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BY STEVEN AITCHISON
trying to say' Staying silent an" staring at someone #ho is trying to rile you is also an e!!ective #ay to #in an argument #ithout saying a #or"' 1' Attracting someone (hen you are trying to attract someone an" sho# them you are intereste" you can tal% an" listen #ith your eyes' (hen a person you li%e is spea%ing use the #hole !ace as your !ocal point' 8oo% at their eyes listen to #hat they are saying smile in the appropriate places raise your eye&ro#s in the appropriate places' I! you !eel you are staring at them move to their other !eatures such as their lips their chee%s their nose an" then &ac% to their eyes' Smiling #hen listening to someone is a great #ay to sho# you are intereste" in them o&viously "on+t smile #hen they have )ust tol" you their pet "ie" last night' You have to listen #ith your ears as #ell as listening #ith your eyes 9yes I "i" mean listening #ith your eyes you listen to someone+s &o"y language #ith your eyes:' ;' Loving someone <y #i!e an" I o!ten share a prolonge" ga,e into each other+s eyes an" it is a very special thing to )ust stare #ithout tal%ing' <y #i!e+s pupils #ill "ilate an" she can my pupils "ilating' It creates a strong &on" &et#een us' To ma%e your pupils "ilate even more you can try this: as you are staring at your partner imagine yoursel! going insi"e their &o"y an" your t#o souls ma%ing love' You are trying to touch their very soul' This #ill release a"renalin an" ma%e your pupils "ilate even more'