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What's in a Name? ................................................................................................ 4 Naming Names ...................................................................................................... 5 Baby Names Checklist .......................................................................................... 7 Brainstorming Names for Your Baby.................................................................... 9 Unexpected Naming Issues................................................................................ 10 How to Overcome Hurdles While Naming the Baby...................................... 11 Baby Names Do's and Don'ts.......................................................................... 12 Baby Name Meanings ........................................................................................ 13 Giving Your Child an Ethnic Name ................................................................... 14 Naming Children after Presidents ..................................................................... 16 Celebrity Names .................................................................................................. 17 Most Popular Baby Names for Boys - 2005....................................................... 18 Most Popular Baby Names for Girls - 2005 ....................................................... 21 Most Popular Baby Names for Boys - 2006....................................................... 24 Most Popular Baby Names for Girls - 2006 ....................................................... 27 Most Popular Baby Names for Boys - 2007....................................................... 30 Most Popular Names for Baby Girls - 2007 ....................................................... 31 New Popular Baby Names in 2007 .................................................................... 32 About the Authors ............................................................................................... 33 Recommended Reading ................................................................................... 35 Acknowledgements ............................................................................................ 36
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Amy was taken aback by a tone I haven't used with her since I was ranting about The Great Gatsby in her English class. I apologized for my teacherly tourette's but explained my theory on baby naming. Everybody, especially your family (and your friends), has an opinion on what you should name your kid. Grandma will want you to choose a family name even if it rhymes with asparagus; your mother will think her maiden name needs to be freed from the darkness of male oppression; your sister will say you stole that name from her; and your dad will hope you'll consider his favorite blues singer's moniker as a possible candidate.
If you do make the terrible mistake of letting people know the name you're considering, they'll pick at it more feverishly than a starving vulture on a petrified boar carcass. They'll say (insert your name here) is too dull or too exotic. Your kid will be forgotten or teased with a name like that. They'll say it doesn't sound right next to your last name (which also sucks by the way). Your name is too long or too short, too easy to forget or hard to pronounce, too girlish or boyish, or contains far too many consonants or vowels. Your choice is too Jewish-sounding for the Southwest or Arab enough to land him on a no-fly list. Your kid will positively change her name when she turns 18. And hate you for naming her that to boot.
What happens is that once a name is attached to an actual kicking and screaming baby, it adheres like gum to a shoe. This comes from a man who named his daughter Poppy and son London. Although I've heard of a few cases where parents have changed their child's name a few times in the hospital, once the child is named and presented to the world, it's pretty hard to switch. So my advice to expecting parents (and veterans who've been burned) is to keep your baby label a secret until you stick it to the kid.
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Naming Names
Never-ever-ever-ever-ever-ever-ever-ever-ever-ever mention that you are having trouble choosing a name, especially around family members who have been imbibing. What will inevitably happen is that you, because you can, will make an all-out attempt to immediately anaesthetize yourself with adult beverages. After the third, fourth and fifth time the same person says, What about Rose? I like the name Rose, you will be sorry the topic was ever broached, and you will be up at 3:45 a.m. looking for an Alka Seltzer.
Hey, Seltzer is kind of a neat name! Which reminds me of a David Lettermen show that I saw. The guest was Demi Moore. Ms. Moore was pregnant with her second child and was evidently having trouble selecting a name. True to Late Night form, Demi brought her own Top Ten list that she and her husband Bruce Willis had made. The list was entitled, Top ten names that we might name our child:
10) Beavus 9) Forklift 8) Kemo Sabe 7) Ibuprofen 6) Siskel 5) Dr. Pepper 4) Marmaduke 3) Manute 2) Retsyn 1) Buttafuoco
Erudis, Lotrimin, and Acetaminophen could be added to this list to help round out the cool semi-medical terms.
It must be noted here that guys and gals approach the child-naming problem-solving concept from two different viewpoints. Gals generally think of wonderful poetic got a ring to em type names while guys try to diminish the future possibility of their child being made fun of, getting the crap kicked out of them, or even worse than that, not getting the babes in high school. I agreed on the proposed boys name of William Berkeley or Berk because William is the family name (from my side of the family, of course), Berk is a strong, tough name, and Berk is a guy who gets all the chicks.
