Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Career Workshops
Mission Germany Human Resources
November 18th, 2008
Presented by: Roberta Hill
AGENDA
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Reading - posture exercise
- first impressions
Respect - personal space exercise
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we think at 500 words per minute
we listen at about 300 words per minute
we talk at 150 - 200 words per minute
we forget 50% of what we have heard within 2
hours
Source Unknown
THE MEDIUM IS THE MESSAGE
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Visual / Body Language 55%
Voice / Tone / Inflection 38%
Contents / Words 7%
From 1971 study by Albert Mehrabian of UCLA, “Silent Messages”
referring to the emotional content.
WORDS ARE 7%?
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I didn’t say John was stupid.
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FOCUS
Decode messages
READ
Plan response
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Ensure congruence
RESPOND
Build trust and rapport
Avoid manipulation
RESPECT Equalize power
Honor culture
OPEN
responsive reflective
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FORWARD BACK
combative fugitive
CLOSED
From the work of John Mole: Four Basic Business Modes. Used with permission.
WHAT MIGHT THIS BEHAVIOR
COMMUNICATE?
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Yawning:
Smiling:
Frowning:
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o
o Agreement
o Friendliness
o Concern
o Confidence
o Thoughtfulness
o Intellectual excitement
THE 4 KEYS TO SUCCESS
Entrance
+
Enthusiasm
+
Engagement
+
Energy
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Success
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THE INTERVIEW COSTUME
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Long is better than short
Coordination
Limit accessories
Relaxed Smirk
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Sincere Pained
Universal Toothy
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Steady Eye Dart
Five+ Seconds Off In Space
Limp
Dry Palm
Bone
Full
Crusher
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Firm
Loose
StraightUp Half Grip
Maintain Eye
Sideways
Contact
Cupping
Give Greeting
Elbow
Touch
THE INTERVIEW - FIRST IMPRESSIONS
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dirty fingernails, scruffy shoes)
Make an entrance - Use good posture
Keep the goal in mind
Smile
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Halo Effect - our general impression
based on one characteristic
colors our perception of
other characteristics
Recency Bias - the most recent information
dominates our perception of
others
THE INTERVIEW - READING CUES
Time Posture
Furniture Facial
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Arrangements Expressions
General Gestures
Appearance Hands and Feet
Space and Silence
Proximity Voice
BODY TALK TO AVOID
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Meaningless hand gestures
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Smiling
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Don’t squint or shut your eyes
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Voice (Volume)
Breathing Patterns
Energy and Intensity
Pacing & Leading
Purpose is to build rapport and trust
Intimate
0 to 18 inches Public
12 feet plus
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Personal
18” to 4 feet
Social
4 to 12 feet
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Touching someone’s back.
Poking someone in the arm to get their attention.
Slapping someone on the arm.
Rubbing someone’s shoulders.
Bumping into someone with your shoulder.
Putting your arm around someone’s shoulder.
Giving someone a “bear hug.”
SAMPLES OF CULTURE DIFFERENCES
Knodding ….
Handshakes …..
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Conversational overlaps …..
Speaking softly ….
Silence….
Others ….
HOW TO CONTACT US:
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Sandy Weiner BA, MEd, MCC Roberta Hill, BA, MBA, MCC Marius Hansa, PCC
SandyWeiner@1-Focus.com RobertaHill@1-Focus.com MariusHansa@1-Focus.com
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