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The Mississippi Council of Advisors in Acupuncture met in Jackson, Miss., last Friday, July 27, 2012. Prominent on the agenda was a discussion of the perplexing laws of the State of Mississippi regarding the practice of acupuncture - namely, that Mississippi is the only state in the country that requires written consent from a physician in order for a patient to receive acupuncture. The problem is that it is the patients who are being negatively affected by the current laws. Take, for instance, an elderly woman who is on chronic medication for incapacitating back pain or arthritis, who could benefit from acupuncture. If she asks her doctor about the possibility of being referred to an acupuncturist, the decision as to whether to allow her to receive the treatment rests solely with the doctor, regardless of the doctors level of knowledge about the procedure. This difficulty in obtaining a referral results in patients incurring higher medical bills than necessary and delays the commencement of what, for many people, could be a very effective course of treatment. Ive had situations where it took up to three months to get a doctors referral, using up to seven different doctors, stated Clare Mallory, L.Ac., M.Ac., a licensed acupuncturist who was on the meeting agenda to speak on the topic and who had brought with her a stack of copies of refused referrals. It comes down to a patient care issue. When I get letters from doctors stating, I dont think this would help her, it seems like an emotional response because the doctors dont know enough about acupuncture. In order to be licensed as an acupuncturist, an individual is required to have a Masters Degree along with upwards of 3,000 hours of instruction, yet the Mississippi State Board of Medical Licensure, which is the governing body for licensed acupuncturists, still holds that doctors should have the ultimate authority over what should be a patients right. The State Medical Boards support for The Acupuncture Practice Act, which was signed into law in 2009, was contingent on the inclusion of this ridiculous clause. Acupuncturists, as well as their patients and supporters, advocated for an amendment to the current law during the most recent session of the state legislature but were thwarted by Sam Mims, chairman for the Public Health Committee on the House side,
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of skepticism. Ms. Freeman suggested that the Advisory Board write a letter that the Medical Board would then send to doctors across the state, advising them of the law. Another topic of discussion at the Advisory Board meeting was a recent meeting of the Mississippi State Board of Physical Therapy, which was attended by Debbie Moore, DC, L.Ac., and Jerusha De Groote Stephens, MSOM, L.Ac., President and Secretary, respectively, of the Mississippi Council of Advisors in Acupuncture, at which a decision was made to include dry needling into the scope of practice for physical therapists upon completion of a 50-hour course. The Advisory Boards concern revolves around the following issues: the small number of hours required in order to practice dry needling (even MDs have to study 200 hours to practice acupuncture); the term dry needling itself - which, by definition (according to the current law), is acupuncture; and the fact that no legal avenues have been pursued to implement such a practice. The Advisory Council is considering legal action on the matter. Jerusha Stephens commented, after the meeting, that for a practice [acupuncture] that everyone [the political committees opposing it] seems to think is something people arent interested in, its interesting that even physical therapists now are trying to include it in their scope of practice. Its a case in point that acupuncture is gaining in popularity as a valid form of complementary therapy. The Mississippi Oriental Medicine Association will be revisiting the referral clause of the Acupuncture Practice Act in 2013, when the Practice Act is up for review - which means it wont be able to be swept under the rug again this time around. If you would like to aid the Mississippi Oriental Medicine Association in their efforts to move Mississippi more into the 21st century by removing this oppressive clause, please contact them at mississippiorientalmedicineassoc@yahoo. com.
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Dear Meagan, I am constantly trying to expose/talk to my children about the differences in all people. I want them to grow up to be as non-judgmental as possible and sympathetic to many. With that said, we live in a very sheltered area. My kids are not exposed to people with different skin colors, religions, points of view, etc., very often. What are some ideas that you might have on ways to incorporate tolerance and acceptance in young people? What lessons do you think are most important? Sincerely, Caring parent Dear Caring Parent, It all starts with you. When you are around people who are different, how accepting are you, and what do you say around your children during those moments? When you are watching a TV show together or traveling, how do you deal with cultural differences, and what might your children be learning from your own actions? I wanted to start off by saying that because children are sponges - especially around their parents, as their parents approval is vitally important to them. Children learn from you as parents what is right (to you) and what is wrong (to you), so it is important that you first look at yourself and determine if the messages you are sending about people who are different than you are, in fact, tolerant and accepting. Beyond being aware of what you are saying and how you are acting around your children, it is important to expose them to as much as possible. Go to a different church on a Sunday, eat at new restaurants, travel more to areas that are not like your own and have conversations about different people on TV. Or you could even talk about a new culture/new religion/ new part of the world each week or month. Have your children help you do research about a topic you choose, and learn about them together. Make it exciting. You might consider traveling to places you have researched together. If you dont have the means to travel often, find places in your community (or close by) where you could go and give your children a taste of what they have learned. Life is an adventure, and the more your children know about all of our differences, the easier it will be for them to adjust when they get out on their own. Try and refrain from saying anything negative about other cultures or ways of life. Its important that you allow your children to acknowledge how they feel about their own experience before you share your opinion. Value their perspective, and make sure you tell them that how they feel about things is okay. One of the most important things that are passed on to our children is the message you give them about who you want them to be. I have seen numerous parents and children who struggle with this very concept. I always ask parents: Are your children who you wanted them to be? Even with the best of intentions, I often find that parents put a lot of pressure on their children to be something they are not. Accept your children for who they are, and help them develop into who they want to be you can do this by valuing their thoughts on life and what they think about differences in the world. There are a lot of lessons in life that are important to share with our children. The most important, in my opinion, are to teach them to feel good about who they are, to be compassionate and loving towards others (you can do this by giving them a lot of information as illustrated above), and to show them how to trust life (integrating some sort of spiritual practice into your daily routine would be key meditation, yoga, prayer, or simply talking about what you are grateful for at the dinner table). These are lessons that we learn on many different levels as we grow, and its important for the success of your own childs perceived self-worth that a strong foundation be built around these concepts. After that, it is up to your child to be who they want to be through their own tough choices, hard moments and decisions about their future. The toughest job for you will be to let them go be exactly whoever that is.
