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a letter from

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When my family showed up to the IBC parking lot 25 years ago in our long brown station wagon, I dont think we could have imagined what awaited us.

I was six, and had just left half a piece of Juicy Fruit gum under the pulled-up corner of carpet in my emptied closet just before my mother shooed us into the car. So far away, this new house, in a place called Irving, and I wanted to leave a memento of my existence behind for coming civilizations. Unless the new owners of the Garland house have renovated in the last 25 years (and I certainly hope they have), I suppose they would still be able to find that mummified bit of 80s memorabilia that has long-since stopped attracting ant colonies the small proof of a first-graders force of will, and of her grief. I dont remember anything specific my parents told us to explain daddys new job. All I knew was he had an office at the old church and now he had a bigger office at the new church. I just hoped he wouldnt forget to pack the Jabba the Hut eraser he had kept in the old offices desk drawer, or the ebony statuettes with the carved faces he had displayed on the bookshelves. I hoped my mother wouldnt forget the fondant cake topper from my parents wedding that she kept under a glass bell in the dining room, or her triangular clear paperweight with the ballerina inside. I cared more about my parents things than my own; of course, all I left behind was a piddly stick of gum. Ok, half a stick. Of Juicy Fruit. What I couldnt have appreciated then was how this would be the last time I would be uprooted and moved to a new community, a new reality, a new pretty much everything. Moving around is an experience as common as white bread (or gluten-free, free-range bread today) for most pastors kids. It had been true of my father, whose family moved every few years from Leaksville, NC, to Oak Hill, WV, to Greenville, AL, to Eufala, AL, to Paris, TX, then to Henderson, KY, then to Shreveport, LA. My Irish grandfather blazed trails across the Deep South to pastor small Presbyterian churches as though following the migratory patterns of exotic butterflies. A pastors life is transitory. Typically.

It seems there are two sets of people deserving of thanks and praise for my (and my four siblings) unusually stable childhood. The first set is the body of IBC. In his Irish brogue, my grandfather would describe the kinds of people who occupy churches, especially church elder boards, and it seemed to me that being a pastor was tantamount to negotiating with terrorist gorillas. Not guerillas. Actual gorillas, who are somehow prescient enough to be terrorists. It seemed churches could be hostile places for new preachers because congregations are just waiting to be impressed, waiting to be served, waiting to be vindicated. IBC wasnt like that. And it still isnt. In its 50-year history, perhaps there have been bad apples or the occasional gorilla/guerilla, but those have never characterized Irving Bible Church as a whole. If IBC hasnt been a city on a hill for the world and I believe it has it has been a city on a hill for me. (For what thats worth.) The next people who deserve thanks are Alice and Andy McQuitty. Those are my parents, in case, well, you know. Their willingness to stick it out and serve faithfully when so many other horizons must have beckoned is nothing short of miraculous. It couldnt have been easy. Im grateful they listened for Gods leading, even when Im sure there were times they wished he would lead them somewhere else. Theirs is a legacy that wont allow me to consider mediocrity. Celebrating 50 years of IBC and 25 years of my dads leadership is special because both IBC and my parents have characterized my authorities for the greater part of my life. At 31 years old, I have spent more time under their leadership than outside of it, and every year that goes by Im overwhelmed by a deep sense of grace that allowed me to grow up this way. Pastor Kid jokes aside, things could have been awful. IBC could have been awful. Our home could have been awful. Im pretty sure I WAS awful. But IBCs heart and its people, and the steadfast example of parents with a true faith and great wisdom, have made me the luckiest PK that ever was or will be. Im sure Liz, Bonnie, Jon and Jeff would agree. Congrats, Irving Bible Church. Congrats, Dad. Seems like that stick of Juicy Fruit was worth it. Ok, half a stick.

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Irving Bible Church: a community on a journey.

Thanks for picking up Chatter. Chatter is a publication of Irving Bible Church in Irving, Texas.
Why are we here?
IBC is on a journey committed to growing in Christ, connecting in community and joining the mission. This commitment comes from Jesus words in the Great Commandment (Matthew 22:36-39) and Great Commission (Matthew 28:18-20).

How do we do this?
Growing in Christ At the heart of the journey is the gospel of Jesus Christ, the story of the Son of God coming into our dark world to bring light, life, hope and transformation. The journey begins when we trust Christ, but it doesnt end there. Gods desire for each of us is for our hearts and lives to become more like the one who has saved us (Ephesians 4:11-13). Connecting in Community The gospel story draws us into a community of people whose lives have been transformed by Jesus. This journey is not one that we undertake alone. We are designed to do life together as a community of Christ-followers. It is essential that we walk with one another on the journey (John 13:34-35). Joining the Mission The gospel tells us that one day God will take all that is broken in this world and make it whole. Those of us who are on the journey together are called to be people who do what we can to make glimpses of that day show up in our day. We do this by telling the gospel story and demonstrating gospel-shaped love to a needy world (Matthew 28:18-20).

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Photo Update: Car Show

On Saturday September 22, Men at IBC sponsored the 2nd Annual Car Show at IBC. Featuring a multitude of classic and muscle cars as well as motorcycles, the Car Show drew car enthusiasts and their families for a great day complete with bounce houses, hot dogs, and face painting. Donations benefited New Friends New Life.

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the fall of 1987, a 32-year-old Andy McQuitty showed up for his first Sunday as senior pastor of IBC. The choir was singing with an organ, the congregation was using hymnals, and Andy was wearing a tie, a jacket and an impressive mustache. Having just finished his ThM degree from Dallas Theological Seminary, and having just completed his time as the Associate Pastor at Northeast Bible Church in Garland, Andy was excited and nervous about his first church.

Pastor Andy: Bird? Plane?

How would you describe dear old Dr. McQuitty? Chatter asked. You answered.
The OPen BOOk. Though I have only been at IBC for eight months, I have been impressed with how accessible and personable Pastor Andy is. I love his heart for God and The Word, and his openness and willingness to share really personal aspects of his life, even when they are unpopular in the mainstream. He inspires me to dig deeper in my own walk and relationship with God. Above all, I love that he takes time out for those kids that want to talk to him. Thank you, Pastor Andy, for being an amazing example of what Christ came to earth to accomplish! Brandy and Gideon Fossett The WIngMan. My first interaction with Pastor Andy was when I was in a good friends wedding about eight years ago. Pastor Andy officiated the wedding, and it was an amazing celebration. At the reception, I somehow found myself sitting at a table with seven beautiful women. Pastor Andy was walking by the table when he suddenly stopped, turned about face, looked directly at me and said, Brother, you must be living right. Everyone laughed, and he turned and walked away smiling. (I cannot confirm whether or not he had a glass of red wine in tow.) Thats when I learned that if youre a single guy, Pastor Andy is a great wingman on top of being a great pastor. Richard Bone
with high school sweetheart, Alice Thornton and (his) mustache

Irving Bible Church, which had been founded in 1962 from a small Bible study group, was still healing from a painful church split when Andy came on board. In his candidate sermon, Andy addressed the difficult situation by drawing an analogy to eggs and potatoes. When you boil eggs and potatoes, one gets hard and the other gets soft, he said. Andy told the IBC congregation he believed they were more like potatoes hearts softened by trial and he was hired shortly thereafter. Three years later, when Andy turned 35, the IBC elders gave him a plaque featuring a mounted saltshaker that read, Finally Worth Your Salt. Twenty-five years after that first Sunday with the jackets, ties and organs, much has changed about IBC, yet little has changed about Andy. A few gray hairs notwithstanding, Andy continues to inspire us, challenge us, and demonstrate the meaning of faithful, consistent leadership. Under Andys watch, IBC has encouraged the arts and creative expression, reached the world with clean water and the good news of Jesus, provided a nurturing place for children and students to grow in their faith, and offered countless ways for those in our community to find hope and healing. Heres to 25 more years at your first church, Andy. Were glad that you and the mustache are still going strong.

with parents Dottie and Eric, Shreveport, LA

The ShePherd. My Andy story is quite simple: he called me by name and hugged me. In 2011 and early 2012, I was going through a divorce. I had attended IBC for some time (since 2007), but I never

Pastor Andy Timeline: The Man. The Minister. The Mustache.

