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    Why Women Stay in Abusive Relationships
    How to Help a Friend in an Abusive Relationship: What You Need to Know About Domestic Violence
    Consider Divine Love
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    Hope for the Hurting Series

    By Donna J. Farris

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    About this series

    “After years of visits to emergency rooms, reconstructive surgeries, dislocated shoulders, and more black eyes than I can remember, I finally filed felony assault charges against my husband only to drop them when he agreed to pastoral counseling. But during the counseling session, the pastor continually avoided the issue of spousal abuse so evident within my marriage. Instead, he seemed to focus on what my role was as a wife. He told me to submit to my husband and try not to ‘set him off.’ The pastor also indicated I was expecting too much of my husband. Yet in all our counseling sessions, the pastor never told my husband about his biblical responsibility to love and care for me, his wife. And not once did the pastor ever reprimand my husband for his violence, ask him to step down from his leadership position, or refer him to a batterer’s program. I left those counseling sessions feeling empty, believing God did not care for me at all...[Removing an eye patch which revealed a badly swollen eye and bruised face she asked], ‘I truly hate him for hurting me like this, but what if I really do burn in hell for breaking up my marriage? And I ask you, could hell be any worse than having to live like this?’”

    Such first-hand stories of abuse are hard to comprehend, yet are more common than most people realize. Domestic violence kills more than four and a half million women every year in America. It continues to be the leading cause of injury to women between the ages of 15-44 in the U.S. And a national crime survey has labeled the American home at night the most dangerous place to be and the most likely setting for homicide to occur.

    "How to Help a Friend in an Abusive Relationship" is not just another tedious psychological study about relationship violence. While readers will find factual information on domestic violence, they will also discover more than forty insightful, practical ways to save lives. In addition, an entire chapter is devoted to providing biblical answers to this perplexing plague destroying families. Will you be a friend to an abused woman? If so, this book is for you.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherDonna J. Farris
    Release dateJul 19, 2011
    Why Women Stay in Abusive Relationships
    How to Help a Friend in an Abusive Relationship: What You Need to Know About Domestic Violence
    Consider Divine Love

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      Consider Divine Love
      Consider Divine Love

      Consider Divine Love

      Donna J. Farris
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      Every human heart longs to be unconditionally loved. Some have described this longing as a "God-shaped hole in the heart of every human soul which only God's love can fill." Yet when intimacy and trust have been abused and perverted for personal gain, it becomes increasingly difficult to consider embracing love again - even God's love. Much has been written in mankind's attempt to quantify true love. Countless books and movies have been promoted by people claiming to have found the true meaning of this highly coveted ideal. Yet conflicting opinions abound and the search continues. Is true love even definable? And is there an immutable, universal standard by which to measure all such claims? The answer to both questions is unequivocally, "Yes!" "Consider Divine Love" is an emotionally healing, spiritually inspiring, and biblically evangelical booklet. It examines some of the interpersonal struggles faced when considering the gospel message. "Who is this Jesus anyway? Why should I believe His claims of love? God never answered my prayers. Jesus never stopped the abuse. Why should I trust Him with my life?" Biblical references will bring readers face-to-face with the real Jesus Christ - God in human flesh. And through a fresh, light-hearted, yet intensely practical examination of the famous biblical verses on love found in I Corinthians 13:4-8, readers will come realize how precious they are to the God who made them. Readers will realize God has no hidden agendas or manipulative tricks up His sleeve. He just offers His love and eternal life. That's it! All things considered no matter what your race, nationality, age, gender, social status, education, or occupation, the only remaining question is, "Will you accept His offer of love?"