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Have you ever found yourself people watching? That is, simply sitting or being in a public place, just observing the actions and behaviors of others? Have you ever found yourself people watching at the Columbus Riverwalk? Maybe you sat on a bench watching the runners swiftly pass by, or perhaps you were walking as smiling folks jogged past you with ease. Did you say to yourself, I wish I could do that, or they must be crazy, or both? If youve ever felt envious of others jogging by but have never done anything about it and now you want to, then keep reading. Heres an opportunity to take charge and take over your own life (and your own fitness, for that matter). Its time to set your own goals. You too, can be a runner, no matter how fast or slow you are. Its just a matter of form, technique, posture, efficiency and the desire to run. In fact, one of my favorite sayings is, I may be slow, but Im still running circles around everyone on the couch! Stop saying, running hurts my knees, runnings too hard, its too hot outside or one of a million other excuses, and learn how to run properly. Join those Riverwalk Runners that youve watched, and become one of them! Were too good as a society at creating excuses why we cant do things, so heres something that we can come together to do. On September 8, 2012, the Streetcar 5K running event will take place in downtown Columbus. Its sponsored by the Tennessee Williams Tribute and the Golden Triangle Run- up! Its your turn now. Who knows register for the Streetcar 5K at www. ning and Cycling Club. The best news - maybe itll be you being envied by runcyclegtr.org. Race entry is $15, is, its also for beginners! This race someone else as you jog swiftly, with and Live For It Alls 5 Weeks to 5k will be chock full of first time 5K run- a smile, down the Columbus RiverRunning Clinic is $45 (includes race ners (and walkers) as well as experiwalk entry). enced 5K-ers. What better place to You can find more details and start your running transformation than right here in your hometown SPONSORED BY: GOLDEN TRIANGLE RUNNING & CYCLING CLUB & THE TENNESSEE WILLIAMS TRIBUTE with your friends and family? Although there can only be one race winner, that should not stop you from becoming a finisher! In order to help as many folks feel confident and become finishers, there will be a community training program, Live For It Alls 5 Weeks to 5K Running Clinic, beginning Thursday, August 16 at 6 p.m. Join in for four weekly group lessons that will help you become a runner - from the bare-bones basics to feeling confident and at ease with your stride. Each lesson builds upon the previous one, beginning with the foundation of running: your form and posture. Next, add on your lean, foot placement, arm swing, efficiency, cadence, breathing, core strength, and everyones favorite: hills! Youll learn to become more aware of your body, how it moves, and how its supposed to move and feel like while running. Your fifth lesson will be the actual 5K race. If you have a desire, you can make it happen. Its time for the excuses to stop and the action to start. For moral support and motivation, grab a friend, a coworker, your spouse, your child or even a stranger, and get signed
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Within a marriage, a man and a womans nancial circumstances are generally pretty much equal. But if a divorce occurs, the womans situation tends to be somewhat more challenging than that of her exspouse. And thats why, during this major life transition, you may want to meet with a professional nancial advisor to go over your spending needs and your cash ow, so that you know what you absolutely need today - and how you can plan for tomorrow. But before we get into some possible steps you can take, lets look at some of the reasons that women may fare worse than men, nancially speaking, following a divorce: Lower income - The average womans family income drops by 37% a er divorce, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. And, in many cases, divorce exacerbates a situation in which women are already trailing men in earnings. In fact, women still only earn 77 cents for each dollar earned by men, according to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics. Smaller retirement accounts - The average balance on womens de ned contribution plans (such as 401(k) plans) is only 60 percent of mens average balances, according to LIMRA, a financial services research organization. Of course, averages are just that - averages. But whether you recognize yourself in the above numbers or not, consider these suggestions: Create an emergency fund. Try to put six months to a years worth of living expenses in a liquid account. Once youve established this emergency fund, you wont have to dip into long-term investments to pay for unexpected costs such as an expensive car repair, a new furnace or a large medical bill. Contribute as much as you can a ord to your retirement ac-
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counts. Even if you will eventually receive some of your ex-spouses retirement funds, you need to take full advantage of your own savings opportunities because its pretty hard to save too much for retirement. If money is tight, it wont always be easy, but contribute as much as you can to your 401(k) or similar employer-sponsored retirement plan. At a minimum, put in enough to earn the employers match, if one is o ered. Rebalance your investment portfolio. If you are now investing for yourself, youll want to take a close look at your asset mix to make sure it is appropriate for your situation. For example, your risk tolerance may be quite di erent than that of your ex-spouses, so if you now have total control over an investment portfolio, you need to make sure it re ects your needs and preferences. Consequently, you may need to rebalance your holdings.
