Garden of Memories
By Margaret Woverton Hamilton Baldridge Porter, Judy Wolverton Glazier Hyde, Joan Wolverton Slatalla and Mary's Girl
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Margaret Woverton Hamilton Baldridge Porter
This is a collaborative effort by three sisters in their twilight years. It is an effort to leave behind some of our memories and stories of the people we’ve known and loved. We grew up in a different era than our grandchildren will ever experience. Hopefully these pages will portray some of that era. If we’ve learned one thing in our seven plus decades it’s this: As we age we tend to pay more attention to the past.
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Garden of Memories - Margaret Woverton Hamilton Baldridge Porter
© 2013 by Mary’s Girls. All rights reserved.
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Published by AuthorHouse 07/27/2013
ISBN: 978-1-4817-7697-4 (sc)
ISBN: 978-1-4817-7698-1 (hc)
ISBN: 978-1-4817-7699-8 (e)
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Contents
My Garden Of Memories
1997
Early Childhood
Waterworld
Pets
Walking Away
Hero
Thoughts On Southern Cooking
Life In The 1940S
Snakes
Snake In The House/Hot Water In The Bed
Rats
Decades
Bridge
Ancestors And Terrorism 2001
Getting Older 2006
Enduring
Guardian Angel
Living Conditions
New Surroundings
After Marriage
Single Parenthood
Raising Twins
Holidays
Judy’s Ghost Stories
For A Time
My Garden Of Memories
Snitch Sister
Education
Composure Lost
Travel In My Neck Of The Woods
A Ventilator
The Presence
The Gingerbread Santa
The Cactus Elf
Frazzlehopper Diddlepop
Jabella
Minitilda
Poetry
Colours
Shades Of Gray
Colors
Who Am I
Living Landscapes
Old Yellowed Letters
Arizona Alchemy
Flying At Daybreak
Nightshades
Footnotes
Desert Dawn
Hummingbirds
Through The Night Backwards
A Wedding Portrait
Our Flag
Grandchildren
A Wedding Prism
Deerfield Academy
Embracing Love
Ellie
Partnership Understanding
Insomnia
Prejudice
Compu-Poet
Why Write
Tragedy
Your Word Or Mine
Apache And Shiloh
The Hillbilly’s Home
Politician
Final Pages
Walk Of A Stranger
Three Wishes
Circle Of Love
Salute To A Rose
1959 Dale Bright
1959 Bob Spellman
Terry Walker Clifton
The Ring-Tailed Wowzer
Final Pages
My Garden Of Memories
I have a garden of memories
That dwells within my heart
All the memories living there
And I will never part
I nourish each and every one
With joy and tears and laughter
They in turn sustain my life
From past to ever after
They spring forth in their season
With every turn I take
Reminding me of where I’ve been
My accomplishments, my mistakes
I call them Love, Joy and Grief
Hope, Regret and Strife
All of them collectively
Comprise what is my life
Garden of Memories
This is a collaborative effort by three sisters in their twilight years. It is an effort to leave behind some of our memories and stories of the people we’ve known and loved. We grew up in a different era than our grandchildren will ever experience. Hopefully these pages will portray some of that era. If we’ve learned one thing in our seven plus decades it’s this: As we age we tend to pay more attention to the past.
Have you ever said to yourself, I wish I had spent more time with my grandparents:
Or "I wish I had asked more questions about what their life entailed. For the benefit of our combined nine children and twenty grandchildren we hope this book will fulfill some of those wishes now or after we’re gone.
We dedicate this book to our children and grandchildren
Joan—
Michelle, Jack, Joe, Dan—Zoe, Alex, Ella, John, Austin, Laura, Jake, Clementine, Abigail, Emma
Judy—
Sue, Mitch, Steve—Stephanie, Ryan, C.J.,
Connor, Austin, Grant, Logan
Margaret—
Mary Ann, Mark—Margaret Marie,
Chastity, Madison
Thank you Al for all your help editing and Franklin for putting up with 1:30 a.m. calls.
Joan (pronounced Joanne or Jo) Getting old is a process, or so I’m told. That sounds like one is proceeding toward something. What is at the end of the getting old process? Looks like a one-way street to oblivion to me. While I never thought I would live forever, oblivion has a nasty sound. How does one avoid that regretful predicament?
I think it is a little late to become a great inventor, artist, or savior of mankind to pass my memory down through future generations. Since the thing I most often revert to when I have nothing else to do is write poetry, short anecdotes and children’s stories, now seems as good a time as any to enlist the cooperation of my sisters in publishing some of our thoughts and memories for the enjoyment of our friends and relatives, or obligatory reading as the case may be. One never knows how long one of these mementos can survive in the attic chest for some unsuspecting future generation to happen upon. It’s worth a chance.
1997
I am of an age when many of my friends are already experiencing some of the ravages of aging, so I am no stranger to ailments which involve memory loss. Before I join those ranks, I want to make a record of some of the things that make me laugh and maybe one or two that make me cry.
I’ve experienced the best many times during my fifty-six years on this earth; the best family, friends, food, entertainment, the best highs and the best lows. How can you have a best low? Well, my low points have taught me that without them, I’d never fully appreciate the highs. English food is a perfect example of what one should experience in order to fully appreciate a great French cuisine. Family is never more welcome than after a period of loneliness. You get the idea.
These are some of the funniest stories and some of my favorite memories and poems of my first half-century.
EARLY CHILDHOOD
Just to clarify the name. I was named after the mother of Mom’s best friend. Joanne was often spelled Joan in the 19th and early 20th centuries. Such was the case in this instance. Thus—the spelling of my name. This might be of particular interest to Ella who has the same middle name.
My earliest memory is of standing in a crib in my grandmother’s house and reaching for my father. It is a mixed memory. I’m both excited and scared. I learned later that my father was having an argument with my granny about whether he should pick me up when I should be sleeping. Arguments were a way of life for my Grandmother, Hesta.
The next memory is of hanging on the wooden school-yard fence, waiting for my oldest sister Margaret to come across the playground and hand me a nickel to go fetch an ice-cream bar at the corner store. I must have been no more than three at the time because my next oldest sister Judy was hanging on the fence with me, so she had not started school yet either. Margaret was a year ahead of us. At this time we both dutifully met our idol every day at recess to do her bidding. We’d scamper quickly down the block and race back with our prize before it melted. This is not a terribly exciting thing, but I think I must have lived for those five minutes every day. It is one of the few memories I have retained from that age. The other is of a salmon pink coat that I adored. Pink is still my favorite color.
Six weeks after starting kindergarten at the age of five, my all-time favorite teacher, Miss Vance, promoted me to first grade because I insisted,
Mit Vance, I can read as good as the other kids.
This turned out to