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Participants will leave the workshop questioning their basic assumptions about children,
parenting, and family. Specifically, they will be questioning the idea of Children need to be
controlled. They will also have a framework and specific tools for changing the way they
interact with children.
Agenda
Entry
As participants enter, have them sign in and give them pre-surveys to fill out.
Icebreaker
Purpose: Focus participants attention on the workshop.
Energy level: High
To start the workshop, facilitators gather everyone in a circle. People introduce themselves, then
play a quick energy-raising icebreaker (Peel Banana).
Ground Rules
Facilitators quickly establish the ground rules (each to be expanded upon later):
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Remember, you cannot share other peoples stories without explicit permission. Also, this is a
silent activity. If you need a statement repeated, raise your hand and well say it a second time.
Finally, dont ask us to explain statements: interpret them for yourself. Are there any questions
before we get started?
The statements are:
1.
You have ever been told, Youre too young to understand. () Thank
you, go back to middle.
2.
Older teenagers scare you. () Thank you, go back to middle.
3.
An adult has ever punished you for something you did not do. () Thank
you.
4.
An adult has ever spanked, slapped, or otherwise physically punished you.
() Thank you.
5.
You have ever been scared to disagree with an adult. () Thank you.
6.
An adult has ever scared you into silence by shouting. () Thank you.
7.
An adult you live with has ever made you feel unsafe. () Thank you.
8.
(Before we read this last statement, remember, you are allowed to lie.) An
adult you live with has ever emotionally, physically, or sexually abused you. () Stay
where you are. To the people who answered yes: Go back to the middle if you were
able to walk away from that situation. () Thank you, lets get back in a circle now.
An important part of this activity is the pause (), especially for the last statement. Even four
seconds of silence can create a powerful moment of reflection. For this reason, facilitators
should stress silence before the activity begins.
Second Discussion
Purpose: Articulate the ideas formed during Take The Stage.
Energy level: Medium-Low
Everyone gathers back into a circle, sitting. Going around the circle, everyone says one word to
describe how they feel; for example, interested or angry. Then facilitators ask, Whats on
your mind that you want to share? or Did any one statement really stand out to you? to start a
discussion. Facilitators should not talk much. Their role is to guide the conversation by posing
questions. Guide it in the following directions:
The wall-to-wall activity, by focusing on lived experience rather than statistics, should make
ageism immediate and personal.
End of Discussion: Respecting Children
Return to the whiteboard/easel. A pre-prepared poster is there.
1. Communicate, dont threaten. (Identify your problem, and explain it to them.)
2. Give them a choice. (Leave them a choice. This lets them know that you respect
them enough to make their own decisions, and that you trust them to make the right
ones.)
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Has your opinion of childhood and parenting changed? (1 = not at all; 10 = completely)
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How much did you enjoy the workshop? (1 = not at all; 10 = loved it)
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