Above all, get some help. As mentioned above, now is a good time to meet with a nancial advisor. And if you dont have much experience in managing your nances, you may even nd it helpful to work with a trust company, which can collaborate with your nancial provider to manage your assets and can also provide a variety of other functions, including bill payment and recordkeeping. A trust companys services can prove especially valuable to you and your family should you ever become incapacitated. Unfortunately, a divorce may leave you feeling at sea in many areas of your life. But by following the above suggestions, you can at least help keep your nancial ship in calmer waters. is article was written for use by your local Edward Jones Financial Advisor.
applicants will need a conditional release from their commander. The process can take anywhere from one to four months, and applicants may be required to retake their physical and ASVAB tests. All applicants will ll out a base-of-preference worksheet for assignment, and pay grade will be determined by current Air Force Instruction. This is a win-win program; many service members get out to pursue another passion and realize how much they miss the Air Force, said Hite. The Air Force wins with the members experience being returned to active duty and, in most cases, can send an airman right to a gaining unit. Please contact Technical Sergeant Hite at 662-241-5811, as additional quali cations for the program may apply.
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where around 6,000 state buildings, so we had to make a decision about what would be the area of focus. We will work across the state to help these schools develop the retro t strategy. We wont be funding actual construction projects. We will look at the building inventory, the age of the buildings, what renovations or retrots have already been done and what is the status of the building. From this information, we can help put together plans on how to move forward. e hope is that the developed strategy will trigger other state agencies and local governments to
follow suit with similar plans. e tactics will be e ective in accomplishing considerable cost savings to the taxpayer through lowered utility costs. e Mississippi Development Authoritys Energy and Natural Resources Division partnered with Institutions of Higher Learning and e Mississippi Department of Finance and Administrations Bureau of Building, Grounds, and Real Property Management in applying for the competitive State Energy program grant award on behalf of the State of Mississippi.
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The Columbus Lowndes Development LINK has hired Ron Maloney as the new vice president of economic development for Clay County. Maloney comes to the LINK from Sarasota, Fla., where he served as proprietor and CEO of Dynamic Impact Consulting. He brings more than 13 years of experience in business recruitment and expansion, program and project management, and tactical execution to the LINK team. Prior to founding Dynamic Impact Consulting, Maloney served as vice president of global marketing and coordinator of the Southwest Regional Export Network with the Pittsburgh Regional Alliance in Pittsburgh, PA. In his role at the LINK, Maloney will bring his extensive expertise both to growing existing businesses and to recruiting new businesses in the Clay County area.
Were ready to have someone selling West Point full time, said Robbie Robinson, LINK executive Committee Member and former chancery clerk of West Point. We think Ron is the man for the job.
Workshops For Prospective Bed And Breakfast Inn Owners Aim To Create Jobs And Increase Tourism Offerings And Tax Revenues
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The Mississippi Development Authority, in collaboration with the Bed and Breakfast Association of Mississippi, the Mississippi Department of Archives and History, and the Mississippi Heritage Trust, will host the 2012 Mississippi Bed & Breakfast Workshop Series in August and September 2012. The six workshops will be held in locations throughout the state to educate Mississippians on the opportunities and resources available for those starting a bed-and-breakfast inn. Our goal is to create more jobs in our state by educating Mississippians and local government officials about the benefits of bed-andbreakfast inns in the community, said Ron Fry, president of BBAM. These workshops will give attendees the knowledge and tools necessary to open or invest in their own bed-andbreakfast inn. Each event will begin at 8:30 a.m. and conclude at 3:30 p.m. The dates and locations are as follows: August 21 Columbus: Pope Banquet Room, Mississippi University for Women Campus (Registration deadline August 15). August 22 Clarksdale: Hopson Plantation (Registration deadline August 16). August 23 Jackson: Fairview Inn (Registration deadline August 17). September 5 Natchez: Monmouth Plantation (Registration deadline August 29). September 6 Hattiesburg: Cultural Center (Registration deadline August 30). September 7 Gulfport: Oak Crest Mansion (Registration deadline August 31). Attendees will learn about developing a business plan, identifying potential properties and existing facilities suited for bed-and-breakfast inns, zoning requirements, available tax credits for historic properties, marketing and operations, and a checklist of steps necessary to open an inn. The workshops are also designed to inform local officials
Our goal is to create more jobs in our state by educating Mississippians and local government officials about the benefits of bedand-breakfast inns in the community.