October 30, 1955 Born Eric Andrew McQuitty in Greenville,

first grade, 1961

South Carolina, to Irish immigrant and Presbyterian minister Eric McQuitty, and his wife Dottie. 1958 Becomes a Christian when his dad leads him to Jesus at 3 years old. 1963 Takes the story of David and Goliath to heart when he lets loose his sling-shot on Angelique McClung, ring-leader of the neighborhood mean-girl gang. He hits his mark, right on her behind. 1968 Knocks Roger Franklin off his bike with marksman-like precision using a well-aimed bee-bee gun. Roger most likely deserved it.

1970 Begins riding motorcycles. Loses the tip of his pointer 1973 Eats a ping-pong ball to impress a girl named

finger while repairing a bike. Alice Thornton.

President of both the National Honor Society and the Fellowship of Christian Athletes. Summer 1975 Spends the summer in a South American rain forest where the Lord calls him to the ministry. So much for being a doctor. October 1978 The beginnings of what will become an iconic mustache, although faint, are apparent. May 1978 Graduates with high honors from Wheaton College.
In 2012, Hulk Hogan threatened to shave his famous horseshoe mustache on TMZ, to the outcry of upper lips everywhere.

May 1974 Graduates Paris High School, 4th in his class, as

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The McQuitty clan, circa 1994. Bill Cosby, played by Andy.

knew Andy or anyone on the preaching team personally. I remember being blown away by how accessible Andy was when I reached out to meet with him. My story mattered to him. Several months went by, and my divorce was finalized. I had not had any contact with Andy for some time until one Sunday as I was walking out of the sanctuary. Someone grabbed my arm. Then arms wrapped around me, and Andy said, Jessica, how are you? It brought me to tears. God knows my story and my pain, but God also knows that sometimes we need someone else to know our story, our painand our name. IBC may be a huge church, but Andy knew my name. Jessica DuBois The TheOlOgIan. I started going to IBC the year before Andy came to the church, and through all these years its hard to recount the innumerable ways God has spoken to me through him. I no longer wrestle with the peripheral aspects of understanding God. It was Andy who told me to think in terms of a circle with God on the Throne in the center, and to let everything else flow around the edges. Once the implications of this penetrated my nit-picky line-everything-up-in-a-row brain, I became aware that the only critical part was the One who sits on the Throne. Sometimes, its not the big sermons, but a few words from God quietly spoken that have the greatest impact! Betty Groezinger Continued on pg. 6

a dubious McQuitty family perplexed by an Olan Mills employee , circa 1985

august 1978 Marries high school sweetheart, Alice Thornton. 1978-1981 Works as the youth pastor at First Presbyterian Church March 14, 1981

October 4, 1987 First Sunday as the senior pastor of a little church called 1989 May 21, 1990

May 1985 1985-1987 September 11, 1983 October 7, 1986

in Tacoma, Washington. First daughter Julie is born. The family moves back to Texas for Andy to pursue a degree from Dallas Theological Seminary. Andy cleans swimming pools to make ends meet. Graduates from Dallas Theological Seminary with a ThM degree. Works at Northeast Bible Church as Associate Pastor. Second daughter Elizabeth is born. Third daughter Bonnie is born a miracle baby, born at 28 weeks.
CBS executives banned Tom Sellek from shaving his mustache before beginning work on his new show "Blue Bloods."

January 21, 1993 1994ish

Irving Bible Church located on Finley Road. Wears a tie. Mustache intact. Oversees the construction of the new educational building on Finley Road. First son Jonathan is born. First daughter Julie names Jonathan after a mouse in the movie, The Secret of NIMH. Andy, Alice and Jonathan are potentially not aware of this. Second son Jeff is born. Seems promising as the next mustache bearer. Introduces the arts as part of the worship experience at IBC. Dramas, dance and drums, oh my!
While his mustache may be 8-bit, Mario of the Super Mario Brothers is no 2-bit manscaper.

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Try as they may, the puka shell necklace and chopper cannot make up for the glaring lack of mustache. (mid to late 90s)

the mustachioed exegeter, circa 1985

Continued from pg. 5 The WhOle PaCkage. My husband and I began attending IBC back in 1998, and thats finally when I made a true connection to God/Jesus, despite my Catholic upbringing. Hearing Andys sermons had taken my shallow faith and turned it into a desire to open my Bible, learn more about Jesus, obey him and be his hands and feet to the world. Andy baptized me in 2000, dedicated all 3 of our children, and baptized my daughter in the creek at Shepherd of the Ozarks family camp. Weve fervently prayed for Andy and watched God take him through the valley of cancer and gloriously work a miracle, evidence of his love and mercy. We thank God for you, Andy, and all of IBCs ministries. Continued blessings to you, our Harley ridin, stogie-smokin, golfing Irish Pastor! Leticia Tapia and family (Matt, Sarah, Isabella & Evan) If you would like to share what Pastor Andy means to you, email your story to chatter@irvingbible.org.

Pops shows grandkids Maddie and Drew a thing or two about Nina. (2012)

you are invited to celebrate 25 years of Pastor andy McQuitty

The man. The minisTer. The musTache.

The elders and staff of Irving Bible Church invite you to join us for a special night honoring our very own Pastor Andy for his 25 years of faithful service as senior pastor.
Saturday, OctOber 20
Dinner: 6:30 p.m. program: 7:30 p.m. irving bible church 2435 Kinwest parKway sunDay best attire please (leave the flip-flops at home) ticKets are available for purchase in town square inDiviDual: $20 table of 10: $200

Contact Sherri Sharp with questions at ssharp@irvingbible.org.

The most interesting pastor in the world. 2009 (photo by Hansel Dobbs)

in order to prepare IBC for the successful relocation to Kinwest. The Dixie Chicks play at the dedication of the new property. Really, they did. 1997 Graduates from DTS with his Doctor of Ministry, after a horrible bout with pneumonia. (Temporarily loses mustache.) Receives the C. Summer Wemp Award in personal evangelism as well as the John G. Mitchell Award for outstanding scholarship and effectiveness in ministry. 2002 Dedicates new worship center, Town Square, and childrens space.
As Doc Holliday in the movie Tombstone, Val Kilmer sported a classic Van Dyke mustache, a style made famous by the 17th century Flemish painter.

1996 Preaches a series of sermons on the book of Nehemiah

September 2009 First grandchild Andrew James is born. July 2009 Diagnosed with Stage IV colon cancer. Andy wears a

pager that beeps every time someone prays for him and lets him know. Acquires a set of Bubba teeth to scare nurses. december 2010 Declared in full remission. July 2010 Second grandchild Madeline Mae is born. Elder board visits her little finger when they need to ask Andy a question. October 4, 2012 Andy celebrates 25 years as senior pastor of Irving Bible Church.

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An unnamed source told Chatter that artist Frida Kahlos eyebrow is, in fact, really a mustache.

Wanna get away? Southwest Airlines has brilliantly developed its marketing strategy around the universal desire to escape current realities and pressures life imposes on us. There is just something cathartic about

experiencing liftoff on a plane or feeling the stress leak away with each passing mile on a road trip. Staycations provide time away from a job, but they are short on true relaxation. Changing physical locations is often necessary to disconnect from the frenzied hubbub and reconnect with what is eternal, stable and secure.

Jesus understood the necessity of getting away. He exemplified this principle many times in Scripture as he left the incessant demands of others to center himself in solitude and prayer (Mark 1:35, Matthew 14:23, Luke 5:16, John 6:15). As IBC moves into the fall, we will also be focusing on getting away as a church body through the Journey On in Prayer initiative. Imagine the impact of a church filled with people who prioritize connecting with God through prayer and who are committed to bringing the needs of the church, the city and the world before him on a regular basis. As part of the Journey On in Prayer initiative, IBC has created two new locations on our campus for those times when you need to refocus and refresh. The prayer room at IBC (previously called The Boiler Room, just inside the lower Kinwest entrance) has been repurposed and renamed The Chapel. A perfect place to contemplate, listen and pray, The Chapel has been designed as a calming refuge where you can be quiet and still before God. On the first and third Wednesday of every month, IBCers meet in The Chapel to pray for the mission and missionaries of IBC. Anyone is welcome to join. In addition, an outdoor Reflection Garden has been created by the pond on the south side of the campus. Prior to her passing, the family of Kathy Salvie donated funds to create a space for IBCers to enjoy the outdoors and connect with God. The focal point of this modern garden is the cross designed by artist Alexandra (Alex) Quijno. Benches are positioned in such a way to allow observers to sit and focus on either of two sides of the cross. One side portrays numerous scenes of Scripture depicting the faithfulness and power of God. The other side features many smaller attached crosses that have weathered over time. The rust flowing from the smaller crosses reminds us how the blood of Christ flows and covers our sins today. It is our dream at IBC that in the coming months and years, there will be a daily steady stream of believers utilizing these locations on the IBC campus as they seek to be with God. So, the next time you want to get away, we hope you will consider these two new options. The Chapel will be open during regular IBC building hours, 9 a.m. to 9 p.m. daily. The outdoor space will always be available. Both will officially open October 21. If you cant get away, but want to be part of the Journey On in Prayer initiative at IBC, visit irvingbible.org/journeyon to subscribe to the Journey On in Prayer daily email. Each day, subscribers will receive a short email that provides a focused topic for prayer and meditation that day. Picture the beauty of hundreds of IBCers banding together in unity, praying the same things for our church, its ministry and its future. The daily Journey On in Prayer emails will continue through October 21. Get all the details at irvingbible.org/journeyon. Nat Pugh once jumped out of an airplane at 13,000 feet. Once was enough.
The Reflection Garden cross, created by artist Alex Quijno. Nat is responsible for leading adult ministry efforts of Irving Bible Church as a Lead Team member and as Mens Pastor.

