may seem that the entire family has a dark cloud over it and various family members are undergoing various problems despite all efforts to overcome them. The difficulties that are created due to departed ancestors come in various forms as listed below: Inability to get married Marital disharmony Addictions (approximately 70% of addictions are due to ancestors who have passed away) Going blank in examinations despite being well prepared for it Loss of job Difficulty in conceiving a child Miscarriages Bearing mentally challenged children or children with special needs Death during childhood Miscarriage, death in childhood, etc. happen when the distress by ancestors is coupled with other major spiritual causes such as destined possible death. It cannot happen solely on account of distress of ancestors. While the above types of problems may be a strong indication of ancestral problems, only a Saint or a Guru (a spiritually evolved guide) can tell with certainty the root cause of a problem. At an intellectual level, we could use two rules of thumb to decide if the cause of the suffering is spiritual in nature: All remedies to solve the problem have failed. This is especially so when the problem should be easily treatable by modern sciences such as a skin rash, chest pain, etc. A number of family members (e.g. 4 out of 5) are suffering with any of the above mentioned issues simultaneously. (The reason that all the family members get affected is that they all have the same ancestors.)

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Who all are included in our ancestors?

For the purposes of this section, when we refer to ancestors, it includes all of the following:
Subtle-bodies of all our known and unknown departed relations from all the previous generations. Relatives from all the previous generations from the fathers and mothers side. For a woman from her parents side as well as from her husbands side are i ncluded in this category. The reason for women having to include ancestors from her husbands side as well is that with marriage the woman becomes one with the husbands family and enjoys and inherits the assets of that family. Along with this subtle-bodies of departed relatives from previous births are also included in ancestors. Even if ones descendants (children) die before one, they too are included in the category of ancestors as described in this section. This is even though they are not technically ancestors.

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Up to which generation of our ancestors is most likely to affect us?

Effect by generations of ancestors:


The influence or impact of ancestors of the past three generations is maximum i.e. up to the generation of our great grand parents. The ancestors of up to the last seven generations have some sizeable influence. The ancestors beyond the seventh generation do not affect us much. This is because the giveand-take account with the ancestors is fully completed or completed to a large extent in a given birth. Hence in the next birth, the give-and-take with ancestors of this present birth will be

negligible if at all. If a sizeable give-and-take account remains, then we are born in the same family once again. The above pertains to how far we are affected by our lineage (i.e. the vertical family tree). If we look at it horizontally (or laterally), we are affected by our ancestors up to our second cousins. Please note: Close friends cannot affect or cause distress like ancestors. They can try to help if they have a higher spiritual level but we should not accept it. This is because it will increase their attachment to worldly matters and make them Earth bound. As a result it could cause an impediment in their onward journey. We should instead pray that they concentrate on their onward spiritual journey.

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Why would my departed loved ones and my other ancestors want to give me pain?
Note: In order to understand this article better, it is recommended that you read the article Where do we go after death?

This is a question that is very commonly asked. People think of their near and dear ones who have passed away and find it unimaginable that they would deliberately cause them problems in life. The following are the two main reasons as to why ancestors trouble their descendants.
Due to unfulfilled desires and Due to the inability to move on in the after life and attain a higher positive region or sub-region.

Distress due to unfulfilled desires In this case, ancestors trouble us as they have unfulfilled desires. These desires can include: Anger directed at descendants who do not use their inheritance in accordance with the ancestors' wishes. Ancestors who have an attachment to the family and still want things to be done their way. Ancestors who are addicted to some physical desire such as cigarettes, drugs, sex, food, etc. They take advantage of the remaining give-and-take account between them and their descendants to possess their descendants and fulfill their desires. Departed ancestors trouble their descendants instead of others with whom they may possibly have a give-and-take account with; this is because the bond between blood relations is the strongest.

Distress due to a call for help by ancestors

When one dies, the vital energy is released back into the Universe. The physical body remains on Earth, while the subtle body travels to a subtle plane depending on its merits or sins and its spiritual level. Unlike on the Earth plane, the only parameter that matters in the after-life is the spiritual level or the spiritual purity of a subtle body. The physical body and the various worldly aspects such as money, prestige, job, how well we are connected etc. have absolutely no relevance in the spiritual realm or subtle world.

The subtle body as shown in the diagram becomes 'heavy' due to sins and excessive ego. As a result, it gets stuck in lower subtle planes of existence such as the Nether region ( Bhuvarlok). If the demerits or sins are intense, then the subtle body goes to one of the regions of Hell ( Ptl). On the other hand, the subtle body becomes lighter due to good deeds (merits) and the intensity of spiritual practice. The higher the spiritual level, the lighter the subtle body and faster the progress to the higher positive subtle regions of the Universe. Samashti spiritual level refers to the spiritual level attained through spiritual practice for the sake of society (samashti sdhan), while vyashti spiritual practice refers to the spiritual level attained through individual spiritual practice (vyashti sdhan). In the current times, spiritual progress for the sake of society has 70% importance while individual spiritual practice has 30% importance.

An advanced seeker's subtle body crosses the Nether region immediately as a result of spiritual practice and goes to higher subtle regions of existence such as Heaven ( Swarga). Only ancestors who are above the 50% ( samashi) or 60% (vyashi) spiritual level are able to go to higher subtle regions, such as Heaven and are able to access the requisite protection from God to fend off any attack by ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies etc.). Less than 5% of the world population falls in this category. The following is the breakdown of world population by spiritual level:

(Please refer to the article on spiritual level and the breakdown of the world population by spiritual level.) This means that the vast majority of our ancestors (over 95% of them) will be consigned to regions below Heaven like the Nether region or one of the regions of Hell. A large percentage of the world population is at a spiritual level of below 30%. When they die, they have very little spiritual strength to help themselves in the lower subtle regions. By help we mean helping themselves spiritually to advance to higher positive subtle sub-regions. In the lower subtle regions, they experience pain due to demerits and do not know how to help themselves. They are also attacked and tormented by more powerful ghosts who control them for

various purposes. They try to go to a more positive region or sub-region in the Universe but cannot quite do so without spiritual help. Subtle bodies who are over 30% spiritual level, can technically help themselves by doing spiritual practice, but this too, is rare unless they have a strong impression to do spiritual practice that conforms to the six basic principles of spiritual practice. All other versions of spiritual practice are inefficient and do not really provide any spiritual help to the subtle body of the ancestor. The distress suffered by our ancestors in the lower regions of the Universe emanates from them as distress frequencies/vibrations that travel across the various subtle regions as well as the Earth region. As their family members or descendants have the most matching frequencies, they are best able to receive these frequencies. Only on the Earth plane, do we have the ability to do something for our departed ancestors. Their relatives in the other various subtle realms are pretty much in the same boat and so cannot help. In the present times, as most descendants are not sufficiently spiritually evolved to be able to subtly perceive the distressing frequencies, the ancestors use spiritual energy to create distress in their descendants lives so that the descendants take notice of their needs. The distress perpetrated by the ancestors is thus basically a means to communicate their pain. When the descendant finds that problems are not going away despite their best efforts, they sometimes seek spiritual guidance. If the appropriate spiritual guidance is obtained and implemented, it not only provides the descendants the required protection from their ancestors but also provides the ancestors the necessary impetus for their onward journey in the spiritual realm. Depending on the nature and spiritual level of ancestors the extent of distress varies. A good ancestor would give distress only to the extent of making the descendants aware of their needs. A vengeful ancestor on the other hand, could cause extensive distress to his descendants. An ancestor wanting to fulfill his desires would trouble a descendant with similar desires. An ancestor desirous of moving on to a higher subtle region would target a descendant doing spiritual practice.

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What are the signs that my illness could be due to my departed ancestors?
Saints with the help of their highly active sixth sense can diagnose whether a particular symptom is caused by ghosts ordeparted ancestors. They can even tell us the details of the attacking ghosts, the reason behind the attack, the exact remedy, etc. For more details, please refer to the article on Depth of ability to perceive paranormal activity with our sixth sense. Those with an activated sixth sense can also ascertain to some extent whether a certain symptom is caused by ghosts. However they cannot be 100% sure and they do not perceive many details about the nature of the attack. What about the rest of us who do not have the sixth sense (ESP) ability to understand if a symptom is being caused by a ghost? There are some simple rules of thumb which we can apply in order to decide, by using our intellect. We can consider that there is a strong likelihood of an illness being caused by a ghost when the symptoms are: not alleviated with routine, conventional medicines fleeting in nature have an unexplained cause accentuated on full moon or new moon days and relieved by spiritual remedies For example, if a simple skin rash is very stubborn and does not go away with conventional medicine, it is more than likely to have been caused by a ghost or departed ancestors. Even in cases where the root causes are physical and/or psychological, we recommend that one complements the medical treatment with spiritual remedies. The reason is that ghosts take advantage of any vulnerability caused by the illness to attack a person and compound or aggravate the problem. Hence even an illness that may have started as a purely physical illness, in most cases, is later complicated by an attack by ghosts.

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It is said that sometimes our ancestors help us, is that correct?


It is commonly believed by many people and cultures that their departed ancestors look over them and help them in their lives. The spiritual research conducted by SSRF corroborates the fact that ancestors can help us. The extent and quality of help depends on their attitude in their life on Earth and their spiritual level. Departed ancestors at a lower spiritual level can help less than those at a higher spiritual level. The higher the spiritual level, the more the extent and quality of help possible. In almost all cases, the help that ancestors want to provide to their descendants is at a worldly level. For example: An ancestor may help his descendant get a job by putting the idea in the interviewers mind of selecting him. They may help a girl get the boyfriend of her choice by putting the thought in the to-be boyfriends mind. An ancestor with the foreknowledge of a possible accident may try to delay the departure of the descendant from the house thus trying to keep him away from the scene of the accident.

Ancestors, by helping their descendants, are in effect enhancing the attachment of their descendants to worldly pleasures and simultaneously get further attached themselves. The only real help departed ancestors can give their descendants is to make them aware of the necessity of spiritual practice. More than 50% of mankind is below the 30% spiritual level with minimal spiritual strength. It is very difficult for these ancestors to be of any help to their descendants. Sometimes higherlevelghosts (devils, demons, negative energies etc.) like subtle-sorcerers (mntrik) can also ensnare our departed ancestors of lower spiritual levels and torment them. At this point, survival is the only thought in their mind. However even if some ancestors may genuinely desire to help their descendants, the fate of the helpful ancestors is akin to being trapped in a glass cage. They can see the plight of their descendants but cannot reach out to them to alert them of danger or deliver timely help. This can be caused by one of two factors: The descendants do not receive or understand the signals sent by the ancestors or do not believe in them. The spiritual power of ancestors falls short of the help needed. For example, a departed father may want to warn his son about the risk in signing the business deal through dreams but the son either does not make the connection between the signs in the dreams and the deal or if he does, he may not attribute enough significance to it thus ignoring the message. In another case, a departed mother may have to helplessly watch her beloved son falling prey to a lethal drug addiction orchestrated by a subtle-sorcerer. She understands the root cause of the addiction, though the son and the world is unaware about it, but as her spiritual power falls much shorter than that of the subtle-sorcerer she is forced to be a helpless spectator. http://www.spiritualresearchfoundation.org/spiritualresearch/difficulties/ancestors/ancestorshelp

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How is it that an ancestor at a lower spiritual level has the strength to trouble, but not to help?
Divine help is unavailable to fulfill worldly desires: In almost all cases, the meaning of help for departed ancestors and descendants is restricted to worldly help. When help is restricted only to worldly needs, ancestors are unable to access divine help to assist them in fulfilling their wishes. As a result, they have to depend on their own spiritual strength which is negligible. If the intention of the help is to assist the descendant spiritually, the ancestors have more access to divine intervention and assistance. Need to use their strength to protect themselves: Departed ancestors between the 20-30% spiritual levels, due to their lower spiritual strength will be curtailed in the quality and quantity of help that they can give their descendants. The truth is that ancestors at a lower spiritual level are in most cases in survival mode and cannot think beyond themselves. The oppressive environments in the lower regions, that is Nether region and Hell along with the attacks by higher level ghosts give them a substantial amount of pain. So instead of helping their descendants they are actually in need of help themselves. They try to communicate to their descendants and do so in the form of creating problems in their descendants' lives. The extent of the problems they can cause is disproportionately larger than their ability to help. Influence of higher level ghosts: When it comes to causing distress to people on Earth, higher level ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies etc.) use ancestors as a means to get to humanity with expending the least amount of energy. Hence they provide departed ancestors with the required black energy. Ancestors between the spiritual levels of 20-30%, i.e. lower spiritual levels are more self-centered and hence focus on alleviating their own pain in the Nether region. Hence their attempt to help their descendants is negligible. Causing distress is a method of communicating with the descendants: When we are living on Earth, we have a variety of issues in our lives that vie for our attention. Our energy ends up being distributed across various facets such as job, relationships, chores and errands, entertainment etc. However when we die, there are no such activities to vie for our attention. In the subtle regions, our departed ancestors experience the full measure of happiness and unhappiness in accordance with their merits and demerits. Ancestors of a lower spiritual level generally accrue more demerits and as a result experience more pain. With no other distractions as we have on the Earth plane, they become singularly focused on reducing this pain or experiencing some worldly desire. They reach out to their descendants on Earth to do something for them. As there is no physical body, they do not need to sleep and can work at reaching out to their descendants with an incredible amount of singlemindedness. This single-minded focus in turn enhances their ability to affect us.