of potential obstacles related to the establishment of bed-and-breakfast inns that might need to be overcome, and the benefits of providing zoning that encourages historic preservation and the development of bed-andbreakfast inns. We hope to attract not only
Mississippians interested in starting their own bed-and-breakfast inns, but also mayors, city council members, Main Street Association representatives, and tourism boards and staff to these informative events, said Joy Foy, director of MDAs Asset Development Division. Many communities have the potential to add lodging options that create jobs, generate tax revenues, attract additional visitors, preserve historic landmarks and contribute to community revitalization with the establishment of bed-andbreakfast inns in their areas, and this workshop series will provide valuable information to both prospective owners and investors and local leaders interested in building their local economies. The cost to attend the workshops is $25, which covers materials and lunch. For more information, contact Maybelle Beasley at (601) 956-0084 or Peter Sharp at (601) 9511000, or visit www.missbab.com. To register, visit http://mississippi.cvent. com/BedandBreakfastWorkshop2012.
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been studied and examined more than any other book in human history - definitely is not a product of insane men. Its unity, fulfilled prophecy, historical accuracy and scientific foreknowledge testify to an intelligent source. Thus, the Bible was written either by the honest or the dishonest. Logically, no other choices exist. Moses either lied or was truthful when he recorded: AndGod spoke all these words, saying: I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. You shall have no other gods before me (Exodus 20:1-3). Moses claimed such inspiration literally hundreds of times. Was he a liar, or did he tell the truth? In the New Testament, Peter wrote that prophecy never came by the will of man, butholy men of God spoke as they were moved by the Holy Spirit (2 Peter 1:21). Did Peter tell the truth, or was he lying? This same question can be asked of all the writers of the Bible who claimed inspiration. To say that
Can We Trust the Bible? If Its Just a Good Book, Then Its Not Gods Book
the Bible is simply a great book written by good men makes liars of the biblical writers who repeatedly claimed that God was the ultimate source of their documents (cf. 2 Samuel 23:2; Acts 1:16). The Bible is either a product of God or a product of liars. There are no other options. If these men were liars, then they insanely pronounced their own destruction, for they claimed that lying was wrong and that all impenitent liars would burn in hell (cf. Exodus 20:16; Colossians 3:9; Revelation 21:8). If these men were liars, it leaves as inexplicable the mystery of why modern man, with all his accumulated learning, has not been able to produce a comparable book to make the Bible obsolete. Finally, if these men were compulsive liars who filled an alleged historical work with thousands of lies, pray tell, why do so many unbelievers still call it a great book? Non-Christians who profess an admiration for the Bible should consider the foolishness of their position (www.apologetics-
press.org 12/1/2007). Friends, it is the desire of the members of the churches of Christ that we return to the guidance of this great book! It is the desire of God that we live a full and abundant life, not only in heaven but on this earth as well: The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly (John 10:10). If we are going to live such a life, we must follow the commands laid out for us from this book. May God bless! Eric Lyons, M.Min. Evangelist Micah Robertson Magnolia Church of Christ 161 Jess Lyons Rd Columbus, MS 39705 (662) 244-7115 (434) 429-5221 magnoliacofc@gmail.com Sunday Bible Study - 9:15 a.m. Worship- 10 a.m.
discipline. Buddhists meditate in order to understand and strengthen their commitment to these principles. The actual items of the Eightfold Path are: Right View; Right Intention; Right Speech; Right Action; Right Livelihood; Right Effort; Right Mindfulness; and Right Concentration. Buddhism today has a rich history of written scriptures from Buddha; these and other important teachings are known as the Dharma, while the community of people who practices Buddhism is known as the Sangha. Indeed, the three pillars of Buddhism are Buddha, Dharma and Sangha: Buddha refers to the fact that Buddhists look to the Buddha because of the wisdom and clarity of his teachings; the Dharma is what Buddhists study; and the Sangha is the community of believers that supports each other in Buddhism. In modern times, Buddhism is spreading from its original base in Asia to Europe and North America. The two major schools of Buddhism are Mahayana and Theravada, and there are sub-groupings within each. The Golden Triangle is fortunate to have some options for people who want to take part in Buddhist study and meditation to enhance Thrift & Consignment their spiritual life. 131 Gardner Blvd. Columbus More information is available by call(662) 549-9943 ing (662) 705-0290.
