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I’d been hanging out in the West Indies for the better part of two years, writing, painting, surfing, and
hobnobbing my way through the expat culture of sunstruck American, British, and assorted South
Americans that had found the languid pace of life in the islands relaxing. But after all this time, alas, my
funds were running low, and the moment had come for my return to California. As a cost saving measure I
conveniently managed to spare myself the expense of a plane ticket by hopping a ride to Miami aboard my
Two days later we were lifting off in comfort in his Beechcraft King Air from Barbados’ Grantley Adams
Airport. Once airborne I was told there would be a quick stop on our flight to Miami, in the British Virgin
Islands, long one of my favorite tropic haunts. No worries Mon! It was well into midday when we put down
at the tiny Beef Island airport, then took a bumpy Reggae enhanced taxi ride to the Virgin Gorda residence
Set on the peak of a ridiculously steep hill sat the sprawling luxury estate that was our destination. Arriving
at the top I was mesmerized by the astounding view. The perfectly sculpted coastline rolled out before us
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like a primetime Technicolor advertisement for packaged holiday trips to paradise. The opulent tropical
gardens were a riot of lush color, the tall palms nodding in the refreshing trade winds as if to offer their
After introductions to our congenial host and his wife, pilot Dave and the owner of this lavish hilltop hacienda
retreated to chaise-lounges in a white tent-like poolside cabana to discuss their affairs. I was left sitting in a
spacious living room enjoying an exotic imported cigarette and chatting up the attractive lady of the house, a
After a few moments in this unfamiliar but relaxing place I began to notice the rich and tasteful decor of the
room in greater detail, my eye quickly being drawing to what appeared to be a pair of original Matisse oils.
Upon inquiring about the paintings the woman gladly guided me across the great room and into a long
adjacent corridor that served as a gallery for their impressive art collection. Now this was a true privilege to
see, and I remember how surprised I was to be standing there. They were indeed real Matisse paintings,
and there were also a pair of Degas, three Dali’s, and a large Marc Chagall, all in oil.
We stood together, taking our time to view and discuss each of the paintings, and they were all
breathtakingly impressive, but what finally stopped me in my tracks was an unusually ornate gold gilt frame
The penmanship was exquisite, looking much like an illuminated manuscript from Fourteenth Century
Firenze, only written in English. We both stood gazing in a reverent silence as I read the work, which now
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By the tenth line it dawned on me that I was somehow familiar with the piece. The more I read the more
familiar it seemed. By the last stanza, I realized I knew the author very well indeed. My surprised expression
“Why yes. Very!” I replied. “Where did you get it... Who did this?”
“There’s a bit of a story attached, “she said. “Sadly enough, I don’t really know who the author is.”
I turned to look at her, the fire in my eyes now shining brightly, and I said, “Well, I do. Would you like to meet
him?”
She looked at me with an expression of what I can only call mildly humorous disbelief.
But with her gaze intently riveted on my face she quickly realized that I was entirely serious.
“Would I ever! You have no idea what this poem means to me.”
‘Why don’t you tell me where it came from,” I replied, “and I’ll tell you who wrote it”. I was burning with my
own curiosity about how she came to have this work of art.
“Agreed?”
And tell me she did, explaining in detail how the antique frame originated from a friend who’d found it in the
Amsterdam flea market, and that a pair of classical Italian restoration artists at the Met in New York City had
done the calligraphy and the artwork at her request, and all from a poem she had found draped over the
haphazard mess of a restaurant busboy’s tray, tossed in with the dirty dishes and silverware waiting to be
washed or tossed.
Her face literally froze when I asked as calmly as I could, “Did you find this poem in Ford’s Café at Victoria
Cove in Laguna Beach, California, sometime in the late summer of 1976? Probably written on a paper
placemat?”
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After a stunned pause she narrowed her beautiful jade green eyes and blurted out, in a genuinely
suspicious state of awestruck wonder, “How on earth could you possibly know that?...where I found this
poem? How…?!?
I had spent years living as a prolific unknown poet, scribbling and leaving my inspired aphorisms, illustrated
musings, and Buddhist sutras in my wake, written for perhaps no reason other than I was creatively
compelled by some greater force to let my hand dance across any unmarked surface that presented itself.
This was a period when almost every restaurant in America put white paper placemats on their tables, a
perfect canvas for my scribbling while I waited for my order to arrive. I may have left behind literally
hundreds of poems on forgotten topics on an equal amount of tabletops, but this one I knew only too well,
and I recognized it with no doubt of the time and place of it’s origins.
It was penned the week I separated from my then greatest paramour, the path to true love never seeming to
run a straight course, particularly for the emotionally charged young artist that I was then. Ford’s Café was
my regular stop off on the way home from surfing Salt Creek Beach. Good chili and great coffee. And java at
Ford’s Cafe was still a dime a cup, unlimited refills included, so you know how long ago this was.
Now the site of the Laguna Nigel Ritz-Carlton Hotel, Salt Creek back then was a pristine stretch of coastline,
a virgin beach, sweeping Pacific surf thumping incessantly below steep yellow wildflower covered bluffs,
wild watermelon patches here and there, the entire coastline owned by two grumpy old codgers who ruled
their seaside kingdom from a tilted driftwood shack, and who charged surfers the then exorbitant price of
fifty cents to drive into their beach, thus inspiring us to trespass over the wilderness trails to avoid their
I was looking at a piece that had held a prominent place in my personal history and was the first page of one
of my poetry chapbooks. I remembered the poem being dated September 1976. I knew the work in all
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certainty to be mine. I must have left a raw draft of it on a paper Ford’s Café placemat—shortly after
dreaming up the sonnet while soothing my lovesick heart in the cool and comforting arms of the blue Pacific
surf.