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What happens after the death of a person that causes him to need help?
A human being has two bodies the gross body (sthladha) and the subtle-body. Along with this he has Vital energy (Pra-shakti) that links these two bodies together. See the diagram given below.

Note: In order to understand this article better, it is recommended that you read the article Where do we go after death? When one dies, the vital energy is released back into the universe. The physical body remains on the Earth region (Bhlok) while the subtle-body travels to a subtle-plane depending on its merits or sins and its spiritual level. The subtle-body becomes heavy due to sins and excessive ego and as a result gets stuck in lower subtle-planes of existence such as the Nether region (Bhuvarlok). If the sins are intense then the subtle-body goes to Hell (Ptl). On the other hand, the subtle-body becomes lighter due to good deeds (merits) and the intensity of spiritual practice. The higher the spiritual level, the lighter the subtle-body and faster the progress during its sojourn.

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After death, those whose spiritual practice is not intense, get stuck in the Nether region. A seeker's subtle-body crosses the Nether region immediately due to the lightness of the subtle-body as a result of spiritual practice and goes to higher subtle regions of existence such as Heaven (Swarga). However the subtle-body without the strength of spiritual practice remains in the subtle Nether region and has to undergo the distress there. It doesn't gain momentum ( gati) because it lacks spiritual energy and purity (Sattva predominance) and hence is stuck in the heavy atmosphere of the subtle Nether region. They need spiritual help to make their onward journey. Now, they can turn only to their descendants to do something for them. As the descendants are benefactors of the assets of their ancestors in one way or another, they are spiritually bound to render requisite help to these subtle-bodies. However, the descendents in many cases are unaware of the rites and rituals that need to be done in a correct manner according to the science of Spirituality to assist their deceased ancestors. As a result, the ancestors who have passed away get no relief in the subtle Nether region. The ancestors therefore trouble (as mentioned in an earlier article) their descendants, in order to draw their attention towards them. When the descendant in the Earth region experience difficulties that just don't seem to go away, they start looking for solutions beyond conventional means.

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"I dream of departed family members and ancestors"


1. Introduction 2. What are the reasons behind seeing dead family members in dreams? 3. What if the dream is of a close friend who had died suddenly? 4. What can one do, at a spiritual level, to help deceased loved ones or family members who appear in one's dreams?

1. Introduction Quite often our readers ask the meaning behind seeing dead relatives in their dreams frequently. A few of them, welcome seeing dead relatives and a few are fearful of the same. Their questions include, Has my father moved on in the afterlife?, Has he gone to heaven?, What are they trying to tell me?, etc. In this article, through spiritual research, we shed some light on this issue from both a psychological and spiritual viewpoint. Please read what is spiritual research?

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2. What are the reasons behind seeing dead family members in dreams? Through spiritual research we have found that there are psychological and spiritual reasons for seeing dead family members in dreams. 30% of the time the reason is psychological and 70% of the time it is spiritual. Psychological reasons can include a feeling of guilt or regret for not having spent time with a loved one before he/she died or some anxiety about that departed family member. Here the images that appear in the dream are eruptions from our sub-conscious mind. Spiritual reasons are mainly two-fold. One is that the subtle-body of the departed family member needs help in the afterlife and is trying to contact its descendant on the Earth region ( Bhlok) of existence. The other reason is trying to seek revenge, to get even with some family member.

Through spiritual research we have found (with regards to the spiritual reasons) that approximately 70% of the time, it is the subtle-bodys need for help in the afterlife and 30% of the time, it is to seek revenge or to trouble the descendant on the Earth plane of existence. A dream can be considered spiritual in nature if the same dream recurs at least 3 times. Dead family members will generally try to contact the family member (or appear in the dreams) who they feel is most likely do something for them. The reasons subtle-bodies, in the afterlife, find it easier to communicate through dreams as opposed to the waking state is because during the waking state the person who they are trying to contact, is more engrossed in the five senses and does not have concentration of the mind. During the dream or sleep state, the mind is more receptive to messages from the subtle. We have found that people who have had untimely or violent deaths are more likely to appear in dreams as opposed to people who have had normal deaths such as after a prolonged illness. This is because the person who has died of natural causes is more mentally prepared for death and therefore finds it easier to move-on in the afterlife. In only 10% of cases could there be a negative energy masquerading as the ancestor, in the dreams.

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3. What if the dream is of a close friend who had died suddenly?


However, dreams of the departed are not necessarily limited to deceased family members. Sometimes even close friends who are deceased appear in one's dreams. This is mainly to seek help as they may feel closer to the person who they are trying to contact as opposed to their family members on Earth. The following example narrated by one of the members of the SSRF research team will shed more light on this aspect. Recently a friend of mine, Andrew (not his real name), visited me at the SSRF research centre and narrated how he had been plagued by dreams of a close friend who had died in a tragic accident. Andrew said that once, while at University, he did not go on a trip with his friend because he was competing in an event that his friend had trained him for. During the trip, his friend drowned. Andrew was overcome by a feeling of remorse and guilt for not being there for his friend and perhaps being able to save his life. He did not have the strength to go to the funeral. Soon after the funeral, Andrews deceased friend began to appear in his dreams. It would be the same dream each time and it would recur every few days. This continued for many years. Andrew was very fearful of the dream but he did not ask for help from anyone on this matter. Then one day after many years, he faced his fears and said to his friend in the dream, Look I am sorry I was not there for you. I cannot change the past but I cannot keep living like this, dreaming of you every second day. So whatever it is you want from me .... do what you must ... kill me if you will, I dont care. From the next day onwards he did not have the dream ever again. Andrew felt that standing up to his deceased friend in a dream was the correct thing to do. However, from a spiritual perspective, all that the departed friend wanted, was some spiritual help from his closest friend Andrew. Once he saw that Andrew would never understand, the subtle-body of the deceased friend retreated, never to ask again. Andrewss correct action should have been to help organise a ritual to be conducted to help his deceased friend.

4. What can one do, at a spiritual level, to help deceased loved ones or family members who appear in one's dreams? The Name of Shr Gurudev Datta is a potent chant that provides relief from any problems caused due to departed ancestors or family members. SSRF also recommends that for more severe problems due to departed ancestors or family members, along with chanting Shri Gurudev Datta, some specific rituals such as Nryaa Ngbali (for ancestors), Tripindi shrddha, etc. be performed. It is the spiritual level/ability of the priest conducting the ritual and the mantras that mostly determine the efficacy of a ritual and its ability to help the deceased in need of help in the afterlife. Rituals that just have prayers are more at a psychological level and have a minimal effect as opposed to the energy generated from specific mantras. http://www.spiritualresearchfoundation.org/spiritualresearch/spritualscience/dreams-departedancestors

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Can we meet our ancestors and loved ones in the afterlife?


1. Introduction 2. Where do we go after death? 3. Some principles that govern which of our departed ancestors we can meet in the afterlife 4. How do we recognise our previously departed ancestors when we die? 4.1 What form do we take after we die? 4.2 Mechanism of meeting 4.3 Risks involved with meeting 5. Once identified do we stay together with other departed relatives in the afterlife? 6. How do we communicate when we meet with relatives and friends in the afterlife? 7. Do we meet our pets in the afterlife?

1. Introduction Almost all of us have at sometime wondered if we can meet our departed ancestors and loved ones when we leave this Earth at the time of death. The purpose of this article is to explain the factors and principles governing who we can meet and who we cannot in the afterlife.

2. Where do we go after death? Please refer to our article on Where do we go after death?. As you can see, there are 13 subtle and intangible regions we can go to after death. In the current era, approximately only 5% of us make it to the positive regions of Heaven ( Swarga), Maharlok and above. This is because one needs to be at least at the 50% ( samashi) or 60% (vyashi) spiritual level (which is 5% of the worlds population) to attain the first positive region of the Universe, i.e. Heaven, after death. Please refer to the breakdown of the worlds population by spiritual levelfor more information. There is another region that is very important to mention in order to understand what happens to us after death. Immediately after we die, we go to a region known as the Region of the Dead (Martyaloka). This is a halfway house or an interim plane of existence where one stays as one makes their journey from the moment of death to their final resting place in one of the 13 subtle (intangible) planes of existence. Please refer to the article on the Region of the Dead for more information.

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3. Some principles that govern which of our departed ancestors we can meet in the afterlife Same region: Subtle-bodies of relatives in the same region can meet each other easily. For example, two subtle-bodies of relatives in the Nether region (Bhuvarlok) can meet each other. Subtle to subtler regions: It is not possible for a person in a subtle (intangible) plane to meet a person in an even more subtle-plane of existence. After the Earth region (Bhlok), the Nether region is the most gross (tangible). A subtle-body in one of the planes in the Nether region cannot go to meet a subtle-body in Heaven or the 1st Region of Hell (Ptl).

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Subtle-regions to more gross regions: A subtle-body from a more subtle-plane of existence can go to a grosser (less subtle) plane of existence. For example, a subtle-body in the 3rd Region of Hell can go to meet a person in the 1st Region of Hell on a temporary basis. Such visits usually last for as long as they are required and are also dependent on the spiritual strength of the visiting subtle-body.

Subtle higher regions: Subtle-bodies in the higher positive subtle-regions of Maharlok are so spiritually advanced that they are devoid of desires including the desire to meet family members. The main purpose of their existence is to grow spiritually. Subtle-bodies in Heaven experience immense happiness and are generally caught up in the subtle-pleasures that Heaven has to offer. As a result, the desire to meet previous relatives just does not encroach upon their consciousness.

Visiting Region of the Dead or Earth: Subtle-bodies in any subtle-region can visit the subtlebodies in the Region of the Dead or Earth region. A ghost of higher spiritual strength in the lower regions of Hell can temporarily enter higher positive regions such as Heaven to upset the peace.

4. How do we recognise our previously departed ancestors when we die?

4.1 What form do we take after we die?


Once a subtle-body enters the Region of the Dead, it begins to lose its identity with its previous Earthly life. By the time it crosses the Region of the Dead and reaches one of the main subtle-regions such as the Nether region, the subtle-body takes an amorphous form. If people have a strong attachment to their Earthly life and relatives, they are not able to move on beyond the Region of the Dead. Here, they continue to take a form resembling their previous form. The form is created by the energy of desire. Subtle -bodies can get stuck in the Region of the Dead for many years and hover around their ancestral home. As a result, those with sixth sense are able to feel or see their presence.

4.2 Mechanism of meeting When entering the same region: When the subtle-bodies of departed ancestors have an intense desire to meet another departed relative or friend, the energy from that singleminded thought creates a subtle (intangible) materialisation of his form when he knew his relative. At the same time, the relative who has just died and entered that region is attracted to that particular ancestors subtle-body because of the frequencies of desire emanating from the subtle-body of the ancestor. The descendant who has recently expired then recognises his ancestor because of the familiar form that the subtle-body of the ancestor has taken.