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So, if you and your wife have as much trouble agreeing on a name as my wife and I did, it is probably due to the different approaches the two of you are coming from and the different criteria you each are using to measure a proposed name. It is believed that people live up to, or down to their given names. Perhaps this is one of the reasons people change their names. A name can make or break a personality, so it is a huge responsibility to name a human being.
Along these lines, nicknames are of importance too. Have you ever heard of a CEO of a major corporation or of an elected President of the United States whose nickname was Critter?
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Give 2 points for Positive, 0 for Neutral, and 1 for negative. The name with the most points would be the winner.
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About the Baby Where was he or she conceived? Where will the baby be born? City? Address? What do you want baby's name to say about you? What do you think your baby will look like? What kind of personality will she or he likely have? What color hair or eyes do you imagine? What is the name of your OB/GYN?
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Consider the following points while selecting your childs name: Avoid names that lead to cruel nicknames: Accepted, kids will always be kids, and almost any name can be twisted to conjure up an appropriately cruel nickname. However, try to avoid names that obviously lend themselves to a negative nickname. Consider your childs initials: While choosing a name, always keep in mind the initials that the name will form along with the middle name and the surname. Write these initials down and check that they do not connote something negative or undesirable. For instance, if your childs full name is Peter Oliver Taylor, the initials will spell out as POT, which may not exactly be flattering. Consider how the name will be shortened: Almost all names having two or more syllables invariably get shortened to an informal abbreviation. Consider what the most obvious shortened version of your childs name will be. For instance, its fine when Timothy becomes Tim and Daniel is shortened to Dan, but remember, Madison will be Mad, and Fatima, Fat!
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Not all parents necessarily choose unusual baby names from their own culture. They often opt for a name because they like the ring of its sound, or because of the exotic flavor that it conveys. While this is quite okay, it is important for parents to be aware of some of the larger issues surrounding ethnic names.
Ethnic names are integral to the land, language, and culture from which one is drawn. Choosing a name from your own culture is a way to acknowledge and honor your roots. It identifies your child as belonging to your specific ethnic group.
On the other hand, selecting an unusual baby name that is not from your culture, may pose some problems for your child. These could include: Difficulty in usage: Many non-English names may require a special pronunciation. Besides, their spellings may be awkward or difficult to remember. For instance, the Irish name Siobhan, is pronounced Shiv-ahn. Similarly, the Polish name Andrzej is correctly pronounced, Ahn-drzhey. Unusual baby names such as these are likely to lead to incorrect spellings and pronunciation. Could attract ridicule: Names that sound distinctly odd or different may put your child at risk of teasing by peers and friends. This may discourage your child from socializing normally. In extreme cases, unusual baby names could even lead to shyness or introversion. May lack significance: While you may find the sound of an unusual baby name, or its exotic meaning, appealing, your child may not share your enthusiasm. It might be better to have a name your child can identify with.
While none of these issues should prevent you from choosing the name of your dreams, as with all names, you should be aware of the strengths and weaknesses of any chosen name.
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Also, remember, especially if it is your first baby, that a choice of a name is less about you than it is about your baby and his or her future and identity. Your new child will have to wear an unusual name for a lot longer than youll introducing him with it.
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Today, parents are somewhat more cautious now about naming children after presidents. Nevertheless, presidential names remain more popular than ever before. (In comparison, however, instances of children named after vice presidents seem to be rarerfor instance, there are not too many Hannibels or Spiros around.)
What, one wonders, is the attraction of naming babies after presidents? Is it about political affiliation or inclination? Yes, but only to a certain extent. Actually what is attractive about a new presidential name is that it soon becomes a household name. Most Americans choose presidential names because they represent America and its essential spirit.
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Celebrity Names
We adore them, criticize them, and follow details of their personal lives with interest. And some of us go a step further and even name our children after them.
Naming children after celebrities is hardly new and the names of movie stars, sportsmen, and people in the news, have spawned generations of children with common names. This is because parents like to give their children names of people they admire. Also, they hope that by sharing the name of their idol, the children will also be assured success, fame, and fortune in their lives.
