How Do You Respond? Podcast #263

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How Do You Respond? Podcast #263

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45 minutes

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Oct 27, 2015

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Cathy and Todd share some reactions to their kids behavior, why it’s important to recognize how you feel before your respond, and why understanding your response will keep you self-aware. They also discuss privilege, their upcoming interview with Dr. John Duffy, and why Todd thinks he’s being duped by strawberry companies.

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Oct 27, 2015

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Podcast episode

Titles in the series (25)

Zen Parenting is a weekly online radio discussion between a spiritual and emotional mom (Cathy Cassani Adams) and a logical and practical dad (Todd Adams). Anyone else living a life like that?

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How Do You Respond? Podcast #263

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