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At the time of death: There are generally hereditary similarities at the level of the subtle basic Sattva, Raja and Tama components among family members. Hence, due to their oversensitiveness the subtle-bodies of ancestors residing in the Region of the Dead and the Nether region are able to perceive the changes happening in the dying person at the time of death. They are then pulled towards the sound of the sub-vital energies emitted and the excretory gases discharged by the dead body. Thus, they enter the Earths environment and come near the dying person. That is why many dying people get visions of their dead ancestors. If the recently dead person strongly wishes to meet his departed ancestors or if the departed ancestor strongly wishes to meet the dead person, then the ancestor on the strength of his strong energy of desire attains a gaseous apparition -like form. They thus help the dead person in identifying themselves.

4.3 Risks involved with meeting In some cases, higher level ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies,

etc.) like subtle-sorcerers (mntriks) can take the form of dead relatives and misguide recently departed subtle-bodies. This can be best avoided if one has done a lot of spiritual practice on Earth and can see through their illusory ( myvi) form. Departed ancestors who are in one of the Regions of Hell can also mislead recently departed subtle-bodies. The sure way of ensuring one is not misled after death is to do regular spiritual practice as per the six basic principles of spiritual practice and attain as high a spiritual level as possible. The higher the spiritual level at the time of death, the lower the chances of being deceived by ghosts or ancestors from Regions of Hell. Also, one is able to access greater protection from God.

5. Once identified do we stay together with other departed relatives in the afterlife? Subtle-bodies from a family generally stick together. This is because there is a lot of similarity among relatives as compared with others.

6. How do we communicate when we meet with relatives and friends in the afterlife? The method of communication in the afterlife is not the language of sound that we are used to on Earth. The thoughts in one's mental body are perceived by others.

7. Do we meet our pets in the afterlife? There is a chance of an animal being born as a human being if a human being had regressed to that animal form as punishment for his misdeeds. After the animal that was initially a human has finished its quota of suffering as an animal, it can be reborn in human form. Rituals for departed ancestors done by their descendants also help. It is extremely difficult for an animal (that was born as an animal to start with) to evolve to a human being as it is very difficult for an animal to do spiritual practice. However, an animal who has attained a Saint's satsang, consumed Holy sacrament (prasad), listened to Holy songs or repetition of the Name of God regularly may develop the desire for God realisation and evolve spiritually to human

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form. Also if an animal lives with a Saint, and the Saint makes a resolve for the animal to progress spiritually to evolve to a human form, then an animal could attain a human birth. Hence, it is highly unlikely to meet pets in the afterlife. If at all one sees pets, this again is the doing of illusion creating subtle-sorcerers. Again, regular spiritual practice is the assured way of avoiding being deceived. http://www.spiritualresearchfoundation.org/spiritualresearch/spiritualscience/afterdeath/meetingancest ors

Frequently asked questions


1. You have mentioned in one of your articles that one of the reasons our ancestors trouble us is because the give-and-take account has not been settled. However is it not pre-destined how much account we are going to settle and with whom in a particular lifetime?

Yes, but we do not always complete it and besides we create new give-and-take account too.

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Section 2 - What can I do to protect myself against this spiritual problem?


What can I do to protect myself against ancestral problems? Problems caused due to departed ancestors are a specific type of spiritual difficulty. Therefore we can successfully overcome them only by applying a specific spiritual remedy. Psychological and physical remedies simply cannot overcome the root cause of the problem and can only provide some symptomatic relief, at best. For example, if a person is suffering from a skin rash caused by ancestors, relevant medical treatment can at best provide relief but it cannot cure the rash completely or prevent it from occurring again. In order to gain insulation from problems caused due to departed ancestors, we recommend chanting the protective chant of 'Shr Gurudev Datta'. This chant represents the Name of Deity Datta, an aspect of God. This is to be done daily along with chanting the Name of God according to the religion of one's birth. Chanting of Deity Dattas Name is a kind of prescription chant to overcome a specific spiritual problem i.e. problems caused due to departed ancestors. On the other hand, chanting the Name of God according to the religion of one's birth acts as a general spiritual tonic for overall spiritual growth. Chanting of Deity Dattas Name provides protection, but not spiritual growth. To give you an analogy, chanting Deity Dattas Name is like having an extra dose of Vitamin C when one has a common cold. The Vitamin C is taken along with the usual multi-vitamin tablet taken for good health (which is the Name according to the religion of birth). When we repeat the protective chant of 'Shri Gurudev Datta', we attract the divine energy associated with Dattas Name and as a result we benefit in the following ways: 1. A subtle protective sheath envelops us, protecting us from obstacles caused by our ancestors. 2. It helps to nullify the give-and-take account that we have with our ancestors thus reducing their influence on us. 3. It gives our ancestors the assistance they require to make their onward journey in the subtleworld. However, the extent of benefit depends on the quantity and quality of our chanting, which besides other factors, depends on ourspiritual level. It is recommended that one chants the protective chant of Shri Gurudev Datta on a daily basis depending on the severity of the distress. As it is a prescription chant that helps to remove obstacles in one's life, it is best if it is done in the morning as it then provides the requisite spiritual protection for

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the day. One can then chant the Name of God according to the religion of birth during the rest of the day. We recommend the quantity of chanting 'Shri Gurudev Datta' that is commensurate with the severity of the distress experienced due to ancestral problems. It is based on spiritual research and Knowledge gained by accessing the Universal Mind and Intellect through the medium of a highly advanced sixth sense (ESP). 1. In case where no distress to mild distress is experienced, one can chant for 1 to 2 hours every day in order to avoid such trouble in future. 2. In case where the distress is medium, chant for 2 to 4 hours every day. 3. If the distress is severe one must chant 'Shri Gurudev Datta' for 4 to 6 hours per day. Note: The above quantity of recommended chanting has been increased recently. The increased duration of chanting has been recommended taking into account the rise in trouble caused by ancestors and negative energies in the current and in the coming times. Please read the article, What are ancestral problems to understand the types of distress or problems that can happen due to our departed ancestors. The following are some indicators of the severity of distress Type Mild Moderate Severe Example Skin problems, marital conflicts Divorce, mentally challenged child Miscarriage, death in childhood

Note: If the difficulties are severe, then one could also be advised to perform specific spiritual rituals. Information regarding these will be published in later articles.

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What does the spiritual protective chant of Shri Gurudev Datta represent? The protective chant of Shr Gurudev Datta represents the Name of Lord Datta, an aspect of God. One of His functions in the Universe is alleviating distress caused due to the subtle bodies of ancestors. God carries out His mission in the Universe through the three major principles of Creation, Sustenance and Destruction. Lord Datta's ability is derived through a combination of these three major principles of God i.e. Creation 10%, Sustenance 80% and Destruction 10%. His manifest divine energy is 10% while 90% of His divine energy is unmanifest.

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The concept that our deceased ancestors can cause trouble in our lives is very alien to us. However people from various cultures and religions have experienced an immense improvement in their lives by repeating Lord Datta's holy Name of Shri Gurudev Datta.

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Listen to a chant of Lord Datta Shri Gurudev Datta I am a Christian, why should I chant Lord Datta's Name? Lord Datta is a deity. One of His functions is such that, those who worship Him are bestowed with the ability to overcome the difficulties in their lives that are due to subtle-bodies of ancestors.

Quite often people from various religious backgrounds (for example, Christians or Buddhists) may question, Why should I chant a deity's Name that does not belong to my religion? The universality of this aspect of God, regardless of religious faith or religion of birth can be understood by a simple analogy. Panadol (whose chemical formula is C8H9NO2) is an allopathic drug that is manufactured in Australia and other countries as well. It helps to provide relief from symptoms such as fever, headaches and other minor aches or pains. Irrespective of place of manufacture (in this case Australia), Panadol whose chemical formula is universal can be used to treat the symptoms of people not only in Australia but in the entire world. So also, chanting Lord Datta's Name helps any person regardless of nationality, religion or cultural background to overcome problems caused due to departed ancestors. This benefit of chanting His Name has been experienced by many seekers being guided spiritually by SSRF around the world. Read the case study of Cyriaque who was troubled by subtle-bodies of his ancestors and how chanting Lord Datta's Name helped him.

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Does the give-and-take (karma) with my ancestors get cleared if we chant the protection chant of Shri Gurudev Datta? Yes, chanting the Name of Lord Datta clears our give-and-take account with our ancestors. The mechanism of how this works is that the subtle basic sattva component is generated through the chant and passed on to the ancestor. This acts as a repayment mechanism and helps to nullify the give-and-take account between the affected person and his ancestor. With the increased subtle basic sattva component, the ancestors desires pertaining to their give -and-take with their descendant doing the chant reduce. However, the ancestors desires in general do not reduce. Along with this the ancestor also acquires the requisite spiritual boost to make his onward journey into more positive subregions. The quantity and quality of our chanting will decide how much we can contribute to their onward journey.

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Frequently asked questions by our readers 1. We are living a very comfortable life and so did our parents and grandparents. We do not suffer from any symptoms of ancestral problems as mentioned on your website. Should we and our children still chant Lord Dattas Name? Ans.: It would still be advisable to chant Lord Dattas Name as it is extremely rare for one not to have distress due to subtle bodies of departed ancestors. Besides not doing any form of spiritual practice is itself a kind of distress. One is so engrossed in and attached to worldly life that one is consequently far away from God. One experiences the full measure of pain when the people and things we are attached to are taken away from us. 2. Is it true that children are protected by keeping photos of their ancestors in their bedroom? Ans.: No, this is a misconception. In fact they are prone to experience a variety of distress due to the negative vibrations of the subtle bodies of the departed ancestors. The reason is as follows. A rule of Spiritual science says that the word, touch, form, taste, smell and the energy of any object co-exist. According to this rule, wherever there is a picture of our ancestors, their spiritual energy co-exists. As explained earlier, most ancestors experience distress in the subtle realms due to their lower spiritual level. Therefore there is a very high likelihood that their distress is transmitted through their photographs. These distressful vibrations can affect children adversely. Refer to the article, Why would my departed loved ones and my other ancestors want to give me pain? http://www.spiritualresearchfoundation.org/spiritualresearch/difficulties/ancestors/faqsect2

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Section 3 - What can we do to help our ancestors?


Where do my departed loved ones go after death? Abstract The innumerable recorded and researched cases of past life experiences clearly point to life after death. In all the recorded cases of reincarnations, it was found that there was a variable time lag between the death of the person and his next reincarnation on Earth. So, where do we go after death till our reincarnation on Earth? Is it a single plane of existence or are there a variety of planes of existence? If so, what are the factors that decide where we go after death? In this article, we present the answers to these and other questions about this topic. These answers are obtained through spiritual research done by seekers of the Spiritual Science Research Foundation (SSRF) with highly developed sixth sense (ESP). Note: In order to understand this article better, it is recommended that you read the article on the three subtle basic components of Sattva, Raja and Tama.

1. What happens after death? 2. The 14 planes of existence in the Universe 3. Heaven and the other positive planes of existence in the Universe 3.1 Positive planes of existence and reincarnation on Earth 3.2 The importance of the Earth plane of existence 4. What is Hell, who goes to Hell and what is Hell like? 5. Movement between subtle planes of existence in the Universe 6. What decides where we go after death? 6.1 Importance of the mental state at the time of death 6.2 Who goes to Hell? 7. Suicide and the after life 8. Why is there a time lag between two reincarnations? 9. Life after death in summary

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1. What happens after death?


Spiritual research has shown that man is comprised of the following four basic bodies: Physical Mental Causal or intellectual Supracausal or subtle ego

The picture below is a diagrammatic representation of what a human being is comprised of.

When a person dies the physical body ceases to exist. However, the rest of his existence or consciousness continues. The existence of the person minus the physical body is known as the subtle body (linga-dha) and it comprises of the mental, causal (intellect) and supracausal (subtle ego) bodies. This subtle body then goes to one of the 13 subtle planes of existence other than the Earth plane.

