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OVER the past few months, I have been trying to get a job. This means that I have read quite a lot of job adverts. These consist of two main parts: the job description and the person specification. Now, by reading the job description, I can find out what the job involves and, more crucially, if it is something that I could do. I havent applied to any jobs as an engineer because, by reading the job descriptions, I know that I dont really understand what the job involves. However, I have read some job descriptions where I have thought I could do that! but I haven't applied to them. Why? The person specification. The person specification consists of the skills, qualifications and attributes the employers are looking for in their potential employee. So if a degree in computer science is essential and I have a degree in the arts subject, then Im probably not the right person for the job. The personal qualities section can prompt rigorous self-examinationam I really a good communicator or enthusiastic and dependable? What does excellent organisational skills actually mean? Filling out a job application can prompt feelings of prideyes, this is something I can do! Or alternatively, self-doubtis it worth the effort of filling out the application when I dont have previous office experience and thus am likely to be discarded at the first hurdle? However, its encouraging to remember that we have a Lord who hasnt issued a complicated person specification for his followers. Jesus asks only that we recognise that we are spiritually sick and need his help. My identity doesnt rest in whatever job I end up gettingwhether its a dream job or something to pay the bills, my identity lies in Jesus Christ, my Saviour and Redeemer. Sarah Francis VICAR: The Rev. Stephen Bowen (on sick leave) ASSOCIATE MINISTER: Michael Peach 5 Burns Way, East Grinstead, West Sussex RH19 1SA Tel: 01342 312406 michaelstevenpeach@gmail.com Michaels day off: Friday
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Autumn at Wakehurst Place by Brenda Wilkinson
FAREWELL STEPHEN
AFTER 33 years as Vicar of St Johns, we bid farewell to Rev Stephen Bowen on the 28th October. In honour of the occasion, Peter Bateman offers the following poem:
A Man Is Helping the Bishop With His Enquiries (Arise Sir, for this semi-incumbent position) The person we would like, My Lord, To fill our Vicars place Should be young enough to whizz around, With venerable grace. His visiting must be full time To round up all his flock, But he must be available Of course, all around the clock. He must be good with children And a sage to the old folk; His calming bedside manner No illness will provoke. He should be kind to animals And teach what we should know, In sermons so attractive, that everyone will go. His leadership will be inspired (In a democratic way) Provided that the PCC Can always have their way. Hell give more funds to Missions And renew the Church hall floor, But not offend the parishioners by asking them for more. Whats that? The Angel Gabriel has got a job elsewhere? No doubt, My Lord, youll send us the next best you can spare. P. L. G. B.
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Connections on 5th November from 2 - 4pm in the Church Hall WI Meeting on 6th November at 1.30pm in the Village Hall Watercolour on Wednesdays at 2pm in the Church Hall 1st Felbridge (St Johns) Brownies at 5.15pm in the Church Hall Keep-fit at 7.30pm in Chruch Hall Monthly Prayer meeting on 21st November at 8pm in Church WIGS at the Old Pheasantry, Woodcock Hill at 10.30am 1st Felbridge (St Johns) Rainbows at 5.45pm in the Church Hall 1st Felbridge (St Johns) Guides at 7pm in the Church Hall Prayer Breakfast on 3rd November, 8 - 9am in the Church Hall
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WHATS HAPPENING
Sunday Services in November
4th Nov 11th Nov 10am Family Service & Baptism with Michael Peach 6pm Holy Communion with Don Ely 8am Holy Communion with Alan Mathers 10.50am Remembrance Sunday with Jack Baker 6pm Evening Prayer with Michael Peach 18th Nov 10am Holy Communion with Andy Brown 6pm Raise the Roof with Michael Peach 25th Nov 8am Morning Prayer with Jack Baker 10am Morning Prayer with Michael Peach 6pm Evening Prayer with Bill Gallagher
10am Service: 18th & 25th November The rise and fall of Solomon (1 Kings 1-11)
In our morning services in November we shall continue to look at the life of one of the most famous of all the Old Testament kings King Solomon. Well see how Solomon builds the Temple, a place that shows that God dwells with his people, and how this points forward to God dwelling with his people through the coming of the Lord Jesus, and through the indwelling of his Holy Spirit.
6pm Service: 4th & 11th November Jesus: Greater than the rest!
In our evening services we shall continue to explore the great book of Hebrews. Through November well see how Jesus is greater than all the Old Testament priests, and hear how it is very important that we stick with him.
VILLAGE ISSUES
Felbridge W.I.
