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The pursuit of our desires gives us more pleasures and satisfaction

Desires are natural among human being and also living things. Without it, people will stay at the same stage. Desires is depend on how people interpret it, some might said that desires is something that we lack and we feel like we must have it, and from the other point of view is feeling longing for something or someone . When we pursuit our desires, it will give us more pleasures and satisfaction compare to the attainment of the desires. This is because everybody is change, the hardships will make the achievement more sweet and we can have more friends

Earth is rotating, the season change when the time comes and human being also changing. Literally, everybody will change in personality and point of view when time passes by. The new things will always happen to everybody which will affect the person. A child is not always stay as child. They will grow and find their own vision. As stated by Audre Lorde, our vision begins with our desires. What we want to have will shaping our personality from time to time. When there is something that we want, our endurance towards hardships also increases. The positive personality also builds during the endurance. The patience, motivation and the experience during that time will teach us to be smarter and relaxed in facing our life.

Of course when we already achieve our desire we will happy, but what make it more memorable is how struggle we go to get it. As mention by Dr. Schwartz , the hardships that a person need to face will make the achievement will be more meaningful. Without any sadness, heartbroken and other pressure, the achievement will be meaningless and only becoming ordinary desires. Imagine a person gain a fame and title even though he or she did not done anything. Of course he or she will enjoy the moment but the enjoyment did not last. People with attitude Im alright with what I have now did not last in creating new invention.

Dr. HM Tuah Iskandar notes that a person cannot live in this world by themselves. Family and friends play a role in motivating us during realising the dream. We need support from them and we also can expand our relation among community. Its not bad to knowing other people who have the same goal or desire. They might share their experience and thought with us. Some scientific researchers have found that people are happier when they have friends. They also have sense of belonging which will help them to find their own identity in community. This also supported by Barbara L. Fredrickson.

3. The pursuit of our desires gives us more pleasures and satisfaction

As conclusion, the adventure that faced during proses of achieving desires will bring happiness more than happiness in the desire attainment. We need to feel satisfy of what we already have but the pleasure will decline in time. As human being, we are full of desires. We cannot determine what good and bad for person to person. It depends on the type of our desires and how we want to complete it. However we can determine our pleasure and satisfaction because of everybody is changing, we can meet stranger and become friends and the hardships will make the achievement more sweet when we pursuit our dream.

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Dr. HM Tuah Iskandar al-Haj. (2009). Membina Personaliti Terbilang. Selangor : Karya Bestari Sdn. Bhd. Dr. Schwartz, D. J. (2007). The Magic of Thinking Big. New York : Simon & Schuster. Barbara L. Fredrickson. (n.a). Connection and happiness. Retrieved from

http://www.pbs.org/thisemotionallife/topic/connecting/connection-happiness