      Every human heart longs to be unconditionally loved. Some have described this longing as a "God-shaped hole in the heart of every human soul which only God's love can fill." Yet when intimacy and trust have been abused and perverted for personal gain, it becomes increasingly difficult to consider embracing love again - even God's love. Much has been written in mankind's attempt to quantify true love. Countless books and movies have been promoted by people claiming to have found the true meaning of this highly coveted ideal. Yet conflicting opinions abound and the search continues. Is true love even definable? And is there an immutable, universal standard by which to measure all such claims? The answer to both questions is unequivocally, "Yes!" "Consider Divine Love" is an emotionally healing, spiritually inspiring, and biblically evangelical booklet. It examines some of the interpersonal struggles faced when considering the gospel message. "Who is this Jesus anyway? Why should I believe His claims of love? God never answered my prayers. Jesus never stopped the abuse. Why should I trust Him with my life?" Biblical references will bring readers face-to-face with the real Jesus Christ - God in human flesh. And through a fresh, light-hearted, yet intensely practical examination of the famous biblical verses on love found in I Corinthians 13:4-8, readers will come realize how precious they are to the God who made them. Readers will realize God has no hidden agendas or manipulative tricks up His sleeve. He just offers His love and eternal life. That's it! All things considered no matter what your race, nationality, age, gender, social status, education, or occupation, the only remaining question is, "Will you accept His offer of love?"

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      Why Women Stay in Abusive Relationships
      Why Women Stay in Abusive Relationships

      Why Women Stay in Abusive Relationships

      Donna J. Farris
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      It is very difficult for someone who has not experienced the terror of an abusive relationship to comprehend such a life. Those on the outside listen to the horror stories of emergency room visits, terrifying ordeals in the middle of the night, and frightened children forced to witness the violence. And sooner or later, one of the most commonly asked questions is verbalized. "If things are so bad, why don't you just leave?" Has that question ever crossed your mind? You may have a friend or family member who has finally mustered the courage to tell you physical violence has been an ongoing reality in her marriage. She tries to communicate her fears of further injury, her concerns for the safety of the children, and her anxieties about leaving. You pray with her, counsel her to seek safety, and do your best to provide resources to assist. Yet you encounter a puzzling and continual hesitation. What's going on? "Why Women Stay in Abusive Relationships" was written to answer such questions. Contained within its pages are some of the typical reasons women are so reluctant to leave an abusive relationship. While by no means an exhaustive list, the book does provide those on the outside with a glimpse into the world of relationship violence. And by understanding the complexities of the struggles battered women face, readers will be better equipped to offer insightful, compassionate, and effective counsel and intercession.

      It is very difficult for someone who has not experienced the terror of an abusive relationship to comprehend such a life. Those on the outside listen to the horror stories of emergency room visits, terrifying ordeals in the middle of the night, and frightened children forced to witness the violence. And sooner or later, one of the most commonly asked questions is verbalized. "If things are so bad, why don't you just leave?" Has that question ever crossed your mind? You may have a friend or family member who has finally mustered the courage to tell you physical violence has been an ongoing reality in her marriage. She tries to communicate her fears of further injury, her concerns for the safety of the children, and her anxieties about leaving. You pray with her, counsel her to seek safety, and do your best to provide resources to assist. Yet you encounter a puzzling and continual hesitation. What's going on? "Why Women Stay in Abusive Relationships" was written to answer such questions. Contained within its pages are some of the typical reasons women are so reluctant to leave an abusive relationship. While by no means an exhaustive list, the book does provide those on the outside with a glimpse into the world of relationship violence. And by understanding the complexities of the struggles battered women face, readers will be better equipped to offer insightful, compassionate, and effective counsel and intercession.

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      How to Help a Friend in an Abusive Relationship: What You Need to Know About Domestic Violence
      How to Help a Friend in an Abusive Relationship: What You Need to Know About Domestic Violence

      How to Help a Friend in an Abusive Relationship: What You Need to Know About Domestic Violence

      Donna J. Farris
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      3/5 - 1 rating