While there is nothing wrong with naming children after celebrities, there are many reasons why this need not be the sole criterion for selecting a name. Naming your child after a public figure will mean that people will always associate the name with that person. This is not fair to your child. The image conjured up by the name may not match the personality of your child. Some celebrities enjoy only a brief moment in the limelight. You may even grow over your fascination for a star. In such circumstances, it may not be appropriate to name your child on a momentary whim. All too often, celebrities are associated with controversies. If this happens, your child may become an innocent victim of someones scorn. Some star-struck parents, who name a baby after a celebrity, tend to set high expectations for their child. This benefits neither the parent nor the child. Often, one of the parents may decide on a celebrity name, which the spouse dislikes.
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Top Five Male Names by State in 2005 State Alaska Alabama Rank 1 Ethan William Rank 2 Jacob James Rank 3 Joshua Joshua Rank 4 Michael John Rank 5 William Michael
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Arkansas Arizona California Colorado Connecticut Ethan Angel Daniel Jacob Ryan William Jacob Jacob Jose James Daniel David Joseph Nicholas Alexander Joshua Joshua Michael Joshua Ethan Anthony Michael Anthony
Dist. of Columbia William Delaware Florida Georgia Hawaii Iowa Idaho Illinois Indiana Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Massachusetts Maryland Maine Michigan Minnesota Missouri Mississippi Montana North Carolina North Dakota Nebraska
Michael Matthew Ryan Joshua William Joshua Ethan Ethan Jacob Jacob Jacob Jacob Ethan Michael Anthony Joshua Jacob Jacob Jacob
Christopher Jacob Michael Elijah Tyler Logan Matthew Michael Logan Joshua Christopher John Matthew Benjamin Michael Andrew Tyler
Christopher Jacob Noah Logan Gabriel Ethan Andrew Michael Alexander Joshua Joseph James Jacob Nicholas William Andrew Joshua Jack Andrew
Michael Joshua
Matthew Michael Ryan Joshua Jacob Jacob Ethan Jacob William Jacob William Ethan Jacob Michael Ryan Tyler Andrew Jacob Ethan James Ethan Jacob Jacob Ethan Alexander Ethan Samuel William John Michael Joshua Carter Samuel
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New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico Nevada New York Ohio Oklahoma Oregon Pennsylvania Rhode Island South Carolina South Dakota Tennessee Texas Utah Virginia Vermont Washington Wisconsin West Virginia Wyoming Jacob Ryan Matthew Benjamin Anthony Daniel Angel Anthony Michael Michael Alexander Ryan Ethan Joshua Tyler James Daniel Samuel Joshua Samuel Andrew Alexander Logan Michael Tyler Joseph Elijah Joshua Ryan Logan William Joshua Nicholas Ryan John Landon Joshua Christopher Andrew Christopher Ryan Daniel Logan James Joseph
Anthony Jacob
Michael Matthew Joseph Jacob Jacob Jacob Andrew Ethan Ethan Ethan Joshua Andrew Matthew
Michael Jacob
Michael Matthew Jacob William Jacob William Jose Jacob William Jacob Jacob Ethan Jacob Jacob Jacob Ethan Jacob Jacob Ethan Jacob Connor Ethan Jacob Ethan Ethan James Carter Ethan Joshua Joshua Michael Matthew Alexander Tyler Hunter Tyler
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Top Five Female Names by State in 2005 State Alaska Alabama Rank 1 Rank 2 Rank 3 Emily Emily Rank 4 Rank 5
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Arkansas Arizona California Colorado Connecticut Emily Emily Emily Emily Olivia Madison Mia Ashley Emma Emily Olivia Emma Ashley Hannah Isabella Alexis Emma Mia Abigail Isabella Katherine Alexis Sophia Abigail Kayla Ava Abigail Abigail Abigail Madison Abigail Olivia Sophia Kayla Madison Olivia Ella Olivia Hannah Alexis Abigail Grace Grace