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Cavalier vs. Yankee The Importance Of Myth In The Makings Of The Civil War
By Ron Parlato
In a recent article on Southern mythmaking, James McPherson of the New York Review of Books discusses the issue of the regional identity of the South and the North Cavalier vs. Yankee. The Southern gentry believed that they were descended from the Normans and from the English aristocracy that continued the cavalier, chivalric and heroic tradition in the United States.They believed that Northerners, coming from peasant stock, were inferior, as were their social and economic models.This clash of cultures was an important factor contributing to the Civil War. While Southern bloodlines may not have followed the exact routes that early Southerners claimed, the importance of the belief in and propagationof this myth cannot be over-overestimated.As time went on, not only had the South consolidatedthe conviction thatits way of life was the higher expression of human society and its values, but the North also subscribed to it. The Puritan value of free labor, a concept which emerged out of the Enlightenment and found its way into the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution, has often been cited as one of the most important issues of the Civil War. This term did not refer to slavery per se but to the God-given right of Americans to benefit from the fruits of their toil the exercise of which was ennobling and spiritually enriching. The Southern plantation value of work without reward i.e., slavery - was its diametrical opposite. Slaves were unable to benefit from their own work, and plantation owners became dissolute and depraved because of their idleness. The Cavalier-Yankee myth was a key component of this distinction.The Southern aristocrats felt that the plantation life they created was of a higher order than that of the common Northern working man. It was a world of higher culture and distilled social graces, and the defense of that culture was certainly a factor in the War.McPherson notes: By 1860 the notion had taken hold in the South that Southern whites, at least those in the planter class, were descended from the English Cavaliers, who in turn were descended from the Norman barons of William the Conqueror, while Yankees were descended from the Puritan Roundheads, common people who traced their descent from the Anglo-Saxons, who were conquered by the Normans in the eleventh century. In this view, Southerners were a race distinguished, in its earliest history, for its warlike and fearless character, a race, in all time since, renowned for its gallantry, its chivalry, its honor, its gentleness, and its intellect. The Souths foremost writer on political economy, James B.D. DeBow (1820-1867), helped popularize the Norman-Cavalier thesis in his journal, DeBows Review. DeBow justified secession on the grounds of irreconcilable ethnic differences between Northern and Southern whites. The Cavaliers, Jacobites, and Huguenots who settled the South naturally hate, condemn, and despise the Puritans who settled the North, declared DeBow. The former are master races, the latter, a slave race, the descendants of the Saxon serfs (McPherson). These ideas percolated into the popular press. The Richmond Dispatch, with the largest circulation of any newspaper in the Confederacy, published frequent editorials during the Civil War, one of which (February 1863) is quoted here: One must note the incongruous and discordant elements out of which the framers of the Constitution sought to create a homogeneous people. The great wonder is not that the two sections have fallen asunder at last, but that they held together so long. The dissimilarity between moral constitutions, habits of thought, breeding and manners of the Cavalier and Roundhead must run in the blood for generations, and defy all the glue and cement of political unions (McPherson). By the time of the Civil War, this mythology was complete.It was not only a war about slavery, free labor and economic competition, but about culture.It made no difference whether or not the claims to a Normanblood lineage were valid.The point was that the South fought to defend this Cavalier honor. Another historian claims that not only did the South believe this myth, but so did the North: Whatexactly is it that shores up the[Souths] mythology? What is so appealing, and to whom, in the concept of the enduring uniqueness of Dixie? One answer to these questions emanates from the relations between the South and the North while the process of regional identity construction was at its most intense. Rapid urbanization and industrialization in the North created a need for a usable opposite as an antidote to the speed of change. Emerging mass society, ethnic and racial amalgamation, the consolidating state machinery menaced the individual. The South seemed to be a very attractive cure for all these ills.
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For the pragmatic North the grace of the romanticized Lost Causism of the South held a great deal of irresistible power. Even in the heyday of abolitionist crusades, Northern representations of Southern life tended to have an aura of charming mystery (Southern American Regional Sensibility versus the North, Krzysztof Kowalczyk-Twarowski CLC, 5.11). This conclusion was confirmed by Ernest Moyne: The strident materialism of the aggressive Yankee first aroused in Americans definite longings for some form of aristocracy. By the 1830s this need seemed to be filled by the legendary Southern planter with his large estates, his impressive style of life, his Cavalier ancestry, and his reputed indifference to money matters (University of Delaware Review, 1961). William Taylors book, Yankee and Cavalier, subtitled The Old South and American National Character, discussed the elements of Southern myth: These concepts were reflected in the literature of the time, which also helped form them: the Yankee is pictured as industrious, ascetic, mercenary and hypocritical, the Southerner as gay, generous, cultured, and also as weak and vacillating, the Gentleman who was a doomed Aristocrat. The plantation novels of the 1830s by William Wirt, James Kirk Paulding and others, helped build the myth of the Southern Gentleman (Kirkus Reviews 1961). In conclusion, the Cavalier myth, regardless of its origin, was a central feature of the antebellum South, and it must be thrown into the mix of causes and antecedents to that conflict.
