Caring in the Nursing Profession How do you know that somebody cares? Have you ever had a nurse that acted like he or she didnt care? How did this impact your hospital stay and how did it affect your healing? Everyone needs to be treated with respect and compassion. This is part of what caring is in the nursing profession. This paper will define what it means to be caring, give an example of how a caring nurse can influence your hospital stay, and compare and contrast the differences of caring from literature. The word caring is often used to describe what a nurse is. Caring means that you are empathetic and concerned for your patients well-being. You follow through with your commitments and promises, and you never leave the patient hanging. If a nurse is caring, they go the extra mile to make sure their patient receives excellent care. Most individuals choose nursing as a profession because of their desire to care for other individuals (Vance, 2003). According to Taylor, Patients quickly sense whether they are merely a task to be performed, or a person of worth, who is both cared about and cared for (Taylor, Lillis, LeMone & Lynn, 2011, p. 450-451). Being caring goes far beyond your actions; it also includes the way you communicate with each patient. If you are guarded, rude, or impatient do you think that your patient will trust you and think that you have their best interest in mind? If a nurse is caring, he or she will use effective communication and thoroughly discuss each patients plan of care and treatment options. I work as a Certified Nursing Assistant on the Medical Oncology unit at the Dixie Regional Medical Center hospital in St. George, Utah. One nurse stood out to me as she showed a patient that she truly cared. It was a busy day as I remember, and we both had busy patient groups. Our patient was in room 323 and was awaiting a conformation of cancer following some tests that were done a few days earlier. There were many family members in and out of the room CARING IN THE NURSING PROFESSION 3
and you could tell that they were anxious. The nurse communicated with the doctor periodically throughout the day. He was being held up somewhere and asked that she go into the patients room and explain that the diagnosis of cancer had been confirmed. She struggled for an hour or two of how she might go in and present this devastating information to the patient and their family. After a while she pulled me aside and asked if I would come in with her. We went into the room together and closed the door behind us. The nurse explained that the doctor had asked her to come in and talk with them about the test results and what they had found. She continued to proceed, and so compassionately said, that the diagnosis of cancer was found to be positive and that she was incredibly sorry. As we all stood in the room together, there were many tears. We sat on the edge of the bed next to our sweet patient and gave her a hug. We hugged all the family members and then thought of something special that could be done. Since West 3, or the Medical Oncology unit is often where people find out they have a diagnosis of cancer, the staff members who work there decided that they wanted to do something special for these patients. Each year we get together on a Saturday morning and tie quilts together. We save these quilts and then give them out to patients that are diagnosed with cancer on our unit. It is our way of giving our support and love to our patients and their families. It is our small way of showing how much we care. This nurse and I went in and picked out a blanket we thought that our patient might like and then went in to present it to her. More tears filled the room and they expressed their gratitude of our caring and thoughtful action. They were very appreciative in this emotionally trying time. Taylor explains that, expert nurses know how to communicate genuine caring the minute they step into a patients space by how they look at and touch the patient and what they CARING IN THE NURSING PROFESSION 4
say and do (Taylor, Lillis, LeMone & Lynn, 2011, p. 450-451). This nurse that I worked with was a perfect example of this. She showed a caring attitude and demonstrated behaviors that mirrored her attitude. She made sure this patient was taken care of all day and that she addressed every question the family had. She was dependable and was a source of caring and comfort. To me, she was the perfect definition of what it means to be a caring and empathetic nurse. This family did have a rough hospital stay but they voiced that because of what this nurse did, their anxiety was eased and they felt cared for and comforted. Just as the literature states, we can take care of our patients by using cognitive, technical, ethical and legal skills. But patients respond best when they know that we, as nurses, genuinely care about them. This is evidence based practice. In order to be caring you must connect with your patients and develop a friendly relationship with them. It is more than demonstrating or performing nursing duties in a routine manor. Patients respond better to someone who can connect with them on a personal level, not to someone who spouts off information and facts. Caring is a quality that every nurse should desire to have, it is a compassionate attitude and set of behaviors. Caring is having respect and empathy for those you care for. It leads to greater patient trust and life-long friendships.
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References Taylor, C., Lillis, C., LeMone, P., & Lynn, P. (2011). Fundamentals of nursing. (7th ed., pp. 450-451). Hong Kong: Lippincott Williams & Wilkins. Vance, T. (2003, 03 20). Caring and the professional practice of nursing. Retrieved from http://rnjournal.com/journal-of-nursing/caring-and-the-professional-practice-of-nursing