90: Sexual Pursuer Rescue Plan

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90: Sexual Pursuer Rescue Plan

FromForeplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy

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Sep 10, 2017

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Sexual pursuers can sabotage themselves through their own thinking about sex in the midst of the experience. Join sex therapist and author Laurie Watson as she talks about how sexual pursuers can manage their desire for great sex.

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Sep 10, 2017

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Helping couples keep it hot! Sex therapist Laurie Watson (author of Wanting Sex Again) and couples counselor Dr. Adam Mathews discuss everything from best sexual techniques and solving sexual problems, to building the emotional intimacy necessary for great sex in your relationship! Subscribe to us today!

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90: Sexual Pursuer Rescue Plan

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