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house on fire. This young lady is so talented, it would not be surprising to learn that she had been signed to a recording contract. Local banker Zach Thomas also got into the act, oering up a couple of really well-done tunes. Fans of spoken word were certainly rewarded for their attendance with two excellent performers: Jonathan David and Andrea Byrd. Both are extremely talented and demonstrated what an incredible amount of thought and creativity goes into composing each of their pieces. Not to be outdone, local comedian Roger Lewis regaled the crowd with his hilarious observations about human behavior and had the whole house howling with laughter. The Saint and The Priest closed out this magical evening with their take on two classics: You Cant Always Get What You Want and Knocking On Heavens Door. If you missed out on enjoying this fantastic array of talent, dont fret the next open mic night is scheduled for Friday, August 24, starting at 6:30 p.m. at Tampico Bay Restaurant (1515 College Street). For more information about these events, including signing up to perform, contact Random Acts of Culture (which coordinates these events) at info@randomactsofculture.biz, or by calling (662) 368-8181. In the meantime
You may not be aware of this fact, but the Golden Triangle is chock-full of really talented singer/songwriters, musicians, spoken word artists and poets. Nowhere was that more evident than at last Fridays (July 27) open mic night at Tampico Bay Restaurant. This FREE event, technically titled Words and Music: An Evening of Spoken Word and Songs and sponsored by The Real Story, Tampico Bay Restaurant and Caf Quartier Latin, was held before a packed house of appreciative culture lovers. The evening began with a fantastic performance by local favorites The Saint and The Priest, comprised of the duo of Real Story Publisher Joe St. John and local music legend Larry Priest. These two guys can always be counted on to rock the house. They are not only talented musicians, they also are incredible showmen. Alex Hinton, a regular at these monthly events, impressed the audience with his soulful renditions. Alex is so laid back, I dont think he realizes how good he is. The ever popular Shane Tubbs, who is as fine an actor as he is a musician, mixed it up between country and humorous ballads. Tubbs should seriously think about pursuing a career in Nashville, he is that good. Not only does he have a wonderful voice, he has a slightly self-deprecating stage presence that could really take him far. Marnie Gill, who took the stage along with her father, Larry Priest, wowed the house with her rich, incredible voice. Her rendition of Mustang Sally had the
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Posing As An Adult
Saying Goodbye To A One-Of-AKind Grandmother
By Emily Gather Smith
My 91-year-old grandmother passed away on Sunday, July 22, and if I wanted to talk about all my memories of her, Id need about a hundred pages, plus two. My grandparents lived half a mile down the street from me my whole life, so, needless to say, they both had a tremendous impact on my life. I was named after my grandmother; my middle name, prior to marriage, was Beryl. I really resented that name most of my life because it was different and people made fun of it. Barrel of monkeys? Barrel of pickles? And I would sigh and say, No, its a precious stone, which, when explaining it to middle-schoolers, makes you sound about as cool as Al Gore. Now I almost wish it was my first name. It grew on me, for its individuality and for the fact that I got to be named after such a spitfire of a woman. One of my earliest memories of her is driving back from Starkville around dusk. She had taken me to get my hair cut, which was one of our little activities. She also used to Ogilvie home perm my hair (as well as my sisters), but the less said about that, the better. Anyway, we were driving, and it was a little foggy. She said, Wouldnt it be awful if we just dropped off into nothing? I said, Ummwhat? She said, People disappear all the time; what if they just fall off into the fog? My 7-year-old self sat, unblinking, in the passenger seat, watching for secret portals and air pockets big enough to swallow a car. I couldnt sleep that night, and I asked my dad about dropping off into nothing. I told him Mamaw had told me this was a possibility, and he said, Only listen to about half of what your grandmother says. She also told me that not only did lipstick make you feel better about almost any bad situation, you should never go out of the house without it. To this day, I dont leave the house without it. I feel like being bare-lipped at Walmart might bring about Armageddon. She told me, as a child, when I spent the night, to wash my face, neck and hands when I took a bath. I dont know why the other body parts werent as important; I just thought this was one of those things adults knew that children didnt. She was hilarious, but she told me not too long ago that she really didnt have a sense of humor. I asked her what she meant, and she said she just didnt get many jokes or much humor. I found this to be even funnier than if she had told a joke because shes made me laugh to the point of crying on many occasions. One of the first times I brought my husband to her house, which was always about 93 degrees, she had actually turned on one of the window-unit air conditioners. She was convinced that it didnt work, telling my husband and me that it was just blowing cool wind. A different time, at a Sunday dinner, she said, I dont drink tea, and then five minutes later said, I love tea. We all started laughing, and she had no idea what was so funny. Im speaking at her funeral, and I feel honored to do so. Im blessed to have had such a special woman help guide me through life, and I will miss her terribly. I cant imagine never hearing her high-pitched laugh again or never getting another voicemail from her that starts, I wish that girl would stop talking, that girl being me, on my voicemail greeting. There will never be another person like her. Maybe I can be that kind of grandmother, the kind that youll never forget as long as you live. I sure hope so. She will be missed and will always remain in my heart. Farewell, Mamaw, and Ill see you, although hopefully not too soon.
