The Inner Game of Success
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Four-time Olympian, bestselling author and award-winning keynote speaker Ruben Gonzalez shares what he had to do to make it to the Olympics and how following those success principles will help you realize your goals and dreams. Take control of your life with the success principles of a four-time Olympian.
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Ruben Gonzalez
Ruben Gonzalez is a four-time Olympian, a New York Times and USA Today bestselling author and an award-winning keynote speaker.At the age of 21, Ruben took up the sport of luge. Four years and a few broken bones later he was competing in the Calgary Olympics. At the age of 47 he was racing against 20-year-olds in the Vancouver Olympics, becoming the first person to ever compete in four Winter Olympics each in a different decade - 1988, 1992, 2002, 2010.He's spoken for hundreds of Fortune 500 companies about developing mental toughness, attitude, and the principles that lead to success in business and in life. TheLugeMan.com
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The Inner Game of Success - Ruben Gonzalez
"Chase your dream and make
your life an adventure."
-Ruben Gonzalez
Ruben Gonzalez
Salt Lake City Olympics 84 MPH
The Inner Game of Success
How to Condition Your
Mind to Win More in
Everything You Do
by Four-time Olympian
Ruben Gonzalez
Olympia Press
What other Top Achievers are Saying
about Ruben Gonzalez’ Work
Ruben Gonzalez achieved what few people ever do: mastery of his will. Motivating and inspiring!
Dr. Stephen Covey
Author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
Ruben speaks from both his head and his heart, and inspires ordinary people, convincing them they can do extraordinary things. He is persuasive, enthusiastic and very real. Invite him to present his ideas to your group and you will glad you did.
Zig Ziglar
Author of See You at the Top
I was there for the Miracle on Ice in Lake Placid in 1980 and, again, for the miracle on the mountain in Utah in 2002. No Olympian I have ever met has more of what makes a champion than Ruben Gonzalez. Read and internalize, and you will realize and materialize your own dreams!
Dr. Denis Waitley
Author of The Psychology of Winning
Ruben Gonzalez’ life confirms an age old truth; determination, faith and believing in your God given abilities are still some of the keys to personal success.
Wally Amos
Author of The Cookie Never Crumbles
If you will read listen to Ruben speak, your life will change for the positive.
Lou Holtz
Legendary Notre Dame Football Coach
Author of Winning Every Day
Ruben teaches us that once we transform our fear into energy we begin to transform our dreams into reality.
Gerhard Gschwandtner
Founder and Publisher, Selling Power Magazine
Ruben’s not only earned his spurs, but he’s for real. His thankful spirit and his humble attitude, makes him one of the most wonderful speakers, most genuine speakers I have heard in my life and I recommend him with all my heart to you.
Charlie Tremendous
Jones
Author of Life is Tremendous
Ruben Gonzalez’ exciting story of hard work, dedication and commitment – leading to success and achievement in the greatest competition in the world – is inspiring and uplifting in a wonderful way!
Brian Tracy
Author of Maximum Achievement
Practical advice that will energize and empower you to succeed. Ruben hits you with the absolute truth about what it takes to succeed in the real world.
Jim Rohn
America’s Foremost Business Philosopher
Inspirational! Ruben has a unique ability to motivate and challenge his audiences. His compelling story about triumph over adversity on the road to the Olympics provokes us all to set and reach lofty goals.
Jack Canfield
Author of The Success Principles
Ruben knows the steps to success. His enthusiasm and positive attitude are contagious!
Mark Victor Hansen
Co-creator of Chicken Soup for the Soul
Ruben is a testament to the power of the human spirit. His book is a passionate call to action, challenging you to be the best that you can be. Through his amazing Olympic story, Ruben will inspire you to pursue your dream, equip you to get through the struggle and encourage you on to victory.
Rudy Ruettiger
Inspiration for the blockbuster movie Rudy
Ruben’s message of determination, commitment and persistence struck home with our sales organization. His inspirational message proves he is a winner not only in the greatest sporting competition of all, but also in team motivation. He is living testament to the concept of
Never Quit!"
Jerry Farmer
VP North American Sales Xerox
Terrific! Ruben is a true Rhino! His crystal-clear vision of success cuts through all boundaries. Ruben challenges us to do more, be more, take more chances, and ultimately live life to the max.
Scott Alexander
Author of Rhinoceros Success
What Top Achievers are Saying
About Ruben’s Presentations
"Invite Ruben to speak
to your group
You’ll be glad you did."
- Zig Ziglar
"Ruben is a great speaker; funny,
quick-witted, and he has an
incredible story to boot."
- Dave Ramsey
"Ruben’s incredible story
inspires people to be their best."
- Howard Putnam
The Inner Game of Success
By Ruben Gonzalez
Copyright © MMXIV by Ruben Gonzalez
All rights reserved under International and Pan American copyright conventions. Written permission must be secured from the publisher to use or reproduce any part of this book, either in print or electronically, except for brief quotations in book reviews or news articles.
ISBN-10: 0975554743
ISBN-13: 978-0-9755547-4-6
ISBN: 978-0-9755547-8-4 (e book)
Olympia Press
832-689-8282
This Book Could Change Your Life.
(But only if you apply it’s information)
Following these five tips will help you turn the information in this book into habits that will change your life:
1. Read this book more than once. I’ve read both Think and Grow Rich and The Magic of Thinking Big every year for the last 20 years. The more times you read a book, the more you become like the book.