Join us this fall as we Journey On in Prayer.

Cross installation in The Chapel.

Stations of the Cross in The Chapel.

The number of passengers traveling through the DFW Airport in 2010 was 56,906,610, up 1.6% from 2009.

There are approximately 50 wedding chapels in Las Vegas, Nevada.

5,434,803 Sharpie markers we used up in writing on The Boiler Room walls. Those days are over, so leave your Sharpies AT HOME when you visit The Chapel.

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a few small group Bible studies gathered together and bought an old church building on Grauwyler Road in northeast Irving. The 20-person congregation formally organized themselves in 1962 as Irving Bible Church, and 50 years later the body of IBC still gathers to walk the journey of faith together as a family. In 2012, we celebrate the legacy of those believers who had the vision, endurance and faith to make and keep IBC a reality through the years, many of whom you can still find sitting at The Mo or walking through Town Square on any given Sunday. But most of all, we celebrate God his faithfulness, his persistence, his blessing, his work and praise him for the salvation and new life that make Big C Church possible, and IBC a reality. Of course, small journeys are part of big journeys, just like small stories make up larger ones. But no ones story is ever really small. Whether youve been at IBC only five days or all 50 years, you have a compelling reason for being here. Here are a few of the ones you shared with Chatter.
Sixteen years ago, I was a recent transplant to the DFW area from Florida. My arrival at IBC was purely providential. The parking lot at the Presbyterian church up the street was full, and as I made a U-turn to return home, I noticed IBC. I went inside, and my life has been changed forever. This is where I became a believer and learned how to walk with Christ. Rhonda Boston We came to Irving Bible Church at the best of times! 1989. Andy had been pastoring here two years, and the Downeys were honing their skills in a closetsized kitchen. Teaching, leadership, and fellowship groups were great. Our first daughter, Amy, was in college, and our second daughter, Katie, was an 8th grader who was there to teach the newly arriving youth pastor, Scott Werntz, everything he needed to know. Teaching Sunday School in the new addition on Finley and then in the new facility on Kinwest was such a privilege. Bob led a fellowship group, organized ushersand fished. Our lives are rich because of the love and grace of God, and the love and fellowship of believers. Sarah and Bob Galyon I came to IBC after a divine appointment. After a painful divorce, I had moved to Lewisville and was attending a nice-enough church, but there was no support or community for single parents. My parents were visiting from out of town one weekend, so we went to the church service and then to CiCis Pizza for lunch, where I ran into an ex co-worker that I had not seen for years. She told me she was going to the On Track class for single parents at IBC. I had never heard of IBC, but I thought I would give it a shot. My friend was not even

In 1960,

able to attend the next Sunday, but I bravely went anyway. Nine years later, I am now a co-leader of the On Track class, and the friends I have made there have become my Texas family. I think God was eating at CiCis Pizza that day, because he directed me to the place where I began to rebuild my life. Carol Fairchild I had heard of IBC while a student at Dallas Theological Seminary, and I had asked one of my professors, Dr. Buist Fanning, about it. When my hours at work got changed, I decided to try IBC on a Sunday night, and it was not a normal Bible church! People were passionate about loving, worshipping and serving God. I met Pastor Andy, and he encouraged me to pursue what Im passionate about. I really wanted to be part of IBC, so I moved to Valley Ranch with my two cats to be closer. I had no idea I would be moving again in only 3 years to Japan with my two cats! but I love coming back to visit IBC when Im in town. Michael Karpf My IBC story began nearly 10 years ago. Having just moved to the Dallas area, I quickly found a church that I wanted to call home. The ministries at IBC allowed me to serve those in the community and across the world through the Special Needs ministry, and through missions opportunities. I even met my husband during a meet and greet one week! Above all, IBC is a community of believers passionate about Jesus, and this is evident within every fiber of the church. Even though we have since moved to a different state, IBC is a body of believers that we still consider home. Sarah Tredway Since 1977, IBC has been a force for positive change in my life! As a newly graduated nurse, IBC helped me grow in Christ and respond to the call to serve him in missions. In 1985, IBC supported me as I arrived on the north coast of Haiti to work in a small mission hospital. Then, in 1990, Pastor Andy, Bob Downey, and seven other IBCers came and toughed it out for a week on LaTortue Island, Haiti. Their prayers after that week led to my marriage to Bob Kay. Together, as an extension of IBCs ministry, Bob and I have provided biblical training to leaders for the churches in Haiti (until 2003) and the Dominican Republic (2004 to the present). We love what we do and we thank IBC for making it possible! Judy Kay Over four years ago, I left my home church and went on a four-month journey visiting almost 30 churches throughout the metroplex. In June of 2008, I came
The year 1962 began on a Monday.

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50 YEARS ON THE JOURNEY

wearing shorts, Russs hair was long, and the drama in the service was about a patient dying of AIDS. Too much to tell in 150 words. Eventually, I joined the choir and was privileged to play in the Finley Street (and then Kinwest) Band for ten years. God and IBC changed my life during that time! Jennifer Ellis Harp When I relocated here from Wichita Falls, I asked a few people familiar with Dallas to give me the names of churches to try. I happened to rent an apartment in Las Colinas, so I thought Id try IBC first. The church and Bible community made me feel so welcome and at home that I never tried another church from that list! At Irving Bible, I have made many lifelong friends, and also met and married my husband. Before we got married, we served in the Comfort Zone together, and now our own little 8-month-old daughter has joined us in the room. IBC has certainly played an integral roll in our lives. Kathy Alisentono I first came to IBC the year I was born, 1976. I have fond memories of our little church on Finley Road. I remember Christmas caroling in the neighborhood around the church (I cant imagine doing that today), and traveling every year to Horn Creek with the rest of our IBC family. I remember getting a new young pastor, and some of the controversy it caused. IBC is a part of who I am, and I am proud of the growth and changes the church has gone through. Natalie Roussere In July 2004, my wife Suzanne and I made the first church visit of our newly married lives to Irving Bible Church. But the story of our journey to IBC began a year earlier when an uncle from Portland, OR recommended I read Donald Millers Blue Like Jazz. I soaked it up, every last word. After Suzanne and I learned that the entire staff was reading Blue Like Jazz, we were impressed that IBCs leadership was willing to stretch and move the needle of ministry to people outside the 2435 Kinwest address. Now, we thank God for IBC, our family Small Group of 16 (8 adults + 8 kids under 6) that we affectionately call The Village and the many hours of time we have been able to spend with children and teens in the Next Gen ministries. Brian Barker Thanks for your sharing your stories, IBC. May God bless the next 50 years!

