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First of all, offensive language has no place in the business world. It also
doe not have any place in the retail world, either. Though sometimes this
language comes out of anger and frustration, there are far too many people who
use this language during their normal everyday conversations. If you are one of
those people, you need to seriously reconsider your choice of words. You need
to do this for several reasons.
First, certain types of words are just plain offensive to most people,
especially women. To use this language in front of others shows a certain
amount of disrespect towards them. This is especially true when a group includes
women. (Although I have heard many women also use this type of language.)
When you do not show respect when communicating to others, you should not
expect optimum results.
Second, abusive or off-color language turns a lot of people off. When they
get turned off, they no longer listen to you and process what you are saying.
When this happens, you might as well be talking to the wall because people are
“tuning you out.”
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Third, and most important, using off-color or abusive language often
causes people to lose respect for you and makes you appear to have less
intelligence than you really do have. This can have a serious negative effect on
future relationships with people.
Think about the times in your life when you ran across someone who used
the “F” word in every other sentence they spoke. How did it make you feel? What
impression did it make in your mind regarding that person? I can almost
guarantee you it was not a positive impression. If you are like most people, those
conversations made you feel awkward and uneasy.
The same could be said about off-color jokes and suggestive comments.
Society has grown much less tolerant of this kind of communication over the last
10 years and you need to make sure that your communication is up to today’s
standards. If it is not, you could find yourself in trouble with people or being
outright dismissed by the same people you are trying to work with,
I’m not here to tell you how to lead you life. What I am trying to tell you is
that how your communicate will have a profound impact on how others view you
and will work with you. Life is all about balance. Only you can decide if you are
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doing things that right way or need to change something. You have to make the
decision whether or not to change something that might be holding you back. If
it’s just the words you’re using, that might be a small price to pay for a clear shot
at what you’re trying to achieve in life.