You, Your Body, and Sex

HEALTH FOR GRADE 9S

Disclaimers & Boundaries

We are for our purposes focusing on heterosexuality - Questions about

LGBT sexuality? Please feel free to ask them, or find me outside of this time
for support and information.

We are using the CORRECT language in our discussions (please keep this in
mind for your questions and comments)

No judgment by us for you, or from you to others (Please speak in

HYPOTHETICALS NO asking personal questions)

This is Fight Club the first rule is

How do I Cope with emotional &

social growth? (W-9.3)
What

do healthy relationships look like?

How

do I know if Im ready for a serious

relationship?
Or

a physical (sexual) relationship?

Youre

probably not ready if

How do I Cope with physical & sexual

growth? (W-9.3)
Physical

& Sexual Growth

Puberty!
Are
Is

My Boobs Normal?

My Penis Normal?

Hygiene!
The

5 Ways You're Washing Your Bo

dy Wrong

Hormones

& How They Make You

Woman Power!
Hormones

and How They Make You

Crazy
Myths

About Women

Bloody

Good Period Hacks

Man Power!
All

Kinds of Things make YOU

crazy too!
Your
5

Brain vs Porn

Things Men Should Know About Th

eir Bodies

Answering Your Questions!

Is it healthy to

Why does sex hurt for the first time?

What happens when

Things are weird!

There are smells or noises!

Things get messy!

Surprises happen!

You dont often hear Sex is good!

Parents/ Teachers/ Trusted people might feel:

Afraid that you will be reckless

Worried that you will be physically or emotionally hurt

There are consequences that might last for your ENTIRE LIFE!

Sex is designed to feel good, but you MUST respect it!

Sex is powerful: You might make a PERSON!

Sex is something that you will want to be SMART and THOUGHTFUL about:

Not rushed, pressured, or impatient

Not regretful or hurt

Not sick with worry about who will find out or be judgmental about what you
chose

You dont often hear Sex is good!

Your

Body During Sex

Orgasm
Some

is not just for guys

people like things one way, others another

way
Cuddling
Activities
Time

before sex (Netflix and chill is lazy!)

and Privacy is important!

Pregnancy & Parenting:

Why Youre Going to Want To Wait
Pregnancy!
Condom

Ad

Condom

Ad

How

are babies made?

Conception
What

to Birth

Does it Mean to be a Dad?

(W-9.13)

Sex & Safety

(W-9.12)

How To Put On A Perfect Condom

Men Watch Childbirth For The First Time

Birth

Control Options:

Condoms
The

Pill

Many

Other Options!

Sex & Safety

(W-9.12)

STIs

STDs

Sexually Transmitted
Infections

Sexually Transmitted
Diseases

Syphilis
Chlamydia
Gonorrhea

Herpes
HIV/

AIDS

Syphilis
1. Going to get a sore
on your junk (area)
2. Swollen lymph
nodes
3. Rash shows up
4. Get sick (fever
sore throat, hair loss
(seriously)
5. Attacks your
nervous system
6. If UNTREATED:
heart problems,
mental disorders,
blindness, death

Chlamydia

Man Problems
Painful urination or itching
sensation with urination
(often the first symptom)
Cloudy urine
Watery or slimy discharge
from the penis
Crusting on the tip of the
penis
Tender anus or scrotum
Anal discharge

Lady Problems
Painful to pee
Cloudy pee
Vaginal discharge
Abnormal vaginal bleeding
Itchiness
Lower belly pain
Fever and Fatigue (tired)
Swollen & painful vagina
Pain during sex
Anal discharge

Gonorrhea

Man Problems

Lady Problems

Greenish yellow or whitish discharge from the penis

Burning in the throat (due to oral sex)

Burning when urinating

Painful or swollen testicles

Swollen glands in the throat (due to oral sex)

Greenish yellow or whitish discharge from the

vagina

Lower abdominal or pelvic pain

Burning when urinating

Conjunctivitis (red, itchy eyes)

Bleeding between periods

Spotting after intercourse

Swelling of the vulva (vulvitis)

Burning in the throat (due to oral sex)

Swollen glands in the throat (due to oral sex)

STDs - Incurable
Herpes
You will forever and always have or
be at risk to have outbreaks of sores
on your genitals. These are very
contagious, and can be spread via
skin to skin contact with an infected
person. Medication can help reduce,
but will not eliminate, outbreaks. You
will have this forever.

HIV Human Immunodeficiency Virus

AIDs - Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome
*You dont die from AIDs You get a cold, or pneumonia, or something, and
because you have no immune system to fight it off, something that shouldnt

Sexual Assault
What

if bears killed one in five peop

le?
She

is Someone

Sexual Assault

Sexual Assault Case Study:

2016 - The Stanford Rape Case

Brock Turner
Stanford 2016
Elite Swimming
Athlete

Sexual Assault (Definitely NOT Okay)

(W-

9.7)

Tea

Consent

*Language Warning (Preview & Use your discretion)

Consequences

of Sexual Assault

For

the Perpetrator

For

the Victim Stanford Girl

For

the Bystanders the Saviors

For

Society Judge Aaron Persky, Male Response

Risky Business Sex, Drugs, & Alcohol

(W-9.14)
No

means NO (Hard pass, not gonna happen, dont even

think about it)
Even

if shes drunk

Even

if YOURE drunk

Only

When Youve Got Consent

Avoid
The
Do

it
More The Merrier ie. Group Dates

You REALLY Need to be EXCLUSIVE??? (What is the purpose

of dating for YOU?)