      “After years of visits to emergency rooms, reconstructive surgeries, dislocated shoulders, and more black eyes than I can remember, I finally filed felony assault charges against my husband only to drop them when he agreed to pastoral counseling. But during the counseling session, the pastor continually avoided the issue of spousal abuse so evident within my marriage. Instead, he seemed to focus on what my role was as a wife. He told me to submit to my husband and try not to ‘set him off.’ The pastor also indicated I was expecting too much of my husband. Yet in all our counseling sessions, the pastor never told my husband about his biblical responsibility to love and care for me, his wife. And not once did the pastor ever reprimand my husband for his violence, ask him to step down from his leadership position, or refer him to a batterer’s program. I left those counseling sessions feeling empty, believing God did not care for me at all...[Removing an eye patch which revealed a badly swollen eye and bruised face she asked], ‘I truly hate him for hurting me like this, but what if I really do burn in hell for breaking up my marriage? And I ask you, could hell be any worse than having to live like this?’” Such first-hand stories of abuse are hard to comprehend, yet are more common than most people realize. Domestic violence kills more than four and a half million women every year in America. It continues to be the leading cause of injury to women between the ages of 15-44 in the U.S. And a national crime survey has labeled the American home at night the most dangerous place to be and the most likely setting for homicide to occur. "How to Help a Friend in an Abusive Relationship" is not just another tedious psychological study about relationship violence. While readers will find factual information on domestic violence, they will also discover more than forty insightful, practical ways to save lives. In addition, an entire chapter is devoted to providing biblical answers to this perplexing plague destroying families. Will you be a friend to an abused woman? If so, this book is for you.

      “After years of visits to emergency rooms, reconstructive surgeries, dislocated shoulders, and more black eyes than I can remember, I finally filed felony assault charges against my husband only to drop them when he agreed to pastoral counseling. But during the counseling session, the pastor continually avoided the issue of spousal abuse so evident within my marriage. Instead, he seemed to focus on what my role was as a wife. He told me to submit to my husband and try not to ‘set him off.’ The pastor also indicated I was expecting too much of my husband. Yet in all our counseling sessions, the pastor never told my husband about his biblical responsibility to love and care for me, his wife. And not once did the pastor ever reprimand my husband for his violence, ask him to step down from his leadership position, or refer him to a batterer’s program. I left those counseling sessions feeling empty, believing God did not care for me at all...[Removing an eye patch which revealed a badly swollen eye and bruised face she asked], ‘I truly hate him for hurting me like this, but what if I really do burn in hell for breaking up my marriage? And I ask you, could hell be any worse than having to live like this?’” Such first-hand stories of abuse are hard to comprehend, yet are more common than most people realize. Domestic violence kills more than four and a half million women every year in America. It continues to be the leading cause of injury to women between the ages of 15-44 in the U.S. And a national crime survey has labeled the American home at night the most dangerous place to be and the most likely setting for homicide to occur. "How to Help a Friend in an Abusive Relationship" is not just another tedious psychological study about relationship violence. While readers will find factual information on domestic violence, they will also discover more than forty insightful, practical ways to save lives. In addition, an entire chapter is devoted to providing biblical answers to this perplexing plague destroying families. Will you be a friend to an abused woman? If so, this book is for you.

    Author

    Donna J. Farris

    Donna has spent much of her adult life writing something for someone. Therefore it seemed logical to combine her writing experience with her love for people, Jesus Christ, and His Word.As an indie author, Donna's books include the non-fiction e-book series entitled, "Gripped for Glory." This series contains biblical biographies of individuals who transformed their world by simply sharing their stories of His glory. Through the aide of Personal Application questions, each of these short works encourages public evangelism making this series a great resource for small group bible studies. Several more biblical biographies are planned for this series.By far, Donna's favorite books are found in her Christian fiction/fantasy series entitled, "Divine Commissions." Filled with exciting real-to-life adventures of ordinary people, epic struggles between angels and demons, good and evil, and right and wrong, this collection chronicles the stories of Eli and Jasmine, servants of the Most High God, as they intervene in the affairs of mankind to save souls. Volume III, "The Power of a Legacy," was the first in this series. Volume IV, "Messiah's Message," was released next. Volume II, "Stone of Truth" was published in January 2015.When she is not pounding the keys in some form or fashion, Donna loves hanging out with her grandkids, patio gardening, walking, dining with friends, watching old movies, sharing the good news of God's love, praying and serving the saints of God.

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