OUR ANNUAL MEETING was kindly led by our Border Group Convenor, Mrs. Sylvia Bolton, as both our President and Vice President were unable to be there. We now have a committee of twelve very enthusiastic members and a new President so we are looking forward to a very interesting and lively new year of activities. Our social time was busy with members trying to answer the quizzes which caused much merriment and brain searching. We celebrate our Birthday meeting in November when we invite members of other W.I.s to our special tea and look forward to hearing Mr. Thomas talking about the mysteries of Crop Circles. We will be having a craft stall at the Felbridge Village Craft Show on the 27th October where our ladies work will be on sale. Daphne Ayerst
PLEASE HELP!
There must be some of you reading this who could find 1-2 hours once in two months to help clean our church. Many of our dedicated team have been serving in this role for years and our numbers are dropping. Cleaning is not a popular task, but it is one small way we can honour God. Do join us. To find out more please speak to Carole Grainger or phone 01342 325482. If you prefer using a mouse to a mop or a keyboard to a vacuum cleaner then the church laptop projection team would be glad to hear from you. Further information from any laptop operator or contact John Grainger: john@malcolmgee.plus.com
FELBRIDGE WILDLIFE
A Devils Coach Horse Rides Again
"No shade, no shine, no butterflies, no bees, No fruits, no flowers, no leaves, no birds, November."
emerging to hunt at different times) and the dramatic scorpion-like devil's coach horse beetle. The last was under the back door mat and promptly sent out to kill a slug or three.
THOMAS HOODS dismal judgement is harsh on the observer, who can now marvel at the shapes of trees revealed by the new layer of cork between leaf and branch that causes The Fall, and at the plethora of fungi underfoot. I have a Shaggy Ink Cap. Do you?
The literally overlooked groundsel still produces tiny yellow flowerheads where fields or gardens are cultivated and michaelmas daisies have fed late developing red admirables - their original name. On the buddleia behind The Star, there were more commas than in a solicitor's letter.
Thirteen cormorants, inland for the Winter, sit like black-cloaked witches on dead trees at Weir Wood and the local Canada geese bugle-call in chevron skeins as they cross the setting sun to roost on Hedgecourt Lake. Each goose saves energy by riding the updraught from the wings of the one in front.
We may feel the need to go outdoors to find our wildlife but some of it comes indoors to find us. This month we have unwillingly entertained several hundred white shouldered housemoths bent on attacking the fabric of our society.
Now is the time to remember Eliza's plea to "Feed the Birds". Garden bird feeders really make a difference if kept clean and replenished. By now those Scandinavian thrushes, the redwings and fieldfares, should be with us. In our garden that forecaster of rain, a green woodpecker, has been digging worms out of the lawn. It has had a good year.
I am much indebted to a reader who reminded me of John Rutter's, "For the beauty of the Earth". May we all, through our words, aspire to inspire. November may not be so bad! Peter Bateman 7
We have also found the usual cobweb manifestations of three species of house spiders (one in each room
TELL ME?
Isnt Christianity just a crutch for the weak?
IT IS TRUE that Christianity is for the spiritually weak. However, the Bible makes clear that all of us are weak, and everyone of us needs much more than simply a crutch or a helping hand. In Marks Gospel account of Jesus life, he records Jesus spending time and eating with those whom the religious people called sinners. The religious people thought that Jesus should not spend his time with such people, but this is Jesus response: It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners. Mark 2:17 NIV Jesus has come to bring life and spiritual health to those who are spiritually sick. However, there is more to say! For the Bible makes clear that everyone is spiritually sick, and so everyone needs Doctor Jesus. This is how one of New Testament writers puts it, quoting from earlier parts of the Bible: There is no one righteous, not even one; there is no one who understands, no one who seeks God. All have turned away, they have together become worthless; there is no one who does good, not even one. Romans 3:10-12 NIV The Bibles verdict is that no one is spiritually good and healthy. Instead we have all turned away from God: 9 whether quietly ignoring him, or actively opposing him. The consequence of this sickness is very serious separation from God now, and in eternity. We are all spiritually sick, it is simply that some of us recognise it, and others pretend it isnt true. Throughout the Gospel accounts, the religious people frequently reject Jesus for they believed that they were okay with God: that they were healthy and so did not need Jesus help. The Bible makes clear they were wrong. When people say that Christianity is a crutch for the weak, they are implicitly saying that they are strong and so dont need it. However, the Bibles verdict is that however successful we are, however rich or happy, however strong we may look, inwardly we are spiritually sick and dying. Churches are made up of people of every age and background what unites them is simply that they have seen that they are spiritually sick, that they need help, and that they have put their lives in Jesus hands. Jesus came for the spiritually weak. All of us are spiritually weak. Christians are just those who have recognised this reality, and are seeking to live in line with it! What about you? Michael Peach
Connections, our series of events for Seniors will be back in the hall this month for tea, coffee and cake, a short informal talk from the Bible about things that matter, and lots of different activities and games. A great opportunity to meet old friends and make new ones all welcome! Our next meeting will be on
MISSION MATTERS
Welcare
THE POVERTY INDEX has risen considerably: there are many more children eligible for free meals, and the number of households where parents are out of work or on benefits continues to rise. We are still seeing more low birth weights and underweight children locally, despite general concerns over obesity in the UK. Sadly, while there has been a rise in population, Welcare has seen a fall in funding. However, this hasn't stopped them from achieving a lot. In the past year there were: 2,454 visits to their Toy Libraries 292 to courses and workshops 100 high need families had one-to-one support 50 families came to groups at Welcare House each week, with 34 going to Playtime. 70 families took part in summer outings or picnics.