Samantha Isabella Isabella Ava Elizabeth Sarah Madison Emma Mia Madison Emily Olivia Emily Olivia Emma Emily Ava Emma Emily Madison Emma Emily Anna Olivia Madison Madison Madison Madison Emma Kayla Emma Emma Hannah Alyssa Emily Hailey Isabella Olivia Abigail Hannah Hannah Olivia Abigail Hannah Ava Emily Abigail Emily Emily Hannah Olivia Olivia
Dist. of Columbia Sophia Delaware Florida Georgia Hawaii Iowa Idaho Illinois Indiana Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Massachusetts Maryland Maine Michigan Minnesota Missouri Mississippi Montana North Carolina North Dakota Nebraska
Madison Emily Emily Emily Emma Emma Emma Emily Emma Emma Isabella Madison Madison Olivia Madison Emma Madison Emily
Madison Emily Madison Emma Emma Emily Emma Emma Ava Emma Emily Madison Abigail Emily Grace Madison
Madison Emma Emma Emily Emma Emma Madison Emma Hannah Emily
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New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico Nevada New York Ohio Oklahoma Oregon Pennsylvania Rhode Island South Carolina South Dakota Tennessee Texas Utah Virginia Vermont Washington Wisconsin West Virginia Wyoming Emma Emily Alyssa Emily Emily Emma Emma Emma Emily Olivia Emily Emily Isabella Emily Madison Ava Madison Ava Olivia Isabella Ashley Olivia Emily Hannah Hannah Olivia Emily Hannah Emily Hannah Ashley Abigail Hannah Olivia Olivia Ava Hannah Hannah Olivia Samantha Destiny Madison Madison Ava Abigail Olivia Abigail Madison Abigail Grace Abigail Emma Hannah Abigail Madison Isabella Abigail Olivia Olivia
Samantha Isabella Isabella Madison Madison Emily Madison Ava Madison Emma Olivia Emily Madison Emma Abigail Emma Olivia Emily Madison Olivia Emma Hannah Madison Emily Emma Hailey
Madison Emma Madison Emma Emily Emma Emily Emma Emma Emma Mia Emily Madison Emily Emily Olivia
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Top Five Male Names By State in 2006 State Alaska Alabama Arkansas Arizona California Colorado Rank 1 James William William Angel Daniel Jacob Rank 2 Jacob Jacob Ethan Daniel Anthony Ethan Rank 3 Michael James Jacob Jacob Angel Rank 4 Andrew Joshua Landon Anthony Jacob Rank 5 Ethan John James Jose David Noah
Alexander Joshua
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Connecticut Michael Matthew Michael Michael Michael Joshua Joshua Jacob Jacob Michael Ethan Ethan William Ryan Nicholas Anthony
Dist. of Columbia William Delaware Florida Georgia Hawaii Iowa Idaho Illinois Indiana Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Massachusetts Maryland Maine Michigan Minnesota Missouri Mississippi Montana North Carolina North Dakota Nebraska Ryan Joshua William Noah Ethan Ethan Daniel Jacob Jacob Jacob
Christopher Jacob Ethan Noah Joshua Jacob Andrew Logan Ethan Joshua Michael William Benjamin Logan Logan Andrew Joshua Michael Jacob Jacob Dylan Logan Noah
Alexander William James Jacob Nicholas Jacob Tyler Michael Benjamin Ethan Landon Christopher Andrew Matthew Logan Andrew Jack William
Landon Ethan Matthew Ryan Joshua Jacob Jacob Ethan Jacob William Jacob William Logan Jacob Michael Ethan Ethan Jacob Logan James Logan Joshua Ethan
Christopher Michael Carter Andrew William Joseph Daniel Jacob Anthony Michael William Noah Logan Andrew Anthony Joseph David Christopher Noah Michael Noah
Alexander Ethan Ryan Benjamin Daniel Gabriel Angel Joseph Ethan Joshua
New Hampshire Jacob New Jersey New Mexico Nevada New York Ohio Oklahoma Oregon
Anthony Daniel Michael Matthew Jacob Jacob Jacob Andrew Ethan Ethan
Alexander Logan
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Pennsylvania Rhode Island South Carolina South Dakota Tennessee Texas Utah Virginia Vermont Washington Wisconsin West Virginia Wyoming Jacob Ryan William Jacob William Jose Ethan William Jacob Jacob Ethan Jacob Ethan Michael Jacob Ryan Nicholas Joseph Michael Jacob Logan Ethan Daniel Samuel Joshua Owen Daniel Mason Landon Ryan Matthew Benjamin Joshua Landon James Christopher Benjamin Christopher Aiden Logan Alexander Hunter Hunter
Christopher James Ethan Jacob Jacob Joshua Jacob Noah Carter Joshua Joshua Jacob Michael William