Peaches and raspberries harmonize perfectly in this summer crisp from chef Bobby Flay. 1 lemon 1 1/3 cups all-purpose flour 1 teaspoon baking powder 3 tablespoons Demerara or brown sugar 1/2 cup granulated sugar 3 tablespoons granulated sugar 10 tablespoons unsalted butter, melted 6 ripe peaches, peeled and halved 1 pint raspberries 1/4 cup cornstarch 1/8 teaspoon salt Whipped cream or ice cream 1. From lemon, grate 1 tablespoon peel; squeeze 3 tablespoons juice. In large bowl, combine flour, baking powder, Demerara sugar, 3 tablespoons granulated sugar and lemon peel; blend in butter until small and large clumps form. Refrigerate 15 minutes. 2. Preheat oven to 375 F. 3. Cut peaches into 1/4-inch-thick slices. In bowl, toss peaches, berries, cornstarch, salt, lemon juice and 1/2 cup granulated sugar. Let stand 15 minutes. 4. In 2-quart ceramic baking dish, spread fruit. Top with crumbs. Bake 40 to 50 minutes or until filling is bubbling. Cool 30 minutes. Serve with whipped cream or ice cream. Serves 8. Each serving: About 365 calories, 15g total fat (9g saturated), 38mg cholesterol, 85mg sodium, 56g total carbs, 4g dietary fiber, 4g protein. For thousands of triple-tested recipes, visit our website at www.goodhousekeeping.com/recipefinder/. (c) 2012 Hearst Communications, Inc. All rights reserved
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DEAR PAWS CORNER: Ive been reading recent reports that some communities in the United States are trying to ban certain breeds of dogs, like pit bulls. I think this is a great idea, because pit bulls are so unpredictable and violent. Do you agree? -- Carol in Tacoma, Wash.
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becomes a dog owner, so that he or she can make the best choice of dog for the household. A pit bull or other type of guard or attack dog may not be ideal for a number of reasons beyond possible temperament: eyre big dogs; theyre powerful; they need lots of attention and training, no matter how nice they appear to be. Dog owners of all breeds DEAR CAROL: -- not just those considered dangerNope, I dont agree. ats ous -- need to know the speci c because completely banning speci c behavioral issues of their breed. ey dog breeds wont solve the problem of need to train their dog, and socialize dog bites and attacks. the dog with both other humans and Even dogs of breeds considother dogs. e best way to learn how ered benign can attack humans or to do this is to enroll in group trainother dogs -- poodles being the rst ing classes with a certi ed trainer, an that come to mind. But, you argue, investment that pays o all the way poodles arent violent! Well -- unfor- down the road. tunately, Ive met a few. e fact is, all Send your questions or combreeds of dog have the potential to ments to ask@pawscorner.com, or bite humans. Owners must be aware write to Paws Corner, c/o King Feaof and accept this possibility. tures Weekly Service, P.O. Box 536475, I try to educate pet owners Orlando, FL 32853-6475. For more pet about better ways to care for their care-related advice and information, pets. In the case of dog attacks, I feel visit www.pawscorner.com. that education of the owner is the (c) 2012 King Features Synd., Inc. strongest deterrent. at education should start before a person even
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e next time that you hear somebody say, You cant teach an old dog new tricks, you should smile inwardly and think to yourself, at is so wrong! Almost every dog, regardless of age, can bene t from obedience training; training older dogs simply requires more patience and repetition. Of course, just as it is easier to train a pre-teen human, so it is easier to train a puppy. Puppy classes provide the opportunity for getting your new family member started o on the right track. ese classes provide the experiences and opportunities for your puppy to develop interaction skills with other puppies and people, and in new environments. Puppy socialization has been found to be an important factor in determining the psychological health of adult dogs. Training classes provide dog owners the skills and knowledge for dealing with common, normal dog behaviors - starting with puppy behaviors such as housetraining and chewing. No matter what age you start training your dog, foundation training provides the basis for any activity, behavior or job you want your dog to do. Foundation training includes the basic commands, such as sit, stay, heel and come.
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Domestic Short Hair, male, brown tabby with white feet, about 5-6mths old, owner surrendered 7/6
Lab mix, 3 mths old, black and white, male, He was owner surrendered 6/15 with his sibling Spud. He loves to be cuddled.
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Domestic Short Hair, dark charcoal, male, about 5-6mths old, owner surrendered 7/9/12. He is a beautiful cat with an unusual color.
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Tee: Terrier/Chihuahua mix, male 2yrs old, white, owner surrendered 7/9. He is the son of Tido and he is a great little dog. He is a bit shy, but warms up fast.
