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Do We Really Have To Play With Our Kids? When Parenting Feels Relentless
FromWhat Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms
Do We Really Have To Play With Our Kids? When Parenting Feels Relentless
FromWhat Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms
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Length:
51 minutes
Released:
May 15, 2019
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Podcast episode
Description
According to researcher Patrick Ishizuka, "intensive parenting has become the dominant cultural model." Sounds about right. We spend triple the time actively engaging with our kids that our own parents did with us. And even then, we all feel guilty that we're not doing more. (Or that we kind of hate playing with LOL Surprise! Dolls, and we aren't hiding it very well.)But is more always better? Are our modern hyper-organized days creating children who have no idea how to occupy themselves, who need either a screen or one-on-one adult attention at all times? Do we *have* to play with our kids? Is there a way for parenting to feel a little less relentless? Here are links to research and other writing we discuss in this episode: Claire Cain Miller for the New York Times: The Relentlessness of Modern ParentingRebecca Onion for Slate: Playtime is OverSuzanne M. Bianchi et al: Changing Rhythms of American Family LifeJanet Lansbury: RIE Parenting Basics (9 Ways to Put Respect into Action)Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Released:
May 15, 2019
Format:
Podcast episode
Titles in the series (100)
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