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Mt. 19:3
MARRIAGE PREPARATION
Once the couple contacts St. Augustions about your wedding, the priest
will arrange a meeting with the couple. This will begin the marriage
preparation. The preparation includes the filling out of some forms, and
approximately 10 class sessions with our marriage preparation team.
The classes are scheduled individually with each couple.
TWO LITURIGAL OPTIONS FOR YOUR WEDDING
All Catholic weddings consist of several key parts.
1. Procession
2. Liturgy of the Word (Scripture readings)
3. Exchange of Vows
4. Exchange of Rings
5. Blessing of the couple
These key elements are situated within the context of a liturgical
celebration. This liturgical celebration with music and prayers can take
place in two distinct ways:
1. With the celebration of the Eucharist (Mass)
2. Without the Eucharist (Mass)
Both are valid Catholic celebrations. You will need to decide on have
your wedding with or without a Mass. The priest or deacon can help
you with this decision as well. The religious affiliation and sentiments
of your family and guests may be factors to consider in making this
decision.
If the Mass is to be celebrated, Catholics should make all necessary
preparations so that they may receive communion worthily, including,
if necessary, participation in the Sacrament of Reconciliation
(confession). Also, you may invite your Catholic family members or
friends to serve as Eucharistic Ministers, if they have been trained.
If you are having a wedding Mass, you will need altar servers. You
may provide your own, if they are trained, or you can notify the priest
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MUSIC
Great care should be given to the selection of music for your wedding.
The words and songs must reflect the spiritual nature of marriage and
be considered sacred or Christian music. Only Sacred or Christian
music is used in Catholic Weddings. Your reception is a wonderful
time to play non-sacred music that is special and meaningful to you.
If you choose to use the musicians from St. Augustines, they will help
you as best as they can with selecting music. It is customary and just
to offer a stipend to the musicians. A $75 stipend is standard and
should be given directly to the musicians. Please give the musicians 46 weeks notice.
PREPARING AND DECORATING THE CHURCH
As Catholics we love beautiful things and want you to have a beautiful
wedding. These are a few simple guidelines for you.
1. Feel free to make the church beautiful with flowers! You may
have as many flowers as you wish.
2. Please do not place any flowers on top of the altar. They may
be placed in front and along the side of the altar but not on top.
3. If there already decorations in the church because of a special
liturgical feast such as Christmas, please ask about changing the
decorations.
4. Please do not move the furnishings without the permission of
the priest.
5. Only silk or artificial petals are to be sprinkled down the center
aisle. This is because real flowers stain the carpet. Please
assign someone to pick up the petals after the wedding.
6. You may decorate the benches and the aisles.
7. The use of an arch or trellis is strongly discouraged. If used, it
may only be placed at the front entrance of the church.
THE REHEARSAL
The rehearsal usually takes place the day before the wedding. The
date and time will be set in consultation with the minister of your
wedding. Please try to have everyone present at the rehearsal who
is in the wedding.
PHOTOGRAPHY
Photographers and videographers are most welcome at your
wedding. The photographers need to ensure that they are not
obtrusive or interrupting the ceremony. During the liturgy, all
photographs must be taken from the side, and photographers may
not cross the sanctuary or altar platform.
AFTER THE WEDDING
The church needs to be returned to they was it was found after the
wedding. Please clean the brides room of any flower boxes,
papers, bags, the pews, etc. There is a small dumpster behind the
student center. You may leave flowers, if you wish.
No rice, birdseed or confetti may be used inside St. Augustines.
If they are used outside, please assign a person to sweep the stairs
and sidewalk.
WEDDING
RECEPTIONS
AS ST.
AUGUSTINES
St. Augustines
invites the
wedding couple
to use our social
hall for your
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