Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Dimensions of
Marriage
Marriage as a Contract
• Accdg. to the Family Code of Philippines
“ A special contract of permanent union between man and
woman entered into in accordance with law for the
establishment of conjugal and family life.
It is the foundation of the family and an inviolable social
institution whose nature, consequences and incidents are
governed by law and not subject to stipulation by the spouses.”
• A special one
a. Permanent union
- independent of the freewill of man
- a point of no return
b. Exclusive for man and woman vs. same sex marriages
• The necessity of marital consent
a. Indispensable and irrevocable
b. Needs maturity
Obstacles rendering the persons incapable of free consent
Forgiveness
• not condoning the spouse’s wrong doing, ignoring, burying
it in memory
but
opening one’s heart and
extending one’s hand to the beloved
bringing back that trust and
giving the person the chance to enter once again into his/her
life
(CCC 1642).
Marriage as a Celebration
• Getting married in the Church is not a matter of choice, but a
requirement for it to be valid.
• Sacramental marriage is a liturgical act – must be celebrated in
the public liturgy of the Church.
• It is a public declaration of their love-commitment before God
and the Christian community.
• Normally, it is celebrated within the mass – to emphasize the its
connection with the Paschal Mystery of Christ.
(sharing in Christ’s passion, death and resurrection; commitment
to each other as Christ shed His blood for the Church; being one
with each other in Christ’s Body and Blood)
• It does not end in wedding ceremony.
• Ways to renew their love covenant:
1. role of the Eucharist in their life
2. marital act
Both acts are union ALREADY in the present, but promising a
fuller unity NOT YET achieved.