to IBC and attended the 9 oclock service. I was just in awe of how everyone loved each other and treated each other throughout the service and in the singles community group. After visiting for only two weeks, my mind was already made up that this was where God wanted me to be. Now, I am currently serving in leadership positions in several areas and enjoying my time here. I can honestly say that I am more humbled and honored to serve because I know I am making a difference. Thanks be to God! Tony Cole My husband Sean and I had been living in Dallas for about 10 months and felt like giving up when it came to finding a genuine church that we could call home. One Friday night, Sean took me out to dinner at a hibachi grill. The restaurant was pretty empty, so the waiter sat us with another couple that was very friendly. They told us about their church Irving Bible Church and the blessing it had been in their lives. We tried IBC and loved it. If youre out there Bob and Ruby, thank you for sharing that night with us! Samara Russ My IBC story began 17 years ago on Finley Road as a 4th grader. I have precious memories of growing up at IBC, and I am truly thankful for the pastors, mentors and friends who helped build my Christian walk. One of the first formative moments of my life occured at IBC on Sunday July 4, 2004. The sermon was about the freedom that Christ offers us when we find ourselves in the deep pits of life. An insecure teenager, I realized the Lord was speaking directly to my struggles with depression and anorexia. Hearing truth that day helped me to take steps towards healing and understanding Gods grace. Looking back, I see that encounter with the Lord as one that has affected the rest of my spiritual walk. It has been a joy to witness Gods faithfulness in my life as a result of his work through IBC. Lindsey Sobolik Llamas and the laughter of my children at the Easter Eggsperience. Heartfelt worship and the word of God being taught with humility. Sunday night meals with friends in Town Square. Collaborating in the creativity of the Creator. Lake house retreats in East Texas with our community. Growing in the love of my God and my neighbors. Thats my IBC story. Josh Wiese I visited IBC for the first time in 1993 after passing the building and seeing that it offered a Saturday night service. I was working overnights on the weekend, and I hadnt been going to church at all for the previous few years. I still remember my first impressions Buist and Jan Fanning were there, Andy was
While gold is the traditional gift for a 50th anniversary, the yellow rose is the traditional flower.

CeleBrAtIon SundAy

OctOber 21

SEE PAGE 11 FOR DETAILS.

IBC (Root Beer) celebrates its 93rd anniversary this year.

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My deAr IBC FrIendS,

For 50 years, God has been building Irving Bible Church. As a result, lives transformed by Jesus at IBC have been used to transform thousands of other lives, both inside our walls and beyond! Taking the words and works of the Gospel across the street and around the world, IBCers have been the hands and feet of Jesus as he opens blind eyes, frees captives from prisons of injustice and releases those who sit in spiritual darkness. Because he is alive, IBCers have seen red candles lit in our service by those indicating new faith decisions a result of IBCers praying for their friends and family, teaching and living the truth of Gods Word, and doing whatever it takes to serve people in fields yet ripe for Heavens harvest. As we celebrate IBCs first 50 years this fall, I am deeply grateful to God for this momentous and God-blessed half-century of ministry! Now as we launch out into our next 50 years, we accept the solemn obligation of building on the foundation that has been so beautifully laid at IBC. The fields remain ripe for the harvest as nations continue to yearn for God, for peace, for hope, for clarity in times of seething social and political confusion. Millions of lives need to be spiritually renovated by the Savior. Millions of people desperately crave the security of living as Heaven-bound citizens of Gods Kingdom on earth. And Christ has called us to be his agents of hope, expanding Heavens borders by engaging spiritually uninvolved people in the joyous adventure of pursuing Christs best. So let IBC continue to grow up, closer to God. Let IBC continue to grow out, reaching more people. Let IBC continue to grow in, engaging in community! One specific way that IBCs leaders have chosen to encourage this growth is Journey On. This major generosity initiative is designed to remove all financial barriers in IBCs path forward into the next 50 years. The goal of Journey On is to pledge monies over the next two years sufficient to retire IBCs mortgage ($9.1 million) and to fund IBCs general operating budget ($15 million for two years). Any funds committed over this approximately $24 million will be applied to building 15,000 sq. ft. of new space debt-free for our Next Generation ministries. Imagine the world-changing ministry that could be done with the almost $1 million we pay in principal/interest towards our mortgage each year! I cant think of a better golden anniversary gift to give IBC as we look ahead to the next half century.

As your pastor, I am asking every single person who calls IBC home to fully participate in Journey On. Heres specifically what that means: 1. That you would engage with all of us at IBC as we Journey On in Prayer, asking Gods blessings on IBCs next 50 years, and his guidance in your life personally as you determine how you will participate in Journey On. See page 7 for details about Journey On in Prayer. 2. That you would interact with the teaching of Gods Word during the five Sundays of Journey On (Sept 16Oct 14) at IBC, and commit to living generously as a biblical steward of Gods blessings in your life. 3. That you would complete and submit a pledge card indicating what you plan to give, with Gods help, over the next two years to IBCs general operating budget and mortgage elimination effort. You can pick up a pledge card at the information desk on Sundays and at the receptionist desk during the week, or simply visit irvingbible.org/ journeyon to make your pledge online. 4. That you would commit to Journey On on Sunday, October 21 and then commence to fulfill your pledge joyfully and faithfully for the next two years. See the sidebar on this page for Sunday details. 5. That you would plan even now to be with all of IBC at the end of 2014 when we celebrate two years of completely funded operating budgets and BURN OUR MORTGAGE. (And in the meantime, that you would continue to minister at IBC as Jesus hands and feet in this world!) If we can all do these things together in Journey On, I am convinced that God will bless our church beyond our wildest hopes and dreams. He will not only position IBC as a wonderful example to families of generosity and the biblical principle of debt-free living, but also as a beacon of hope and help to our community in the tumultuous financial times that will likely prevail in our nation for the foreseeable future. He will enable us to expand our facilities and therefore our ministries to the next generation. And through all of this, he will bring glory to his name through IBCs powerful testimony to his faithfulness, love and provision. So thanks in advance to all of you in the IBC family for participating in Journey On. I know Im asking a lot from you. But I want you to know that Im also asking God for a lot for you not only his blessing and supply in your life, but his peace and joy shed abroad in your hearts as you follow Jesus and give generously for his Kingdoms sake! The best at IBC is yet to be, my friends, and I am so. . . Privileged to Journey On with you,

CeleBraTIOn Weekend

The weekend of October 20-21 will be a time to celebrate the 50 years of our IBCs history, with a Saturday night event honoring Andys 25th anniversary at IBC, a special Sunday celebration to honor IBCs 50 years, and time to reflect upon Gods gracious provision through Journey On.

SATuRDAy, OCTOBER 20: 25 Years of Pastor Andy Join the IBC church family for a special Dinner and Show honoring our very own Pastor Andy for his 25 years of faithful service as senior pastor of Irving Bible Church.
dinner in town Square: 6:30 p.m. Program in Worship Center: 7:308:15 p.m. $20/ticket Tickets will be on sale in Town Square through October 7. Contact Sherri for more info at ssharp@irvingbible.org.

SuNDAy, OCTOBER 21: We Are IBC: 50-Year Celebration

Featuring fun activities for the kids and carnival-style treats, IBCs 50-Year Celebration will be a birthday bash for the whole family. The Sunday agenda for that day will include only two worship services (9 a.m.; 10:45 a.m.), and the celebration will begin right after the 10:45 service. Irving Bible Church: 12:153 p.m. Bring your chairs, blankets, and picnic lunch, or enjoy food available for purchase from food truck stations. Note: Save room for deep-fried Oreos!

Dr. E. Andrew McQuitty Senior Pastor, Irving Bible Church

TAPESTRY WAS THERE.

The adoption process can be a long and difficult journey, but Annie McClellan and husband Scott found that Tapestry was with them every step of the way.

Tapestry, the adoption and foster care ministry at IBC, had been serving families for almost two years when we first encountered them. It was the fall of 2006 and my husband Scott and I had just started considering this thing called adoption. At first, we were just trying to figure out whether adoption was right for our family, and it was then that we attended a Tapestry event Adoption Myths and Realities where we met Amy and Michael Monroe (Tapestry founders) along with other families. We ultimately decided to pursue an international adoption from Vietnam, which began a 21-month journey of faith and doubt. When we started the process, we had no expectations about the role Tapestry would play. But as we began to navigate the world of adoption and the mounds of paperwork, it became clear that we would need Tapestry for more than just information. We began attending a Waiting Families Group, large group educational events, and the first Tapestry Adoption & Foster Care Conference in October 2007. At each group or event, we learned about things like adoption-friendly language, lifebooks, and other aspects of the adoption journey we had never considered. And along the way, we became part of a community. Scott and I were a young couple just following Gods prompting, eager to soak up any and all information, but we were not prepared for the stress, the lack of control, and the testing of our faith. We needed families who had been in these same situations to hold our hands and believe with us. When our dream of a baby from Vietnam came crashing down after the announcement that we were number four on the waiting list, and that the agency only had three children to match before adoptions from Vietnam closed indefinitely, Tapestry was there. As we navigated what the loss of our dream meant and where we should go next, Tapestry was there. When a week before adoptions from Vietnam officially closed and God miraculously matched us to a two-month old baby girl in Vietnam (with completed paperwork in less than a week), Tapestry was there to rejoice with us. Three months later, when we were given only three days notice to pack for a trip half way around the world to meet our daughter, someone from Tapestry came to my house and helped me make sense of my empty suitcase. And when we brought our daughter home on Christmas Day 2008, Tapestry was there in the airport eager to meet our little girl and celebrate with us. At each twist and turn, Tapestry was there when we needed community and support, and they are still there for us as we navigate life with our now four-year-old daughter.
Community (That Continues)