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2. The 14 planes of existence in the Universe


There are 14 main planes of existence in the Universe. Seven of them are positive planes of existence and seven are negative planes of existence. The seven negative planes of existence are commonly known as Hell (Ptl). There are numerous sub-planes within these main planes of existence. Righteousness (Dharma) is that which accomplishes the 3 tasks of: Keeping the social system in excellent condition Bringing about the worldly progress of every living being Causing progress in the spiritual realm as well. Shri Adi Shankaracharya

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Seven Negative planes of existence: These are planes of existence occupied mostly by subtle bodies that have done unrighteous deeds and are engaged in spiritual practice according to the negative path. By negative path, we mean the orientation of spiritual practice is towards attaining spiritual power, e.g. supernatural powers. This spiritual power is primarily used to enhance ones control over others or for negative purposes. Thus all subtle bodies that go to any one of the planes of existence of Hell, by virtue of their evil intentions become ghosts. Refer to the article on, What is a ghost? Sub planes of existence of Hell (Narak): Every plane of existence of Hell has a sub-plane known as Narak. For example, the first plane of existence of Hell will have within it a sub-plane that is known as the first Narak. Narak is reserved for the worst ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.) in Hell. The ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.) occupying the first Narakface more severe punishment and for a longer duration than those occupying the first plane of existence of Hell. The diagram below shows the 14 planes of existence in the Universe.

An explanation behind the colour scheme used Earth is depicted reddish as it represents action (i.e. subtle basic Raja component), as it is the only plane where we have the physical body to do something. Heaven has been depicted in pink, which represents an abundance of happiness. Yellow represents spiritual knowledge and an increase in the subtle basic Sattva component. It finally becomes almost white at the highest stage, which represents the close proximity to the unmanifest God principle. The regions of Hell are represented by darker shades to black, as there is an increase in the subtle basic Tamacomponent.

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3. Heaven and the other positive planes of existence in the Universe

Footnotes (based on the numbers in red in the above table): 1. Each positive and negative plane of existence beyond the Earth (physical) plane of existence becomes more and more subtle. By subtle, we mean, that which is beyond the comprehension of the five senses, mind and intellect. Satyalok is the subtlest, i.e. the most difficult to perceive or comprehend unless the highest sixth sense (ESP) level is attained. 2. Due to lack of spiritual practice, most people in the current era go to either the Nether world or one of the planes of existence of Hell. We generally go to the Nether world after death when the proportion of demerits (incurred due to wrong doings on Earth) is approximately 30%. Demerits typically include malice towards others and a lot of desires. The likelihood of being attacked in the Nether world by higher-level ghosts from the lower plane of existence of Hell is almost certain.
3. Earth is the only plane of existence where there is an amalgamation of people with varying

spiritual levels. However, after death we go to the precise plane of existence corresponding to our spiritual level. 4. The minimum spiritual level required to attain Heaven after death is 50% (samashi) or 60% (vyashi). Please refer to the article, which describes what spiritual level is and the breakdown of the world population in 2006 according to spiritual level. Basically from the Spiritual science perspective, meritorious acts to attain Heaven or the higher positive planes

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of existence are those acts done with the objective of God-realisation. The following three criteria can be applied. Acts done without doership, i.e. with the outlook that God Himself is getting it done from me and hence I cannot lay claim to any credit. Done without expectation of acclaim or appreciation. Done without expectation of results. More than the acts per se, it is the attitude or outlook behind the acts that counts more. 5. To attain a higher plane of existence beyond Heaven one needs to be at a spiritual level higher than 60% (samashti) or 70% (vyashti). This can only be achieved by consistent spiritual practice according to the six basic laws of spiritual practice along with a major reduction in ego. 6. By predominant body, we mean the body that is most active, i.e., mental, intellect or the subtle ego. For example, in the Nether plane of existence ( Bhuvarlok), the subtle bodies still have a lot of desires and attachments. As a result, quite often they become ghosts trying to fulfil some desire of theirs. This leaves them open to higher-level ghosts from the lower rungs of Hell to take advantage of their cravings to affect people on Earth. 7. In the Nether plane of existence we experience some happiness. However, the unhappiness is amplified as compared to the unhappiness experienced on Earth. 8. In Heaven plane of existence, subtle bodies experience an over abundance of happiness. This happiness is much beyond the happiness experienced on Earth in quantity, quality and duration. As we go up the positive planes of existence, there is an increase in the quality of happiness and no unhappiness. 9. Sttvik happiness means happiness derived from helping others without any expectations or strings attached. When ego is involved in the act, it becomes rjasik. 10. Serenity is a higher experience than Bliss.

3.1 Positive planes of existence and reincarnation on Earth From the planes of existence below Maharlok, people need to be reincarnated on the Earth plane to settle their destiny and complete their give-and-take accounts. If one attains Maharlok at the 60% (samashti) or 70% (vyashti) spiritual level or attains Janalok at the 70% (samashti) or 80% (vyashti) spiritual level after death, one does not need to be reincarnated as all of the individual's remaining destiny (accumulated account) can be worked out from these planes themselves. However these evolved subtle bodies may choose to be born of their own will. They do so primarily to act as spiritual guides for humanity. In some circumstances people who pass away even below the spiritual level of 60% can attain Maharlok. Here the persons potential for further spiritual growth is considered. Through spiritual research we have found that that there are 5 factors that influence this potential for further spiritual growth.

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Having a high amount of spiritual emotion (bhv), Having a low ego, Having an intense desire for spiritual growth, Doing regular spiritual practice of increasingly higher levels, Affected or not affected by negative energies. Being affected by negative energies can severely obstruct the ability for spiritual growth. Hence, if a person is below the 60% (samashti) or 70% (vyashti) spiritual level and has good qualities, but is severely affected by negative energies, then the individual's ability to attain the higher spiritual planes of existence such as Maharlok is restricted. If one attains Tapolok or Satyalok after death, then one does not take birth on the Earth plane of existence but continues to do spiritual practice from that plane of existence until one merges completely with God.

3.2 The importance of the Earth plane of existence The Earth plane of existence is very important. It is the only plane of existence where we can make rapid spiritual growth and settle our give-and-take account in the shortest period of time. The main reason for this is that with the help of the physical body, we can do many things to enhance our spiritual growth and spiritual level and reduce the basic subtle Tama component. Other than Earth, spiritual growth is mostly likely to occur only in the regions beyond Heaven such as Maharloka etc. This is because in Heaven, the subtle bodies run the risk of getting caught up in the unending pleasures it offers. In the Nether and Hell planes of existence, the punishment is so severe and also the distress from the other higher-level ghosts is such that it becomes very difficult to rise above the suffering to undertake any spiritual practice of value.

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4. What is Hell, who goes to Hell and what is Hell like?

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basic Sattva component progressively reduces the environment becomes less conducive to the experience of happiness. Within the planes of existence of Hell, there are some ghosts who do certain types of spiritual practice to gain spiritual power. The highest in the hierarchy of ghosts are sorcerers from the seventh plane of existence of Hell. They have immense spiritual power almost equivalent to a Saint at the 90% spiritual level. They control all the other types of ghosts with lesser spiritual power. As one goes deeper into the various planes of existence of Hell, i.e. from 1st to 7th, the extent of happiness experienced by the subtle bodies therein goes on decreasing and the extent of unhappiness goes on multiplying. The minimal experience of happiness is also due to being engrossed in memories of past positive events, pleasant memories of wealth in a past life, etc. The experience of unhappiness is due to memories of physical pain and insulting events, memories of unfulfilled desires, e.g. regarding education, house, career, expectation of happiness from children in past life. The extent of punishment/pain to be endured in the various planes of existence of Hell and their associated Narak goes on increasing with the subsequent plane of existence of Hell. Also, the period of punishment to be endured in each Narak is in excess compared to the corresponding plane of existence of Hell. If we consider the punishment in first plane of existence of Hell as 100%, then the punishment in the corresponding first Narak region is 50% more, i.e. 150%. The following table is a description of examples along with the average intensity of happiness and unhappiness we experience in the various planes of existence of Hell.

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5. Movement between subtle planes of existence in the Universe


One is assigned that plane of existence which matches ones basic nature in terms of Sattva, Raja and Tama. This is also a function of ones spiritual level. Hence, subtle bodies from lower positive planes of existence cannot go to higher positive planes of existence and those from first or second negative planes of existence cannot go to the deeper planes of existence Hell. This is similar to how people living in the planes find breathing difficult at higher altitudes, but people staying at higher altitudes manage fine.

6. What decides where we go after death?


At the time of death, as the physical body becomes inactive the vital energy used for the functioning of the physical body is liberated into the Universe. This vital energy at the time of death propels the subtle body away from the Earth region. Just as the weight of a projectile decides how far a rocket will propel it, similarly the weight of the subtle body decides which plane of existence it goes to in the subtle planes of existence in life after death. The weight of the subtle body is primarily a function of the amount of the subtle basic Tama component in our being.

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The 3 subtle basic components: Each one of us is made up of three subtle basic components or guas. These components are spiritual in nature and cannot be seen but they define our personalities. They are: Sattva: Purity and knowledge
Raja: Action and passion

Tama: Ignorance and inertia In an average person in the current era, the basic subtle Tama component is as high as 50%. Please read the article on the 3 subtle basic components The more we are filled with the Raja and Tama components the more we display the following characteristics which add to our weight and impact which plane of existence we go to in our life after death:

More attachment to worldly things and selfishness More unfulfilled desires Feelings of revenge Higher amount of demerits or wrong-doings Higher amount of personality defects such as anger, greed, fear, etc. A higher amount of ego: By ego we mean how much a person identifies himself with his body, mind and intellect as opposed to the soul within Resulting in lower spiritual level A permanent reduction in the proportion of the subtle basic Tama component and the related characteristics mentioned above come about only with sustained spiritual practice according to the six basic laws of spiritual practice. Psychological improvements with self-help books or trying to be nice are at best superficial and temporary.

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6.1 Importance of the mental state at the time of death

The mental state at the point of death, apart from what has been mentioned above, is very important. Our mental state is generally relative to the proportion of the subtle basic components in our being.
If a person is actually doing his spiritual practice such as chanting the Name of God at the time of death then the influence of desires, attachments, ghosts, etc. are minimal possible for that person compared to his state when not chanting. This makes his subtle body lighter. Hence, if he passes away while chanting, he attains better plane of existence among the sub-planes than what he would have attained were he to pass away without chanting. At the time of death, if a person is chanting the Name of God and is also in a state of surrender to Gods will, then he attains an even better plane of existen ce in his life after death and his sojourn is undertaken with lightening speed. This is because the person being in a state of surrender on Earth plane of existence itself, has very less chance of increasing his ego in his life after death. Also, the entire responsibility of his well-being in his life after death is undertaken by his evolved spiritual guide (Guru).

6.2 Who goes to Hell?


The following are the types of deeds in our life on Earth that typically land us in one of the planes of existence of Hell.

The extent, duration and intention behind the wrong-doings are important factors deciding the planes of existence of Hell attained after death rather than just the action itself.

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7. Suicide and the after life


There are two types of death with regards to its timing. Destined final death: This is the time of death that no one can escape. Possible death: This is where a person can possibly die. Each person may undergo a possible death wherein one comes close to death but may be saved due to his or her merits. For more information on the types of death please refer to our article - Time of Death In cases where a person is going through insurmountable crisis in his life or has severe personality disorders, he may think of taking his own life in a depressed state. Ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.) also fuel the depression of a suicidal person and sometimes are instrumental in pushing a person over the edge into committing suicide. However, suicide remains a wilful act that happens when a person is going through a possible death phase as per their destiny. Life on the Earth plane of existence is precious and is given to us primarily for spiritual growth. When we kill others we create akarmic give and take account with them. However by committing suicide, we squander away the opportunity for spiritual growth and hence incur the heaviest sin. The consequences are that a person committing suicide goes to the Narak part of the 7th plane of existence of Hell for a period of 60,000 Earth years, in his life after death. It is a place that is without any light; something like solitary confinement in a prison. As there is nobody in that Narak region who can give advice about spiritual practice, the subtle body remains in the darkness of spiritual ignorance.

8. Why is there a time lag between two reincarnations?


In the course of research by using hypnotic trance to trace the past lives of the person, it has been found that the time lag between two reincarnations on Earth could be on average 50 to 400 years. The reasons for this time lag are as follows: The subtle body remains in the Heaven or the Nether plane of existence for variable periods of time to undergo its merits and demerits (sins). Circumstances on Earth plane of existence need to be favourable to complete the give-and-take account from previous births with various people. This is in accordance with the law of Karma. The reincarnation of the subtle body is postponed until the time various other people who they have a give-and-take account with are also preparing to take reincarnation. Sometimes in past life regression, a person does not report a reincarnation in the trance state. The reason for this is that a certain reincarnation has been very uneventful or brief and the person may not remember any details of it.

