He said that in the final judgment, He considers done to Himself whatever we do to others, whether good or evil. Therefore, we must do to others what we do to Jesus. The Art of Loving 2. Love Everyone Love everyone without exception; whether this person is pleasant or unpleasant, beautiful or ugly, big or small, lovable or unlovable, countryman or foreigner. Abstain from criticism, gossiping, backbiting, judging or hurting others The Art of Loving 3. Be the First to Love The Father loved us first. He sent Jesus to die for us to unite us with Him. Be the first to say, Im sorry. Make peace with those who are in conflict with you. The Art of Loving 4. Love others as ourselves This is especially important in dealing with subordinates or employees. Put yourself in the shoes of the other person. Remove selfishness from your heart. The Art of Loving 5. Make ourselves one with others If someone is suffering, suffer with him. If someone is happy, be happy with him. Make ourselves one except in sin. Have a positive attitude smile Be willing to help outside of the assigned tasks. Attend to the unforeseen will of God Love others the ways they want to be loved Put aside work to attend to someone in the present moment Be empty and listen attentively. The Art of Loving 6. Love your enemies Do good to them and pray for them. Learn how to forgive; see each person with new eyes each day. The Art of Loving 7. Jesus wants us to Love one another The new commandment Love one another as I have loved you. Forget ourselves in loving others so as to make our love reciprocal. Reciprocal love will lead to unity in Jesus. The Art of Loving 8. Almost always, love is suffering Jesus makes us understand what love is by being on the cross. To make ourselves one with a person means to deny ourselves and think only of the other Accept routine and boring tasks because these are Gods will. Be ready to lose your ideas. Bend rather than break - It is better to do things in a less perfect way than to break unity.