Most adoptive parents assume that the hard part will be overcoming the mountain of paperwork and navigating unforeseeable turns of events, but they soon realize that the challenge really begins once their child has come home. Adopted and foster children often have needs that require parents to change what they do as a family and how they parent. Tapestry has helped us through these challenges as well, both big and small. In turn, we have wanted to give back and help families in ways we have been helped. We are excited to serve in a ministry that supports families like ours. This October, Tapestry will host the sixth annual Tapestry Adoption & Foster Care Conference (October 27, from 9 a.m. 4 p.m.). This conference is great for families in all stages of the adoption or foster care process those considering adoption or foster care, waiting families, foster parents, and those who have already adopted. Many adopted persons and adoption professionals regularly attend the conference as well. But Tapestry is much more than an annual conference. Tapestry is a ministry committed to meeting the real needs of adoptive and foster families, being in community with them, and supporting them through the highs and lows of the journey. Wherever the adoption or foster care journey leads, Tapestry will be there.

Support (Now and Later)

Thanks to her girls, Annie McClellan has become a prolific consumer of fairies, princesses, ballerinas, and all things pink.
After teaching Deaf Ed for eight years, Annie now works as a stay-at-home wife and mom, and has volunteered with Tapestry Adoption & Foster Care Ministry for the past three years. She blogs at tapestryministry.org/blog and mcclellantown.org.

T H E 2 0 1 2 TA P E S T RY
Featuring dr. Curt thompson Saturday, October 27 9 a.m.4 p.m. Irving Bible Church

ADO PTIO N & FO ST E R CA R E C O NF E R E N C E

help at Tapestry.
The Tapestry Adoption & Foster Care Conference is now in its sixth year at IBC. Having served well over 1,000 adoptive and foster families, the conference is a big event that could use your help. Volunteer opportunities include assisting with check-in, greeting and ushering, working the conference bookstore, and serving meals just to name a few. You do not need to have any specific experience or be an adoptive/foster family. Positions are available in both full-day and half-day shifts. Contact Amy Monroe at tapestry@irvingbible.org for more info.

The 2012 Tapestry Conference will feature Dr. Curt Thompson, an attachment expert, speaker, and trainer, and author of Anatomy of the Soul. The conference will also offer 18 new breakout sessions covering a wide range of topics that will take a deep, not wide approach, providing practical insights and tools that offer hope and help for your journey ahead. If you are an adoptive or foster parent, considering adoption or foster care, or if you are an industry professional or church ministry leader, the Tapestry Conference is right for you. For more information and to register, visit www.tapestryconference.org. Registration includes a light breakfast, box lunch and conference materials. The 2012 Tapestry Conference is free but you must register to attend. Childcare is not available.

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From left to right: Pam, Jaminet, Bryanna, and Miekka

Bryanna has also grown close to her other long-time SonShine Pal, Pam. Currently, Miekka and Pam alternate Sundays as Bryannas Pal. Pams involvement with SonShine Pals is a natural outgrowth of her former volunteer experience with Special Olympics and her relationship with an adult stepdaughter with special needs. The sweetest thing about being able to spend time with Bryanna is that she immediately comes in the door and grabs my hand when she sees me, says Pam. Being with Bryanna does my heart so much good. I dont feel like Im serving I feel like Jaminet and Bryanna are serving me. There is a mutual friendship; Pam relates that she went through a rough period three years ago when both her parents were diagnosed with cancer and eventually died within three weeks of each other. Miekka had been filling in many Sundays from the time Pams parents had been diagnosed. Miekka and Jaminet supported Pam in many practical ways as she dealt with her grief. Miekka and Jaminet have been great friends to me! I feel like they are my family, says Pam.

A Circle of Friends
For years, well-meaning doctors, therapists, and educators tagged Bryanna with various labels: Mentally challenged. Autistic. ADHD. Hearing Impaired. But at IBC, Bryanna is

Jaminet has immense gratitude for the unconditional love that Miekka and Pam have shown her and Bryanna. She notes that she probably would never have met them were it not for the SonShine program. Because of Bryanna, God has gifted me with two sisters in Christ! she says. She is equally grateful for a church like IBC who welcomes her family with open arms and accepts Bryanna, now 12 years old, as she is. Jaminet stresses the importance of churches being flexible willing to restructure in order to fit the needs of all kinds of different people. Jaminet loves the fact that many people at the 10:45 service know Bryanna and greet her by name as she strolls around the church. At IBC, Bryanna is treated like a rock star, and many people know me only as Bryannas mom. Jaminet hopes that Bryanna can continue to spend quality time on Sundays with Miekka and Pam. She would also like the program to expand so that more special needs children will have the opportunity to have a SonShine Pal. Pam and Miekka agree that SonShine Pals is mutually rewarding. Pam relishes her service as a SonShine Pal so much that she enthuses, You have no idea what you are missing by not being involved with Special Needs at IBC! Blessings come all the time! Go for it! Contact specialneeds@irvingbible.org for more information about Special Needs at IBC.

simply a child of God, created in his image and reflecting his glory. Bound together by the desire to give Bryanna the freedom to be herself, Bryannas mother, Jaminet, along with SonShine Pals Miekka and Pam, have collaborated to embrace Bryannas special needs as well as develop a deep and lasting friendship with each other. I walked away from church when Bryanna was a young child. She became disruptive during the service and I realized we did not fit the structure the church had in place, says single mother Jaminet. She grows quiet as she describes the pain of being unable to attend church and alienated from her faith community due to her daughters special needs. A friend begged Jaminet to consider visiting Irving Bible Church. When she perused the IBC website, she found a link for SonShine Pals, an IBC ministry where loving adults care for children with special needs while their parents attend church services. Jaminet and Bryanna began attending IBC when Bryanna was four years old, and it has been their church home ever since. Miekka, Bryannas first SonShine Pal, remembers that she was enchanted with Bryanna from the beginning, and the affection between them has only grown over the years. Bryanna is beautiful and has such a big heart. She is energetic and always knows what she wants to do, says Miekka. Usually Bryannas agenda includes walking hand-in-hand with her SonShine Pal around the entire church, visiting various childrens worship gatherings. She loves to watch the Shout-Out Kids practice singing and praising God. She also really enjoys being with the kids in the Adventure Zone, and feels especially safe with them. Bryanna likes to dance and clap, and can feel the beat of the music, Miekka explains.

Kelly Jarrell has given up on sorting socks. Her motto: If its two socks, then its a match.
Kelly works as a stay-at-home wife and mom, and volunteers as a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) for children in foster care. Check out her blog at suburbanvolunteermom.blogspot.com.

The name Bryanna is derived from Gaelic and means, high, noble, exalted.

Circle of Friends was a 1995 feature film set in 1950s Ireland, and starred Chris ODonnell and Minnie Driver.

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THIS MONTH
BIBLE COMMuNITIES
Groups on Sunday
Synergy 9 a.m. Middle School Room Couples in their 40s & 50s Join us as we trace the line between belief and unbelief, where uncertainty can lead to trust, and honest faith can produce outrageous hope. Alpha Wednesdays, 6:30 p.m. Alpha is currently in session. Contact alpha@irvingbible.org.

If you are interested in volunteering or know someone who could benefit from the care of a Stephen Minister, contact stephenministry@ irvingbible.org.
Smart Stepfamilies October 21, 9 a.m. West A See ad, pg. 16.

PARENTING

Events and Resources

Save the Date: Less Than Perfect Parenting A Panel Discussion and Practical Workshops. See ad, pg. 16.