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In the case of subtle bodies that have been relegated to the deeper planes of existence of Hell, the time lag between two reincarnations may be thousands of years. They stay in their respective plane of existence of Hell until such time they have completed their punishment. In most cases, this means languishing in plane of existence of Hell in their life after death till thedissolution of the Universe.

9. Life after death in summary


The above facts about the various planes of existence give us a fair idea of the possible consequences in our life after death of how we live our lives. Only with spiritual practice or with extreme meritorious deeds can one go to the higher planes of existence and thereby avoid unhappiness and punishment and enjoy higher levels of happiness. There are also better chances of a reincarnation on Earth plane of existence in circumstances conducive to spiritual practice. This is so that one moves further up in the subtle planes of existence in the Universe. As we go further into the current Era of Strife (Kaliyug), there is lesser likelihood of people going to the higher planes of existence. Once we go to the lower planes of existence such as the Nether plane of existence or other planes of existence of Hell, we stay there and experience severe unhappiness for centuries until we completely pay for our demerits (sins) by suffering the intense punishments meted there and get a chance to be reincarnated on Earth. To do consistent spiritual practice on the Earth plane of existence according to the 6 basic laws of spiritual practice is like swimming against the tide in the current era. However, it is also a guaranteed way of advancing to higher planes of existence in our life after death.

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What type of ancestors need help? The following is a frequency interval table (breakdown) of the worlds population as per spiritual level. It is based on information accessed from the Universal Mind and Intellect in 2013.

Please refer to the article, What is spiritual level? As you can see, in todays world over 50% of people fall in the category of 20-30% spiritual level. People below the 30% spiritual level, due to lack of any spiritual practice (sadhana, sdhan) have very low spiritual purity or spiritual strength. When a person dies, the only thing that matters in the after-life is the spiritual level or the spiritual purity or sattvikta (sttvikt) of a subtle-body (linga-deha, linga-dha). Unlike on the Earth region (Bhulok, Bhlok), the gross body (sthuladeha, sthladha) and the various worldly aspects such as money, prestige, job, how well we are connected etc. have absolutely no relevance in the spiritual realm or the subtle-world.

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The subtle-bodies of people between the 20-30% spiritual levels are heavy as in the lowest circle shown in the diagram above. The heaviness is primarily caused due to demerits incurred from their life on Earth, immense worldly attachments and lack of spiritual practice that conforms to the six basic principles of spiritual practice. Due to this spiritual heaviness, the subtle-bodies cannot move on to higher positive realms of the Universe and are therefore relegated to the lower subtle-regions (Bhuvarlok) and such as the Nether region Hell (Patal, Ptl). Here they

experience the full measure of pain or unhappiness according to their demerits respectively. In most cases, the demerits outstrip the merits in people at the spiritual levels of 20-30%. Hence they mostly experience pain and unhappiness in these realms. Along with this, more powerful ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.) attack and control them. These ancestors require our help at a spiritual level the most. We have defined what spiritual help we can provide them in subsequent articles. Ancestors between the 30-50% spiritual levels require our help less and less. Ancestors beyond the 50% spiritual level do not require any spiritual help from their descendents in the after-life. This is one of the main reasons why reaching the 50% spiritual level is a keyspiritual milestone that we need to strive for. http://www.spiritualresearchfoundation.org/spiritualresearch/difficulties/ancestors/ancestorstype_help

How can we help our ancestors in the after-life? When family members die, depending on our culture and traditions, we pay tribute to their lives by offering flowers at their grave, by publishing kind words about them in their memory in the obituary section of a newspaper or hanging the photograph of the deceased in one's house. However, all these have no significance in assisting them in the subtle-world. Spiritual research conducted indicates that after death, about 60% of ancestors are unable to acquire momentum and move beyond the Earth plane (Bhlok) due to lack of spiritual level and excessive desires. As they are unable to move on, they reside mostly in their family homes. There are many things we can do to help our ancestors as soon as they pass away and when they are in the afterlife. We will be covering the various things we can do in subsequent articles.

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1. Spiritual protection chant of Shri Gurudev Datta


To immediately begin to help your ancestors, we recommend chanting the spiritual protection chant of 'Shr Gurudev Datta'. Refer to the article on, What does the spiritual protective chant of Shri Gurudev Datta represent?.

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At the time of death, excretory gases are expelled from the dead body. These excretory gases are regular physical gases expelled by the body such as putrefying gases etc. Their frequencies and vibrations are negative in nature and as a result, theTama component increases in the immediate environment. The ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.) get attracted to these distressing frequencies and enter the environment around the dead body. They attack the dead body by gaining control over the five vital energies and sub-vital energies which are in the process of being released into the Universe at the time of death. They emit black energy in smoke form on to the dead body, engulfing it and creating a black covering on it. Due to the attacks by ghosts, there is a transmission of black frequencies in the dead body and the corpse gets charged with black frequencies.

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When the ghost gains control on the five vital energies and sub-vital energies, it also transmits whorls of black energy to ensnare the subtle body. It thus pulls the subtle-body of the deceased ancestor in its field of attack. Then they trap the subtle-body into their web of black frequencies and can create obstacles in its onward journey in the after-life. After some time, many ghosts attack the subtle-body by creating a whorl of black frequencies and take it into their complete control. In this way, ghosts systematically gain control over the dead body and the subtle-body of the departed ancestor. Spiritual science advocates some specific rites and rituals that need to be done at the time of death to protect the body and the subtle-body from being potentially attacked by ghosts. In many cases, people either do not know these rituals or do not know how to perform them correctly.

3. Benefits of chanting Shri Gurudev Datta


The following are some of the main benefits of repeating the spiritual protection chant of 'Shri Gurudev Datta'.

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Reduces Raja-Tama: Deity Datta is an aspect of God that provides momentum to our ancestors. Effulgent striking frequencies are emitted through the chant of Shri Gurudev Datta. These frequencies reduce the severity of the frequencies of desire present around the subtle-body of the departed ancestor. This results in a decrease in the Raja-Tama in the subtle-body and thus reduces its heaviness. This enables the subtle-body to gain energy to move onwards in its journey.

Protective sheath: A protective sheath is formed around the subtle-body and its actual physical body. This protects it from attacks by ghosts.

Instigates momentum: As the attachment in the form of desires is also reduced, the subtle-body is able to cross the Earth plane in a shorter time period.

Spiritually purifies the environment : Due to the chanting, particles of Divine consciousness (Chaitanya) are generated in the atmosphere. The subtle-body of the recently departed ancestor

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benefits from these particles. All the persons chanting are also protected from the distressing frequencies present in the atmosphere. Continued protection: By continuously repeating the chant of 'Shri Gurudev Datta' on a daily basis, we protect ourselves from distress caused due to ancestors. We also help our ancestors in the after-life by providing them with the necessarySattva component to make their onward journey.

4. Which of your ancestors will benefit from the chant?


The ancestor who is troubling the most will derive maximum benefit and get first priority for the spiritual help generated by the protective chant of 'Shri Gurudev Datta'.

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From a spiritual perspective what is the best colour of clothes to wear to a funeral? From a spiritual perspective, any sober colour other than black can be worn by relatives and wellwishers in the event of the death of a person. It is preferable to wear lighter colours such as white and pale blue as they are more sttvik. Wearing black attire is common in many societies and cultures, however from a spiritual perspective it is most likely to be detrimental to both the family and the person who has passed away. Since the colour black is tmasik in nature, it has maximum capacity to attract and transmit negative and distressing frequencies in the environment, i.e. to the extent of 70%. This means, out of all the possible negative vibrations (ghosts included) that there can be in the environment, the colour black can attract up to 70% of them. Along with this, the surviving relatives who are mourning are generally in a depressed state, also adds to the Raja-Tamafrequencies in the environment.

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The combination of these two factors makes it conducive for ghosts to possess the mourner through the medium of his black clothing and weakened emotional state. As a result, the overall increase in Raja-Tama also affects the subtle-body of the deceased, increases its distress and impedes its onward journey in the afterlife. On the other hand, wearing white coloured clothes for funeral repels the Raja-Tama frequencies and attracts sattvik frequencies. This makes it less conducive for ghosts to possess mourners and give the subtle-body of the deceased any distress. The continued wearing of black throughout the period of mourning only makes matters worse and also prolongs the state of depression. The negative vibrations of black continue to retard the progress of ancestors and aid the activity of ghosts. The subtle-bodies of the deceased ancestors, who cannot move forward in their journey in the subtlerealm, stay in their familys homes. They can cause problems for the surviving members of their family. The problems that they cause are a plea for spiritual assistance to help them move on in the afterlife. Refer to the article - Why would my departed loved ones and my other ancestors want to give me pain?

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What is the effect of kissing the hand or forehead of the dead body? Losing a loved one is a traumatic experience for anyone. Sometimes people who are emotionally upset, hug and kiss the body of the deceased. This may however be harmful for both the person and the subtle-body of the deceased. The proportion of excretory gases expelled from the dead body is high. Hence the area around the dead body is charged with distressing frequencies. This negatively charged area is conducive to the functioning of ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.) therefore increasing their activity. By kissing the hand or forehead of the dead body the distressing frequencies on the skin of the dead body can enter that person. As the immediate area is charged with distressing frequencies, the person who goes to kiss the dead body also gets charged with the distressing frequencies and runs the risk of being severely affected by ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.). If the person who kisses the dead body is affected or possessed by ghosts then through the medium of his touch the ghosts in him can enter the dead body and take control of the body. They can then trouble its subtle-body thereby creating obstacles in its onward journey.

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People involved with the funeral by necessity need to touch the body of the deceased to prepare it for the funeral rites. This is a professional hazard. For example, the staff in Radiology (X-ray) department by virtue of their profession run the risk of exposure to harmful X-rays. Hence they wear lead shields to protect themselves from the radiation. Similarly, as the people involved with the funeral too run the risk of being affected at a spiritual level, it is recommended that they repeat the spiritual protective chant of Shr Gurudev Datta while performing their duties. It is also strongly recommended that they persevere with spiritual practiceon a daily basis. The spiritual practice needs to conform to the six basic principles in spiritual practice, else it is of little value in obtaining sustained protection.

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What is the effect of keeping objects in the coffin? The favourite objects of the dead person kept in the coffin are attacked by ghosts in the same way as the corpse is attacked. This includes even dressing up the dead body in their favourite clothes. The subtle sorcerers can use these objects to do black magic. Also as the vibrations of the person are more in those objects, the subtle body instead of attaining onward momentum is attracted again and again to the coffin because of prior attachment to those objects and then finally starts residing in it. Due to being Earth bound, the subtle body of the deceased ancestor falls prey to other tamasik subtle bodies in the graveyard and also to ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.). It comes under their control and becomes a medium for their activities. Therefore while the act of keeping something special in the coffin may be done with the best intentions, it is most likely to be harmful for the subtle body of the deceased. Instead of moving out of the Earth region, the subtle body gets stuck in its favourite objects. As the subtle body becomes more earth bound, it gets easily controlled by ghosts and thus suffers immense agony. Besides being trapped by ghosts, he also gets stuck in the cycles of birth and death. For this reason it is best not to add anything into the coffin, not even flowers. Also in the case of burial, it is best to dress the body in white and simple clothes.

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What is the spiritual perspective on cremation, burial and the body being consumed by vultures? 1. Introduction 2. The circumstances of the physical body after death 3. Cremation of a body 4. Burial 5. Dead body being consumed by vultures 6. The environmental perspective of cremation versus burial 7. In summary

1. Introduction
Every year more than 50 million people die worldwide. The two main forms of funeral rites adopted by most are either cremation or burial. The Parsis (Zoroastrians) in Mumbai, India, a small community, leave their dead out in the open in the Towers of silence to be consumed by vultures. In the past some civilizations would embalm their dead in the process of mummification. Through spiritual research methodologies, we have examined the effect of some of the main modern types of funeral rites from the point of view of helping our ancestors in the afterlife. A popular concept is that after death the soul goes towards the light or has its loved ones waiting on the other side to welcome them etc. However, to understand the true experience of a subtle-body who has just left its gross body (sthladha) after death, we recommend that you read the following 3 articles before resuming reading this.
Where do we go after death? What is the region of death? Going towards light

Having read these articles, one will have an understanding of how ancestors can be in a state of distress in the afterlife and how they can be helped. Another popular belief is that our ancestors who pass on are in a position to help us on Earth. However this is far from the truth. Most of our departed ancestors are desperately in need of help themselves. The only people who can do something for them are their descendants on Earth. The only way to get the attention of their descendants is to harass them. This harassment can come in many forms until they reach a point where the descendant is cornered into doing some spiritual practice which would go towards relieving the distress of the ancestors. To understand this further please read:
What are ancestral problems? Why would my departed loved ones and other ancestors want to give me pain?