2. Underline and make notes. Make sure you have a pen and highlighter in hand. Underlining specific lines and paragraphs will triple your retention rate. Write your own thoughts in the margins and own this book.
3. Re-read your underlines. Re-read your key items over and over. Record and listen to your notes.
4. Apply the material immediately. Doing so will help you understand the material better. Don’t try to be perfect. Done is better than perfect.
5. Prioritize what you want to learn. Select one to three things from the book, apply them faithfully and make them a habit.
Note - I talk a lot about the importance of having a coach or mentor in this book. I’m not a professional coach. I’m a professional keynote speaker. But coaches and mentors have made a huge difference in my life and I believe everyone will benefit from them as well.
This book is dedicated to my
parents, who taught me the values
and principles that helped me
realize my dreams.
Contents
Part I – The Dream
You Were Created for Greatness
The Power of what You Say
It All Starts with Belief
How to Fuel Your Desire to Win
Use Your Strengths
Find Your Dream and Purpose
Part II – Taking Action
The Power of a Team
Acting in Spite of Your Fear
Fortune Favors the Brave
Get Started and Don’t Quit
How to Get Yourself to Take Action
No Guts No Glory
Take a Chance
Part III – Setting Goals and Planning Ahead
Successful People Set Goals
How to Set Goals Like a Champion
The First Step in Your Journey
Focus, You Won’t Succeed Without It
Feedback, the Breakfast of Champions
Measuring Your Progress
Game Plans for Success
Part IV – How to Become a Better Leader
Birds of a Feather
The Power of a Coach
Leadership and Chick-fil-A
How to Become a Better Leader
What Do You Stand For?
Developing Your Vision to Succeed
Walking Your Talk
Part V – Committing to Your Dream
The Power to Choose
You’re Only Six Inches Away
The Right way to Use Affirmations
Starting Your Day Like a Champion
Going from Wishful Thinking to Commitment
Decide You Will Get the Last Laugh
Commit to Excellence
The Power of Being Flexible
How to Hit Your Goals in Half the Time
Part VI – Overcoming Challenges on the Way to the Top
The Price of Success
Eliminating Your Obstacles
Bouncing Back Quickly to Win
Even Cancer Could not Stop Her
How to Eliminate Your Self-Limiting Beliefs
What’s Holding You Back?
How to Turn Defeat into Victory
Meeting Hard Times with a Harder Will
Taking Responsibility to Take Charge of Your Life
You are Closer to Success than You Think
How to Become Self-Motivated
Probabilities and Possibilities
Part VII - Becoming all That You Can Be as You Cross the Finish Line
A Technique Every Champion Uses
How to Benefit from Other People’s Success
How to Succeed when Conditions Change
Take Advantage of Opportunities
How to Run Your Brain for
Maximum Achievement
The Olympic Attitude…Whatever it Takes!
Your Choices Will Impact Many Generations
How to Make a Difference in Other People’s Lives
Success is Like Learning How to Ride a Bike
One Step at a Time
Dream. Struggle. Victory.
How to Use Success Principles to
Create a Better Life
Invest in Yourself
Use Your Gifts to Reach Your Dream
Outwork Your Competition
Associate with Winners
Make the Necessary Sacrifices
Ruben’s Rules for Success
The Champion’s Creed
About Ruben Gonzalez
Foreword by Lou Holtz
Ruben Gonzalez in an ordinary person who got to compete in four Olympic games in spite of always being the last kid picked to play sports in school and in spite of not taking up his Olympic sport - the luge, until he was 21 years old.
He did it by consistently and persistently following a set of success principles that will work for anyone, anywhere, anytime. He shares those principles in this book.
Ruben is an outstanding, accomplished and inspiring keynote speaker. His timeless message is applicable to anyone who is dedicated and committed to improving their performance and achieving their goals and dreams.
More than just a motivator, Ruben’s story is an inspiration to anyone who is going through struggles and has thought about quitting the pursuit of their dreams.
Ruben has written a book that you will love. In it, he shares the principles he used to realize his Olympic dream. I believe that as you read Ruben’s common sense ideas, you will think he’s right there, by your side, sharing his insights, pointing you up the right path. The Inner Game of Success is more than just a book; it’s a blueprint to success.
Ruben will help you identify your dream. Then, he’ll help you discover your strengths. Finally, he’ll be by your side as you use those strengths to realize your dreams. The Inner Game of Success does more than tell Ruben’s personal views on success. Ruben will get you to see that reaching your dream is possible, and then he’ll inspire you and equip you to take the necessary steps to realizing your dream.
After reading this book and applying its ideas, you’ll be committed to your dream and you’ll be walking like a champion.
The Inner Game of Success comes to life, because Ruben has written this book straight from his life experiences. An accomplished athlete and entrepreneur, Ruben pressed his way through the unfounded judgments of skeptics, broken bones, and zero sponsorship to become an Olympian…four times over. In four different decades! Ruben is candid and transparent about his difficulties and his successes in this book, and is just as candid and just as transparent about how his tenacious bulldog spirit transformed him into a winner.
There’s a champion in all of us. Whether you’re a struggling salesperson, an entrepreneur building a business, a student looking for better grades or a coach seeking to motivate your entire team to the state title, The Inner Game of Success will speak to you.
Read The Inner Game of Success. Read it carefully. Take it seriously. Follow through like Ruben. Do what Ruben says. Do what Ruben does.
If you do what I say and