HOPE & HEALING

Community Care
Caring for Aging Parents November 3, 910:30 a.m. West C CAP is a support group for those caring for an aging loved one. See ad, pg. 17. DivorceCare Thursdays, 6:30 p.m. Conference Room A weekly support group designed to help you face the challenges of divorce and separation. Contact divorcecare@irvingbible.org for more information. Recovery at IBC Thursdays, 68:30 p.m. West Wing Youth Lounge Do you deal with perfectionism, pride, overeating, inappropriate anger or control? Recovery is confidential and all are welcome. Join us for a light meal at 6 p.m. for just $4. Grace For the Wounded A confidential small group ministry that explores the wounds we have received and the healing journey Gods prepared for us. Female group currently offered. Contact Bernadette at (678) 860-4575 or txsojourner@att.net. NAMI Family-to-Family Class Mondays, 6:309:30 p.m. West B A 12-week course designed for families and caregivers of those with serious mental illness. Contact Joey at joey@netbreezeinc.com or Debra at eumoore@yahoo.com. Shelter from the Storm A confidential small group that focused on finding hope and healing from sexual abuse. New classes are forming now and space is limited. We offer groups for both teens and adults. Contact Michelle at shelterfromthestormibc@gmail.com or (214) 725-0898. Mental Health Grace Alliance Groups Every other Monday, 6:30 p.m. West A and C Family Grace Group is for family members, friends, and caregivers who support individuals with serious mental disorders. Contact Buzz Moody at myrabuzz@gmail.com.

20s & 30s, Married and Young Families Join us as we grow together in faith and in our marriages. Crossroads 10:45 a.m. High School Room 20s & 30s, Married Join us as we journey through the book of Philippians. Journey 10:45 a.m. Middle School Room All Welcome Join us for our October series, The Pattern and Purpose of Relationships in Our Lives. On Track 10:45 a.m. West C Single Parents Join us to learn about managing anger. Renew 10:45 a.m. Training Center Diverse, All Ages & Stages Join us in October for a Life Together series, Connecting with Gods Family. Thrive 10:45 a.m. West D Singles in their 30s & 40s Join us for a new serieson The Pursuit of God by A.W. Tozer.

The Tree 9 a.m. West D

MARRIAGE

Growing Together
Marriage at IBC Sundays at 6:45 p.m. West C A small group-based marriage series designed to help couples reconnect in the context of community. Visit marriage.irvingbible. org to register. KidZone is available by reservation at irvingbible.org/ kidzone.

SENIORS

For Folks Ages 55+

Seasoned Saints We often attend ICT Mainstage performances as a group. Please check out the 201213 season online and watch Chatter for more details. Potluck Lunch and Fellowship October 21 Immediately following the second morning service in the Commons Annex adjoining the Haven. Bring a dish if you can.

MEN

Community and Resources

Father/Daughter Campout October 57 Join dads and their daughters for a fun weekend at Lake Murray, OK. Contact Erik at erikmonson@gmail. com. First Watch Fridays, 6:22 a.m. The Commons Get spiritually fit with the men of First Watch this fall. First Watch Xtra Meets Wednesdays at 6:30 a.m. in the Training Center.

Contact bgroezinger@verizon.net.

SINGLE PARENTS

Community and Resources

Kids Night Out October 13, 69 p.m. The Alcove Join us for our Fear Factor Night. See ad, pg 16. Girl Stuff Saturday, October 13 The Alcove Join us from 12:304 p.m. as we visit Elmcroft Senior Living Center. Sit with us on Sunday! Several single-parent families enjoy worshiping together in the 9 a.m. service. Come and join us in the lowest right-hand section, Rows 5 & 6, facing the stage.

Please visit page 20 for more Sunday Bible Communities.

Visit irvingbible.org/men for more info.

CHILDREN

MISSIONS

Infants Through 5 Grade

th

Local and Global

Lunch with Caleb Lucien October 28 West D Join us immediately following the 10:45 a.m. service for lunch with Caleb Lucien, the founder of Hosean International Ministries in Haiti. RSVP to Anna at aheil@irvingbible.org. Laundry Love First Saturday of the month, 9 a.m.12 p.m. Located at Amigo Laundromat, 3349 Country Club Dr. in Irving (just down from Sam Houston Middle School). Please join us as we provide free laundry cycles and detergent, strike up conversations and build relationships. For more info visit llpirving. org or contact info@llpirving.org.

MyZone Wednesdays, 6:308:30 p.m. Zone/Zone Jr. A mid-week event for kids that is great for bringing friends. K-5th grade. Contact Beth at bhorn@ irvingbible.org. Zone 6:30 Tuesdays, 6:30 p.m. A weekly Bible study for kids K-5th grade. Contact Beth at bhorn@irvingbible.org.

SMALL GROuPS

Community and Resources

Small Groups are currently in session. Contact Ryan at rsanders@irvingbible.org.

SPECIAL NEEDS

FAITH & BELIEF

Events and Resources
Membership Class October 7 and 14, 10:45 a.m. West A/B Contact Donna at doreilly@irvingbible.org.

The Living Grace Group is for those who have mental illness. Contact Melissa Clark at melisser34@yahoo.com.
Stephen Ministry at IBC Stephen Ministers provide a listening ear and a caring presence for IBCers going through emotionally difficult times such as the loss of a loved one, loss of a job, illness, injury, divorce or other life events.

Community and Resources

In His Image Bible Study Wednesdays, 6:307:45 p.m. AZ15 A small group for adults (18+) with special needs.

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Special Needs Support Group Wednesday nights, 6:307:45 p.m. The Conference Room Contact Lori at lorikuy@gmail.com Respite Care Every Fourth Saturday For families that have children with special needs. SonShine Pals and Room Our SonShine Rooms are available during the 10:45 a.m. service for children with special needs. There are also opportunities for higher functioning children to be matched with a SonShine Pal. Contact specialneeds@irvingbible.org.

YOuNG ADuLTS
20s and Early 30s
The Bridge November 5 A time for women of all generations to connect over dinner and fellowship. See ad, pg. 16. The Gathering Thursdays, 7 p.m. The Alcove Join us in October as we finish our series on Love, Sex and Dating and begin our study on the book of Jonah, starting October 11. Weekly Groups Many young adults (marrieds, singles and mixed) meet in smaller groups during the week and on Sunday evenings. If you are interested in learning more, contact youngadults@irvingbible.org. Sunday Mornings at the Mo Sundays, 10 a.m. The Mosaic Caf Join us for fellowship before the 10:45 a.m. service.

MISCELLANEOuS
A Little Bit of Everything
Fourth Quarter Living Seminar Series Saturday, Oct. 20, 9 a.m.12 p.m. West D A seminar for adults of retirement age and older and those with aging relatives. See ad, pg. 16. Red Cross Blood Drive October 28, November 4 Sign-ups will be in Town Square October 14 and 21. Contact Joanne at jgreen@irvingbible.org. Prayer Meeting 2nd and 4th Wednesdays, 6:458 p.m. The Chapel Join us as we pray for IBC and the needs of our people and the world. NICHE (North Irving Christian Home Educators) Monday, October 8, 79 p.m. The Alcove Join us for How do I know if Im on Track? a discussion about keeping pace with what kids need to know for success. Contact texasniche06@ gmail.com or visit texasniche.com. Stitches of Faith Tuesdays, 6:308:30 p.m. The Mo area Join as we crochet and knit. Contact Wendy Vera at msbabydragon@ yahoo.com or Myrna at myrnavick@ verizon.net.

IBC Crop Night Friday, October 5, 510 p.m. Commons Annex Bring your pictures, albums and tools. Paper crafters and digital scrappers also welcome. Contact Nikki at nikkiscraps@verizon.net. IBC fall softball, Mens and Coed. Now forming teams in the city leagues of Lewisville, Euless and Carrollton. Contact Kurt at kurtheine76@yahoo.com or (972) 765-9912. Lost and Found Have you lost something at IBC? Contact Samara at samara.russ@ gmail.com during the week, or ask at the Information Desk on Sunday. New Arrivals Congratulations to the following family on the birth of their child:

STuDENTS

Middle/High School and College

Middle School Sundays MERGE AM The Alcove, 10:45 a.m.12:05 p.m.

Micah and Michelle Terry and their daughter, Anna Rose, born July 20, at 6 lbs., 8 oz., and 19 inches.

Life Groups the Commons, 6:458 p.m. Middle School Wednesdays The W Student Ministry area, 6:308 p.m. Middle School Fall Retreat October 1214 Sky Ranch See ad, pg. 16.
High School Sundays Life Groups Student Ministry area, 6:458 p.m.