Terrier/Chihuahua mix male, 10yrs old, black and tan, owner surrendered 7/5. He is a lovey lap dog that needs a mature home without small children.
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ARIES (March 21 to April 19) A strong social whirl brings a new round of good times to fun-loving Rams and Ewes. Cupid also is busy aiming arrows at single Lambs hoping for a heart-to-heart encounter. TAURUS (April 20 to May 20) A romantic incident could take a more serious turn if the Divine Bovine considers meeting Cupids challenge. Meanwhile, a professional opportunity is also about to turn up. GEMINI (May 21 to June 20) A bit of hardheaded realism could be just what the Twins need at this emotionally challenged time. Face the facts as they are, not as you want them to be. Good luck. CANCER (June 21 to July 22) Many opportunities open up. But you need to be aware of their actual pros and cons. Check them all out and make your choice from those that offer more of what you seek. LEO (July 23 to August 22) A more stable situation begins, allowing you to feel more secure about making important decisions. Meanwhile, be sure to meet your project deadline so you can move on to other things. VIRGO (August 23 to September 22) Congratulations. A new personal relationship thrives as you learn how to make room in your busy life for this wonderfully warm and exciting emotional experience. LIBRA (September 23 to October 22) A new contact opens some doors. Thats the good news. But theres a caution involved: Be sure you protect your rights to your work before showing it to anyone. SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21) A former colleague might seek to resume a working partnership. Ask yourself if you need it. If yes, get more information. If no, respectfully decline the request. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 to December 21) Good times dominate your aspect. So why not have a party to celebrate a loved ones success? And do invite that special person you want to know better. CAPRICORN (December 22 to January 19) The shy side of the Sea Goat soon gives way to your more assertive self. This should help you when it comes time to speak up for yourself and your achievements. AQUARIUS (January 20 to February 18) A new period of stability will help you deal with some recently reworked plans. Once you get your current task done, you can devote more time to personal matters. PISCES (February 19 to March 20) Things are finally much more stable these days, so you can restart the process of meeting your well-planned goals with fewer chances of interruption or delay. BORN THIS WEEK: You love being the brightest light wherever you are, and people love basking in your warmth and charm. (c) 2012 King Features Synd., Inc.
1. What Hall of Fame baseball player was offered the role of Tarzan in the movies? 2. Pep Comic Books had an action hero called The Shield. What was the real name of The Shield? 3. What was the secret identity of the very popular comic book hero Captain America? 4. What was the last album recorded together by the Beatles? (Hint: this was not the last album released.) 5. Ann Darrow was King Kongs femme fatale in the famous 1933 movie. Who played Ann Darrow? Answers on Page 25
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on the field, even with their player and coaching losses and the ire they will draw from the media and opposing fans. With their superstar quarterback in the fold, the Saints have some semblance of normalcy as they get ready for an expected tumultuous season. They have obvious things to overcome, such as lack of leadership and overall game planning, but if there is one player who can steer the Saints through this adversity, its Drew Brees. Do you think Brees can steer the Saints through this adversity?
Trivia Answers 1. Lou Gehrig in 1938. 2. Joe Higgins. 3. Steve Rogers. 4. Abbey Road. 5. Fay Wray
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by Jerry Sandusky or the fact that JoPa and the Penn State upper elite knew Sandusky was committing the acts? It is a delicate answer that should have elements of each concern. But the greater focus must be on the atrocities of Sandusky and the horror of his actions. The monster is Sandusky. After reviewing the facts, the myth of Joe Paterno is dead. His statue has been removed, dozens of victories have been voided and his legend has been buried deeper than the pits of hell. Only his family and a From The Real Story Blog, Sometimes few misguided supporters have been the Game Must Stop- -November 10, lining up to sing his praises. The rest 2011 of the world understands the sham. Paterno losing 111 wins will never
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on the field, even with their player and coaching losses and the ire they will draw from the media and opposing fans. With their superstar quarterback in the fold, the Saints have some semblance of normalcy as they get ready for an expected tumultuous season. They have obvious things to overcome, such as lack of leadership and overall game planning, but if there is one player who can steer the Saints through this adversity, its Drew Brees. Do you think Brees can steer the Saints through this adversity?
Trivia Answers 1. Lou Gehrig in 1938. 2. Joe Higgins. 3. Steve Rogers. 4. Abbey Road. 5. Fay Wray
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by Jerry Sandusky or the fact that JoPa and the Penn State upper elite knew Sandusky was committing the acts? It is a delicate answer that should have elements of each concern. But the greater focus must be on the atrocities of Sandusky and the horror of his actions. The monster is Sandusky. After reviewing the facts, the myth of Joe Paterno is dead. His statue has been removed, dozens of victories have been voided and his legend has been buried deeper than the pits of hell. Only his family and a From The Real Story Blog, Sometimes few misguided supporters have been the Game Must Stop- -November 10, lining up to sing his praises. The rest 2011 of the world understands the sham. Paterno losing 111 wins will never
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