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UNDRESS TO IMPRESS
How To Do It
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As you undress her, lightly kiss or caress each part of
her body as its revealed. Imagine youre unwrapping a
precious gift. Comment on how gorgeous her body is.
Stand back and admire it as its slowly revealed to you.
Admire her like a piece of art.
Keep your own clothes on for an added touch of
erotic control, or keep her standing there while you
undress for her.
How To Do It
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FINGER TIPS
How To Do It
With this motion you rub the G-spot on the roof of the
vagina as well as the sensitive areas to either side of the
nerve-rich outer third. Many women have hot-spots
further in that are also stimulated by this motion, and
then you reach into the cul-de-sac region below the
cervix, which many women love. As you screw, the heel
of your thumb can grind into her clitoris.
You can also get this motion going with your penis by
rotating your pelvis in a circular motion as you thrust.
How To Do It
Blindfold your partner, then lie her down. Cover her ears with
headphones and play music that you know turns her on. (If youre
not sure what will do the trick, try Ravels Bolro, Lambs sensuous
electronica or even a spot of high-energy trance.) Then go down
on her.
There are a million variations on this concept, limited only by
your imagination. Try feeding her while blindfolded, la Kim
Basinger and Mickey Rourke in 9 Weeks. There are five senses, so
experiment with different combinations to deprive and heighten
them in different ways.
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THRUST POWER
The ancient Taoists of China
took sex very seriously and
developed a whole range of
thrusting styles to enhance
sexual pleasure. In his book, The
Tao of Love and Sex, sexologist
Jolan Chang explains how
these techniques can also work
wonders for modern lovers.
How To Do It
Water Surprise
Routine is the mortal enemy
of sexual excitement.
Sometimes you should try to
mix things around and serve
up a brand-new thrill. Surprise
can be a great addition to
sex (if done well). Heres one
move that will prove totally
unexpected and can produce
a delicious sensation.
How To Do It
When shes in doggy position, stop and reach over
to have a sip of chilled sparkling water. Shell think
youre just having a drink, but keep the liquid in your
mouth. From your higher position you can dribble the
water onto her upper back and let it run down to pool
at her lower back. Take it further by lifting her up to
a kneeling position so the water runs further down
between her cheeks. Its a cold, wet surprise.
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Rear Entry
How To Do It Experienced
How To Do It Newbies
Caution; not all women will be into this type of sex, and even the most adventurous will need special care. Do your research.
Orgasm enhancer
How do you bring on and enhance a great
orgasm in your partner? Well, the best
advice, which Im sure youve all heard, is in
fact not to do any move at all but to keep
the pace constant. However, while youre
keeping things constant at the genital end,
there is more you can do elsewhere on her
body to help notch the orgasmic response
up a level or two.
How To Do It
You might feel disconnected or just want to roll over and go to sleep, but its important to most women that you cuddle, whisper sweet nothings
and spend at least a couple of minutes being all lovey-dovey before succumbing to sleep. Interestingly, researchers at the University of NSW found
that with casual sex, women were much less likely to feel used and therefore consider a sexual encounter non-consensual if the guy was nice to
them in the period immediately after sex. In longer-term relationships, the oxytocin released through post-coital cuddling is great for bonding and
for her ongoing interest and desire for more sex.
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