2435 KINWEST

Wednesday Nights at IBC

Vox Humana Choir Wednesdays, 6:308:10 p.m. IBC Worship Center The choral community of IBC is always looking for singers of all levels beginner or pro. Everyone is welcome and you can join any time! No auditions necessary. Contact Crystal at celwell@irvingbible.org. ESL: English as a Second Language Wednesdays, 6:308:30 p.m. AZ14 & 15 Do you want to learn English? Improve your English? Come practice all four skills: speaking, listening, reading and writing. Contact Corey at 2435esl@irvingbible.org for info. FREE Citizenship Class Wednesdays, 6:308 p.m. IBC For those at least 18 years old who have been issued a Permanent Resident Card. Well guide you through the N-400 paperwork and prepare you for the main components of the new citizenship test. Contact Michael at 2435citizenship@irvingbible. org. IBC Career Transition Ministry Wednesdays, 6:308 p.m. Want to find a job? Come learn how to craft a rock-solid resume, use the Internet and LinkedIn to network, and ace the interview. For more info, contact Anna Heil at aheil@ irvingbible.org.

High School Wednesdays SWAG (Students Worship and Gathering) The Alcove, 6:308 p.m.
IBC College Ministry Sundays at 6:458 p.m. The Mo.

Contact mconnor@irvingbible.org.

WOMEN

Community and Resources

Womens Bible Study The Commons Join us for Restoration Heartware, a 10-week study on the book of Nehemiah.

It doesnt take much to make someone feel at home at Irving bible church. All you need is a smile. Whether youve got time every Sunday or just once a month, you can help visitors and IBCers alike feel warm and welcome in a few easy ways. consider being a: Parking attendant Greeter Host/Hostess Usher So go on. Just say cheese.

Morning session: 9:3011:30 a.m. Evening session: 6:308:30 p.m. Sign up at irvingbible.org/women.
The Bridge November 5 A time for women of all generations to connect over dinner and fellowship. See ad, pg. 16.

Smiles Needed.

Visit irvingbible.org/women.

Visit 2435kinwest.org for other Wednesday offerings.

Hospitality at IBC needs you. To get started or for more info, contact Kelly Haney at khaney@irvingbible.org or (469) 767-5254.

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Smart Stepfamilies
An 8-week enrichment study

Dinner for
Ready to connect? Your table is now available.
Monday, November 5, 6:308 p.m. | Cost: $8

The Bridge is an event designed to help IBC women of different ages and phases build relationships and grow closer as a church family. This time around, were trying something new: Dinner for Eight. On Monday, November 5, women will gather at various IBC host homes in groups of eight to enjoy a great meal and get to know each other better. Just let us know youd like to participate, and we will send you the details of where to go and how to get there. Contact us at thebridge@irvingbible.org.

Find stepfamily success the smart way.

In eight engaging sessions, youll learn useable solutions for everyday living. Learn practical tips, discover steps to building a healthy family dynamic, and gain insight for raising your stepfamily with wisdom. Begins October 21 at 9 a.m. in West A/B. Register at irvingbible.org/support-groups or contact janhere@verizon.net.

here iIm odared? W hen s G sc w

Fear Factor Kids Night Out

Fourth Quarter living Seminar Series

Saturday, October 20 | 9 a.m.12 p.m. | West D | $5

For adults retirement age and older and those with aging relatives.
ToPicS includE: Maximizing Social Security for individuals, spouses, and survivors The future of Social Security Medicare and Medicare Advantage plans how to choose Long Term Care the probability of increasing costs Alternatives to nursing homes Accessing government benefits: Medicaid and VA benefits SEminAR coAcHES: Raegan Arrington Previously employed with the Social Security Administration for 6 years, Raegan currently serves on the retirement strategy team in a financial planning practice.
Earl Davidson In financial planning for 37 years, Earl has

for single-parent families

Saturday, October 13 69 p.m. in the Alcove Snakes, spiders, and bugs oh my! Enjoy an evening of fun with Wildlife on the Move, along with games, crafts, and pizza. Register at irvingbible.org/singleparents. Look for the Kids Night Out Fear Factor link. This event is for children age 5 years and older. Questions? Contact Jennifer at jerlenbusch@irvingbible.org.

helped over 500 families through the Medicaid maze.

Visit irvingbible.org/faith-belief/explore to register for Fourth Quarter Living. KidZone is not available for this event.

middle school retreat

Whats making you hungry? In Matthew 5:6, Jesus says those who hunger and thirst for righteousness will be filled, but what does real spiritual hunger look like every day? Join speaker Matt Hamilton for an unforgettable weekend at Sky Ranch, with worship and music by Corbin Pierce. Cost: $175 To register and pay, visit irvingbible.org/students/middle-school.

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Less Than Perfect Parenting

Caregivers of Aging Parents

A support group for those caring for an aging loved one. Begins November 3 910:30 a.m. in West C/D Cost: Free

A Panel Discussion and Practical Workshops

For Parents With Kids of All Ages

Saturday, November 10 9 a.m.12:30 p.m. Irving Bible Church: The Commons $10 per person Join IBCs own Andy and Alice McQuitty and St. Anns Kurt and Jenny Klement for a panel discussion with parents who have experienced both missteps and victories in raising children. Following the panel time, participants will choose two out of six breakout sessions on topics like grace, communication, boundaries and discipline. Please visit irvingbible.org/parenting to register and for child care information.

Are you stressed? Tired? Confused? Caregivers often feel all of these at once.
Scripture tells us to Honor thy Mother and Father (Matthew 15:4), but this can be easier said than done when caring for an aging parent. Caregivers of Aging Parents (CAP) is a new support system for those caring for an aging parent, relative, or friend. We will address topics such as long-term housing, hospice care, and estate planning, but will also provide group time for emotional and spiritual encouragement. You are not alone during this season of life. Join other caregivers this fall at CAP.
To register for a CAP support group, visit irvingbible.org/support-groups. KidZone is not available for this event.

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SuNDAY SCHEDuLE
First Worship Service: 9 a.m.
Childrens Classes (all ages) The Tree (young marrieds and families), West D

HOW DO I GIVE?
my Time, Talents & Skills
Meal Team Volunteers IBC makes meals available both Sunday and Wednesday nights. These fun teams could use some additional volunteers to serve together. For Sundays, contact sundaynightmeal@irvingbible.org. For Wednesdays, contact bdowney@ irvingbible.org. Respite Care Volunteers By giving a few hours of your time to do crafts, play games, and spend time with special needs children, you give their parents a few hours for themselves. Every fourth Saturday evening. Sonshine Volunteers A SonShine Pal helps a child with special needs to participate in ministry with their peers. Commitment: weekly or bi-weekly, all services available. Our SonShine rooms are available during the 10:45 a.m. service for children who need more individual attention. Commitment: anywhere from once a month to weekly. Wednesday Nights Special Needs Volunteers On Wednesday nights, there is a support group for parents of children with special needs. Volunteers are needed to help care for the children while their parents are in the group. For any of the above opportunities, contact Shannon at specialneeds@irvingbible.org. Mentor Kids in Single-Parent Families Men mentor a boy, and women mentor a girl from a singleparent family. All it takes is a little time and a big heart. Contact Marsha at mtribbett@irvingible.org. Kids Night Out Volunteer Kids Night Out, a ministry for single parent families, meets the third Saturday of each month from 6-9 p.m., to give their parents a much needed evening to themselves. Contact Jennifer at jerlenbusch@irvingbible.org. SchoolWorks Become a Half Hour Hero by giving half an hour a week to invest in the life of a child. Contact Jan at jfanning@ irvingbible.org. Stephen Ministers Needed If you have a heart of compassion to serve others and are interested in becoming a Stephen Minister, please contact Sharon Arrington at shararrington@verizon.net.

Second Worship Service: 10:45 a.m.

Childrens Classes (all ages) Crossroads (mid 20s-30s couples), High School Room On Track (single parents), West C Journey (all welcome), Middle School Room Renew (multi-generational), Training Center Thrive (30s & 40s singles), West D

Third Worship Service: 5 p.m.

Childrens Classes (all ages)

Community Dinner: 6 p.m. Community Events: 6:45 p.m.

Legacy Builders (all welcome), West A Middle School, The Commons High School, Student Ministries Area

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Laundry Soap and Dryer Sheets Laundry Love is collecting laundry soap and dryer sheets for their monthly events in Irving. Bring these to the Laundry Love box in the donation area by the Training Center. More info at llpirving.org or contact info@llpirving.org. Cars for Missionary Families Do you have an extra car to loan a missionary family on furlough? Contact Missions at aheil@irvingbible.org. Online Giving Option If you would find it more convenient to donate to the ministries of Irving Bible Church online, visit give.irvingbible.org.

