From Broken Vows to Healed Hearts: Seeking God After Divorce, Through Community, Scripture, and Journaling
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Rebecca Mitchell knows this because she has experienced divorce firsthand. Her marriage crumbled after twenty-five years, and she went through every stage of grief. But one day she realized she needed to stop being trapped by the past and move forward. She refused to accept the role of victim. Her journey to healing and her experience leading a support group in her home church led to a conviction that others could be helped in the same way: through engaged community, biblical self-care, and compassionate reflective practices.
This unique book covers topics such as depression, loneliness, forgiveness, hope, and even joy. Each of the twelve chapters includes five days of devotionals and journaling questions. From Broken Vows to Healed Hearts leads readers through the process of realizing that brokenness is a stage, not an identity. Mitchell encourages women to maintain hope for healing, to be patient with the time recovery takes, to be committed to community, and, above all, to seek God.
Rebecca L. Mitchell
Rebecca L. Mitchell is an English composition lecturer at the University of California, Davis, and writing program coordinator at California State University, Sacramento. For the past three years, she has led Bible studies for single women at her church in Roseville, California.
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From Broken Vows to Healed Hearts - Rebecca L. Mitchell
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PART I
The Initial Devastation
Chapter 1
Seeking God in Our Brokenness
Psalm of the Week: Psalm 34
Day 1
FINDING HEALING IN PSALM 34
Read Psalm 34. Look for verses that reveal God’s heart for hurting people.
Seeing God’s Heart
My beautiful daughter,
I know you feel broken, shattered beyond repair. The pain seems relentless, the fear overwhelming, the guilt consuming. You can hardly breathe, barely function at times, as if walking aimlessly in a daze, still in shock at this unforeseen turmoil that has completely upended your life. You wonder if you will ever recover. You wonder if you will ever feel normal again.
I know this path is not what you expected or would have chosen, but please have ears to hear. This path will not bring you to ruin. You can survive, endure, even thrive because My grace is sufficient for you. I love you unconditionally, so take one day at a time and draw close to Me.
Cry out to Me. I am always listening.
Take refuge in Me. I will deliver you from your fears.
Look to Me. I will bless you and remove your shame.
Seek Me. I am close to the brokenhearted.
Remember I have restored whole nations to Me. I am willing and able to heal you and make you whole. I have made you, and I will carry you; I will sustain you, and I will rescue you. I love you!
Your loving Father
Talking to God
Father God, I am so overwhelmed, I don’t even know how to pray. I just know I am broken, and I need help even to function. Please teach me how to depend on your strength, goodness, and love to get through the day.
Journaling with God
Which part of the letter most resonates with me and why?
Which invitation is the most challenging for me? Which brings the most comfort?
What does Psalm 34 say about God’s help in my brokenness? In what ways is this consistent or inconsistent with my view of God during this time?
Day 2
FINDING HEALING IN PSALM 34
Read Psalm 34. Underline all the verbs that show God’s active help in our lives. For example, in verse 4, the verbs are answered and delivered.
Seeking God First—Broken Vases
[God bestows] on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes. (Isa. 61:3)
A rock hit my windshield. I didn’t repair it right away, and what was once a circular chip smaller than a dime is now an L-shaped crack twelve inches long. Although my passengers might stare at the eye-level flaw in irritation, I ignore it, waiting for my next financial windfall to pay for the repair. It’s been over a year. Besides, I think my Toyota will never be quite the same once I break that factory seal.
Often when something breaks, if it’s not too expensive, we simply throw it away. If it is repairable, we may make the effort to fix it, expecting it will still be useful but never quite the same. We make do with the repaired item, perhaps hiding its flaws, until we can afford to replace