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The method of disposal of the dead can contribute to or alleviate the distress that the ancestor has to go through in the subtle-realm. Sometimes people weigh the pros and cons of different forms of funeral rites based on its impact on the environment. This is one yard stick to use. However the most damage is done in the spiritual environment when a spiritually detrimental funeral rite is performed leading to further distress to the subtle-body of the dead ancestor.

2. The circumstances of the physical body after death


When a person dies only the gross body is shed, but the subtle body consisting of the mind, intellect, ego which contains all the desires and impressions continues to exist. The mind, intellect and subtle ego form the personality of the person. These personality traits remain unaltered and dying physically does not change the person in any way. The concept of attachment for ones gross body: When a person dies, he is unfamiliar with all the experiences of the afterlife as one will understand from the article The region of death. Thus he clings to the body he knows and the world he came from, even though he is dead. This is heightened when the body is kept completely intact as happens when the body is embalmed or frozen for a delayed funeral. The subtle body associates itself with its gross body and thus finds it that much more difficult to detach and proceed on its onwards journey as it cannot leave its prior home its gross body. Vibrations around the dead body that attract negative frequencies: At the time of death, excretory gases are expelled from the dead body. These excretory gases are regular physical gases expelled by the body such as putrefying gases etc. Since they are gases exiting a decaying body, their frequencies and vibrations are negative in nature and as a result the tama component increases in the immediate surrounding environment.Ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.) get attracted to these negative frequencies and enter the environment around the dead body. The series of drawings based on subtle-knowledge below have been drawn by spiritual seekers who have an advanced sixth sense that enables them to see what happens to the subtle body of the dead person as well as what happens in the unseen environment around the gross body of the dead person.

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Ghosts attack the dead body by gaining control over the five vital energies and sub-vital energies, which are in the process of being released into the Universe from the body at the time of death. They emit black energy in the form of smoke on to the dead body, engulfing it and creating a black covering on it. This smoke is invisible but can be perceived through ones sixth sense (ESP). Due to the attacks by ghosts, there is a transmission of black frequencies into the dead body and the corpse gets charged with these black frequencies. After the ghost gains control of the gross body and five vital energies and sub-vital energies, it turns its attention to capturing the subtle body of the dead person. The subtle body of an average person is generally full of worldly desires and hovers around in the Earth plane. It has a subtle link with its previous gross body, both in the form of attachment to it and also through the vital energy which is released from the dead body into the atmosphere over a period of a few days. Ghosts use this subtle link to get to the subtle body. It begins to ensnare the subtle body by transmitting whorls of black energy towards the subtle body. It thus pulls the subtle body of the deceased ancestor into its field of attack.

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Then they trap the subtle body into a web of black frequencies. This impedes the free movement of the subtle body and thus creates obstacles in its onward journey in the afterlife. After some time, many ghosts join the attack on the subtle body by creating further whorls of black frequencies and take it under their complete control. In this way, ghosts systematically gain control over the dead body and the subtle body of the departed ancestor. From a spiritual perspective, the main aim of a funeral rite should be to accomplish the following: Minimise the attack by ghosts Help the subtle-body shake off its bond to the gross body To give momentum and protection to the subtle body in its onward journey in the afterlife. The information given below along with the drawings based on subtle-knowledge have been provided by Mrs. Anjali Gadgil, a seeker in SSRF with a highly advanced sixth sense. The information and drawings based on subtle-knowledge have been obtained from the Universal Mind and Intellect and show the exact sequence of subtle events when a person is: A. Cremated B. Buried or C. Consumed by vultures

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3. Cremation of a body
Cremation is the practice of disposing of a corpse by burning. At the outset, it is important to note that the cremation needs to be done at the earliest and preferably before sunset. If the person has died at night, then one can wait till the morning to conduct the cremation. By expediting the funeral process itself, we minimise the impact on the dead body by ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.). The following is the sequence of events that were observed: 1. During the cremation (with the effect of the Absolute Fire Principle(Tjtattva) along with the recitation of specificmantras, the five vital energies, sub-vital energies and excretory gases in the corpse are expelled and disintegrated in the atmosphere. 2. As the body is burning, a subtle protective sheath forms around the body due to the Absolute Fire Principle andmantras, protecting it from any attack by ghosts. 3. Due to the complete disintegration of the five vital energies and sub-vital energies any subtlebond that the subtle body had with the body is broken. 4. The Absolute Fire Principle and mantras also cleanse the subtle body of any RajaTama frequencies and provide a protective sheath around it. 5. As a result, the subtle-body now cleansed of Raja-Tama frequencies becomes lighter and more sttvik. This adds to the momentum in its onward journey out of the Earth plane.

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A quick analysis of cremation shows that it meets all the criteria for the effectiveness of a funeral rite.

If a body is incompletely burnt, it still faces the risk of attack by subtle-sorcerers (mntriks). Also read: "What is the spiritual perspective on scattering of ashes from a cremation urn?"

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4. Burial
Casket (coffin) manufacturers generally manufacture caskets with seamless welds and rubber gaskets. These caskets are known as 'sealed' caskets. The caskets are made in such a way so as to keep out water, soil and air. However they also succeed in trapping all the excretory gases in the coffin. The subtle pressure in the coffin rises as the distressing frequencies emanating from the corpse materialise within the coffin and are transformed into a black sheath around the body. This materialisation process generates distressing, frictional, hot frequencies. These frequencies generate a subtle distressing sound that attracts ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.). The ghosts enter the coffin and gain control over the five vital energies, sub-vital energies and begin the charging of the corpse with a covering of black energy. As the body is buried adjacent to the ground, it attracts distressing frequencies from the Hell region ( Ptal) that form a dome of black frequency chords over the corpse. Ghosts use the control that they have over the gross body, five vital energies and sub-vital energies to gain access to the subtle body. Over time, with the inundation of black energy by ghosts, the heaviness of the subtle body also increases. The subtle body is pulled towards the coffin and gets trapped in it and falls prey to the attacks by ghosts. As the subtle bodies of the buried are trapped in the Earth region their probability of becoming ghosts is more than in those where the body is cremated. Even if the person has led a relatively good life when alive, just by the very act of burial, his probability of becoming a ghost much against his own will increases manifold. Under the influence of other ghosts, he is forced to commit acts wherein his demerits rise relegating him further to the lower regions of the Universe.

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A subtle-analysis of the burial method shows that it does not meet any of the criteria for the effectiveness of a funeral rite.

5. Dead body being consumed by vultures

The Parsee (Zoroastrians) community disposes its dead by placing the bodies in a place known as the Tower of Silence. The tower is open to the sky as it has no roof. The corpse is subjected to the rays of the sun to decompose and vultures to eat it. As the subtle-body is still attached to its gross body at the time of death, it undergoes agony when the body is torn by vultures and is decomposed. For a body not be used as a vehicle to attack the subtle-body, it needs to be destroyed completely and as soon as possible. Fire is the only element that can do this immediately. The five vital energies and sub-vital energies generally take a few days to finally leave the body completely. During this period, they can be used by ghosts as a means to get to the subtle body of the departed ancestor. The suns rays simply do not have the ability to destroy the body and nor do the vultures in a matter of days.

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However something far more damaging happens at a spiritual level. In this method as the vultures attack the corpse, many subtle-sorcerers and ghosts are attracted to the smell of the blood, bones and flesh of the corpse. They use the blood and bones to do negative rituals to gain control over the subtle-body. By giving the corpse to vultures the entire body goes into the complete control of the ghosts and subtle-sorcerers in a very short time. They are more likely to become slaves of these subtle-sorcerers and suffer immensely in the afterlife. In this way, these subtle-bodies also do not attain momentum and easily go into the control of ghosts and thus to the Hell region. In addition, many ghosts fulfil their cravings and hunger for meat by eating the human blood and flesh through the medium of the vultures. The subtle-sorcerers materialise the subtle distressing smell emitted through the blood and flesh and with the help of recitation of negative mantras give subtle form to that subtle body again. Then they give it a genie like form and make it perform many negative acts and thus trouble others severely. A subtle-analysis of being consumed by vultures shows that it does not meet any of the criteria for the effectiveness of a funeral rite and is more harmful than burial.

6. The environmental perspective of cremation versus burial


On the face of it the funeral rite of burial of a person in a shroud or letting bodies be eaten by vultures may seem to be more eco-friendly than burial in a coffin or crematorium or funeral pyre. However in choosing the way we want our funeral rites done cannot be looked at purely from an environmental point of view. There are other spiritual considerations such as the attack of ghosts. By excluding the spiritual realm in our decision making on what funeral rite to choose and by keeping the body intact dramatically increases the chances of our departed to get attacked by ghosts.

7. In summary
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ghosts in the afterlife. Sometimes we are attached to the form of funeral rite that our culture is used to. However, the spiritual repercussions of burial and being consumed by vultures needs to be weighed against ones psychological attachment for a certain funeral rite.

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What is the spiritual perspective on scattering of ashes from a cremation urn?

Abstract
The way we scatter the ashes of our loved ones after they are cremated, either helps them in the afterlife or obstructs their onward journey. Spiritual research conducted has shown that immersing ashes in water alone can benefit our ancestors. This article also provides information on the reasons behind the spiritually correct methods to be adopted - right from the collection of ashes to its final disposal.

Abstract 1. Introduction 2. Where should one keep the cremation urn until the ashes are scattered? 3. How long should the cremation ashes be kept? 4. What is spiritually the best way to scatter the ashes from a cremation urn? 4.1 Immersion of ashes in water 4.1.1 What should one do with the urn after immersing the ashes in the sea? 4.2 Burial of the ashes 4.3 Keeping ashes in jewellery 4.4 Scattering remains by airplane or on a favourite place of the deceased 5. Who should perform the rite of scattering of the ashes? 6. What material should the cremation urn be made of? 7. What should I do with my pets ashes?

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1. Introduction
Nowadays there is an increasing trend of people choosing cremation over burial as a funeral rite. The funeral rite of cremation that takes place either on a funeral pyre or in a crematorium does not dispose off the body totally. The remains are commonly known as ashes and are handed back to the family in an urn. The entire process from receiving the ashes to the scattering of the ashes is important from a spiritual point of view. Depending on the process adopted, we can either help our departed loved one to move on in their afterlife or we may be instrumental in their remaining earthbound. However the surviving relatives who receive the ashes in a cremation urn are generally unaware of the spiritually correct way of scattering the ashes. In the article on, What is the spiritual perspective on cremation, burial and body consumed by vultures? we described how the corpse could be attacked by ghosts, thus impeding the progress of a subtle-body after death. The ashes after cremation represent the last vestiges of the person. The ashes therefore have the same frequencies as that of the departed ancestor. We know that we can medically identify a decomposed body that is beyond recognition by techniques such as DNA testing etc. because even a small remnant of a tooth or hair matches exactly to the person. Similarly at a subtler, intangible level the smallest remnant of the corpse, even in the ashes has the same frequencies and vibrations as the person. These frequencies are generally negative in nature. As 50% of the population is below 30% spiritual level, the frequencies emanating from the body are the subtle basic Raja-Tama frequencies. Also as 100% of the population is affected by ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.) the frequencies emanating from the body and ashes are of the Tama variety. As a result, they are distressing to us at a subtle level. Refer to the article - the three subtle basic components of sattva, raja and tama in relation to spiritual level. There is also a subtle bond that exists between the ashes and the departed ancestor because of the similar frequencies. These frequencies and subtle bond can be used by ghosts to create obstacles in the subtle bodys journey after death. By creating obstacles in the onward journey in the afterlife, ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.) capture and then end up controlling the subtle body. This enables them to trouble the subtle body or make it do many undesirable acts as per their bidding, like troubling others. In almost all cases where the ancestor is earthbound they end up troubling their descendents. Refer to the article - Why would my departed loved ones and my other ancestors want to give me pain?

