Gladhearted Disciples: Equipping Your Congregation with Generous and Enduring Faith
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Gladhearted Disciples: Equipping Your Congregation with Generous and Enduring Faith addresses a critical need for church leaders and pastors: How can we guide people to live like Jesus and to draw others into that life? This is a book to study and with your leaders and teams.
Gladhearted Disciples starts with an indisputable yet often ignored reality: In a post-modern, post-Christian world, we can no longer attract people by convincing them of our “truth.” We must instead embody the Gospel in such clear and compelling ways that they will be attracted to our way of life. This is the true measure of discipleship. Folmsbee provides a template for the spiritual formation of hopeful, grace-filled, kingdom-focused disciples who represent God’s love in the world. Pastors, Christian educators, and small-group leaders will find here an inspiring new perspective to inspire and support their work.--Ann Michel, Associate Director, Lewis Center for Church LeadershipI recommend this book for faith communities and all who yearn for a new way of understanding our sacred calling as followers of Jesus.--DJ del Rosario, Sr. Pastor, Bothell UMC, Bothell, WA
If you are seeking to guide others in following Jesus into the mission field that exists right outside your front door, read this book. You’ll encounter vivid stories and a theologically grounded, practical, and missional approach to discipleship in a post-Christian world. --Sara B. Thomas, Chief Strategist for Vital Congregations, Discipleship Ministries, The United Methodist Church
Gladhearted Disciples takes a radically different and welcome approach to evangelism and discipleship. It is a winsome and accessible book with two audaciously important messages. First, Christian discipleship is grounded in grace, characterized by humility, upwardly focused in gratitude, and outwardly-turned in compassion. Second, Christian communities should be marked by the same. Every church would do well to heed this prophetic yet hopeful message. --Robert K. Martin, Dean and Professor of Christian Formation and Leadership, Wesley Theological Seminary
If you seek a fresh way to understand and share our faith—a way that makes sense in our current reality, I invite you to delve into this book. May you be newly inspired! --Dottie Escobedo-Frank, author of The Jesus Insurgency with Rudy Rasmus, from Abingdon Press
Chris Folmsbee
Chris Folmsbee has served as a youth pastor for nearly 15 years, and now serves as a volunteer youth worker in his local church. He currently leads Barefoot Ministries, a youth ministry training and publishing company located in Kansas City, and is on staff with Youthfront. Chris is the author of several books including his most recent, Story, Signs, and Sacred Rhythms: A Narrative Approach to Youth Ministry. He lives in Overland Park, Kansas, with his wife, Gina, and their three children, Megan, Drew, and Luke.
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Gladhearted disciples:
equipping your congregation with generous and enduring faith
Copyright © 2015 by Chris Folmsbee
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Dedication
For Geoff, Brad, and Jeremy
Contents
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Introduction: Gladhearted Disciples Defined
How to Use This Book
Part One
Making Disciples: A New Apologetic
Chapter 1
—A New Apologetic for a Post-Christian World
Chapter 2
—What a New Apologetic Looks Like in a Post-Christian World
Part Two
Gladhearted Disciples and Their Ways of Holiness
Chapter 3
—Taking Up Residence with God
Chapter 4
—The Organization and Essence of Community
Chapter 5
—Revisiting Christian Perfection
Part Three
Gladhearted Disciples and Their Embodied Practice
Chapter 6
—The Gospel of Peace and Justice
Chapter 7
—Creating Do You Remember When?
Stories
Chapter 8
—Understanding the Reason and Role of the Church
Part Four
Gladhearted Disciples and Their Commitment to Yielded Guidance
Chapter 9
—Catching the Wind: The Holy Spirit and the Gladhearted Disciple
Part Five
The Gladhearted Disciple-Making Leader
Chapter 10
—The Gladhearted Disciple as Leader
Chapter 11
—Five Key Factors for the Mission Ahead
Chapter 12
—Questions and Applications for the Gladhearted Leader
Acknowledgments
Acknowledgments
Thanks, Gina, for your help to make this book project a reality. I couldn’t have done this without you. Thanks for your friendship, love, and support. Thanks, Megan, Drew, and Luke for believing in me and helping me toward being a more generous and faithful father.
Thanks, Resurrection family, for allowing me the opportunity to serve alongside you as we build a Christian community where nonreligious and nominally religious people are becoming deeply committed Christians.
Thanks, Carol Cartmill, Jane Fowler, Matt Williams, Darrell Holtz, Liz Gyori, Jon Edlin, Phil Antilla, Michelle Funk, and Shari Wilkins for all the conversations in our team meetings that made their way into this book. Thanks, Jeff and Michelle Kirby, for your friendship and support.
Thanks, VIBE community, for allowing me to be one of your pastors. I love worshipping with you each week and look forward to seeing how God continues to shape our community for God’s mission. Thanks Wendy Chrostek, James Felver, Jordan Tracy, Cory Ryan, Angela LaVallie, and Tara Houx!