“How could I know that?” I said. “Simply because…I am the author of this poem!”
Frankly, I don’t know who was more shocked by this odd revelation, her or me. We both stood stock-still,
frozen for an infinite moment by the sheer strangeness of our shared discovery and the lovely energy in the
room.
“This is beyond belief,” she said, almost stammering, and took my hand and led me across the room to a
long white linen sofa where we sat, still holding hands. “I can’t believe this is happening.”
She continued searching my eyes for some sign of a trick, for confirmation of the truth of my confident
pronouncement. We just stared at each other until we both broke into ridiculous grins. It was true, and we
“What do you say we…” She rose, moved to an elegant adjacent bar, and returned with a cold clear bottle of
Naturally I accepted, opened the bottle for her and carefully poured, filling our glasses with what had
As I watched the tiny bubbles streaming up from the bottom of my tapered crystal flute, she began to unfurl
in colorful detail how she came to have my poem, and the dramatic results of her first reading it. With an
innocent sense of real intimacy this lovely woman told me a tale of how she had been a struggling waitress
who at the time was dealing with the tragic loss of her first fiancé in a fatal car crash.
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Despondent, repeatedly harangued by her boss, and drifting on the verge of an emotional implosion she
had found my poem sticking out of a pile of dirty dishes heaped in a red plastic bus boys tray. For no logical
reason she set down the food order she was carrying, fished the crumpled paper out of the muck, smoothed
Finally, after rereading the coffee-stained thirty-line sonnet for the fifth time, she realized she was half
sobbing, half laughing, while a flood of fat, sad tears streamed down her face. Embraced in something of an
epiphany she dashed into the dining room of the café shouting at startled customers, demanding and
pleading to know who had written the grim soaked poem she waved in their faces. All she got were blank,
somewhat frightened stares. Her boss was so bent out of shape by this emotional outburst he promised to
dock her a week’s pay, shouting “Shut up, Shut Up!” while apologizing to the paying customers.
Apparently that was all it took. She quit her job on the spot. Within a week, after hawking her furniture in a
yard sale, she left Southern California and its sad ghosts, setting out for San Francisco in a beat-up Volvo,
her cat at her side, and all of her worldly possessions piled on the back seat.
After only one day in the Bay Area, knowing no one and with little money, her luck took a sudden positive
turn. She met a sweet young couple in a city bakery who offered her a free apartment and a job.
The work was across the bay in Oakland, and was part of a project to build a temple for a remarkable man
from India identified only as Baba. The pay wasn’t much and the industrial neighborhood was a little dodgy,
but it was a clean apartment, and the people were absurdly friendly, and it felt like a fresh start.
She fell in with the temple project people, helping cook for the building crews, answering phones, and pretty
soon was assisting other newcomers to learn their way around the growing project. It was there, three
weeks into her new adventure, that she met the kind hearted man who would become her husband.
He was an architect who was donating time to the temple building project. One afternoon she served him
some peppermint tea, he smiled, spilled his tea, and the rest as they say, is history. Extremely happy
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together, they were married within three months. Less than a year later he had moved his practice to New
York City. They first came to love the Caribbean Islands when he was commissioned to design a luxury
When his grandfather left him an unexpected fortune in the form of a fine art collection they decided to move
to the Caribbean and raise their first child away from the big city. She had the poem laid out by a renowned
calligraphic penman, then had it turned into an “illuminated” page in the style of the Florentine Renaissance
by the top restoration artists at the Met. And that was her story.
Entranced by this amazing saga, I then recounted to her how I had written the poem, and why, and how,
through my habit of penning public poetry she had come to find it.
She confided to me that she always considered my poem the key to her current happy fortunes, that this
cast-off piece of scribbling had been the catalyst to the most dramatic change in her life, and for this reason
With both the bottle and our revelations spent, we were again rendered speechless, mostly by the true
peculiarity of our chance meeting, and for her, I assume, the “mystery of the poem” finally being revealed.
There came a shift in the mood, and a bit of embarrassment and some quick explaining, when at the exact
moment that she decided to hug me her husband and my friend David entered the room. They both found
the story of the poem, and my being there, a tale that defied all probability.
With business concluded, it was time for the four of us to enjoy a quick but excellent local seafood meal,
during which we all agreed that the odds of us ever meeting, five-thousand miles from where we had once
crossed paths and many years later, were somewhere around 10 billion to one, or greater. I was given an
open invitation to visit their home again, and after kind farewells and a comfortable ride to the airport in their
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spotless ivory Land Rover I found myself winging my way through a brilliant Bahamian sunset, en route to
Throughout that flight, and over the many years since, I have always been amazed at the lesson I was given
that day: That we are all inexplicably bound together, and that to commit ourselves to both the act of writing,
and to the free sharing of our ideas and efforts, provides us with a secret wealth that we should never doubt
How could I feel sad about the challenges of my chosen path knowing that something so simple as that
abandoned poem would be the source of such amazing inspiration to a total stranger? Now I know the truth.
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