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Top Five Female Names for Births in 2006 State State Alaska Alabama Arkansas Arizona California Colorado Connecticut Rank 1 Emma Rank 2 Rank 3 Rank 4 Rank 5
Dist. of Columbia Katherine Elizabeth Ashley Delaware Florida Georgia Hawaii Iowa Idaho Illinois Indiana Madison Emily Isabella Emily Ava
Madison Emily Isabella Emma Emma Emily Emma Emma Ava Olivia
Madison Hannah
Madison Emily
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Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Massachusetts Maryland Maine Michigan Minnesota Missouri Mississippi Montana North Carolina North Dakota Nebraska Emma Emily Abigail Madison Ava Emily Ava Hannah Abigail Emily Sophia Hannah Olivia Ava Madison Emily Sophia Emily
Isabella Emma
Madison Alexis
Madison Addison Emily Emily Emily Emily Ava Sophia Mia Emma Olivia Olivia Abigail Madison Olivia Madison Ashley Sophia Emily Hannah Abigail Olivia
New Hampshire Emma New Jersey New Mexico Nevada New York Ohio Oklahoma Oregon Pennsylvania Rhode Island South Carolina South Dakota Tennessee Texas Utah Virginia Vermont Washington Isabella Isabella Emily Emily Emma Emma Emma Ava Isabella
Isabella Mia Isabella Ava Madison Ava Madison Emily Emily Emily Olivia
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Wisconsin West Virginia Wyoming Ava Emma Emily Olivia Abigail Isabella Alexis Hannah
Madison Alexis
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Wilder is a graduate of the Warren Wilson MFA Program for Writers, New Mexico State University (M.A.), and Wesleyan University (B.A.). He has published fiction and nonfiction in Salon, Creative Nonfiction, The Greensboro Review, The Colorado Review, Hayden's Ferry Review, and elsewhere. He has been a commentator for NPR's Morning Edition, "The Big Show with Honey Harris" on KBAC FM in Santa Fe, and Back Roads Radio. His fiction and essays have been nominated for numerous awards, including The Pushcart Prize. He is the former director of the Southwest Literary Center of Recursos de Santa Fe, which includes the Writers Reading Series and the Santa Fe Writers Conference.
His column, "Daddy Needs a Drink," is published monthly in the Santa Fe Reporter. Daddy Needs a Drink is his first book.
W. Grant Eppler W. Grant Eppler is author of "Every Guy's Guide as to What to Expect When She's Expecting."
Paul Banas As a new dad, Paul Banas was looking for a business idea that would allow him the flexibility to spend time with his family. And, as a dad, he became very aware that many dads today are more involved in parenting but have limited resources from a mans point of view from which to better understand the challenges of their changing role. Based on this insight and his experience of more than 20 years of marketing and business development at companies including Unilever, Visa International, Alibris.com and most recently, Yahoo! Inc., Banas founded GreatDad.com.
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While nothing can imitate or replace the special mother/child bond, dads develop incredible relationships with their children and it is vitally important that they have a place to discuss the parenting process from a male perspective. Data indicates that fathers today are more involved in family life versus a generation ago due to factors including post-911 security fears, loss of career-long job security, and increased demands on working moms and dual-career families, said Banas. GreatDad.com enables all dadsworking, stay-at-home, single, gay, domestic partners, and moreto find ways to be involved and understand how dads are functioning as parents today.
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Recommended Reading
Book by Robert Wilder Daddy Needs a Drink
Book by W. Grant Eppler Every Guy's Guide as to What to Expect When She's Expecting
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We would like to thank W. Grant Eppler for the following article: Naming Names
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