These were all possible because of the many volunteers who put in 5,829 hours over the past year. So if you can make a donation, give food, clothes or other basic supplies, then this will help the growing number of families who need Welcare and it would be appreciated by many. There is to be a Social Meeting with Mulled Wine and Mince Pies at Welcare House in Redhill on 23rd November to meet the staff. If you are interested in attending, then please speak to me. I must say THANK YOU for your continued support. Rona Bingham
Toy Service
2nd December, 10am
Like me, you have probably noticed that the shops already had Christmas goods in stock before the middle of September, far too early! In the past you have responded wonderfully to my requests for Welcare, so I hope that you are happy for me to bring your attention to this years TOY SERVICE, in aid of Welcare, at the 10am Family Service on 2nd December. Rona Bingham
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Being a Rainbow, Brownie, or Guide is lots of fun with exciting things to do and try and a great way of making friends and learning new skills in a girl only space. 1st Felbridge (St Johns) Rainbows, Brownies and Guides meet weekly in the church hall
Rainbows 5- 7 years old , Brownies 7 -10 years old, Guides 10 14 years old
We are also looking for women aged 18-65 who want to have fun, be part of a team as well try new activities and learn new skills whilst helping the girls to do the same. Being a leader can be a rewarding experience all round, every woman brings different invaluable skills and that is what makes Guiding Great!!
To find out more please contact Ann or Louise Tucker on 317283 or by e.mail felbridge_rbg@hotmail.co.uk
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this tough time, but at night when I say my prayers, it is very comforting to know that there is a team out there backing me up! In closing, I would once again like to thank each and every one of you for the time which you make available for me in your own busy lives. Thank you and God bless you all. Thank you again to all those who receive the Prayer Chain and who pray regularly and faithfully for the people and situations mentioned. If any of you would appreciate prayer for a specific matter, or would even
like to become a regular member of the Prayer Chain, please do speak to me about it. It is such a valuable way for us to support and encourage one another. The Bible reminds us: ' Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.' Philippians 4:6-7 Anne Butler
Raise the Roof is a fun, action-packed service, where Jesus message is presented through music, dance and drama. The next service is on:
BUTCHER
ARTHUR FRY, Lingfield Road, East Grinstead 01342 323225
CHIMNEY SWEEP
MILBORROW CHIMNEY SWEEPS, The Flueologists All Flues and Appliances Swept and Serviced. Pots, Cowls, Caps, Birdguards, Fireplace Repairs, Stacks Repointed 01342 717900
FUNERAL DIRECTORS
R MEDHURST, Vine House, Hartfield Caring family firm; home visits; 24 hour service. Memorials arranged: Golden Charter pre-paid Funeral Plans 01892 770253 01342 315880
KOINONIA COUNSELLING
Marriage problems, bereavement, depression, eating disorders etc Jackie Lake 01342 718948
USEFUL CONTACTS
Churchwardens: Phil Tadman 01342 322825 e-mail: philandrosemaryt@sky.com Andy Brown 01342 314267 e-mail: brownemail@btinternet.com Treasurer: PCC Secretary: Magazine Editor: Cleaning Rota: Ministry of Flowers: Church Hall Bookings: Village Hall Bookings: Chris Saunders 01342 325662 e-mail: treasurerstjohns@gmail.com Sheila Drury 01342 323865 e-mail: sheila.drury1@hotmail.co.uk Sarah Francis 01342 714575 e-mail: parishmagstjohns@gmail.com Carole Grainger 01342 325482
Ann Morley 01342 714645 e-mail: annmorley@aol.com Sally Hobbs 01342 410929 e-mail: hobbsfamilysja@gmail.com Lynda Railton 01342 322205
Rainbows, Brownies & Guides Ann Tucker 01342 317283 e-mail: ann_tucker@btinternet.com
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