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In this article, we present the spiritual research undertaken to identify the spiritually most beneficial method to be adopted from the time the cremation ashes are received to the final scattering of the ashes. The primary purpose is to help the departed ancestor move on in the afterlife with minimum negative impact on the surviving relatives.

2. Where should one keep the cremation urn until the ashes are scattered?
As explained above, the ashes of any person who is not a Saint is usually high in the subtle basic Raja-Tama component. Any contact with it adds to the subtle basic Raja-Tama component in us and can be a cause for distress. Hence it is advisable to scatter ashes immediately after collecting them. Bringing the ashes into the house also increases the attachment of the departed ancestors subtle body and makes it more earthbound instead of hastening its momentum in the afterlife. If for some reason the scattering of ashes cannot be done immediately, the sealed urn is best kept outside the house, tied to a tree etc.

3. How long should the cremation ashes be kept?


If the cremation was done on a funeral pyre the ashes are generally collected on the 3rd day. This is because it takes approximately three days for the embers to completely die down. If the cremation is done in a crematorium, the ashes are available the next day itself. Whatever the method of cremation the sooner one scatters the ashes the lesser is the negative impact of the Raja-Tama frequencies. In some cases, relatives residing overseas who could not make it for the funeral want to be part of the ritual of scattering of ashes. Here too, one has to weigh the spiritual benefit to the ancestor and preventing distress to oneself by scattering the ashes immediately versus the emotional gratification of the relatives.

4. What is spiritually the best way to scatter the ashes from a cremation urn?
4.1 Immersion of ashes in water
After the body is cremated, immersion of the ashes in water is spiritually the best way of disposing of the ashes. The reasons for this are as follows:

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1. It is easier for ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.) to gain control of the ashes and the subtle body and misuse it. This is especially so when they find the ashes all together in one place in the ground. By immersing the ashes in water, they are dispersed and hence unavailable to the ghosts in a collected form to gain control of. 2. As water is all-assimilating, it imbibes the distressing vibrations remaining from the dead body in the ashes and the other Absolute Cosmic Principles ( Panchamahbhts) related to the subtle body like Absolute Earth (Pruthv), Fire (Tj), Air (Vyu) element etc. This helps to break the remaining attachment of the subtle body to its gross body ( sthladha) on the Earth region (Bhlok). As a result, the probability of the subtle body getting stuck in the Earth region as well as that of being attacked by ghosts is dramatically reduced. 3. The demerits (sins) of the person add to the subtle basic Raja-Tama frequencies of the ashes. By scattering the ashes of the deceased in the water, the demerits i.e. the RajaTama frequencies related to the demerits are washed into the water. 4. Sea water is the best for disposal of ashes. This is because sea water has the maximum allassimilating property among all types of waters. Amongst other waters, holy rivers are the best. Holy rivers are those rivers whose waters have a very high content of subtle basic Sattva component. For example, in rivers like the Ganges in India the subtle basic Sattva component is high despite the water being heavily polluted. In general, flowing water is the best as it scatters the ashes thus making it near impossible for the ghosts to gain control on the subtle body through the ashes.
4.1.1 What should one do with the urn after immersing the ashes in the sea?

As the ashes are collected in the urn, the urn gets charged with the vibrations in the ashes. Keeping the urn or using it later can give rise to distress because of the distressing frequencies associated with most ashes as explained above. Hence it is best to immerse the urn in water along with the ashes.

4.2 Burial of the ashes


Some cultures prescribe burial of ashes in the urn after cremation. They also argue that the body is a temple of God and therefore should be buried instead of cremated. As explained above, burying the ashes in an urn makes it an easy target for the ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.) and it is much easier for them to gain control of the subtle body of the departed ancestor. At a spiritual level, the adverse effect of the ashes on the subtle body is identical to that of burying the body albeit of a slightly less intensity. Thus burial of a corpse or burial of the ashes is a highly incorrect act. Considering the number of burials so far over the centuries and those to come, it is evident that everybody has to face the consequences of the increase of subtle basic Raja-Tama vibrations generated through this incorrect act. When there is an overall rise in

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the Raja-Tama vibrations on Earth there is an increase in natural disasters, wars, terrorism, social unrest etc.

4.3 Keeping ashes in jewellery


Some people make cremation jewellery by placing a lock of hair, a dried flower from the funeral, ashes etc. in a locket, pendant, bracelet etc. By doing this we harm the ancestor by: Increasing his worldly attachment thus causing an impediment to his onward journey in the afterlife and making him Earthbound. The act of wearing the ashes itself causes a higher level of attachment in the subtle body of the departed ancestor for the descendent and their previous life on Earth. Exposing him to the risk of attack by ghosts. Cremation jewellery is harmful to us as: We expose ourselves to the subtle basic Raja-Tama in the ashes intimately and over an extended period of time. We expose ourselves to the risk of being affected by the subtle body of the ancestor as well as the ghost who may be in control of the ancestor's subtle body through the ashes.

4.4 Scattering remains by airplane or on a favourite place of the deceased


It is best to scatter ashes quietly and without much fuss/fanfare as a sign of respect to the dead and also to keep its worldly attachment to the minimum. As explained above, it is best to scatter ashes in water.

5. Who should perform the rite of scattering of the ashes?


Anybody can scatter the ashes; usually it is the next of kin who does it. It is best that only a single person does it to limit contact with the ashes and keep it to the minimum.

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6. What material should the cremation urn be made of?


Manufacturers of cremation urns offer a variety of products to select from. The cremation urn varies from the type of material used, to the design on them, to the shape.

From a spiritual perspective, the following is recommended for the selection of an urn: Material: It is best to use a plain earthenware urn for collecting and storing ashes. The urn should not be of any other material such as ceramic, glass, porcelain etc. The earthenware urn when immersed in water dissolves completely into the water and thus causes no or minimal pollution. It also is high in the Absolute Earth Principle. The ashes are also predominantly made up of the Absolute Earth Principle. As both belong to the same Absolute Cosmic Principle their frequencies do not clash. Hence it is beneficial to use earthenware urns. Design: Every type of design or art can be sttvik, rjasik or tmasik. Only if one has evolved to a level where one can perceive the purity in the art or design will one be able to perceive the positive or distressing vibrations from the design on the urn. Thus it is recommended that the urn have no design. If the design is subtle Raja-Tama predominant, it will add to the existing Raja-Tama in the ashes. It will thus cause further distress or impediment in the onward journey of the subtle body of the departed ancestor. Shape: Urns are manufactured in all shapes and sizes. They are generally cubical, cylindrical, like a pyramid etc. The urns with sharp angles as in the aforementioned shapes give rise to striking, opposing frequencies that are predominantly subtle basic Raja-Tama. These add to the distressing frequencies of the ashes. This means an addition of subtle basic raja-tama to the subtle body too. Spiritual research has shown that with regards to shape, it is best to have a plain circular regular shape as it does not have the detrimental effect of adding on subtle basic RajaTama frequencies. Some manufacturers of cremation urns advertise cremation jewellery that allows the surviving relatives to keep a part of the ashes in some bracelet or pendant. In these pendants, they also keep a lock of hair of the dead person, some dried flowers from the funeral or some earth from the burial site. From a spiritual perspective, this is most harmful for the subtle body of the dead person and also the person wearing it. Please refer to point 4 for a full explanation of why ashes should not be kept.

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To seal the urn, from the time of collection of the ashes to its final scattering, it is best to use white cotton cloth.

7. What should I do with my pets ashes?


It is recommended that the pets ashes too be immersed in water for the same reasons as above. Some people have expressed their desire to bury their pet dog or cats ashes along with their ashes. Spiritual research indicates that this is highly detrimental. This is because they are holding on to attachments thus increasing the possibility of remaining Earthbound. Also the pets ashes are more Tama predominant than human ashes.

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What is the spiritual perspective on contacting my departed relatives through a medium or an Ouija board? The following are reasons why contacting departed relatives through a medium or an Ouija board is detrimental: 1. Most mediums do not have the high level sixth sense ability (ESP) nor the spiritual level to discern the true identity of the spirit they are speaking to. In almost all cases, instead of our ancestors or our loved ones coming through, it is aghost (demons, devils, negative energies etc.) who tries to communicate with us. These ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies etc.) can have our departed ancestors under their control, sometimes extracting personal information from them to fool us into thinking that we are indeed talking to our ancestors. This happens even if the ancestors do not want to give information to the ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies etc.). Ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies etc.) also have the ability to invade the mind of the ancestor and extract information from the ancestor. Sometimes the ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies etc.) purposely let the ancestors come through but force them to give wrong information to their descendents, thus leading the surviving relatives astray. 2. In almost all cases, mediums who are at lower spiritual levels are possessed by ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies etc.) without having the slightest inkling. Also most mediums do this for money and/or fame. Ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies etc.) use this desire in the medium to enhance their control over them. (Refer to: Who are more likely to fall prey to an attack by ghosts?) They sometimes enhance the ability of the medium to exert a wider and deeper influence. The medium interprets this improved ability

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as a sign of their personal progress, but this is far from the truth. Finally, ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies etc.) mislead people through the medium. 3. On the other hand mediums who have higher spiritual strength generally have a few ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies etc.) under their control. They use these ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies etc.) to get information about the people coming to them and who are in need of contacting their departed loved ones. 4. Sometimes we hear about "ghost whisperers" helping our ancestors to cross over. A ghost whisperer is another word for a medium who can communicate with the spirits of the dead. However, unless a ghost whisperer is above the 70% spiritual level (i.e. at Sainthood level), it is nearly impossible to help any subtle-body cross over to the higher positive regions from an Earthbound existence. 5. Trying to contact departed relatives only increases their feeling of attachment for us and vice versa. The departed ancestors can perceive the pain and mourning of their surviving relatives and are drawn back to the Earth region ( Bhlok). This creates obstacles in the subtle-bodys ability to move on and progress in the afterlife. 6. Only a person who is a Saint (i.e. above the spiritual level of 70%), can actually decipher information accurately from the spiritual realm about one's departed ancestors. They are able to discern whether contact is being made with the concerned ancestor or if a ghost (demons, devils, negative energies etc.) is masquerading as an ancestor. At present, there are less than 10,000 of these evolved people living on Earth and they generally never indulge in helping people talk to their dead relatives. 7. There is only a 10% chance of getting in touch with ones departed ancestors by using an Ouija board. However the flip side is that there is also a 90% chance of a ghost (demons, devils, negative energies etc.) coming through masquerading as an ancestor. What is more damaging is that the ghost (demons, devils, negative energies etc.) can use the medium of the Ouija board itself to possess the person involved.

