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RESPOND
What type of decisions do you make each day? How important our those decisions? What factors do you consider when deciding?
Being In Control
Being In Control
THE POWER OF CHOICE: In any situation you always have a choice. With each decision you make, you must be willing to accept the consequences, both good and bad. If you dont want to accept the consequences, make a different choice.
Being In Control
Decision: choice you make and act upon it. Good Decision: responsibly, carefully, and accurately, considered the outcome of each choice.
Being In Control
With Decisions, Comes Personal Responsibility
Personal Responsibility: accept how your decision will affect yourself and others.
HOMEWORK
Pg. 27 Lesson 1 Review #3, #4, #5, #6 Pg. 31 Lesson 2 Review #3, #4, #5
Goal Setting
Goal Setting
What are some areas in your life that you should set goals?
PROJECT
HANDOUT PROJECT
Short/Long-Term Goals
Think About It
You were so excited to collect your winnings, you forgot to ask where you needed to go to collect it. You dont have a number to call, in fact, you dont even know who was on the phone. You miss out on the chance of a lifetime.
Goal Setting
If you dont know where you are going, how will you ever get there?
Once you know where you are going, how are you get there? Once you figure out how and where, you will face obstacles how do you over come?
The Wizard of OZ
J Mac
Jason McElwain Greece Athena High School Diagnosed w/Autism at 2 Dream of Playing HS Basketball
Did not make team, but had a goal to play one day. Practiced on own time, found other ways to help the team.
SPECIFIC
Goals should be to the point, focused and be clearly defined. Poor
I want to get good grades. I will try to complete all homework. I want to read all assigned reading.
Good
I will get an A in Study Skills. I will turn all homework in by assigned deadline. I will read 10 pgs every night until completed.
SPECIFIC
Get out some scratch paper.
Write three SPECIFIC goals and be prepared to share one of them. They dont have to be personal goals, just specific goals in general.
MEASURABLE
Goals should have a specific target to measure so you know exactly when a goal is achieved. A goal to do better in my math class is vague and doesnt explain how youd like to improve. A goal that reads I would like to attend three tutoring session in algebra by November 1st is a measurable goal.
MEASURABLE
Fix the following goals:
1. I want to raise by health grade.
2.
ATTAINABLE
Is the goal realistic with effort and commitment? Do you have the resources to achieve this goal? If not, how will you get them?
ATTAINABLE
Goals should be ones you can achieve with effort.
Too extreme = failure Too little = not capable and not fulfilling
ATTAINABLE
Are the following goals attainable?
- I will study my geometry notes for 15 minutes every night before I go to bed. - I will receive an A on my exam next Fri. - I will win 8 Gold Medals at the next Olympics.
ATTAINABLE
Michael Phelps
8 Gold Medals at the 2008 Olympics
Previous Record (7 Gold Medals) only achieved once in 112 year history of modern Olympics
RELEVANT
Why is this goal significant to your life? Does this goal make a significant impact? Is it most important to you? Is it most important at this time?
RELEVANT
THINK ABOUT IT:
You have a test on Friday and you have set a goal of studying for 30 minutes every night after dinner.
You also have a goal of becoming a professional basketball player. On Wednesday, your coach holds a last minute, optional open gym after dinner. What do you sacrifice?
RELEVANT
What is most relevant to you? What are your priorities?
What are your priorities at this time in your life?
RELEVANT
PRIORITIZING
Setting priorities help accomplish goals What should come first? Second? Etc? Basically a numbered to do list CONSIDER: deadlines, most important goals, available time, resources, flow of daily tasks
RELEVANT
It is important to think about this before the time comes. Be prepared now, so you dont make a mistake later.
TIME
Set timeframe for the goal next week, end of quarter, etc.
Putting an end point on your goal gives you a clear target to work towards.
Without a time goals get put on the backburner (procrastination) Give time for unexpected roadblocks!
Goal Setting
HANDOUT Goal Setting Worksheet (Academic)
Goals that are not written down and acted upon are only wishes - Use the SMART Method to develop short and long term academic goals.
- Short (weekly, quarter) - Long Term (Semester, year, high school)
We all now have goals, but if we dont act on them, all we have is a waste of time.
Helpful Strategies
Write Down Your Goals
- Hang them where you look the most.
Helpful Strategies
Goals act as both a ceiling and a floor. Once you reach your ceiling, that goal is now your floor. Find a new ceiling and start again. Dont stop until you have reached the stars. then keep going!
CLASS PROJECT
- One Goal Per Note Card
- 3 Total Goals - 9 Total Cards
Homework
Pg. 37 Lesson Review #1, #3 Pg. 39 Lesson Review #2, #5 Pg. 41 Lesson Review #3, #6
RESPOND
Most people tend to be "hard of listening" rather than "hard of hearing." - University of Minnesota
What does this quote mean? What does it mean to you? Is there any truth to this statement?
Communication Skills
HEARING
Hearing is defined as the ability to perceive sound through the ear. If not hearing impaired = hearing happens! Hearing is not a choice Story about Joey
ACTIVE LISTENING
Listening Is A Choice You Must Consciously Make A Decision To Listen Not Easy, Doing It Effectively Requires Concentration & Energy
LISTENING
Skilled Listener
Leads to Learning
Promotes Success In School
Powerful Notes Productive Study
LISTENING
Most people tend to be "hard of listening" rather than "hard of hearing." - University of Minnesota
LISTENING STRATEGIES
FEED BACK MEANING
Paraphrase the Communication (Brief Summary)
LISTENING STRATEGIES
LISTEN BEYOND WORDS UCLA: Study indicates 93% of effective communication comes from non-verbal cues. Body language Emotion Hand Gestures
EXERCISE #3
Non-Verbal Communication 3 Volunteers?
Cant Be Shy
CHARADES
LISTENING STRATEGIES
MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT
Demonstrates Attentiveness Keeps Mind from Wandering Pick up on non-verbal communication
BE QUIET
Listen without response Allow time to process You have two ears and one mouth for a reason
LISTENING STRATEGIES
SEND ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
Verbal and Non Verbal
Let the speaker know you are still there
EXAMPLES: Umhum Alright OK YES
LISTENING STRATEGIES
EVALUATION (Self-Check)
- Ask Yourself Questions:
What are the main points? Key Info? Key Concepts? Are you following the conversation or lecture? Can you summarize up to this point? Is your mind wandering? Are you hearing or listening? Hidden Agenda?
Homework