THE 10 GOLDEN RULES TO MAKE YOU A BETTER PERSON D.GANESAN 1. LOOSE EGO 2. MAKE PLANS 3. ALWAYS REVIEW 4.

WRITE A LOT 5. CONSULT WHEN NEEDED 6. UNDERSTAND YOUR RESPONSIBILITY 7. ANTICIPATE END RESULT, THINK A WHILE AND UTTER THE WORDS 8. GETUP EARLY 9. LET YOUR THOUGHTS, ACTIONS AND DEEDS BE GOOD 10. CREATE AN EXCLUSIVE SLOGAN FOR YOU , BY-HEART AND REMIND IT OFTEN Whether we like or not the activity called Life progress through the wheels of Time. Living a life is a necessary norm. But how do we lead this life is the matter of concern. There is a constant urge in most of us to be a better person in the journey called life. Here are some 10 Golden Rules which will make you a better person, and make you align with the ?Real You? and discard the? False You? in you and speed up your evolution for a better, better and a better Human Being. I wrote this write-up not for the sake of others, but to better myself. Hopefully this will help my fellow human beings: 1 LOOSE EGO Ego is the first culprit to suck and swallow a person's character. Oh! So much of hypocrisy in life. Relationship between Husband and Wife is such a wonderful. Where is the room for ego between them? But there is so much so misunderstanding simply because of Ego. Anger, Fear, Quarrels and all the like are due to Ego only. Be the First to Smile, Be the First to Laugh, Be the First to Congratulate, Be the First to Stretch a Helping Hand, Be the First to Stretch a Friendship Hand, Be the First to accept your mistakes and so on. Melt your Ego and Loose your False Pride. When Ego loses Love Gains. You will automatically love everyone. It is worth loosing Ego and Living. EGO, EGO, EGO Please, GO Away, GO Away, GO Away Remove EGO and the first Golden gate for a Prosperous Life will open 2 MAKE PLANS Atleast some planning is essential for a progressive living. A life without planning is like a ship

sailing without direction in a mid sea. A life without planning is like a house built with sand on the sea shore and will be on the verge of collapse. It is enough even if you attempt to plan. Plan your Time, Plan your Future, Plan your Expenditure, Plan Your Work etc. Thousands of necessary details of life need planning. Try atleast few Tens. PLAN PLAN PLAN To be a Succesful MAN MAN MAN Plan your activities and the second Golden gate for a Prosperous Life will open. 3 ALWAYS REVIEW Man is the only being gifted with the faculty to review the past in detail. How many of us make use of it. Review your Past. It is not a Mistake to commit a Mistake. But it is the Greatest Mistake failing to Learn the Lessons from your Mistakes. Life will keep teaching you lessons until to learn. Review your Past weeks, Months, Years and Decades. Review your Past Otherwise You will be Lost Review your past and the Third Golden gate for a Prosperous Life will open. 4 WRITE A LOT Writing brings out the real personality in you. Writing makes you perfect. Writing puts you on the ladders of progress. What ever you like; Your feelings, Activities, Deficiencies, Plans, Budgets, Income and Expenditure put them into writing. Writing basically reforms a person. It reforms you Byte by Byte, to Giga Bytes and Tetra Bytes. Write a Lot; Write a Lot You will wonder How Great You Are. Write a Lot and the Fourth Golden gate for a prosperous Life will open. 5 CONSULT WHEN NEEDED It is difficult to progress if you perpetually hide your feelings and Thoughts. Nobody is genius in all fields. Consulting the appropriate persons on doubtful and lacking areas. Consulting puts you on the pedestal of success. Don't leave something as petty and end on a disaster for want of proper advise. Be careful to choose genuine advisors. Beware that Castles have crumbled due to improper advises. Consult for all your Problems Otherwise You will be in Doldrums. Consult for any and all your problems and the Fifth Golden gate for a prosperous Life will open. 6 UNDERSTAND YOUR RESPONSIBILITY We are responsible for what we are now and responsible for what we will be. Keep on blaming

others for our failures may not be a good affair. Responsibility is needed in Family, Job, Friendship, Society, Speech, Action and so on. We need to be responsible in thousands of areas. Be Responsible OR Later You will feel Miserable. Understand your Responsibility and the Sixth Golden gate for a prosperous Life will open. 7 Anticipate End Result, Think a while and Utter the Words Words can Make or Mar. Many relationships have come to permanent end due to wrong utterances of words. Words are more powerful than swords. Think a while on the End result of our words. Many of us utter unnecessary words just for the sake of speaking. Few words are just sufficient to drive a point rather than hundreds of nonsense talks. Talking with Kids and Ladies need special care as you may have to go to their level of understanding while putting your words. What's the use if the end result is negative or zero after you argue. Better to shut up, speak only the necessary and win the other persons heart. Anticipate Result, Think and Finally Talk, if need be. Otherwise the results will be Topsy-turvy. Understand what it means to think about End Result and think and then Speak; the Seventh Golden gate for a Prosperous Life will open. 8 GETUP EARLY Getting up early in the morning will also wakeup all your faculties in you. Tranquil early morning posses great powers which will enable you to make a great person. Your Body, Mind and all faculties are very sharp in the early morning. Capitalize the tranquil early morning. Getup Early, Getup Early my Boy, You will Come up Early, Come Up Early in Life. Getup Early and start your day and the Eighth Golden gate for a Prosperous Life will open. 9 LET YOUR THOUGHTS, ACTIONS AND DEEDS BE GOOD If Thoughts and Actions are good the end result must be excellent, if not today atleast definitely one another day. If Love, Truth and Spirituality exist in your thoughts you can assume that you have won this entire universe. You need no one to certify you. You are above all. Think Good and Act Good Results will definitely be Good If not today definitely another day Always Strive for Good Thoughts, Deeds and Actions and The Ninth Golden gate for a prosperous Life will open.

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CREATE A SLOGAN, BY-HEART AND REMIND IT OFTEN Life many times appears to be paradoxical. All of us know this. But we can not avoid this living. We should always attempt to progress. So Create or catch a Slogan for you, for you only, for your own self only. The slogan should kindle the ?Real You? in You and should wake up the sleeping Great Giant in You. It?s better if it is a Rhyming Phrase from the remembrance part of you. Your slogan may be obviously nonsense for others. You know it?s importance. It is necessary for you to progress. You know how great you are and you will be, if not today, certainly one another day. Create the slogan, Read it, remind it, Paste it, and Love it because it?s means a lot for you. "Write your slogan Here........" Create a slogan for you, byheart and remind it often. Success is sure. You are the one and the only you. You are a unique person in this entire Universe. Being Unique is great. The final Golden gate has already opened. You have achieved the REAL YOU. The above list is not exhaustive. Many more useful aspects also may be added to the above.

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