Losing a loved one can be a traumatic experience and one may have the desire to contact them to see if they are doing well. However the best service we can offer to our departed relatives is to make every effort to let them go. This is so that they can continue with their onward journey in the afterlife. Likewise, the best way to honour them and show our love for them is to let them go. Communicating with the dead has absolutely no spiritual value and will only create a loss to both the ancestor and to the descendent. It is important and beneficial to channel the sorrow of losing a loved one into doing spiritual practice and chanting the spiritual protection chant of Shr Gurudev Datta. This will not only help alleviate the pain that one feels but also substantially assist the departed loved ones in their afterlife.
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How should one dispose the clothes and things of a person who has died? After a loved one dies, many people are unsure what they should do with their belongings. The purpose of this article is to provide a guide to the surviving relatives. At a principle level, we can keep a few things in mind. The actions we take with regards to belongings of ancestors need to help them reduce their attachments and help them move on in their afterlife. The vibrations of the dead person remain in their belongings that they leave behind. Death of a person means an increase in subtle basic tama component in the environment. If there was an associated illness leading to death, the subtle basic tamacomponent is further accentuated. In addition to this, if the person was suffering distress by ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.) before, at the time of death or after, the person using the dead persons belongings is likely to suffer a corresponding amount of distress. The following are some of the things one can do after a relative has died to help the dead person break his attachment to his belongings and to protect oneself from the distressing effect of the subtle basic tama frequencies emanating from the belongings. 1. It is best to burn the clothes worn by the person at the time of his death and at the time of his cremation/burial as they are affected the most by the distressing subtle basic tama frequencies. The ashes can be immersed in the sea. 2. Sprinkle holy water (i.e. water plus holy ash) all over the dead persons room. This will help to reduce the tamacomponent that is generated in the atmosphere at the time of death. 3. The whole family can chant the spiritual chant of Sree Gurudev Datta. The chant can also be played continuously at low volume in the dead persons room. By continuously playing the chant of Sree Gurudeva Datta for about a year, the premises are purified and the subtle body of the departed relative also gains momentum in its onward journey in the afterlife. 4. For items where the dead person was very attached to, it is best to give them to a deserving spiritual organisation. As it is given to deserving spiritual organisations, the resolve of God becomes functional. The vibrations of the dead person in his belongings are destroyed and the subtle body gains momentum in its journey after death. This is because merits are accrued due to this donation to the deserving. By deserving, we mean those organisations that help people realise their true spiritual purpose in life. 5. For items that the dead person was not much attached to, family members may use them after a period of six months by which time the vibrations of the dead person would have been removed due to the purification by the spiritual chant. 6. Pictures of the departed ancestors should be taken down in the house. Having the pictures of dead relatives in the house fuels their attachment for their previous Earthly life and their previous family. This in turn impedes their progress in their onward spiritual journey. In some cases it makes the departed ancestor Earthbound in their home. 7. If a will has been drawn out by the dead person it should be honoured so that his wishes do not remain unfulfilled.

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The importance of putting the above steps into practice is that this is one of the deciding factors in the departed ancestor moving on or getting stuck in the Earth region. For our own complete protection, regular spiritual practice that pertains to the six basic principles in spiritual practice is suggested.

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What is the effect of talking about the deceased and refreshments at the funeral reception? According to Spiritual science, all rituals and functions associated with the last rites of a person should be designed with the objective of helping the subtle-body of the deceased in its onward journey. Activities that have the potential to increase the attachment of the subtle-body of the deceased to his or her previous life on Earth are best avoided. It is common funeral etiquette in todays world to have a funeral reception. Here the relatives and well wishers gather at the home of the deceaseds immediate family members to pa y their respects and offer condolences with regards to the recent death. Invariably food is served and a discussion takes place over the life of the deceased. From a Spiritual science perspective, this can be highly detrimental for the people involved as well as for the subtle-body of the deceased.

1. Issue: Talking about the dead person pulls his subtle-body to the premises again and again
Most people in todays world are Raja-tama predominant and have a lot of ego, desires and attachments. When Raja-Tamapredominant people pass away, their attachments and desires have the potential to make the subtle-body linger after death and hence be unable to move on in the afterlife. When we speak about the dead person, subtle basic Raja-Tama vibrations associated with the person are transmitted through the talk. Due to these vibrations, the subtle-body of the dead person is pulled to the premises again and again and it loiters in that environment. This is according to a rule of Spiritual science that says The word, touch, form, taste, smell and its associated energy coexist. Here the 'word' refers to the persons name and the 'form' refers to the subtle-body. Talking about the dead person generates energy associated with him, which pulls the subtle-body in the field of the discussion.

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What is the spiritually correct way to pay ones respects to the recently departed?
In view of the above principle, paying of respects to as well as grieving for the departed needs to be done taking care not to add on to the Raja-Tama already present in the premises. Refer to the article on the three subtle basic components that gives examples of what activities increase Raja-Tama. In addition, one should preclude all activities that would pull the subtle-body of the departed back towards the Earth region. Hence large gatherings talking loudly and talking at length about the departed are best avoided. Instead of talking about the person, it is best to be introverted after returning from the funeral. Chanting the spiritual protection chant of Shri Gurudev Datta or playing it in a low volume not only helps the deceased move on but also insulates the descendants from any harmful effects.

2. Issue: Possibility of distress by ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc.) by partaking of food in the house of the deceased
All objects, including the food in the house of the dead person, are affected by the subtle basic Tama predominant atmosphere in the house. Partaking of such Raja-Tama polluted food increases the possibility of the person eating it being affected byghosts.

What is the spiritual perspective on partaking of food in the house of one recently departed?
Given the above, it is best not to serve refreshments in the house of the departed after returning from the funeral. Even for the relatives in the house, food should not be cooked or prepared in the house at least till the day the dead body is buried or cremated. Relatives, neighbours or friends can provide the food to the family of the deceased. Food should be partaken only after spiritually purifying it by sprinkling holy water (water plus holy ash) and praying to God for protection. It is best eaten silently without talking, constantly chanting the spiritual protection chant of Shri Gurudev Datta. Note: Refer to the spiritual remedy of holy water in our spiritual healing section.

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Ancestor veneration and ancestor worship


1. Introduction to ancestor veneration and ancestor worship2. Some popular belief systems that drive ancestor veneration and ancestor worship3. Departed ancestors ability to protect and look out for their descendants: 4. Can departed ancestors intercede for us with God or Deities?5. If neglected or not worshiped can ancestors cause us problems?6. Can departed ancestors communicate with their descendants?6.1 Mechanism of the action for communication

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1. Introduction to ancestor veneration and ancestor worship


Ancestor veneration or ancestor worship is practiced in some form or another throughout the world. The types of customs and rituals are varied; in some cultures, ancestors are worshiped as deities. In this two part series on ancestor veneration and ancestor worship, we provide spiritual perspectives for various beliefs and customs, from simple respect and veneration to ancestor worship, so that people can make informed decisions about how they should treat their departed ancestors, both from their own perspective and that of the departed ancestors. The first ritual for departed ancestors is the funeral rite and we have given a spiritual perspective to some of the more popular funeral rites in our article cremation versus burial.

2. Some popular belief systems that drive ancestor veneration and ancestor worship
Protection: Departed ancestors are believed to wield great authority, having special powers to influence the course of events or to control the well-being of their living relatives. They provide protection to the family; keeping it together is one of the departed ancestors' main concerns. The living may regard the departed ancestors as guardian angels; protecting them from serious accidents, or guiding their path in life. Intervention: Sometimes departed ancestors are considered intermediaries between God (and/or Deities) and the family they have left behind. It is believed that they intercede with God, Saints and Deities for the benefit of the family. Fear and reverence: In some cultures the attitude of descendants towards departed ancestors is one of mixed fear and reverence. It is believed that if neglected, and not venerated or worshiped after their death, the departed ancestors may cause disease and other misfortunes. Communication from the afterlife: Departed ancestors have the ability to communicate with the living through dreams and by possessing their descendants. Help in lifes decisions: The descendants sometimes turn to the ancestors for guidance through seances and mediums or Ouija boards to help them in making important decisions. The following sections explain some spiritual research in relation to the above beliefs that fuel ancestor worship:

3. Departed ancestors ability to protect and look out for their descendants:
The ability of a subtle-body in the subtle-regions of the Universe to protect someone on the Earth region (Bhlok) is directly related to the subtle-body's spiritual strength or spiritual capacity. The following table provides an overview of the proportion of people going to the various subtle-regions after death. Region type Proportion of people Relative spiritual Main aim

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going to these regions after death Higher positive regions of the beyond) Heaven (Swarga) Less than 1% Universe (i.e. Maharlok and Less than 0.1%

strength

+ 100 to Infinity

Spiritual growth

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Enjoying the fruit of their merits

The

Nether

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85%

+1

Survival

(Bhuvarlok) 1st and 2nd Region of Hell (Ptl) 3rd region of Hell and lower 5% -30 to slightly before negative infinity Note: The negative figures for spiritual strength show the spiritual energy that is demonic spiritual energy. It is also commonly known as black energy. On average a departed ancestor will take about one to three generations to lose attachment to his previous life on Earth. One generation can be taken as roughly 30 years. In other words, people are most affected by the generations that pertain to their parents to great-grandparents. One aspect that decides this time period is the suffering that one has to undergo in the subtle-regions due to incorrect actions and deeds when on the Earth plane. When undergoing these sufferings, departed ancestors are aware of which part of their Earthly existence is responsible for the suffering. In that time their attachment to their previous worldly life also exists and is bound to influence the lives of their descendants. Troubling others 10% -10 to -20 Survival and troubling others

Samashti spiritual level refers to the spiritual level attained through spiritual practice for the sake of society (samashti sdhan), while vyashti spiritual practice refers to the spiritual level attained through individual spiritual practice (vyashti sdhan). In the current times, spiritual progress for the sake of society has 70% importance while individual spiritual practice has 30% importance. The subtle-bodies that can effect real change on the Earth plane for their descendants are subtlebodies that are spiritually evolved and reside in the higher regions of the Universe such as Maharlok,Janolok, etc. These subtle-bodies are above the 60% (samashi) or 70% (vyashi) spiritual level. However, in practice people do not receive material help from these highly evolved beings. This is for two reasons:

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Firstly, less than 0.1% of our departed ancestors go to these higher regions of the Universe because ones spiritual level needs to be above 60% ( samashti) or 70% (vyashti).
Secondly, even if our departed ancestor was to be of a high spiritual level, material help would not be something that he would indulge in. As a person evolves their only focus is to grow spiritually. So all their help to others is also given from the perspective of helping them grow spiritually. Moreover they begin to loose their attachment to family members. This is because they get more expansive in their perspective which is to help all of humanity grow spiritually.

Subtle-bodies in Lower and Higher Heaven are fairly evolved spiritually. However, while in the subtle-region of Heaven, they are mostly involved in enjoying and experiencing the fruits of the merits gained when they were on the Earth region. This is why they rarely help their descendants on the Earth region. Moreover, they have less spiritual strength and if they do help their descendants it is in the more easily manageable worldly matters. Less than 1% of all departed ancestors go to the subtle-region of Heaven.

Most of our ancestors go to the subtle-regions of Nether region and the 1st and 2nd regions of Hell. Here the environment is quite oppressive. Due to a lack of spiritual practice and various attachments/unfulfilled desires, subtle-bodies of departed ancestors in these regions mainly experience unhappiness. Most of the time these departed ancestors want to trouble their descendants. The following are the two main reasons as to why ancestors trouble their descendants. Due to unfulfilled desires Due to the inability to move on in the after life and attain a higher positive region or sub-region. Please refer to the article - Why would my departed loved ones and my other ancestors want to give me pain? If help is provided by the ancestors, then it is because of intense desire to help. It is generally for small things such as getting a job, etc. However if a descendant on Earth is to undergo some event because of medium to severe destiny, it is impossible to change that event without the descendant themselves doing spiritual practice.

Ancestors that go to the lower regions of Hell generally only trouble their descendants and never help. Mechanism of how subtle bodies of departed ancestors help In almost all cases, ancestors have very little ability to influence events on a sustained basis in another plane of existence such as the Earth region. Sometimes the strength to accomplish the wishes of departed ancestors is given by higher level ghosts (demons, devils, negative energies, etc). Higher level ghosts provide energy so as to create a give-and-take account with these subtle-bodies that they help and thereby get them under their control.

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Section 4 Effect of departed ancestors on our lives


Planning ones wedding after the death of a close relative such as ones parents For those who are in a quandary about wedding plans due to the sudden death of a close relative such as ones father or mother, the following spiritual perspectives can be kept in mind:

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It is recommended that a wedding ceremony should not be planned for at least a year after the death of a close relative. This is because the period after the death of a close relative is considered spiritually inauspicious. The reasons are:

There is an increase in the subtle Tama component at the time of death and the period after death. Due to the unfulfilled desires of the person who has recently passed away, the strong vibrations related to their attachments are present in the house where they were living. The ancestral home is affected with the subtle existence of the deceased. Even if the groom-to-be is living in a different country because of the karmic connection with the deceased he and his home will be affected.

Spiritual research shows that people with whom we have a strong emotional bond such as a close friend are not included in the spiritual definition of close relatives. In such cases, if the marriage happens within a year, the newlywed couple can have distress from the departed ancestor lingering around the family. Additionally, if the departed ancestors subtle body is suffering from any spiritual distress such as demonic possession, then all attendees present for the marriage ceremony may also face spiritual distress.

Thus, it is advised not to plan weddings or any other auspicious ceremonies for at least a year after the death of close family members. The best way to minimise the harmful effects of the death of a close relative is by doing regular spiritual practice.

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