Thank you, Pastor Adam Hamilton, for your vision, leadership, and commitment to the mission of God and The United Methodist Church of the Resurrection. It is a privilege to serve with you.
Introduction: Gladhearted Disciples Defined
Introduction: Gladhearted Disciples Defined
When the publishers at Abingdon recommended the title Gladhearted Disciples , I wasn’t immediately struck with excitement. In fact, I thought it felt kind of forced and a bit gimmicky. I’ve written a bunch of books over the last ten years, and this was the first time I hadn’t really been jazzed about a title that was presented to me.
My first questions were, What in the world is a gladhearted disciple? Do I even know one? Can I point one out? Am I a gladhearted disciple?
I struggled a bit to even get my head around how I would describe one let alone write a book for pastors and lay leaders, a book that not only tried to describe a gladhearted disciple but also put forth new ideas and concepts on how to make them.
After several days, however, it grew on me and eventually it hit me. A gladhearted disciple is exactly what I am trying to make. In fact, I am kind of worn out with the pessimism and cynicism that exists among many of the church leaders I run into every now and again. I’m hopeful there will be more reconstructionists who step forward in the days ahead to balance out the necessary, but sometimes overpowering, spirit of deconstruction. It doesn’t matter how many pessimists or cynics camouflage their feelings around words like realist and pragmatist; negative is negative, no matter how you try and explain it away.
Simply said, gladhearted disciples are followers of Jesus who are generous people looking into the future through a lens of hope, accepting but not settling for what the world has become, and yet determined to live in such a way that engages the world in Christ-centered mission, through the empowerment and guidance of the Holy Spirit, and with the purpose of bringing the redemptive reign of God in Christ into every dimension of life. Gladhearted disciples are about one thing—the kingdom of God. The kingdom of God is anywhere God reigns.
Gladhearted disciples are noticeably optimistic people who are pleasant to be around. They are grateful for the work of Jesus on the cross, and it is this atoning work of Jesus that drives them to endure the moments in life that aren’t so happy and joyous. They endure in order to find their true self and contentment in the suffering of Jesus. How can a gladhearted disciple be content in suffering?
I was asked. Here’s how; because suffering with Jesus is enduring any and all experiences of hardship for the sake of the gospel, which is ultimately for the sake of the world. We are on our way to being converted into new creatures every day. As gladhearted disciples, we accept this conversion, or suffer with it, so that Christ will be made known or so that ultimately Thy kingdom come . . . in earth, as it is in heaven
(Matt 6:10 KJV).
The following is a deeper look into what it means to be a gladhearted disciple:
1. Gladhearted disciples are generous. A generous life is one that gives without expecting anything in return. A generous person, therefore, is one who loves, knowing full well that there may not be any advantage to or profit from the love. Our churches are filled with generous people, yet we need more of them. This does not mean that occasionally one would give a financial contribution or donate clothing or volunteer in children’s Sunday school. These examples are certainly generous acts. However, generous disciples are ones who have mastered their need to think of and act on behalf of themselves first—in all experiences and in all situations. Generous disciples live openhandedly and full of a spirit of grace.
2. Gladhearted disciples look into the future through a lens of hope. We will talk more about this in subsequent chapters, so for now I will simply say that hope resides within the follower of Jesus. Hope is a door (Hos 2:15) and it is an anchor for our whole being
(Heb 6:19) as we await the eventual reality that all things will be made new. Hope is formed through suffering and through ongoing conversion, and it is related to joy, faith, perseverance, and patience. Hope essentially orients and continues to reorient the disciple’s life toward what we so desperately and eagerly wait upon but do not yet occupy. In my opinion, hope is the key to the believer living in the present reality, with the capacity to trust that God is at work, even when it is difficult to spot in the brokenness around us.
3. Gladhearted disciples live in such a way that engages the world in Christ-centered mission. I know and have conversations with many Christians who are confused about mission. Somehow they got it into their thinking that discipleship and mission are two entirely separate aspects of faith formation. This could not be further from the truth. While churches often create ministry initiatives that do detach these two areas of practice and divide them from one another, they are not meant to be practices expressed in isolation from one another. Discipleship is for mission. We followers of Jesus are becoming deeply committed Christians because God is a missionary God who sends us into the world to participate with God to restore the world toward its intended wholeness. You don’t choose between various discipleship activities and education or mission trips and justice initiatives. Discipleship, or what is increasingly referred to in many churches as spiritual formation, is entirely for God’s mission. The followers of Jesus engage the world in Christ-centered mission not to do missions
but to become deeply committed disciples. Mission isn’t merely a by-product of discipleship; it is the very reason for discipleship. God sends the Son; the Son sends the Spirit; and the Spirit sends the church to live out the intended ways of God. Gladhearted disciples don’t do mission or discipleship. Because of mission, gladhearted disciples become authentic,