Basic Control of the male submissive

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Initially it was my intent to provide a basis or basic strategy if you will for
the new Female Dominant in controlling her male submissive. As I wrote the first
draft I found inherent problems with this method of writing for this topic.
Particularly because I sometimes forget that the lesser “male submissive” is also
reading this article. First, I should say “Bad Boy!” On the other hand I am a
believer that it does not hurt the submissive to understand how he is controlled.
In fact, this document is inconsequential to the male submissive, each Female
Dominant finds her own way as I have. We each find unique control
mechanisms and employ some, all or various forms and technique to control our
male submissive. In short much like our daily lives we are all very unique and
very different in how we wield the environment or male submissive. So, to both
the Female Dominant and male submissive I say that it is my sincerest desire and
hope that this document in some small way assists you in whichever path you
are to embark.

I have read various articles on the topic and speaking from experience I
can say there is a certain truth to the notion ‘if he already wears panties or does
not object to the idea then your control over him will be much simplified.’ While
I do not find this sentiment 100% true, I do believe it is true 85 to 90% of the time.
This can be helpful and as a favorite of mine I require a male slave to wear
panties at all times, discarding any male threads. This is particularly helpful in the
aspect of constant reminder of what his place is and who controls him. While
there are a few males already wearing panties I assure you it is much different
when his Female Dominant commands him to. This is particularly true if you
expect him to wear certain pairs or styles on any given day. Depending on the
circumstances you might require him to wear stockings and garters under his
clothes. The combined feeling on his flesh and the rubbing of the two fabrics on
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his privates truly antagonize many of slaves and effectively keeps his mind on his
Female Dominant.

The previous two examples of undergarments are but a basic building

block in the control of your male submissive. They are easy to employ and have
full effect when in the vanilla role thereby demanding awareness for the male
slave. Another favorite is to require that he paint his toenails. Again this is non-
intrusive to the vanilla world but very intrusive to his male ego. First, he will
undoubtedly never show his bare feet in vanilla, and in private or in parties, etc
they will be a flashy accent to his status. While on the topic of body
modification such as it is with nail polish another thing I like to require of my
slaves is to wax ether at a parlor or in private with a do it yourself kit. Regardless,
I like my male submissive is to feel the pain and pleasure of waxing and cleaning
himself so that the sheer stockings I require him to wear have the utmost effect.
You might want to require your boy to shave under his arms, perhaps private
parts, the chest, etc as you deem appropriate. I myself like my male submissive
shaved clean except for the normally expected hair on his head.

To nearly all those in public there will be nothing about your male
submissive that gives away that he is just that – submissive. This is good for some
and bad for others – how you deal with it depends on your circumstances. In
my case I have found it particularly detrimental to my male slaves career if I go
overboard particularly with anything that overly projects his lifestyle for all to see.
While it does give me great pleasure it also diminishes what he is able to
contribute on the monetary side. Yes, tribute is another mechanism but a topic
for later discussion.

I know it might not seem like much, but I have found this a great place to
start in the Domination of the male submissive. Right now what you are wanting
is attention, not just in your presence but all day and all night long. To that end,

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it might be a good idea to require your male submissive to change into more
appropriate attire when he arrives home. Perhaps, strip naked down to his
panties and give him a sexy camisole to wear around the house. After all, he is
there to please and amuse you – he might as well look as ridiculous as you
already know him to be. At bedtime, I require my male submissive to change
into a chemise or nightgown.

With this daily routine, I am able to affect my male submissive

consciousness with the constant awareness of my Dominance and his
submissiveness to me. Other ritualistic behavior is encouraged and often
favored however, I feel this provides a basic building block to controlling your
male submissive. Why do this? Simply to bring focus to his mind and sub-
consciousness without which your control over him might be loose at best.

Happy Dominating!

Goddess Celest
http://www.goddesslink.org

Copyright 2005 by Goddesslink.org

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