SuNDAY COMMuNITY MEALS

Each Sunday in the Town Square at 6 p.m. Cost is $3/meal or $10 max./family. 10/7 No Meal. Columbus Day. 10/14 Fajita Madness, salad bar. 10/21 No Meal. Celebration Sunday. 10/28 Giant baked potatoes with all the fixings, salad bar. If youd like to serve on a Sunday night meal team, contact Pat at sundaynightmeal@irvingbible.org.

WEDNESDAY MIDWEEK MEALS

Each Wednesday night from 56:20 p.m. in The Commons. Cost is $3/meal or $10 max./family. 10/3 Baked potatoes with all the fixings, salad, dessert. Hosted by Lavern Howells team.

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10/10 Lasagna, bread sticks, salad, dessert. Hosted by Bob Downeys team. 10/17 Sloppy Joes, cole slaw, pickles, baked beans, chips, dessert. Hosted by Marlene Brittons team. 10/24 Pork loin medallions, scalloped potatoes, rolls, salad, dessert. Hosted by Pat Downeys team. 10/31 Mexican meal with tacos, enchiladas, chips, and fresh baked cookies. Hosted by Barbara Wittes team. Changes to the menu may be made depending on cost and availability and Bob Downeys whim. If youd like to serve on a Wednesday night meal team, please contact bdowney@irvingbible.org.

Were so glad youre here. Sometimes its hard to know where to begin, but we want to make the process of connecting and feeling at home as easy as possible. Here are some ways to start. The Information Center is a great place to get your questions answered, find help and encouragement for your personal journey, or just have a cup of coffee and settle in. Our team of volunteers would be happy to help you, and our goal is to make you feel at home. The Information Center is open every Sunday after all three worship services. The Newcomer Gathering is an informal get-together for those new to IBC and/or those wanting to learn more about who we are, what we believe and how to get plugged in. Meet other newcomers, ministry leaders and elders. Cant seem to figure out what IBC is all about or how you fit into the larger picture? Want free breakfast every Sunday for four weeks? Propel is designed to help you figure out how to best plug in to IBCs culture and calling. Well talk about what it means to grow in Christ, connect in community and join the mission and what that might look like for you. Youll also learn more about membership at IBC. Small groups exist to cultivate deep relationships that advance the kingdom of God in dark places dark places in our world, in our relationships and in our hearts. We do this in the context of sermon-based Bible studies that meet in homes. Groups comprise 12 people or fewer and are formed by leaders who have completed small group leader training. To sign up for a group or get more info, contact Ryan Sanders at rsanders@irvingbible.org.

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THE MOSAIC CAF (THE MO)

Caf Hours Monday, Tuesday & Thursday: 8 a.m.5 p.m. Wednesday: 8 a.m.7 p.m. Friday: 8 a.m.12 p.m. Saturday: Closed Sunday: 8 a.m.12:30 p.m. & 47 p.m. Phone: (972) 443-3323 October drink special: Spiced Gingerbread Tea

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to publicly consume candy corn with 90-percent less ridicule. To others, the pseudo-holiday offers the opportunity to fill up their bags and buckets with all manner of off-brand confections. (Milky Whey, anyone?) And still, to a certain segment, All Hallows Eve affords an occasion to dress up as a naughty fillin-the-blank at the office party without having to visit HR the next day. Although the day after that is still a possibility depending on what photos turn up on Facebook. For the Christian, Halloween can pose a bit of a conundrum. The day, though rooted in the Christian All Saints Day, may have deeper roots in pagan rituals. Also, many of the costumes are of the decidedly ungodly sort. Devils, serial killers, politicians, Twilight fans, etc. All available in normal or, again, naughty varieties. But it need not be this way. No one is required by law, yet, to purchase a costume from a pop-up seasonal strip mall store that claims to be one size fits all but was apparently intended for the pygmy tribes of Papua New Guinea. Which is odd considering their well-documented hatred of fishnet stockings and mullet wigs. Instead, with a little creativity and a trip or two to the thrift store or grandmas closet, one can construct a costume of truly biblical proportions. Which will only seem naughty if the ACLU catches your kid wearing it to school. adam or eve Unless you plan on having one of those kinds of parties, your Adam or Eve outfit should be from the post-fall period. First, find yourself a nude, full-body leotard (or an adult onesie thats three sizes too small). Then raid the office ficus trees, which are always fake, for fig leaf stand-ins. Staple or hot glue said leaves into a toga or jaunty track suit and youre good to go. Please avoid the single leaf option. Its cheaper, but not in a good way. Also, if you find a green leotard, you can go as the Jolly Green Giant next year. Thats value. Jonah There are a couple of ways of pulling off a good Jonah. One is to dress like a biblical shepherd and pour whale guts all over yourself. While you may score a couple bonus points for finding whale innards so far inland, youll be docked a couple million due to stench-related issues. The non-stankified way is to dress like a biblical shepherd and then walk around with a rubber whale eating your hand. You may have to bloatify a rubber shark to pull this off, but thems the breaks. If youre into group-based puns, get a couple members of your posse to dress the same way and tell folks youre the Jonahs Brother. Only do this if youre single and wish to remain so. linus No, Im not referring to the Linus mentioned by Paul in 2 Timothy 4:21. I mean Linus from Peanuts. This costume works for kids and adults alike. Its cheap, requiring just a red shirt, black shorts and a blue blanket. And its subversive. You can wander around spouting Bible verses all night; and if anyone complains, you can whip out your iDevice and show them the scene from A Charlie Brown Christmas where Linus throws down some mad Luke free verse. Michael the archangel Thanks to advancements in wearable robotics and lighting, crafting a truly awesome angel costume is within your reach. A few strands of LED rope lights, an 18-volt battery from the power drill, some

Runnin With the Angels

Halloween means many things to many people. To some, it is a chance

handiwork with PVC pipes and muslin, and a bit of Arduino tinkering and youre no longer the office nerd. Youre the office nerd with giant flapping wings and lasers shooting out of your contact lenses and a huge following on Instructables.com. Charlton heston as Moses My personal favorite on this list, and a costume I have longed to create for myself, Charlton Heston as Moses offers a doubleshot of awesome few ensembles can match. All one needs is to Google an image of Chuck in full Moses regalia from The Ten Commandments and match said outfit as well as possible. If you have a staff that can turn into a snake, awesome. If your significant other can dress like a pillar of fire or Yul Brenner as Ramses, even better. And if you have an NRA ball cap and a conceal-carry permit, well, thats best of all. So let it be written, so it shall be done. C.S. lewis If you find a Snuggie too itchy, then dressing in an old-school shepherds robe may not be the best idea. Instead, try going as the 20th centurys favorite Christian apologist and Narnia creator, C.S. Lewis. All you need is a tweedy suit, round spectacles, a bald cap (or not, depending) and a pipe. Carrying around a copy of The Screwtape Letters may also help people realize youre not just a Sigmund Freud who forgot his beard. god the Father One should always go with God. Going as God? Well, thats another matter. However, this idea is less of a costume and more of a home defense system. Instead of turning off the lights and hiding in the bedroom streaming episodes of Punky Brewster on your iPad until the mini-Snookies quit ringing your doorbell, try this: Rent a searchlight. Place searchlight about 10 feet from your front window. When doorbell rings, turn on searchlight and cue up that part from The Lord of the Rings movies where Gandalf says, Thou shall not pass! Finally, kick back and enjoy your bounty of snack-sized Milky Wheys. Jason Fox is still trying to get the wrapping off a Bit-O-Honey bar from 1979.
Jason is a freelance creative director, copywriter and columnist who offends the prevailing culture at jasonfox.net. His first book, leeclowsbeard (based on his popular Twitter feed of the same name), is available now.

In a knife fight between Charleton Heston as Moses and Chuck Norris, the beards would win. Both of them.

The Jolly Green Giant is the third most recognized advertising icon of the 20th century, behind Ronald McDonald and the Marlboro Man.

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Chatter keeps it clean with Andy and Alice McQuitty in Florence, Italy.

Chatteryou CAN take it with you. Send us your Chatter photos on location, and you may see yourself in an upcoming issue. Email us at chatter@irvingbible.org.